what type of girls??
what type of girls??
I heard aries guys like assertive independent woman..loud..different type..idk something that stands out./..However I also heard they like the really sweet type of lady, hopeless, someone that needs to be rescued..
So which one it is?
Strong or fragile??
and looks...
Sexy or girl next door?
So which one it is?
Strong or fragile??
and looks...
Sexy or girl next door?

i love sweet girls. they make my heart melt lol
i also like girls who are emotionally and mentally resilient. girls who know how to handle themselves.
as for looks, i'm not really into sexy. i prefer cute and modest. sexy tends to become boring after a while lol
i also like girls who are emotionally and mentally resilient. girls who know how to handle themselves.
as for looks, i'm not really into sexy. i prefer cute and modest. sexy tends to become boring after a while lol
Maybe I'm not what he's looking for then... Would you do me a favor
Can you look in my pics and say if as an Aries if you would date me or not... Lol pretty please
Can you look in my pics and say if as an Aries if you would date me or not... Lol pretty please

lol who cares what i think? i'm not the guy you're trying to date. i don't represent the entire male aries population. i'm just some random dude on the internet lol
don't ever doubt yourself or attempt to change who you are for some guy.
but if you still want my opinion...yeah i think you're very attractive. you need to hold your head up high. start thinking of yourself as a prize. let the guy do all the work.
don't ever doubt yourself or attempt to change who you are for some guy.
but if you still want my opinion...yeah i think you're very attractive. you need to hold your head up high. start thinking of yourself as a prize. let the guy do all the work.

Here's my personal thoughts on this, I generally consider myself to be a typical Aries. But remember, no two people share the same taste.
I like strong, tough (tough enough to cope with me!), loyal yet vulnerable women.
Independant is ok but not too independent to not need me.
I like someone who can say what they want but not boss me around all the time.
I do not like loud women... even though I am Italian!
Different is good. Hopeless not good.
Needing to be rescued... definately! The theme of many of my fantasies this one.
I prefer less make up and little jewelry.
I like sexy... but not sleazy. Girl next door can be sexy too!
However, I have dated all types and each one was special to me. Most importantly for me a girl must show her interest otherwise I may not even realise I have a chance. I just don't get women's hints or subtle messages. I respect a girl who can actually say she is interested, though I may have to go away and think about it before doing something if I like her. If I don't like her I'll have trouble letting her know because I don't want to hurt her. This happened to me recently with a woman with really hairy arms. Not my thing and just couldn't say so!
Just going by the way you look in your pics (in the group one you look like my ideal woman!) I would definately date you and would be proud to have you standing by my side. Don't get too hung up on the way you look, after the initial wow factor has worn off there needs to be something else to carry things forward. Personality. Just be yourself with him. If he's into you he will let you know. If not don't worry, it's not necessarily anything to do with you personally.
I like strong, tough (tough enough to cope with me!), loyal yet vulnerable women.
Independant is ok but not too independent to not need me.
I like someone who can say what they want but not boss me around all the time.
I do not like loud women... even though I am Italian!
Different is good. Hopeless not good.
Needing to be rescued... definately! The theme of many of my fantasies this one.
I prefer less make up and little jewelry.
I like sexy... but not sleazy. Girl next door can be sexy too!
However, I have dated all types and each one was special to me. Most importantly for me a girl must show her interest otherwise I may not even realise I have a chance. I just don't get women's hints or subtle messages. I respect a girl who can actually say she is interested, though I may have to go away and think about it before doing something if I like her. If I don't like her I'll have trouble letting her know because I don't want to hurt her. This happened to me recently with a woman with really hairy arms. Not my thing and just couldn't say so!
Just going by the way you look in your pics (in the group one you look like my ideal woman!) I would definately date you and would be proud to have you standing by my side. Don't get too hung up on the way you look, after the initial wow factor has worn off there needs to be something else to carry things forward. Personality. Just be yourself with him. If he's into you he will let you know. If not don't worry, it's not necessarily anything to do with you personally.

Posted by escorpianas
Maybe I'm not what he's looking for then... Would you do me a favor
Can you look in my pics and say if as an Aries if you would date me or not... Lol pretty please
:::smh:::
Seriously?
hey thanks guys very good insight..
And ya I wouldnt change myself for anybody..Im happy with whom I am besides I have a very strong personality it would be too much to change lol..
lol gemsrag..whats your deal youve been following me and trying o bring me down on every post I made...you must have read the thread I made about "geminis being nasty jealous" lol..and you proved my point...so im not worried with you..lol get over it was just a thred sorry if i hurt your feelings not my intention...
and I asked about how i look physically bc i dont know this guys seems to like exotic looking women..which i think i fit that profile but some people said girl next door so i was just wonderinig but i know looks isnt everything..actually i would chose personality over looks any day...
The one thing im not tho is needing to be rescued..as a scorpio i try to not show signs of weakness so i hide that alot...
And ya I wouldnt change myself for anybody..Im happy with whom I am besides I have a very strong personality it would be too much to change lol..
lol gemsrag..whats your deal youve been following me and trying o bring me down on every post I made...you must have read the thread I made about "geminis being nasty jealous" lol..and you proved my point...so im not worried with you..lol get over it was just a thred sorry if i hurt your feelings not my intention...
and I asked about how i look physically bc i dont know this guys seems to like exotic looking women..which i think i fit that profile but some people said girl next door so i was just wonderinig but i know looks isnt everything..actually i would chose personality over looks any day...
The one thing im not tho is needing to be rescued..as a scorpio i try to not show signs of weakness so i hide that alot...
Gems...give her a break, she may be feeling a little insecure, sounds like she really LIKES the guy.
Escorp..you are very exotic looking and def not girl next door. Maybe soften your look a bit..men like "soft"
Escorp..you are very exotic looking and def not girl next door. Maybe soften your look a bit..men like "soft"
Posted by sunshine222
Gems...give her a break, she may be feeling a little insecure, sounds like she really LIKES the guy.
Escorp..you are very exotic looking and def not girl next door. Maybe soften your look a bit..men like "soft"
I will defn try that maybe he should see me on week days... I only dress up for PARTYYYY LOL... Im gonna tone down a lil tho..and yes I really do like the guy...

Don't worry about needing to be rescued, it's not a prerequisite.
The most passion I have ever felt was for a tough scorpio who works in a prison. She didn't once show a soft side, quite the opposite to the kind of girls I dream about. I tend to initially get hooked by the look of a woman's face and not the overall type she appears to be. So, for me at least, it never mattered if she's sexy aggressive or shy girl next door type. It's a case of if the face fits... and if it does something WILL happen.
Go for it, be yourself and don't try to mould yourself too much to what you think he may like because you can never be absolutely sure what his preference is.
The most passion I have ever felt was for a tough scorpio who works in a prison. She didn't once show a soft side, quite the opposite to the kind of girls I dream about. I tend to initially get hooked by the look of a woman's face and not the overall type she appears to be. So, for me at least, it never mattered if she's sexy aggressive or shy girl next door type. It's a case of if the face fits... and if it does something WILL happen.
Go for it, be yourself and don't try to mould yourself too much to what you think he may like because you can never be absolutely sure what his preference is.
Thanks for the advice...but he just started dating a cancer....Time to move on... 😢

the aries guy i'm talking to said he likes sweet girls too! he also said he doesn't like sluts and girls who swear like sailors lol

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPalPosted by escorpianas
Maybe I'm not what he's looking for then... Would you do me a favor
Can you look in my pics and say if as an Aries if you would date me or not... Lol pretty please
:::smh:::
Seriously?click to expand
lol

i think aries guys are more into the "good girl" thing

Posted by escorpianas
Maybe I'm not what he's looking for then... Would you do me a favor
i just looked at your pics and you are hot! my question is why wouldn't he want you? damn i need a cold shower lol

Posted by MelanieG
the aries guy i'm talking to said he likes sweet girls too! he also said he doesn't like sluts and girls who swear like sailors lol
nobody likes a slut, thats for sure.

I think it may depend on where his Venus is.
Aries men with Venus in Pisces and Taurus tend to like feminine, reserved (soft-spoken), sweet, and sometimes helpless women.
Aries men with Venus in Aries and Gemini tend to like strong-willed, independant, tomboyish women who can take charge.
Aries men with Venus in Aquarius tend to like a combination of both as well as some uniqueness.
These are just my personal observations so please don't take them too seriously.
Aries men with Venus in Pisces and Taurus tend to like feminine, reserved (soft-spoken), sweet, and sometimes helpless women.
Aries men with Venus in Aries and Gemini tend to like strong-willed, independant, tomboyish women who can take charge.
Aries men with Venus in Aquarius tend to like a combination of both as well as some uniqueness.
These are just my personal observations so please don't take them too seriously.
AriesSunCancerMoon that interesting that you said that you like the idea of rescuing someone. I met my Aries Bf soon after my husband passed. He was quite vigilant in his pursuit. He said I seemed like I had a sad secret, and he wanted to rescue me.

Posted by escorpianas
I heard aries guys like assertive independent woman..loud..different type..idk something that stands out./..However I also heard they like the really sweet type of lady, hopeless, someone that needs to be rescued..
So which one it is?
Strong or fragile??
and looks...
Sexy or girl next door?
picture this:
a caring, nurturing, wholesome girl-next-door mixed with a fiery, intelligent, strong sex kitten.
😛
they want both!

aries men may like women who need to be rescued but they also like a
strong woman who won't fall apart on them too so perhaps the rescue
thing isn't an everyday event or something that happens often lol?
I think aries men want a strong woman who can carry her weight yet
not be too strong on him or bossy and so forth because aries men like
kind words from their women and a gentle touch and hugs but not a clingy
wall flower,and they love passionate women with a voice as long as that
voice isn't cold blooded or harsh with them
strong woman who won't fall apart on them too so perhaps the rescue
thing isn't an everyday event or something that happens often lol?
I think aries men want a strong woman who can carry her weight yet
not be too strong on him or bossy and so forth because aries men like
kind words from their women and a gentle touch and hugs but not a clingy
wall flower,and they love passionate women with a voice as long as that
voice isn't cold blooded or harsh with them

stand your ground with aries because if he's rude then fight back,but
if he likes you he will tell you even if it takes awhile? Aries men
it's said like the chase but I honestly believe it's not so much that
they like the chase but rather they like to be in charge and this means
that they like to lead somewhat? They like having control over themselves
not always over the woman they are with yet it can seem that an aries man
wants to control the woman they are going out with and some want to do that
but alot of it is about them being in charge of their own lives and making
the choice for themselves if they want to be with a certain girl or not?
Some Aries men may like to be in control of the relationship but often it's
that they don't want to be controlled and want to decde things for themselves.
If he likes you he will find you,you don't need to chase an aries or any man
for that matter.Some aries men don't really like the chase so much especially
after they get older but they do like the girl to show some interest just not
too much or in any way that makes them feel embarrassed or ashamed to be with
you.Just relax,be yourself and if it's right it will be great,if not don't
worry about it because there are alot of great guys out there of all signs.
if he likes you he will tell you even if it takes awhile? Aries men
it's said like the chase but I honestly believe it's not so much that
they like the chase but rather they like to be in charge and this means
that they like to lead somewhat? They like having control over themselves
not always over the woman they are with yet it can seem that an aries man
wants to control the woman they are going out with and some want to do that
but alot of it is about them being in charge of their own lives and making
the choice for themselves if they want to be with a certain girl or not?
Some Aries men may like to be in control of the relationship but often it's
that they don't want to be controlled and want to decde things for themselves.
If he likes you he will find you,you don't need to chase an aries or any man
for that matter.Some aries men don't really like the chase so much especially
after they get older but they do like the girl to show some interest just not
too much or in any way that makes them feel embarrassed or ashamed to be with
you.Just relax,be yourself and if it's right it will be great,if not don't
worry about it because there are alot of great guys out there of all signs.

also if a big fight results when your going with an aries guy just
remember the hot sex that usually follows after the doors are thrown
across the living room lol!!! It's amazing how a heated fight can
suddenly turn into the hottest most passionate sex ever!!!
remember the hot sex that usually follows after the doors are thrown
across the living room lol!!! It's amazing how a heated fight can
suddenly turn into the hottest most passionate sex ever!!!

Posted by escorpianas
I heard aries guys like assertive independent woman..loud..different type..idk something that stands out./..However I also heard they like the really sweet type of lady, hopeless, someone that needs to be rescued..
So which one it is?
Strong or fragile??
and looks...
Sexy or girl next door?
Depends on the Aries...being you is the best way to get the results you want regardless of sign.

Posted by trifles light as air*Touché !Posted by escorpianas
I heard aries guys like assertive independent woman..loud..different type..idk something that stands out./..However I also heard they like the really sweet type of lady, hopeless, someone that needs to be rescued..
So which one it is?
Strong or fragile??
and looks...
Sexy or girl next door?
picture this:
a caring, nurturing, wholesome girl-next-door mixed with a fiery, intelligent, strong sex kitten.
😛
they want both!click to expand
😆

Esp interesting topic for me because it may seem a little hypocritical in what they want and unless you have a bit of a multifaceted personality you may not be their type, ALTHOUGH having said that....
My Aries (who has Sicilian blood just fyi) IMO definately wants a woman that "needs" him. When we first met I had been single and independent for around 5 years-add to that my Scorpio tendencies and how I appear initially. Thank god he had the patience to stick around and see the real me. I'm not consistently as tough as I appear to be.
He also doesn't know EVERYTHING that goes on inside my head. I don't talk too much. It just how I am as a person. (Cap moon?)
They like a woman who is nurturing and caring but strong. I also think it is best if he is the one excelling when it comes to work. He comes across to me as being one who desires a typical traditional courtship. He will open doors, pull chairs out, offer a hand when getting out a car (or climbing a mountain) 😉 It definately helps if you are active and can join him in his pursuits.
He likes it when I am more colourful, think summery, than when I am classy all black with a bit of sexiness. I think they like to see FUN visually, not restricted or uptight.
I'd say they like/need praise more than any other ive experienced, but this comes natural when you appreciate someone they should know it-Aries needs to know they are appreciated. And no they don't do subtle hints that women typically try to pull off. Think straightforward upfront communication with these Rams.
I wouldn't worry about how/what you are, the real you will have to come through eventually and if thats enough for Mr Aries then you're in for a wonderful love story 🙂
My Aries (who has Sicilian blood just fyi) IMO definately wants a woman that "needs" him. When we first met I had been single and independent for around 5 years-add to that my Scorpio tendencies and how I appear initially. Thank god he had the patience to stick around and see the real me. I'm not consistently as tough as I appear to be.
He also doesn't know EVERYTHING that goes on inside my head. I don't talk too much. It just how I am as a person. (Cap moon?)
They like a woman who is nurturing and caring but strong. I also think it is best if he is the one excelling when it comes to work. He comes across to me as being one who desires a typical traditional courtship. He will open doors, pull chairs out, offer a hand when getting out a car (or climbing a mountain) 😉 It definately helps if you are active and can join him in his pursuits.
He likes it when I am more colourful, think summery, than when I am classy all black with a bit of sexiness. I think they like to see FUN visually, not restricted or uptight.
I'd say they like/need praise more than any other ive experienced, but this comes natural when you appreciate someone they should know it-Aries needs to know they are appreciated. And no they don't do subtle hints that women typically try to pull off. Think straightforward upfront communication with these Rams.
I wouldn't worry about how/what you are, the real you will have to come through eventually and if thats enough for Mr Aries then you're in for a wonderful love story 🙂
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