What is the best way to deal with a sick Ram ?

Hello there again dear Rams, Recently, I may or may not have gotten the Ram sick. Obviously, he was not happy about it and became quite moody but he did not blame it on me. It may or may not affect his work. Though I cannot quite understand if he is mo
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  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    Hello there again dear Rams,

    Recently, I may or may not have gotten the Ram sick. Obviously, he was not happy about it and became quite moody but he did not blame it on me. It may or may not affect his work. Though I cannot quite understand if he is moody or angry, at being ill for being ill itself, the inconvenience of it, of being ill and it affecting his work, or because I caused him to fall ill.

    What would be the best way to help make him feel better, to give space .... or ?
  • Smidge
    ASC~cancer | SUN~aries | MOON~virgo
    Tell him to gtf over it 🤐
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    Posted by Smidge
    Tell him to gtf over it 🤐


    Truly that easy ?Laughing
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    Posted by HearttofTopaz
    Men are babies when they’re sick, I doubt it has to do with you. Maybe if he was taking his vitamins, he wouldn’t have gotten sick


    I know @HeartofTopaz, and I did not want to 'baby' him unlike certain other signs where the men require 'compassionate care'. Ram gents seem to dislike it because last time he had allergies. He hated if I so much as asked if he was ok, or if he needed medication, etc. He would rather I know and then skimmed past it.

    To uphold that Ram masculine exterior ?Laughing
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    Posted by HearttofTopaz
    Get him some chicken noodle with cayenne pepper, and some scooter stick luvin’.


    I would love to, and wrote him to see if he would like that I bring food over for him. Well, I have so far been ignored. Straight Face
  • Show him you care. Bring soup Winking .
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
    Show him you care. Bring soup .


    Ah @WolfInRamsClothing, I want to but he has not answered my most recent message. Not quite sure if I am left hanging again or ignored.

    Though I think I will make it anyways.
  • Posted by HearttofTopaz
    Get him some chicken noodle with cayenne pepper, and some scooter stick luvin’.


    Especially that last one
  • Unwording
    female
    Spike his coffee with some OJ-- should cheer him right up. smile
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    Posted by Superman77
    Posted by HearttofTopaz
    Get him some chicken noodle with cayenne pepper, and some scooter stick luvin’.




    Especially that last one click to expand
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    Hah, that was the problem to begin with.

    A lot of that has already been done, it was also partly why I got him sick, because of all that exertion and sweat.Laughing
  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    Posted by Unwording
    Spike his coffee with some OJ-- should cheer him right up.


    Great suggestion, I will most likely make him some chicken soup and bring him some orange juice as well. smile
  • I would just leave him alone. I like to be left alone when I'm sick.
  • tino
    Pisces sun, Sagittarius moon, Scorpio rising
    @TheLadyScorpio

    My bf is an Aries, and I'm a Pisces so we have the same watery sign. It kinda feel bad when we did something wrong to them unintentionally right? Big Grin

    Of course, Aries man will be angry with you. The fact is, every man will be angry if someone did something wrong to them, not just to make them sick. But to handle an Aries is special, because mostly of his ego and his conflict nature. He loves woman who is like a tomboy, she can be caring and she can be energetic. They need something of a full package, so if you show too much of the caring side they will be annoyed. Since they believe they're care givers, and they usually are people who put effort out there to gain achievements, so they don't like to be smother with care even if you're trying to make up for what you did, like...to express your regret by taking care of him. And yes, he needs space. An Aries man doesn't understand words like us, he understands actions. So by giving him recovering space, it means you're feeling regret and respect him, waiting for him. If his sickness here is caused by you, and with your bucket of care pours in, he will double the annoy and may need some distance even more. He likes to think he can handle everything by himself and just let him believe that.

    What to do: Care, but not too much. Via actions like buy him something nutritious to eat and recover if you have a chance to meet, but don't say it out loud or text him in bulk. Be unpredictable, sometimes you care, and then the next day you don't, the day after that you care again. Just like that, don't let him think everytime he meets you he will be cared for, as 'the man of the family', he doesn't like it.

    It also depends on his Moon sign, his age, your time together. If you have been together for a real long time then it probably is something else happening in his life at the same time. Just don't blame yourself, we all have flaws and are clumsy at times. Be confident or this small problem will hurt your positive energy and you know who can't love if his partner doesn't have positive vibe? Aries man smile

    Hope this helps.
  • Posted by TheLadyScorpio
    Posted by Superman77
    Posted by HearttofTopaz
    Get him some chicken noodle with cayenne pepper, and some scooter stick luvin’.




    Especially that last one click to expand




    Hah, that was the problem to begin with.



    A lot of that has already been done, it was also partly why I got him sick, because of all that exertion and sweat. click to expand
    click to expand


    Tell his ass to get into sex shape
  • Posted by TheLadyScorpio
    Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
    Show him you care. Bring soup .




    Ah @WolfInRamsClothing, I want to but he has not answered my most recent message. Not quite sure if I am left hanging again or ignored.



    Though I think I will make it anyways. click to expand
    click to expand


    Then just leave him alone. He's probably not ready for any visits. Place is a mess and he enjoys his time while being sick doing what he wants. smile I would not like any visits tbh, but being initiative is appreciated.
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