Can A Alpha Wiman Truley be happy with a Beta Male?
Alpha woman
Posted by bumboklatt
I thought alpha women never commited?
I think the moment they settle they stop being alpha
Settling and committing are two different things. You can comit without settling
Posted by bumboklattAs long as they are in control aren't they always Alphas? Lol when they loose control they become betas.
I thought alpha women never commited?
I think the moment they settle they stop being alpha
I think it'll make her happy for awhile; until she gets tired of feeling like she is the only one contributing to the relationship. And the beta is only a weight holding her down and she cuts ties and bolts.
Of course
In my opinion, Beta males aren't as fragile and insecure, and so they let Alpha females run things.
In my opinion, Beta males aren't as fragile and insecure, and so they let Alpha females run things.
I'm an alpha woman that desires to be submissive. I dated beta man and it's exhausting. I love knowing a man can lead me. I only met one guy that made me feel like I can be completely submissive. From now on I would only deal with Alpha men 🙂
Posted by LovelyCurvesBeing alpha isn't about that. It's about having charge of your own life, being able to come through, and having the self motivation and respect to be able to be alone. Being with someone doesn't make you beta, being dependent on someone, or needing a relationship or other person to feel fulfilled within the self is when you lose your alpha.You become a follower rather than a leader.Posted by bumboklattAs long as they are in control aren't they always Alphas? Lol when they loose control they become betas.
I thought alpha women never commited?
I think the moment they settle they stop being alphaclick to expand
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeI am all that, but that doesn't make me any alpha either. The average guy is like that anyway at one point in his life. Nobody has a real definition of what an alpha is. Pick Up Artists have just picked this term because it sounds good for the products they sell to men (and women). I can't remember anybody using and talking about the term "alpha male/female" up until Pick Up became relevant.Posted by LovelyCurvesBeing alpha isn't about that. It's about having charge of your own life, being able to come through, and having the self motivation and respect to be able to be alone.Posted by bumboklattAs long as they are in control aren't they always Alphas? Lol when they loose control they become betas.
I thought alpha women never commited?
I think the moment they settle they stop being alphaclick to expand
I hardly believe in alpha males, let alone alpha females. A man can make money, be successful and enjoy his life, but what's alpha about that? What if this guy gets his ass kicked infront of his girlfriend just once? She will never ever see an alpha male in him again, no matter what he will achieve. So in my oppinion being alpha is mostly also a physical component (unless you are a powerful mobster, that's different).
In the animal kingdom the alpha lion leads his pack, he eats first, he gets all the female lionesses and he is also basically a bully and that's how it works for him. But it doesn't work with humans at all. A natural leader can be a strong willed guy and commanding but chances are he is just that, he is not too social and probably an outsider in his private life cause people might avoid him if he doesn't have any other likable traits.
Which brings me to the next point: people still think James Bond is for real but you will hardly find a guy who is a leader, mentally and physically strong, charming, a womanizer, successful, chill and all those things at the very same time, it's impossible. With that being said, chances are most men and women are betas, men are just less submissive.
Posted by TaniwhaThis.
No, Only a Beta Female would be stupid enough to date a Beta Male. The Alpha won't find the Beta atractive, ever. It's a rule of nature and your new age liberal bull shit can't convince biology to change its ways.
Alpha Males attract both, But it take's a man who's truly in charge of his shit to pick out the Alpha female to mother his kids.
The last part made me crack haha totally agree mate !
Posted by oxygenthiefOmg yessss,I Feel you & yes I am a Alpha Sag ??
I'm an alpha woman that desires to be submissive. I dated beta man and it's exhausting. I love knowing a man can lead me. I only met one guy that made me feel like I can be completely submissive. From now on I would only deal with Alpha men 🙂
Posted by LillyPetal
Of course
In my opinion, Beta males aren't as fragile and insecure, and so they let Alpha females run things.
i see, very very truthfully lots of alpha women (aggressive assertive go getters) are with beta males in real life.
just the other day, my mother in law was talking about one of her nieces, a go getter, athletic, and superwoman...
and she made it sound like she does everything. And we, (my man and i) reminded her... what about her husband?? 😕
it's like she forgot about him.
lol
she LOLs (bless her she's so sweet) but capricorn sees the ambitious, but forgiving if the man is sweet homebody natured.
and she says, "He is always in her SHADOW"
omg.
but they love eachother lots. this way there's no competition. lol
true fucking story.
edit -- oh i forgot too. lol she said, he takes care of the household and children. lol
the alpha women on this site dont like that. they seem to hate the beta men and think they are weak ass.
Posted by Taniwha
No, Only a Beta Female would be stupid enough to date a Beta Male. The Alpha won't find the Beta atractive, ever. It's a rule of nature and your new age liberal bull shit can't convince biology to change its ways.
Alpha Males attract both, But it take's a man who's truly in charge of his shit to pick out the Alpha female to mother his kids.
i'm a beta female.
and my man is beta then.
beta male
An unremarkable, careful man who avoids risk and confrontation. Beta males lack the physical presence, charisma and confidence of the Alpha male.
Pete knew he was losing the girl he'd just met at the bar to the guy who bought her a drink, but he was too much of a beta male to do anythigng about it.
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=beta% 20male
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http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Beta% 20Female
Beta Female
The Beta Female is the Alpha Female's right hand woman. A beta will be one of the Apha's closest friendsand one of her most trusted confidants. She knows the Alpha very well perhaps even since childhood. The Beta female will be called upon to voice her opions and her evaluations will most times be valued by the Alpha Female. She also knows when to keep silent and when to talk. She is second in command. A Beta Female will be someone who thinks similarly to the Alpha Female and is unfailingly loyal to her and vice versa. Unfriendly Beta females may be intimadated by the unknown Alpha Female and will either be befriended or create an enemy according to her attitude. A Beta is never an Alpha wannabe, she is comfortable with who she is.
It gets lonely being at the top,
lol the definitions don't really correlate to me fully.
but some do and some don't.
and my man is a go-getter. lol so he's a mix of beta/alpha.
I think the problem with the alpha and beta concept is it can become too machismo and juvenile. You have to learn to pick your battles or you can waste all your time proving to unimportant people that you are "alpha" rather than just going forth and being successful. I see too often that alpha simply as being unsuccessful but just having attitude and the desire to brag about nothing. It just seems that we are praising treating people poorly.
Posted by LillyPetalthat's what i see in real life all the time.
Of course
In my opinion, Beta males aren't as fragile and insecure, and so they let Alpha females run things.
the way i see it,
is,the defintion of alpha is a risk taker.
the beta is afraid of risks. very simple. black and white.
but people are more than that, since i think we have some defintions of both if you look closely..
Posted by exoYou won't find a woman like that.Posted by Capzimo?Posted by exowhat is an alpha female gimme an example
nope.
- has grace, confidence, influence, personal strength and power
- feels no need to compete or bs
- can be a mother, lover, leader, supporter, whatever
- doesn't need you, but wants you
- makes her own money, career-minded, and stable
- respects men and women equally
- always inspires
- always gets shit doneclick to expand
Being confident and having power and influence contradicts not feeling the need to compete. And being a leader, mother, supporter, careerist and stable at the same time while doing all the other stuff that you mentioned before that's impossible. That's why the most successful men are usually not the best daddies and husbands because they are barely around and that's why they forget a birthday or an anniversary. So a career driven mother won't be any different.
Posted by tizianiThanksPosted by TheSagPosted by AprilFoolsUHoeI am all that, but that doesn't make me any alpha either. The average guy is like that anyway at one point in his life. Nobody has a real definition of what an alpha is. Pick Up Artists have just picked this term because it sounds good for the products they sell to men (and women). I can't remember anybody using and talking about the term "alpha male/female" up until Pick Up became relevant.Posted by LovelyCurvesBeing alpha isn't about that. It's about having charge of your own life, being able to come through, and having the self motivation and respect to be able to be alone.Posted by bumboklattAs long as they are in control aren't they always Alphas? Lol when they loose control they become betas.
I thought alpha women never commited?
I think the moment they settle they stop being alpha
I hardly believe in alpha males, let alone alpha females. A man can make money, be successful and enjoy his life, but what's alpha about that? What if this guy gets his ass kicked infront of his girlfriend just once? She will never ever see an alpha male in him again, no matter what he will achieve. So in my oppinion being alpha is mostly also a physical component (unless you are a powerful mobster, that's different).
In the animal kingdom the alpha lion leads his pack, he eats first, he gets all the female lionesses and he is also basically a bully and that's how it works for him. But it doesn't work with humans at all. A natural leader can be a strong willed guy and commanding but chances are he is just that, he is not too social and probably an outsider in his private life cause people might avoid him if he doesn't have any other likable traits.
Which brings me to the next point: people still think James Bond is for real but you will hardly find a guy who is a leader, mentally and physically strong, charming, a womanizer, successful, chill and all those things at the very same time, it's impossible. With that being said, chances are most men and women are betas, men are just less submissive.
Everything you write lately is like twin flame status to me. I agree with all of it.
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I think now I can retire for good. Good bye DXP. 🙂
Posted by exoMaybe. My thinking is like if a woman has confidence, influence and power she usually gained them by battling the competition, especially when she has a career.Posted by TheSagdepends on the woman i guess.Posted by exoYou won't find a woman like that.Posted by Capzimo?Posted by exowhat is an alpha female gimme an example
nope.
- has grace, confidence, influence, personal strength and power
- feels no need to compete or bs
- can be a mother, lover, leader, supporter, whatever
- doesn't need you, but wants you
- makes her own money, career-minded, and stable
- respects men and women equally
- always inspires
- always gets shit done
Being confident and having power and influence contradicts not feeling the need to compete. And being a leader, mother, supporter, careerist and stable at the same time while doing all the other stuff that you mentioned before that's impossible. That's why the most successful men are usually not the best daddies and husbands because they are barely around and that's why they forget a birthday or an anniversary. So a career driven mother won't be any different.
confidence, influence, and power does not necessarily involve competitiveness as well. say she can kill her ego and humble herself, be self-aware and not concerned about what others are doing in comparison? and surely some women can efficiently juggle home and career life. this is how i aspire to be anyway.
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Negative. I need a man to be stronger than me, in some kind of way. Keep my ass in check lol!
Yes... my sister is the bread winner entrepreneur and her husband is the stay at home dad. They've been going strong for almost 10 years. Couldn't be happier.
Nope. Not in my case
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeLeo female, PISCES MALEPosted by SPUNKYTAURUSSigns
Yes... my sister is the bread winner entrepreneur and her husband is the stay at home dad. They've been going strong for almost 10 years. Couldn't be happier.click to expand
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI second your comment lolPosted by SPUNKYTAURUSEwww gross lol pisces men ...noPosted by CaramelizedCoffeeLeo female, PISCES MALEPosted by SPUNKYTAURUSSigns
Yes... my sister is the bread winner entrepreneur and her husband is the stay at home dad. They've been going strong for almost 10 years. Couldn't be happier.
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Posted by TheSaghttps://www.forbes.com/2006/08/23/Marriage-Careers-Divorce_cx_mn_land.htmlPosted by exoMaybe. My thinking is like if a woman has confidence, influence and power she usually gained them by battling the competition, especially when she has a career.Posted by TheSagdepends on the woman i guess.Posted by exoYou won't find a woman like that.Posted by Capzimo?Posted by exowhat is an alpha female gimme an example
nope.
- has grace, confidence, influence, personal strength and power
- feels no need to compete or bs
- can be a mother, lover, leader, supporter, whatever
- doesn't need you, but wants you
- makes her own money, career-minded, and stable
- respects men and women equally
- always inspires
- always gets shit done
Being confident and having power and influence contradicts not feeling the need to compete. And being a leader, mother, supporter, careerist and stable at the same time while doing all the other stuff that you mentioned before that's impossible. That's why the most successful men are usually not the best daddies and husbands because they are barely around and that's why they forget a birthday or an anniversary. So a career driven mother won't be any different.
confidence, influence, and power does not necessarily involve competitiveness as well. say she can kill her ego and humble herself, be self-aware and not concerned about what others are doing in comparison? and surely some women can efficiently juggle home and career life. this is how i aspire to be anyway.
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on the right, a middle age woman talks about how men and women can be two income, but she doesn't talk about children or having a family. Just two income and she's a cougar.
so she says, to the men, just don't be lazy!! just pick up a good hobby and be passionate about it.
and also, they can hire a maid and cook for the home. lol
edit - career women, on both sides, (from the male perspective and the female) is a woman who makes more than 30k a year. that's full time. lol i know some people are gonna say 30k isn't enough but that's just being fair for a common couple.
it can be done, i see it with my sisters and their men, and also aunts, uncles and some cousins. all the time.
Posted by exoYou can do it exo. I did... and know other woman who have as well. And, I agree with you.Posted by TheSagdepends on the woman i guess.Posted by exoYou won't find a woman like that.Posted by Capzimo?Posted by exowhat is an alpha female gimme an example
nope.
- has grace, confidence, influence, personal strength and power
- feels no need to compete or bs
- can be a mother, lover, leader, supporter, whatever
- doesn't need you, but wants you
- makes her own money, career-minded, and stable
- respects men and women equally
- always inspires
- always gets shit done
Being confident and having power and influence contradicts not feeling the need to compete. And being a leader, mother, supporter, careerist and stable at the same time while doing all the other stuff that you mentioned before that's impossible. That's why the most successful men are usually not the best daddies and husbands because they are barely around and that's why they forget a birthday or an anniversary. So a career driven mother won't be any different.
confidence, influence, and power does not necessarily involve competitiveness as well. say she can kill her ego and humble herself, be self-aware and not concerned about what others are doing in comparison? and surely some women can efficiently juggle home and career life. this is how i aspire to be anyway.
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I actually thought this the norm.
Posted by bumboklattNot when she is saying: well, we are having wedding first Saturday in October. Place xxx. I had ordered rings - pick up next week and I don't want to see none of your relatives at the wedding! I hope it's understood. Now rub my feet and if you fall asleep - I won't let you suck my toes tomorrow! Get busy now. ?
I thought alpha women never commited?
I think the moment they settle they stop being alpha
Posted by GlaringTruthHa! Hahaha! HA! and one more HA!
No such thing as an alpha woman.
I bet you will have one! So learn how to cook and clean. Asap!
In an actual relationship, it should be teamwork. I'm at a point to where I don't want to have to tell someone what's up. Either handle business or I'm out
ehhhhh this thread has a ton of grey areas... there are a lot more sub categories other than alpha and beta.... what about a lone wolf?? I think a lone wolf over powers all these categories because it does what it wants. it dates alpha's , betas, omegas whatever...it can fit any mold. and goes by it's mood. Im a lone wolf... and my best dynamics are with alpha females... but i like a good sub from time to time. But with a strong personality. All in all, its all RELATIVE.
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