12th house moon and problems with women?

If you have a 12th house moon, have you noticed that you have problems with women in your life? Did you have a good relationship with your mother? Female authority figures?

I have a 12th house moon. My mother is a Gemini and was emotionally distant until I was about 11 years old. My grandmothers were both awesome and supportive. Ditto most of my female relatives. I was sent to parochial school run by nuns and women with deep religious beliefs and the regimentation almost killed me. Female school mates used to abuse me terribly both physically and emotionally.

The very first time I cast my chart online, it was at Psychic Science, and in interpreting my 12th house moon, they pretty much said women would be the cause of all of my sorrows in life and that I shouldn't trust them. This has proved both true and not true.

But I did wonder what the experience of other DXPers with 12th house moons has been regarding women.

I had issues with my mother, but no other females. The friends, coworkers, bosses, etc have all been pretty great.

My sister has this placement.

She had no issues with my mom, she doesn't trust anyone men or woman but I think it has to do more with her scorpio rising. But I'd say yes, outside my family, she has always been surrounded by woman who talk behind her back, critizicing her spreading gossip, and terrible rumors.

And as a pisces moon myself I could say that energy could apply to me too, but have not had remarkable problems with woman whatsoever. I trust most of the woman in my life.

As a 12th house moon, I have problems being a woman. Does that count?

Posted by Season
If you have a 12th house moon, have you noticed that you have problems with women in your life? Did you have a good relationship with your mother? Female authority figures?

I have a 12th house moon. My mother is a Gemini and was emotionally distant until I was about 11 years old. My grandmothers were both awesome and supportive. Ditto most of my female relatives. I was sent to parochial school run by nuns and women with deep religious beliefs and the regimentation almost killed me. Female school mates used to abuse me terribly both physically and emotionally.

The very first time I cast my chart online, it was at Psychic Science, and in interpreting my 12th house moon, they pretty much said women would be the cause of all of my sorrows in life and that I shouldn't trust them. This has proved both true and not true.

But I did wonder what the experience of other DXPers with 12th house moons has been regarding women.

12th house Mooner here.

Mother had a professional career, so she was absent a lot. The time we had together though was of quality. There were some things I didn't like but bcuz our time together was so limited, I didn't say anything.

I have had female friends backstab me, so yes I don't trust women too easily. Which in all honesty isn't fair to them, bcuz there are honest loyal women friends out there. I do have a couple of those friends, but I feel like I can't 100% trust anyone. It's very hard for me to delve in that deep with them, I would feel naked.

12th house moon and I like to think I'm a girls girl but I did have some difficulty with my gemini mom but I've come to acceptance and can appreciate her.

Posted by Season
If you have a 12th house moon, have you noticed that you have problems with women in your life? Did you have a good relationship with your mother? Female authority figures?

I have a 12th house moon. My mother is a Gemini and was emotionally distant until I was about 11 years old. My grandmothers were both awesome and supportive. Ditto most of my female relatives. I was sent to parochial school run by nuns and women with deep religious beliefs and the regimentation almost killed me. Female school mates used to abuse me terribly both physically and emotionally.

The very first time I cast my chart online, it was at Psychic Science, and in interpreting my 12th house moon, they pretty much said women would be the cause of all of my sorrows in life and that I shouldn't trust them. This has proved both true and not true.

But I did wonder what the experience of other DXPers with 12th house moons has been regarding women.

I'm also a 12th house mooner and I can relate with your upbringing. My mother and I had a strained but loving relationship til she passed when I was 18. I do have horrible grief issues surrounding this so issues with trying to find and yet keep at a distance mother figures came about. Plus I don't have children yet myself and I feel like I dont have enough close female support in my life and I desperately want that for a child. It takes a village right? Both of my grandmothers are passed and I wish I was closer to my mothers mother, again she died while I was getting to know her really. I have one aunt living on the other coast that I am even remotely close to but few close female friends, which is not for lack of wanting them but more about not connecting with most.

Me and my mother was close but she was a bad listener. I dont think she realize that she lean on me hard on a emotional level ..She had lean on me with her emotional issues when i was at a young age and now she come to me for advise and support still ..felt like I was her mother. I dealt with her emotional break downs alot in my life. You can talk to her about anything but she was so sensative that growing up I had to watch what I say so she wasn't hurt which she got hurt many times . I also proteCT her alot in my life. I train myself to deal with my own problem. One of my lessons in life is to make relationship that's not one way. Alot of times I am people venting board and I can't vent to others...most of the time it's my fault because I train to deal with my own issues. I also give off this vibe to people that I am ok or they don't care to listen ..end alot of friendship due to this.

On other women..I don't get along with.. .I met women I had friendship with but they do end. Some has last along time. But I think this have to do with the 12th house..it's about secrets...subconscious. moon is the mind really so these people are in there head. They are lose in there thoughts. I always felt like I am a head of time. I read up on psychic abilities in this placement. Unless a person has other strong placements that overrule moon being here then you are a loner ..feel out of place. You are quiet and dealing with the subconsciousness. They say this placement you should always mediate.

Posted by SomeSortOfMermaid
You're an Aries moon though like me, and that indicates problems with your mother mainly.

I can confirm that I have (had) issues with my biological mother, and I've spoken to other Aries moons about their experiences With their mothers and they confirmed similar experiences.

Thank you. Perhaps it's the combination of an Aries moon in a split 12th house that does this. My relationships with women are fine now. But negative past experiences with women keep me distrustful. I watch out for myself and maybe don't let people get close enough for them to do damage??

Posted by Andalusia
As a 12th house moon, I have problems being a woman. Does that count?

Maybe. It does. Thanks for adding a new dimension to the topic. I wouldn't have thought of that. When I was young, I always played boyish games with the boys in my neighborhood. It seemed more fun than being a girl until adolescence kicked in.

Posted by Greentea

Posted by Season
If you have a 12th house moon, have you noticed that you have problems with women in your life? Did you have a good relationship with your mother? Female authority figures?

I have a 12th house moon. My mother is a Gemini and was emotionally distant until I was about 11 years old. My grandmothers were both awesome and supportive. Ditto most of my female relatives. I was sent to parochial school run by nuns and women with deep religious beliefs and the regimentation almost killed me. Female school mates used to abuse me terribly both physically and emotionally.

The very first time I cast my chart online, it was at Psychic Science, and in interpreting my 12th house moon, they pretty much said women would be the cause of all of my sorrows in life and that I shouldn't trust them. This has proved both true and not true.

But I did wonder what the experience of other DXPers with 12th house moons has been regarding women.

12th house Mooner here.

Mother had a professional career, so she was absent a lot. The time we had together though was of quality. There were some things I didn't like but bcuz our time together was so limited, I didn't say anything.

I have had female friends backstab me, so yes I don't trust women too easily. Which in all honesty isn't fair to them, bcuz there are honest loyal women friends out there. I do have a couple of those friends, but I feel like I can't 100% trust anyone. It's very hard for me to delve in that deep with them, I would feel naked.

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I relate to you totally. The inability to deeply trust is a real problem but when you've been burned a lot in life, you learn to protect yourself.