Parkourler
@Parkourler
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So I blew up, dumped my Aries gf and my aries Friends
Next time don't be disingenuous and then blame the other person when they were being 100 from the start.
Oh,...and my condolences.
Posted by ParkourlerOK. So nothing positive? Then OK understand. What you want fairy tale? Can't you handle her?
I need to vent.
The honeymoonphase ended, and I realized, that she Pisses me off big time. I quietly endured her snapping, her blunt behavior, because I thought that I gotta rise up to the Occasion, be man enough
for her, I told myself I gotta be not butthurt, I gotta stand up for myself. I wasnt that bad actually, I quickly
calmed her down with hugs and jokes, sometimes I yelled back, that felt good. So we got along, until
I realized that these are not antics, she is aggressive and impulsive by nature.
You can be outside your Comfort zone to grow, but if being outside your comfort zone you have to
put up with behavior that is against everything you stand for, then I ve got no business there.
Being snapped very often, pisses me off big time. I am a gentle peaceful guy, deep inside. I dont
want to feel irritated all the time. Why THE FUCK is it okay to be unfriendly to people? I know she doesnt mean to cause harm, she has a short fuse.
I dont like blunt talking. Bluntness can be funny, when she makes pretty mean jokes, but it also can
be downright, inconsiderate and ruthless.
I tried very hard to be unphased, because I kinda accepted the thinking: Hey, at least we are not fake,
you are too sensitive / weak if you cannot handle it. NO NO NO.
1. Yes you guys are not fake, but so what. It is possible to express harsh truth in a careful way.
Sometimes it is necessary to be blunt in order to snap the guy out, you gotta be careful not to be mean.
No, that has nothing to do with insecurity or not having balls.
I dont like impulsive Behavior, just jumping into the water without factchecking can cause serious blowbacks.
I guess Taurus and Aries are just not comfortable. I am so tired and burned out. My Conclusion:
Opposite people are only good for affairs, not for relationships, because that requires lots of talking things through, lots of fighting, we are unable to fulfill each others needs. I will only have relationships with Woman with who I have a lot in common, like cancer woman, or virgo woman. Unfortunately I have
to rule out Scorpio woman too.
I am so tired, I dont hold any grudges, I want her to have a relationship with a guy who is similar to her in terms of temper, interests, values etc because that will make her happy. Knowing that I will never be that guy, breaks my heart. We both deserve to be happy.
For Aries and scorpio weak no need to apply.
I understand you trust me but it takes time to smother together. If you guys at the beggining that's OK, you both fighting for dominance. The key is to compromise. If she can't, maybe because no one showed her how to do so. You aren't perfect my friend, nor I, or anyone else. Bare that in mind. In case is really nothing positive or at least equal out then yes nothing to do with each other. However you get together for some reason. Good to not forget that too. The easiest always to give up and walk away.
Earth Signs + Aries= š”
I'm with you on this one...
I'm with you on this one...
Posted by LadyNeptuneLol. she would say dont talk shit youdont understand.
Next time don't be disingenuous and then blame the other person when they were being 100 from the start.
What? I blamed her for what? I accept her for what he is, I tried to learn from her. Until I realized,
that this not a matter of Inability but Incompatibility.
I wasnt disingenous, I was open for new experiences, I was wiling to stretch myself.
Congratulations. We need more dudebros like this in the 21st century.
Jeses Christ, I answered your questions. Read again.
OK. So nothing positive?
We laughed a lot.
Then OK understand.
What you want fairy tale?
I want harmony and peace.
Can't you handle her?
At first, I couldnt butI learned, my conclusion is I dont want to handle her. I was unhappy. Read again.
For Aries and scorpio weak no need to apply. Yeah, that is the standard reply, If men cant handle them,
they are weak. My perspective is that some kind of behaviors are downright rude. I understand, label men as weak is easier than to take an honest, look in the mirror.
No thas has nothing to with weakness, I went from "weakness" to competence. I dont need this,
even If iam strong,whatever that means.
I understand you trust me but it takes time to smother together.
I agree,but if we are fundamentally incompatible then it takes ages, and lots of struggles. I d rather
struggle who is on the same wavelength with similar interests and values.
If you guys at the beggining that's OK, you both fighting for dominance. The key is to compromise. If she can't, maybe because no one showed her how to do so.
I tried that a lot of times, we had lots of concversations, she would just say no.
You aren't perfect my friend, nor I, or anyone else. Bare that in mind. In case is really nothing positive or at least equal out then yes nothing to do with each other. However you get together for some reason. Good to not forget that too.
Well yeah? I wrote about that?
The easiest always to give up and walk away.
The easiest way is to be judgemental right away.
Giving up can be a good thing, when you realize that its not worth it.
OK. So nothing positive?
We laughed a lot.
Then OK understand.
What you want fairy tale?
I want harmony and peace.
Can't you handle her?
At first, I couldnt butI learned, my conclusion is I dont want to handle her. I was unhappy. Read again.
For Aries and scorpio weak no need to apply. Yeah, that is the standard reply, If men cant handle them,
they are weak. My perspective is that some kind of behaviors are downright rude. I understand, label men as weak is easier than to take an honest, look in the mirror.
No thas has nothing to with weakness, I went from "weakness" to competence. I dont need this,
even If iam strong,whatever that means.
I understand you trust me but it takes time to smother together.
I agree,but if we are fundamentally incompatible then it takes ages, and lots of struggles. I d rather
struggle who is on the same wavelength with similar interests and values.
If you guys at the beggining that's OK, you both fighting for dominance. The key is to compromise. If she can't, maybe because no one showed her how to do so.
I tried that a lot of times, we had lots of concversations, she would just say no.
You aren't perfect my friend, nor I, or anyone else. Bare that in mind. In case is really nothing positive or at least equal out then yes nothing to do with each other. However you get together for some reason. Good to not forget that too.
Well yeah? I wrote about that?
The easiest always to give up and walk away.
The easiest way is to be judgemental right away.
Giving up can be a good thing, when you realize that its not worth it.
Posted by enfant_terrible
Congratulations. We need more dudebros like this in the 21st century.
I agree, I am glad that you volunteer.
Posted by UnicornSag
why even bother being with someone with whom you don't get along?
Yes why? I learned that the hard way.
Posted by ParkourlerThis one comment of yours sounded much more meaningful. The main post of yours was closer to a crying baby to be honest š
Jeses Christ, I answered your questions. Read again.
OK. So nothing positive?
We laughed a lot.
Then OK understand.
What you want fairy tale?
I want harmony and peace.
Can't you handle her?
At first, I couldnt butI learned, my conclusion is I dont want to handle her. I was unhappy. Read again.
For Aries and scorpio weak no need to apply. Yeah, that is the standard reply, If men cant handle them,
they are weak. My perspective is that some kind of behaviors are downright rude. I understand, label men as weak is easier than to take an honest, look in the mirror.
No thas has nothing to with weakness, I went from "weakness" to competence. I dont need this,
even If iam strong,whatever that means.
I understand you trust me but it takes time to smother together.
I agree,but if we are fundamentally incompatible then it takes ages, and lots of struggles. I d rather
struggle who is on the same wavelength with similar interests and values.
If you guys at the beggining that's OK, you both fighting for dominance. The key is to compromise. If she can't, maybe because no one showed her how to do so.
I tried that a lot of times, we had lots of concversations, she would just say no.
You aren't perfect my friend, nor I, or anyone else. Bare that in mind. In case is really nothing positive or at least equal out then yes nothing to do with each other. However you get together for some reason. Good to not forget that too.
Well yeah? I wrote about that?
The easiest always to give up and walk away.
The easiest way is to be judgemental right away.
Giving up can be a good thing, when you realize that its not worth it.
Surely you made up your mind. Sometimes people make decisions out of being upset then regret it later. I was just hoping this is not the case. Good luck!
you need a libra.
Posted by jeanelol Whereās that person who said Taurus are compatible with everyone?
you need a libra.
No. They are not.
Posted by ImpulsvIt is an excellent opportunity to put your hurt up šPosted by SheeverPosted by ParkourlerOK. So nothing positive? Then OK understand. What you want fairy tale? Can't you handle her?
I need to vent.
The honeymoonphase ended, and I realized, that she Pisses me off big time. I quietly endured her snapping, her blunt behavior, because I thought that I gotta rise up to the Occasion, be man enough
for her, I told myself I gotta be not butthurt, I gotta stand up for myself. I wasnt that bad actually, I quickly
calmed her down with hugs and jokes, sometimes I yelled back, that felt good. So we got along, until
I realized that these are not antics, she is aggressive and impulsive by nature.
You can be outside your Comfort zone to grow, but if being outside your comfort zone you have to
put up with behavior that is against everything you stand for, then I ve got no business there.
Being snapped very often, pisses me off big time. I am a gentle peaceful guy, deep inside. I dont
want to feel irritated all the time. Why THE FUCK is it okay to be unfriendly to people? I know she doesnt mean to cause harm, she has a short fuse.
I dont like blunt talking. Bluntness can be funny, when she makes pretty mean jokes, but it also can
be downright, inconsiderate and ruthless.
I tried very hard to be unphased, because I kinda accepted the thinking: Hey, at least we are not fake,
you are too sensitive / weak if you cannot handle it. NO NO NO.
1. Yes you guys are not fake, but so what. It is possible to express harsh truth in a careful way.
Sometimes it is necessary to be blunt in order to snap the guy out, you gotta be careful not to be mean.
No, that has nothing to do with insecurity or not having balls.
I dont like impulsive Behavior, just jumping into the water without factchecking can cause serious blowbacks.
I guess Taurus and Aries are just not comfortable. I am so tired and burned out. My Conclusion:
Opposite people are only good for affairs, not for relationships, because that requires lots of talking things through, lots of fighting, we are unable to fulfill each others needs. I will only have relationships with Woman with who I have a lot in common, like cancer woman, or virgo woman. Unfortunately I have
to rule out Scorpio woman too.
I am so tired, I dont hold any grudges, I want her to have a relationship with a guy who is similar to her in terms of temper, interests, values etc because that will make her happy. Knowing that I will never be that guy, breaks my heart. We both deserve to be happy.
For Aries and scorpio weak no need to apply.
I understand you trust me but it takes time to smother together. If you guys at the beggining that's OK, you both fighting for dominance. The key is to compromise. If she can't, maybe because no one showed her how to do so. You aren't perfect my friend, nor I, or anyone else. Bare that in mind. In case is really nothing positive or at least equal out then yes nothing to do with each other. However you get together for some reason. Good to not forget that too. The easiest always to give up and walk away.
One reason I have minimal contact with Aries is I know they are rude obnoxious n Iām not up for it
No need to compromise here
Nobodies job to teach them basic manners. Sadly itās fun until no longer fun
And itās ok he has discovered that
Fun does not take away from reality of just being straight cruel.
They hide under pretense of bluntness when itās just cruel .
Hey itās not about easiest way
ITS about not his preference .
N thatās is okclick to expand
Nothing is compulsory in this world. Teaching manner or not. Some does, some doesn't. As I meant after that, the poster not acting upon recent stress whatsoever and regret it later. Obviously it's not my relationship so he knows better. It's just too much complaint for a topic š
I was living with an aries female for long time, and was no such experience as written by the post starter. Anyway. Many feet even more shoes.
Many relationship has bumps and up and downs. It's normal. Maybe I am wrong. I think people get together for reason by their own choice. Not sure how long but to me walking away easily says it wasn't meaningful or strong anyway. Or one of the parties are simply weak. Maybe its my loyalty and level of commitment speaking.
WTF? I ve been accused of being whiny, and dishonest, I dont need your bs.
You guys, don`t understand anything and interpret negative stuff, that is just not there.
I am out.
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by SheeverPosted by ParkourlerOK. So nothing positive? Then OK understand. What you want fairy tale? Can't you handle her?
I need to vent.
The honeymoonphase ended, and I realized, that she Pisses me off big time. I quietly endured her snapping, her blunt behavior, because I thought that I gotta rise up to the Occasion, be man enough
for her, I told myself I gotta be not butthurt, I gotta stand up for myself. I wasnt that bad actually, I quickly
calmed her down with hugs and jokes, sometimes I yelled back, that felt good. So we got along, until
I realized that these are not antics, she is aggressive and impulsive by nature.
You can be outside your Comfort zone to grow, but if being outside your comfort zone you have to
put up with behavior that is against everything you stand for, then I ve got no business there.
Being snapped very often, pisses me off big time. I am a gentle peaceful guy, deep inside. I dont
want to feel irritated all the time. Why THE FUCK is it okay to be unfriendly to people? I know she doesnt mean to cause harm, she has a short fuse.
I dont like blunt talking. Bluntness can be funny, when she makes pretty mean jokes, but it also can
be downright, inconsiderate and ruthless.
I tried very hard to be unphased, because I kinda accepted the thinking: Hey, at least we are not fake,
you are too sensitive / weak if you cannot handle it. NO NO NO.
1. Yes you guys are not fake, but so what. It is possible to express harsh truth in a careful way.
Sometimes it is necessary to be blunt in order to snap the guy out, you gotta be careful not to be mean.
No, that has nothing to do with insecurity or not having balls.
I dont like impulsive Behavior, just jumping into the water without factchecking can cause serious blowbacks.
I guess Taurus and Aries are just not comfortable. I am so tired and burned out. My Conclusion:
Opposite people are only good for affairs, not for relationships, because that requires lots of talking things through, lots of fighting, we are unable to fulfill each others needs. I will only have relationships with Woman with who I have a lot in common, like cancer woman, or virgo woman. Unfortunately I have
to rule out Scorpio woman too.
I am so tired, I dont hold any grudges, I want her to have a relationship with a guy who is similar to her in terms of temper, interests, values etc because that will make her happy. Knowing that I will never be that guy, breaks my heart. We both deserve to be happy.
For Aries and scorpio weak no need to apply.
I understand you trust me but it takes time to smother together. If you guys at the beggining that's OK, you both fighting for dominance. The key is to compromise. If she can't, maybe because no one showed her how to do so. You aren't perfect my friend, nor I, or anyone else. Bare that in mind. In case is really nothing positive or at least equal out then yes nothing to do with each other. However you get together for some reason. Good to not forget that too. The easiest always to give up and walk away.
One reason I have minimal contact with Aries is I know they are rude obnoxious n Iām not up for it
No need to compromise here
Nobodies job to teach them basic manners. Sadly itās fun until no longer fun
And itās ok he has discovered that
Fun does not take away from reality of just being straight cruel.
They hide under pretense of bluntness when itās just cruel .
Hey itās not about easiest way
ITS about not his preference .
N thatās is okclick to expand
They are not cruel, they just donāt sugarcoat it
Posted by ParkourlerI understand boo. I'm an Aries. I had to find a man with great big balls - the super hero type.
WTF? I ve been accused of being whiny, and dishonest, I dont need your bs.
You guys, don`t understand anything and interpret negative stuff, that is just not there.
I am out.
The kind of man that...
...while luxuriating in the afterglow of sex, or, (cover your ears) marinating in my pussy...
...is okay and laughs when I say, "watchu trying to do? Make soup?"
She sounds like an asshole.
ARies woman and Taurus man just ouch. No no no. Sorry but NO. This is the exact reason why I wud never date Aries men. So childish.
I feel aries r not very good at maintaining healthy relationships. it takes a real carefree guy or girl to handle them. They r much better as friends
I feel like a Virgo is more your speed.
I went through the same thing with an old Aries friend that was a girl. She had a very strong personality that was rude and inconsiderate. And she wonders why she doesnāt have any friends? I completely understand what youāre going through. You will be much happier that sheās gone now.
Posted by xoxfluteBAš±
@Parkourler
"Yes you guys are not fake, but so what. It is possible to express harsh truth in a careful way.
Sometimes it is necessary to be blunt in order to snap the guy out, you gotta be careful not to be mean.
No, that has nothing to do with insecurity or not having balls.
I dont like impulsive Behavior, just jumping into the water without factchecking can cause serious blowbacks. "
---> I have Taurus Mercury, so I completely understand this. It helps my Aries Sun in so many ways. But, I also have to say that there is a BIG tendency to endure, when it sometimes may be better to speak up.
Also, be careful with words is not usually an Aries trait. I don't think it's because an Aries can't learn it, but rather those who are blunt think there is no point. Short pain is better than long pain. Why sugarcoat something that may ultimately hurt someone in the long run and may be for a long time? Why approach in a roundabout way when such a way may cause confusion and misunderstanding from the other party? It's not my view but I understand this view.
I think you are weird,youre giving me crazy answers
GOOš±
You irritate me, you dont answer my questions,.(that is not sugarcoating just more tactful wordsmithing)
Posted by ItsMeRomanperhaps for libras the point of communicating is to express an idea. sometimes that idea is mentioned to help the other person ie inform them of your opinion. the main point of talking is to communicate effectively. if you can't do that you might as well remain silent.
Taurus people are not really designed to take confrontation very well which is odd because I find most Taurus in the smack centre of almost all work or friend dramas š
I have a Taurus cousin who literally lives for this shit on the daily. Becoming a young mother didnāt change her, responsibility didnāt change her and a shotgun marriage didnāt change her. Sheās still living with her head half in the clouds and leaving her husband and 6 month old baby at home on the weekends while she runs around like sheās still a young 20 something.
Anytime you bring her down to reality, you become the enemy because youāre just not ācool- like her friendsā.
Aries and Taurus can get along very well but it comes down to maturity.
Aries are naturally brash and forward and the upside to this is youāre left with very little guessing when it comes to what their opinion is. Some people find comfort in knowing where their partner stands and others find flaws in the delivery, if delivery of an opinion is what you care about....more than the message or the care thatās hidden behind an opinion- then obviously you need to be with someone whoās more apt to comfort you in delivery of opinions than someoneās whoās more up front.
Basically- someone already said this, date a Libra.
They love to flower their critical opinions.
They are the PR spin doctors of the zodiac.
but if you are telling someone your opinion are you doing it for you or for them? if it's for you then by all means be as brash as you like. you'll have said your piece and you will feel better.
if it's for the benefit for someone else, is it not logical that you'd say it in a way that they would be most receptive to it? isn't the point to help them? not to make yourself feel better?
i have a close aries friend. he constantly puts his foot in it in the moment and then regrets what he says afterwards. we have very frank discussions. no sugar coating and that is fine. he can be as blunt as he likes with me and i with him. but he can't temper that. either you know your audience or you don't give a shit about people's feelings. either option is fine but you can't be upset when the other person doesn't get what you are trying to tell them because you haven't communicated effectively.
Posted by xoxflutesure. i guess it can only be judged how effective it's been delivered by the outcome but if someone walks off upset then no one really wins in that instance.Posted by jeaneThe difference lies in how to deliver that's most beneficial to them imo, because sometimes, it may be more beneficial if the communication are simpler to understand. It takes less time for the other party to correctly interpret and in some cases, it may take less time for the other party accomplish objectives.
perhaps for libras the point of communicating is to express an idea. sometimes that idea is mentioned to help the other person ie inform them of your opinion. the main point of talking is to communicate effectively. if you can't do that you might as well remain silent.
but if you are telling someone your opinion are you doing it for you or for them? if it's for you then by all means be as brash as you like. you'll have said your piece and you will feel better.
if it's for the benefit for someone else, is it not logical that you'd say it in a way that they would be most receptive to it? isn't the point to help them? not to make yourself feel better?
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Posted by xoxfluteright which brings me back to people speaking so they can say "well, i tried". that has a scent of smug martyrdom to it.Posted by jeaneI agree and personally I share that view.Posted by xoxflutesure. i guess it can only be judged how effective it's been delivered by the outcome but if someone walks off upset then no one really wins in that instance.Posted by jeaneThe difference lies in how to deliver that's most beneficial to them imo, because sometimes, it may be more beneficial if the communication are simpler to understand. It takes less time for the other party to correctly interpret and in some cases, it may take less time for the other party accomplish objectives.
perhaps for libras the point of communicating is to express an idea. sometimes that idea is mentioned to help the other person ie inform them of your opinion. the main point of talking is to communicate effectively. if you can't do that you might as well remain silent.
but if you are telling someone your opinion are you doing it for you or for them? if it's for you then by all means be as brash as you like. you'll have said your piece and you will feel better.
if it's for the benefit for someone else, is it not logical that you'd say it in a way that they would be most receptive to it? isn't the point to help them? not to make yourself feel better?
But the point of view for some, from the very start, probably was never about effectiveness, but rather about the gesture of the attempt...that they tried to help and communicate in ways that they think will help the other party. Whether the other party listens is up to the other person.click to expand
Posted by JuliietteI understand now completely the situation too...Posted by Parkourler
WTF? I ve been accused of being whiny, and dishonest, I dont need your bs.
You guys, don`t understand anything and interpret negative stuff, that is just not there.
I am out.
though you got defensive easily. chill.
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Posted by DeleterNerdI can't argue with this. I was just thinking of a Taurus who is very similar to the OP who is actually dating a Virgo with Libra placements... it make sense.Posted by NenjaHow so? He falls where most taureans who cant win a Virgo over fall. Virgos would choose the Aries who lays all of their thoughts on the table. Dont mistake our cool demeanor for being push overs. We'll put you in your place faster than anyone. He'd be more compatible with a Libra.
I feel like a Virgo is more your speed.click to expand
youāre a Taurus sheās an Aries. yāall werenāt gonna work anyways. yāall arenāt even opposites. opposite for Aries is a Libra not a Taurus. Libra can balance Aries out and make her a giddy little girl. Taurus should only be with water or earth. Iāve been with a Taurus for two year before, ended in a trainwreak. My Aries girl is the only one that can handle me and vise versa.
Not all strong Aries influenced people are like this and it's beautiful to see
this energy used wisely. How they protect their family and get things done...
I love and admire how they can be so blunt and aggressive... fearless...
But when it's mishandled especially when there is no balance within, it's just a mess.
It's dangerous, destructive and just scary to be completely honest.
It takes a lot to master this type of fire and it's always best to just be cautious
with these people in the early stages of any relationship enters ones life
because they will definitely tell you if they struggle with their fire or not.
I feel stepping away was the best thing you've done.
sometimes enough is enough
this energy used wisely. How they protect their family and get things done...
I love and admire how they can be so blunt and aggressive... fearless...
But when it's mishandled especially when there is no balance within, it's just a mess.
It's dangerous, destructive and just scary to be completely honest.
It takes a lot to master this type of fire and it's always best to just be cautious
with these people in the early stages of any relationship enters ones life
because they will definitely tell you if they struggle with their fire or not.
I feel stepping away was the best thing you've done.
sometimes enough is enough
Posted by clockwiseeoh man, taurus and libra can be goooooooood.
youāre a Taurus sheās an Aries. yāall werenāt gonna work anyways. yāall arenāt even opposites. opposite for Aries is a Libra not a Taurus. Libra can balance Aries out and make her a giddy little girl. Taurus should only be with water or earth. Iāve been with a Taurus for two year before, ended in a trainwreak. My Aries girl is the only one that can handle me and vise versa.
Posted by UnicornSagyeah, i can see how libra and aries would be good too. for me though? too much drama.Posted by jeanePosted by clockwiseeoh man, taurus and libra can be goooooooood.
youāre a Taurus sheās an Aries. yāall werenāt gonna work anyways. yāall arenāt even opposites. opposite for Aries is a Libra not a Taurus. Libra can balance Aries out and make her a giddy little girl. Taurus should only be with water or earth. Iāve been with a Taurus for two year before, ended in a trainwreak. My Aries girl is the only one that can handle me and vise versa.
but the comment said Aries and Libra can be good lol
and um yep, got a friend Aries, she's with Libra guy for 10 years or so...click to expand
Posted by Caramel_PrincessShe doesn't sound like she is aware of herself
Whatās your sign?
Iām sorry but Iām glad you ended it, it sounds like it was very toxic. My mom is an Aries and although I love her to death we had lots of issues when I was growing up especially when sheād blow up sheād hit me and say the meanest things to me.
Now we are doing better, but so many of her phone calls I donāt pick up just because I donāt enjoy talking to her. I love her, but I donāt like her at times.
Still in the infancy stage.....lashing out at you
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Posted by tiziani....and little finesse
It's all about timing. The problem with "blunt" people is they dont have any.
Posted by Caramel_PrincessOh God.....she sounds clueless....does she not think to question herself ? šPosted by MyStarsShineNow whenever I donāt answer her phone calls (that are almost daily to say the exact same things everyday) she tells my sisters why isnāt your sister answering my calls!? SHE HATES ME. And she gets my sisters scolding me.Posted by Caramel_PrincessShe doesn't sound like she is aware of herself
Whatās your sign?
Iām sorry but Iām glad you ended it, it sounds like it was very toxic. My mom is an Aries and although I love her to death we had lots of issues when I was growing up especially when sheād blow up sheād hit me and say the meanest things to me.
Now we are doing better, but so many of her phone calls I donāt pick up just because I donāt enjoy talking to her. I love her, but I donāt like her at times.
Still in the infancy stage.....lashing out at you
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Posted by ParkourlerYour fuse sounds pretty short there bruh.
Jeses Christ, I answered your questions. Read again.
OK. So nothing positive?
We laughed a lot.
Then OK understand.
What you want fairy tale?
I want harmony and peace.
Can't you handle her?
At first, I couldnt butI learned, my conclusion is I dont want to handle her. I was unhappy. Read again.
For Aries and scorpio weak no need to apply. Yeah, that is the standard reply, If men cant handle them,
they are weak. My perspective is that some kind of behaviors are downright rude. I understand, label men as weak is easier than to take an honest, look in the mirror.
No thas has nothing to with weakness, I went from "weakness" to competence. I dont need this,
even If iam strong,whatever that means.
I understand you trust me but it takes time to smother together.
I agree,but if we are fundamentally incompatible then it takes ages, and lots of struggles. I d rather
struggle who is on the same wavelength with similar interests and values.
If you guys at the beggining that's OK, you both fighting for dominance. The key is to compromise. If she can't, maybe because no one showed her how to do so.
I tried that a lot of times, we had lots of concversations, she would just say no.
You aren't perfect my friend, nor I, or anyone else. Bare that in mind. In case is really nothing positive or at least equal out then yes nothing to do with each other. However you get together for some reason. Good to not forget that too.
Well yeah? I wrote about that?
The easiest always to give up and walk away.
The easiest way is to be judgemental right away.
Giving up can be a good thing, when you realize that its not worth it.
Posted by LibraMudraI hope all is well with you, girl.
Ok. So you got rid of everyone. Now focus on yourself and even out your emotions. Time to chill.
Posted by xoxfluteWeāre very innocent and honest like that.Posted by ImpulsvIt's not a pretense. Subtlety was never something an Aries would inherently be good at.
One reason I have minimal contact with Aries is I know they are rude obnoxious n Iām not up for it
No need to compromise here
Nobodies job to teach them basic manners. Sadly itās fun until no longer fun
And itās ok he has discovered that
Fun does not take away from reality of just being straight cruel.
They hide under pretense of bluntness when itās just cruel .
Hey itās not about easiest way
ITS about not his preference .
N thatās is ok
I remember one time when I was much younger, my dad asked me to call his boss and tell the boss that my dad can't come to work today. What my dad meant was for me to just say "unfortunately my dad can't come to work today (and probably make up a reason as to what happened)". I ended up saying "my dad asked me to tell you that he can't come to work today". I didn't see what he was trying to imply. I just told the way that it was told to me.
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Posted by LibraMudraYay! Thatās good news. Iāve been through so much in the last few months that I barley got on here. But Iāll be back soon enough! Iām dojng great btw šPosted by bkbella86Thank you, lady. It's so much better. SO much better. Hope you are doing alright. It's been a while! Good to see you.Posted by LibraMudraI hope all is well with you, girl.
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