Should I chase?

Okey guys, first of all I'm an Aries sun and moon with a Cancer rising. I want to try something but I tought I'd better get some advice on this one.

I hate rejection, and all my life I just turned my back on a date when I was getting ignored. I didn't liked to chase in vain so I just turned around and left quickly. Because of that today I have less fear of rejection than ever before.. I mean I don't really care about the outcome, I just say what I like when I like it and I am confident about myself.

Because of this I want to try an experiment to see how far I can surpress my old fear of looking needy or persistent. But first of all let me tell you the context.

For quite a bit of time I was browsing Tinder. The thing is that I was matched with this girl, let's call her Jo (because is short). She is a taurus, my age. Stubborn af.

We flirted heavily trough texts but she refused to give me a phone number or her name or anything, and she was teasing me hard by playing hard to get. Of course I didn't provided her any of my data ? She wanted me, I wanted her, but the whole thing was rushed and she probably took me as a fukboy (pun intended).

The passion decreassed after 2 full days of texting and fun and now she doesn't respond anymore. Probably some taurus introverted stuff or playing hard to get or smth. I'm not attached to her and I also flirt with other girls so I have options (before you call me an idiot, until some months ago I was dating only without a back up plan and I was hurt pretty bad).

I could easily unmatch her and never heard from her again. Is a pretty easy thing to do.

But I want to try this experiment: I want to see if I have the determination to confidently ask her out every weekend until now to see what happens. I'm ok with myself because I know that I'm not doing this out of clingyness and I know that she can't embarass me with this because she doesn't know me.

This thing could have 3 possible endings:

1. She unmatch me. Never hear from her again.

2. She agrees to go out and we get to know eachother. Is ok too.

3. I eventually get bored and unmatch her after some time.

I'm 100% ok with any any of this options and I'm really curios on how this will work out.

One thing to mention is that she was into me but she really liked to reject me, so I'm not doing this with a women with 0 interest or smth.

One text per weekend (I think this doesn't count as spamming) just to see what happens. No risk of getting humiliated or smth. I just want to try and see what happens.

So what's your opinion on this? ??

Go for it! Your persistence can either pay off or if not you are free to move on ?

I also say go for it....what do you have to lose, right??

Relax, it is Tinder ?

Dont ask her, be an Aries and tell her.

You: What's your favorite restaurante?

Her: xyz

You: Im taking you there next Saturday!

She has probably 10 ohter guys messaging her there. Be bold! 🙂

Good luck!

Don't overthink it, I think you talk a lot of sense. It's good to go for what you want, no regrets. Good luck dude.

Posted by Neno2

Posted by AriesFireKnight
Okey guys, first of all I'm an Aries sun and moon with a Cancer rising. I want to try something but I tought I'd better get some advice on this one.

I hate rejection, and all my life I just turned my back on a date when I was getting ignored. I didn't liked to chase in vain so I just turned around and left quickly. Because of that today I have less fear of rejection than ever before.. I mean I don't really care about the outcome, I just say what I like when I like it and I am confident about myself.

Because of this I want to try an experiment to see how far I can surpress my old fear of looking needy or persistent. But first of all let me tell you the context.

For quite a bit of time I was browsing Tinder. The thing is that I was matched with this girl, let's call her Jo (because is short). She is a taurus, my age. Stubborn af.

We flirted heavily trough texts but she refused to give me a phone number or her name or anything, and she was teasing me hard by playing hard to get. Of course I didn't provided her any of my data ? She wanted me, I wanted her, but the whole thing was rushed and she probably took me as a fukboy (pun intended).

The passion decreassed after 2 full days of texting and fun and now she doesn't respond anymore. Probably some taurus introverted stuff or playing hard to get or smth. I'm not attached to her and I also flirt with other girls so I have options (before you call me an idiot, until some months ago I was dating only without a back up plan and I was hurt pretty bad).

I could easily unmatch her and never heard from her again. Is a pretty easy thing to do.

But I want to try this experiment: I want to see if I have the determination to confidently ask her out every weekend until now to see what happens. I'm ok with myself because I know that I'm not doing this out of clingyness and I know that she can't embarass me with this because she doesn't know me.

This thing could have 3 possible endings:

1. She unmatch me. Never hear from her again.

2. She agrees to go out and we get to know eachother. Is ok too.

3. I eventually get bored and unmatch her after some time.

I'm 100% ok with any any of this options and I'm really curios on how this will work out.

One thing to mention is that she was into me but she really liked to reject me, so I'm not doing this with a women with 0 interest or smth.

One text per weekend (I think this doesn't count as spamming) just to see what happens. No risk of getting humiliated or smth. I just want to try and see what happens.

So what's your opinion on this? ??

do it?ik a guy who texted a girl for 4 years after she said that she doesn't like him,he annoyed her, chased her for 4 years and now they getting married soon?hes a 5 and she a 10?ik the guy he has not much charm and no looks,no money too

sheer will and persistence?

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They will get divorced sooner or later...

Do it 🙂

Posted by IamAries
Relax, it is Tinder ?

Dont ask her, be an Aries and tell her.

You: What's your favorite restaurante?

Her: xyz

You: Im taking you there next Saturday!

She has probably 10 ohter guys messaging her there. Be bold! 🙂

Good luck!

This is great advice

If you are a man, chase her, if you are a woman, do the same



🙂

She got bored with you just talking and not making an initiative. Aries men are awesome but bores bc emotionally they are just inept.