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I notice 90% of the people around me in rl find them confusing and have no clue, thus there must be something off about the vibes they're naturally sending off as well. On one end they want to mingle with you, on the other they're very proud individual who don't want to compromise and merge, afraid of losing their identity.

They basically end up filtering out people without even knowing.


Go Palerio!! Spot on! You must be surrounded by Aquas to know what they are doing. That's the story of my life. I try to show interest but it highly conflicts with my pride to show clearly that I'm interested. Even the slightest inkling of what I perceive as rudeness or mistake from man of interest sends me running for the hills. I'm afraid to fall. My biggest fear...and I do hot and cold to protect myself from being hurt. It's a defense mechanism.

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Again, lots of aqua females are lesbians.
no they're not. they're the same amount of bi/lesbians you'll find in other zodiac signs, if you google and research, plenty are all 12 sun signs.

everyone always thinks of Ellen DeGeneres but she's a top celeb that 's out in the open.

http://lesbianlife.about.com/od/famouslesbians/tp/FamousLesbians.htm

the list here also includes Drew Barrymore, Pisces sun, Meredith Baxter, Cancer sun,

some Virgo suns, Taurus suns, and other sun signs.

also I notice some fire suns too.

and all you ever say and talk about aquarius women, SirB are always negative and mean. But if you talk about your Sun sign women, they are all angels and loving aren't they?

it's really unfair how you treat all the other women of the zodiac. and you only see sweet and kind in some sun signs. How very Unfair is that of you?
yep Aquas are way more open

they would definitely not hide their sexuality

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I see that a lot with Angelina Jolie, 11th house Sun!!!!

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Okay, give us her chart placements. You have four kinds of Aquas:

1) airy

2) watery

3) earthy

4) fiery/feisty...LOL

Now, no matter what kind of Aqua they are, know that they are all fiercely loyal so to get such loyal creature, it won't be a walk in the park. You get what you invest. If you don't want to make the effort, go for some easy chick that doesn't require effort to be made. Aqua is as guarded romantically as a Cancer, if not more.
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Hi Lisa!

This is eye opening! I am a pretty assertive fellow... the go-getter sort. I'd like to think I lead quite well. However, with aqualady, may have tuned my assertiveness down to a huge degree cuz i didnt want her to feel controlled or stifled. Maybe my fault lies in my relaxed style with her that made her feel unsure of my willingness to commit?

Her rising is gemini

How can i let her chase me.... please.

Thanks Lisa!
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Posted by jw_pritchard
Ok... now here are our planets vs signs. Hope it helps. Thanks all!

Planets: aqualady / me

Sun: aqua / scorp

moon: libra / sagg

mercury: aqua / libra

venus: capricorn / virgo

mars: pisces / cancer

jupiter: pisces / aries

Saturn: aries / leo

uranus: aqua / scorpio

neptune: aqua / sagg

pluto: sagg / libra

ascendant: gemini / pisces
Sorry to tell you mate but you don't match with her at all. In the long run you both never going to be happy together. You need someone who is passionate, romantic and submissive. But there is hope if you are ready to accept her as she is because she is not going to change for you, ever. Her chart looks like she can be a free spirited urban hippy hehe.
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Okay, give us her chart placements. You have four kinds of Aquas:

1) airy

2) watery

3) earthy

4) fiery/feisty...LOL

Now, no matter what kind of Aqua they are, know that they are all fiercely loyal so to get such loyal creature, it won't be a walk in the park. You get what you invest. If you don't want to make the effort, go for some easy chick that doesn't require effort to be made. Aqua is as guarded romantically as a Cancer, if not more.
love the outlining of different aquas, mine was firey/fiesty loved her inner fireness. She had a sag moon and leo rising lol
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Okay, give us her chart placements. You have four kinds of Aquas:

1) airy

2) watery

3) earthy

4) fiery/feisty...LOL

Now, no matter what kind of Aqua they are, know that they are all fiercely loyal so to get such loyal creature, it won't be a walk in the park. You get what you invest. If you don't want to make the effort, go for some easy chick that doesn't require effort to be made. Aqua is as guarded romantically as a Cancer, if not more.
love the outlining of different aquas, mine was firey/fiesty loved her inner fireness. She had a sag moon and leo rising lol
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lol that sag/leo combo is/was good for your aqua moon.
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Ok... now here are our planets vs signs. Hope it helps. Thanks all!

Planets: aqualady / me

Sun: aqua / scorp

moon: libra / sagg

mercury: aqua / libra

venus: capricorn / virgo

mars: pisces / cancer

jupiter: pisces / aries

Saturn: aries / leo

uranus: aqua / scorpio

neptune: aqua / sagg

pluto: sagg / libra

ascendant: gemini / pisces
Sorry to tell you mate but you don't match with her at all. In the long run you both never going to be happy together. You need someone who is passionate, romantic and submissive. But there is hope if you are ready to accept her as she is because she is not going to change for you, ever. Her chart looks like she can be a free spirited urban hippy hehe.
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her chart with Libra moon/ Cap venus aqua sun, veers more the Elizabeth Banks, (but Elizabeth banks has Taurus mars virgo rising)

and Banks married a stellium Taurus. she likes predictability and boringness, same ole', same ole.

the pisces mars is the type of man she's attracted to,

think of Marilyn Monroe who has pisces mars, or Sarah Michelle Gellar.

or even Emily Blunt. Pisces sun/Aries venus/Pisces mars.



guess who they married!?? Michelle Gellar Married Pisces sun/Gemini moon/Gemini mars/Aquaruis venus man. Freddie Prince Jr. (he has a lot of air, but she has a lot of fire and water)



and Marilyn Monroe married an Aquarius moon/Libra moon man, Arthur Miller, he is sensitive for sure,and passive type.

a writer and she LIKES that a lot. it gives her chart some peace.



and Emily blunt married Double Libra/Scorpio venus/Leo Mars John Krasinski. do you see the pattern of these guys?



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Hi Lisa!

This is eye opening! I am a pretty assertive fellow... the go-getter sort. I'd like to think I lead quite well. However, with aqualady, may have tuned my assertiveness down to a huge degree cuz i didnt want her to feel controlled or stifled. Maybe my fault lies in my relaxed style with her that made her feel unsure of my willingness to commit?

Her rising is gemini

How can i let her chase me.... please.

Thanks Lisa!
😕



i'm sorry but I don't think her chart is the type that is the chaser.

you're gonna have to ask the Libra moon peeps. especially the women.

I think there are Libra moon ladies in this forum.

I explained the pisces mars thing in another topic.



Carolyn Mayberry talks about HER libra moon. Think, of Elizabeth banks, Amber Heard, ect. they are very, if you notice very very happy pappy.....so sweet and kind!! and always smiling and peaceful and craves peaceful home.





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I really think she's a very happy person, it seems. BUOYANT I would describe the word.



and a lot of commenters on youtube say that their libra moon is super super SAD and DEPRESSED when they are not in a relationship.....

they are happier in a relationship.....so she probably does want you to chase her. Hm something to chew on.


I agree, my Scorpio has a libra moon and he seems a lot happier being with me than not. Always saying he feels alone and of course he still does, it's his stinger nature but I can tell his personality is more vibrant. Friends are also starting to notice, it's cute because it means he feels loved. 🙂

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aw that's so sweet. He's happier In a relationship, that's good.



that must mean you give him happiness since you are the source of his happiness. 🙂



aside, that also makes me think of Leonardo Di Caprio for some reason....he's not been happy with any of the relatoisnhips he's been in, which is why he is not with those supermodels.

but the one he finds one day that will make him happy, he will stick with for good. he needs to feel buoyant in his personal life.
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I really think she's a very happy person, it seems. BUOYANT I would describe the word.



and a lot of commenters on youtube say that their libra moon is super super SAD and DEPRESSED when they are not in a relationship.....

they are happier in a relationship.....so she probably does want you to chase her. Hm something to chew on.


I agree, my Scorpio has a libra moon and he seems a lot happier being with me than not. Always saying he feels alone and of course he still does, it's his stinger nature but I can tell his personality is more vibrant. Friends are also starting to notice, it's cute because it means he feels loved. 🙂



aw that's so sweet. He's happier In a relationship, that's good.



that must mean you give him happiness since you are the source of his happiness. 🙂



aside, that also makes me think of Leonardo Di Caprio for some reason....he's not been happy with any of the relatoisnhips he's been in, which is why he is not with those supermodels.

but the one he finds one day that will make him happy, he will stick with for good. he needs to feel buoyant in his personal life.


Yeah he's making better decisions, not self destructive at all which is usually what he does when he's too deep in negative feelings. I can tell he's in love because he's always doing something sweet to put a smile on my face, very charming loving lol 😄

Leonardo may do good with an air woman who has plenty of water in her chart. Scorpio and I mix well because of it. He has airy placements and I have water, so we balance each other out.

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I have a feeling you are right.

*nods*

so far all he's dated are water suns who are libra dominand and he wasn't happy with them for some reason,

at least Giselle Budchen who is an ex, is happily married to a leo sun who is Libra dominant. (lots of gemini too -- she likes airy men) with cancer venus. she needed a fire man with lots of air and a bit of water. lol Leonardo was not it.
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Okay, give us her chart placements. You have four kinds of Aquas:

1) airy

2) watery

3) earthy

4) fiery/feisty...LOL

Now, no matter what kind of Aqua they are, know that they are all fiercely loyal so to get such loyal creature, it won't be a walk in the park. You get what you invest. If you don't want to make the effort, go for some easy chick that doesn't require effort to be made. Aqua is as guarded romantically as a Cancer, if not more.
love the outlining of different aquas, mine was firey/fiesty loved her inner fireness. She had a sag moon and leo rising lol
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I knew it! You picked a fiery one and couldn't handle it and then went on to condemn every type of aqua woman to the OP. Every type of aqua has their share of issues, but the impulsive and rash will be found in the emotional ones like the water and fire Aquas. Similarly, air Aquas are prone to hot and cold behaviour. Earthy ones are anal retentive.

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Okay, give us her chart placements. You have four kinds of Aquas:

1) airy

2) watery

3) earthy

4) fiery/feisty...LOL

Now, no matter what kind of Aqua they are, know that they are all fiercely loyal so to get such loyal creature, it won't be a walk in the park. You get what you invest. If you don't want to make the effort, go for some easy chick that doesn't require effort to be made. Aqua is as guarded romantically as a Cancer, if not more.
love the outlining of different aquas, mine was firey/fiesty loved her inner fireness. She had a sag moon and leo rising lol
I knew it! You picked a fiery one and couldn't handle it and then went on to condemn every type of aqua woman to the OP. Every type of aqua has their share of issues, but the impulsive and rash will be found in the emotional ones like the water and fire Aquas. Similarly, air Aquas are prone to hot and cold behaviour. Earthy ones are anal retentive.

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yes I notice that with every sun sign that is air dominant.....I guess that's where the hot cold comes from. O_O
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Okay, give us her chart placements. You have four kinds of Aquas:

1) airy

2) watery

3) earthy

4) fiery/feisty...LOL

Now, no matter what kind of Aqua they are, know that they are all fiercely loyal so to get such loyal creature, it won't be a walk in the park. You get what you invest. If you don't want to make the effort, go for some easy chick that doesn't require effort to be made. Aqua is as guarded romantically as a Cancer, if not more.
love the outlining of different aquas, mine was firey/fiesty loved her inner fireness. She had a sag moon and leo rising lol
I knew it! You picked a fiery one and couldn't handle it and then went on to condemn every type of aqua woman to the OP. Every type of aqua has their share of issues, but the impulsive and rash will be found in the emotional ones like the water and fire Aquas. Similarly, air Aquas are prone to hot and cold behaviour. Earthy ones are anal retentive.



yes I notice that with every sun sign that is air dominant.....I guess that's where the hot cold comes from. O_O

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It's a hard life being an air dominant. LOL. Our Aquarius or air placement makes us detached or want detachment 🥶 but our humanly tendency that need warmth and companionship surfaces time to time (hot). It's the struggle of being human with our born aloof nature.

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Okay, give us her chart placements. You have four kinds of Aquas:

1) airy

2) watery

3) earthy

4) fiery/feisty...LOL

Now, no matter what kind of Aqua they are, know that they are all fiercely loyal so to get such loyal creature, it won't be a walk in the park. You get what you invest. If you don't want to make the effort, go for some easy chick that doesn't require effort to be made. Aqua is as guarded romantically as a Cancer, if not more.
love the outlining of different aquas, mine was firey/fiesty loved her inner fireness. She had a sag moon and leo rising lol
I knew it! You picked a fiery one and couldn't handle it and then went on to condemn every type of aqua woman to the OP. Every type of aqua has their share of issues, but the impulsive and rash will be found in the emotional ones like the water and fire Aquas. Similarly, air Aquas are prone to hot and cold behaviour. Earthy ones are anal retentive.

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lmaoo no my woman had other issues with her life. Its not the handling part (i actually handled quite well with her bipolar manic mood swings) what broke everything was the constant arguments and miscommunication between us, at the end i was exhausted.. I have dated 3 aquas before, you guys are bipolar and weird. But i still do have love for aquas because most of my friends are aquas. If you didnt read the op carefully, he was being mistreated by an aqua, so her selfish aqua behavior needs to be left alone

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Okay, give us her chart placements. You have four kinds of Aquas:

1) airy

2) watery

3) earthy

4) fiery/feisty...LOL

Now, no matter what kind of Aqua they are, know that they are all fiercely loyal so to get such loyal creature, it won't be a walk in the park. You get what you invest. If you don't want to make the effort, go for some easy chick that doesn't require effort to be made. Aqua is as guarded romantically as a Cancer, if not more.
love the outlining of different aquas, mine was firey/fiesty loved her inner fireness. She had a sag moon and leo rising lol
I knew it! You picked a fiery one and couldn't handle it and then went on to condemn every type of aqua woman to the OP. Every type of aqua has their share of issues, but the impulsive and rash will be found in the emotional ones like the water and fire Aquas. Similarly, air Aquas are prone to hot and cold behaviour. Earthy ones are anal retentive.

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Why do people always blame other energy when someone is fucked up? I see it all the time with the excuses, oh he or she must have had fire or water or earth or oil or whatever ever. I know a fully air aqua who is fucked up and a user. What's the excuse there?
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Okay, give us her chart placements. You have four kinds of Aquas:

1) airy

2) watery

3) earthy

4) fiery/feisty...LOL

Now, no matter what kind of Aqua they are, know that they are all fiercely loyal so to get such loyal creature, it won't be a walk in the park. You get what you invest. If you don't want to make the effort, go for some easy chick that doesn't require effort to be made. Aqua is as guarded romantically as a Cancer, if not more.
love the outlining of different aquas, mine was firey/fiesty loved her inner fireness. She had a sag moon and leo rising lol
I knew it! You picked a fiery one and couldn't handle it and then went on to condemn every type of aqua woman to the OP. Every type of aqua has their share of issues, but the impulsive and rash will be found in the emotional ones like the water and fire Aquas. Similarly, air Aquas are prone to hot and cold behaviour. Earthy ones are anal retentive.




Why do people always blame other energy when someone is fucked up? I see it all the time with the excuses, oh he or she must have had fire or water or earth or oil or whatever ever. I know a fully air aqua who is fucked up and a user. What's the excuse there?


Hey! what happened with that aqua??

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Hey girl! Absolutely nothing. I'm with a gem now.
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Okay, give us her chart placements. You have four kinds of Aquas:

1) airy

2) watery

3) earthy

4) fiery/feisty...LOL

Now, no matter what kind of Aqua they are, know that they are all fiercely loyal so to get such loyal creature, it won't be a walk in the park. You get what you invest. If you don't want to make the effort, go for some easy chick that doesn't require effort to be made. Aqua is as guarded romantically as a Cancer, if not more.
love the outlining of different aquas, mine was firey/fiesty loved her inner fireness. She had a sag moon and leo rising lol
I knew it! You picked a fiery one and couldn't handle it and then went on to condemn every type of aqua woman to the OP. Every type of aqua has their share of issues, but the impulsive and rash will be found in the emotional ones like the water and fire Aquas. Similarly, air Aquas are prone to hot and cold behaviour. Earthy ones are anal retentive.




Why do people always blame other energy when someone is fucked up? I see it all the time with the excuses, oh he or she must have had fire or water or earth or oil or whatever ever. I know a fully air aqua who is fucked up and a user. What's the excuse there?

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Why do people always have to take things personally as if someone directly attacked them? I never said air dominant doesn't have problems. Learn to read. Thanks.

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Okay, give us her chart placements. You have four kinds of Aquas:

1) airy

2) watery

3) earthy

4) fiery/feisty...LOL

Now, no matter what kind of Aqua they are, know that they are all fiercely loyal so to get such loyal creature, it won't be a walk in the park. You get what you invest. If you don't want to make the effort, go for some easy chick that doesn't require effort to be made. Aqua is as guarded romantically as a Cancer, if not more.
love the outlining of different aquas, mine was firey/fiesty loved her inner fireness. She had a sag moon and leo rising lol
I knew it! You picked a fiery one and couldn't handle it and then went on to condemn every type of aqua woman to the OP. Every type of aqua has their share of issues, but the impulsive and rash will be found in the emotional ones like the water and fire Aquas. Similarly, air Aquas are prone to hot and cold behaviour. Earthy ones are anal retentive.




Why do people always blame other energy when someone is fucked up? I see it all the time with the excuses, oh he or she must have had fire or water or earth or oil or whatever ever. I know a fully air aqua who is fucked up and a user. What's the excuse there?



Why do people always have to take things personally as if someone directly attacked them? I never said air dominant doesn't have problems. Learn to read. Thanks.

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i did read duh that's how I arrived at my statement above. And I'm asking a legit question, I see it all the time. and since your here doing it im asking y. If you can't answer that then just say so, cuz u know good and well I can read and comprehend. And I saw through your bullshit. Don't be mad.



you're the one taking it personal hence the excuses above and the blaming of "other" energy. The very thing I'm questioning, the irony. Lol



If you didn't take it personal their would be no need to explain or defend and project and deflect. This thread is about Aquas being worth it and you here blaming water and fire. That's weird. Learn to own ya shit instead of using others as scapegoats.
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Okay, give us her chart placements. You have four kinds of Aquas:

1) airy

2) watery

3) earthy

4) fiery/feisty...LOL

Now, no matter what kind of Aqua they are, know that they are all fiercely loyal so to get such loyal creature, it won't be a walk in the park. You get what you invest. If you don't want to make the effort, go for some easy chick that doesn't require effort to be made. Aqua is as guarded romantically as a Cancer, if not more.
love the outlining of different aquas, mine was firey/fiesty loved her inner fireness. She had a sag moon and leo rising lol
I knew it! You picked a fiery one and couldn't handle it and then went on to condemn every type of aqua woman to the OP. Every type of aqua has their share of issues, but the impulsive and rash will be found in the emotional ones like the water and fire Aquas. Similarly, air Aquas are prone to hot and cold behaviour. Earthy ones are anal retentive.




Why do people always blame other energy when someone is fucked up? I see it all the time with the excuses, oh he or she must have had fire or water or earth or oil or whatever ever. I know a fully air aqua who is fucked up and a user. What's the excuse there?


Hey! what happened with that aqua??


Hey girl! Absolutely nothing. I'm with a gem now.


Good to hear! I'm still walking that aries tightrope. It's been years now 🙂 My libra moon loves being in a relationship hehe.

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Aww good for you guys! I've always wanted something long term, no matter what people say I think Aries loves the stability of a relationship.
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Ok... now here are our planets vs signs. Hope it helps. Thanks all!

Planets: aqualady / me

Sun: aqua / scorp

moon: libra / sagg

mercury: aqua / libra

venus: capricorn / virgo

mars: pisces / cancer

jupiter: pisces / aries

Saturn: aries / leo

uranus: aqua / scorpio

neptune: aqua / sagg

pluto: sagg / libra

ascendant: gemini / pisces

You're a Libra Pluto and she's a Sag Pluto... Dude wtf that's at least 18 years different. How old are you both..... SHE'S A MINOR ISN'T SHE.
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Okay, give us her chart placements. You have four kinds of Aquas:

1) airy

2) watery

3) earthy

4) fiery/feisty...LOL

Now, no matter what kind of Aqua they are, know that they are all fiercely loyal so to get such loyal creature, it won't be a walk in the park. You get what you invest. If you don't want to make the effort, go for some easy chick that doesn't require effort to be made. Aqua is as guarded romantically as a Cancer, if not more.
love the outlining of different aquas, mine was firey/fiesty loved her inner fireness. She had a sag moon and leo rising lol
I knew it! You picked a fiery one and couldn't handle it and then went on to condemn every type of aqua woman to the OP. Every type of aqua has their share of issues, but the impulsive and rash will be found in the emotional ones like the water and fire Aquas. Similarly, air Aquas are prone to hot and cold behaviour. Earthy ones are anal retentive.




Why do people always blame other energy when someone is fucked up? I see it all the time with the excuses, oh he or she must have had fire or water or earth or oil or whatever ever. I know a fully air aqua who is fucked up and a user. What's the excuse there?



Why do people always have to take things personally as if someone directly attacked them? I never said air dominant doesn't have problems. Learn to read. Thanks.


i did read duh that's how I arrived at my statement above. And I'm asking a legit question, I see it all the time. and since your here doing it im asking y. If you can't answer that then just say so, cuz u know good and well I can read and comprehend. And I saw through your bullshit. Don't be mad.



you're the one taking it personal hence the excuses above and the blaming of "other" energy. The very thing I'm questioning, the irony. Lol



If you didn't take it personal their would be no need to explain or defend and project and deflect. This thread is about Aquas being worth it and you here blaming water and fire. That's weird. Learn to own ya shit instead of using others as scapegoats.
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Yep, you can't read and I won't even address your ridiculousness.
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Okay, give us her chart placements. You have four kinds of Aquas:

1) airy

2) watery

3) earthy

4) fiery/feisty...LOL

Now, no matter what kind of Aqua they are, know that they are all fiercely loyal so to get such loyal creature, it won't be a walk in the park. You get what you invest. If you don't want to make the effort, go for some easy chick that doesn't require effort to be made. Aqua is as guarded romantically as a Cancer, if not more.
love the outlining of different aquas, mine was firey/fiesty loved her inner fireness. She had a sag moon and leo rising lol
I knew it! You picked a fiery one and couldn't handle it and then went on to condemn every type of aqua woman to the OP. Every type of aqua has their share of issues, but the impulsive and rash will be found in the emotional ones like the water and fire Aquas. Similarly, air Aquas are prone to hot and cold behaviour. Earthy ones are anal retentive.




Why do people always blame other energy when someone is fucked up? I see it all the time with the excuses, oh he or she must have had fire or water or earth or oil or whatever ever. I know a fully air aqua who is fucked up and a user. What's the excuse there?



Why do people always have to take things personally as if someone directly attacked them? I never said air dominant doesn't have problems. Learn to read. Thanks.


i did read duh that's how I arrived at my statement above. And I'm asking a legit question, I see it all the time. and since your here doing it im asking y. If you can't answer that then just say so, cuz u know good and well I can read and comprehend. And I saw through your bullshit. Don't be mad.



you're the one taking it personal hence the excuses above and the blaming of "other" energy. The very thing I'm questioning, the irony. Lol



If you didn't take it personal their would be no need to explain or defend and project and deflect. This thread is about Aquas being worth it and you here blaming water and fire. That's weird. Learn to own ya shit instead of using others as scapegoats.

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you can't cuz I'm right and there's no need to insult if you're aren't taking this personal.
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Okay, give us her chart placements. You have four kinds of Aquas:

1) airy

2) watery

3) earthy

4) fiery/feisty...LOL

Now, no matter what kind of Aqua they are, know that they are all fiercely loyal so to get such loyal creature, it won't be a walk in the park. You get what you invest. If you don't want to make the effort, go for some easy chick that doesn't require effort to be made. Aqua is as guarded romantically as a Cancer, if not more.
love the outlining of different aquas, mine was firey/fiesty loved her inner fireness. She had a sag moon and leo rising lol
I knew it! You picked a fiery one and couldn't handle it and then went on to condemn every type of aqua woman to the OP. Every type of aqua has their share of issues, but the impulsive and rash will be found in the emotional ones like the water and fire Aquas. Similarly, air Aquas are prone to hot and cold behaviour. Earthy ones are anal retentive.


lmaoo no my woman had other issues with her life. Its not the handling part (i actually handled quite well with her bipolar manic mood swings) what broke everything was the constant arguments and miscommunication between us, at the end i was exhausted.. I have dated 3 aquas before, you guys are bipolar and weird. But i still do have love for aquas because most of my friends are aquas. If you didnt read the op carefully, he was being mistreated by an aqua, so her selfish aqua behavior needs to be left alone

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What you so freely call bipolar is actually aloofness or disinterest. Anytime you see hot and cold behaviour, irrespective of sign, take that as emotionally unavailable. People who are not emotionally available will play lots of game in which they mistreat others and use them as a means to an end. Also, he's not being mistreated. Let me tell you that mistreatment only happens where you allow it. If you feel disrespected, you know where the door is. If you stick around after someone's maltreatment of you, it speaks volumes about who you are as opposed to that person.

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Both venus and mars.

I agree with you projecting is often the first reaction people have when dealing with air signs. I feel like I've said this before here...but I would look at the element too.

Let's just say earthy and fiery people thrive in the same environment. Water signs dive into the realm of emotions but they're ultimately still able to relate to the other two by being usually people smart. To which element can airy people relate though? No one really. Many do not realize air is all around us: when they 'ponder' about it what they do is look up at the sky, which is exactly where pedestals are put, where there's no solid ground.

I don't know much about Libra but Gemini and Aquarius are both known for being all over the place. Why so? Because air is indeed all over the place. Everything is on a higher frequency, it needs to be if you want to cover up a 'ground', air, apparently limitless; there's no time to explain what happens in your head, all the connections you make, thus is frequent that what they deem manifest goes unsaid.

To pick up of what goes unsaid requires awareness, collective awareness in case of Uranian type.

How many times Aquarians must have wondered can't they not see it? That I'm in front of them and not elsewhere? That I'm human too? That despite my subtlety I'm being straightforward? Apparently many people can't and that often leads to alienation on their side.

Other signs tend to operate differently, they expect - again projecting - air signs to act the same way they do, basically they don't accept them. It is true though that sometimes Aquarians don't do much to be accepted either...they know they're brilliant and like to stand out, so it's definitely on them too.

It's a path of nuances, hues and undertones, there to be grasped. Aquarians would love to show you how variagated, vibrant, electric and colorful the world can be, but not many people have either the mental capacity or simply the patience to do so, because after all life is frenzy and you're often left with no time to reach their heart.













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OP, you need to reign her in when she's emotionally open.. snatch that girl in like a cancer man BUT you also need to show your emotional side.

The way Scorpio finally got a handle of me was by admitting how he truly felt. Explaining WHY he's been acting the way he has or how I freak him out so he does certain things in return which had me running for the hills. It was a vicious cycle between us. When he talked things out, I FELT the genuinity in his words, and the sincerity in his actions of wanting me to be his.. once he did that I let all my guard down. Now I cling to him all the time, I'm super affectionate and lovey. I no longer see a cold face I just see him and the passionate emotions he feels towards me.

I'm also heavily Pisces so that may be it. If she's total air, you're going to have trouble. My fear of not letting go was lack of stability, security and/or full abundance of love on his part. I need that to thrive in a relationship.


Just wondering, do you have any semisquare in your chart?
Not sure, but you can tell me 🙂

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I wanted to know why would anyone say "snatch that girl in like a cancer man". You do realize there’s something off about you when 95% of men are taught to be less Cancerian as possible? Jk...I was curious because I'm noticing semi-square with the Sun send off mixed vibes, very inviting and warm yet very aloof at the same time, which is also a trait Aqua/Pisces type possess already, so it's probably stressed even more with similar aspects.

If I can correctly read the chart from the pic you have Sun semisquare Uranus which would indicate a latent struggle in your self-expression. Semisquares will usually manifest outwardly as external events, thus you might have the feeling people are pushing you to be/become a person you're not/refuse to be because it goes against your own values and sense of freedom.

From your other posts it also appears - correct me if I'm wrong - you need a lot of nurturing and possibily reassurance from your guy; you possibly struggle with your sense of self-worth, thus it's benefic for you to have people around occasionally reminding you where your talent lies, which is something you probably forget at times due to your Jupiter/Saturn opposition.
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You understand me!! :*

Yes, I need tons of love and nurture from my man, it's essential to me. Without it I get lost within myself, wandering around trying to find it elsewhere. My combination of aqua/pisces is a difficult one to handle. I'm always at odds of who I am, who I need to be, what other people perceive, etc. hence my self expression is suppressed or doesn't come out right. I usually try to go with the flow but I'm constantly at war with my feelings. Showing too much? Not showing enough? Not showing at all?

So stressful, so chaotic lol
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Hi everyone. Just an update (and perhaps conclusion) to this chapter of life.

So AquaLady is finally exposed. Yup you guessed it! Its a TRIANGLE!

I was with her at her business premise and she asked me if I ever wanted to marry her. We talked about some things and i thought things were getting alright. I had to leave, and as I was out of the store, in walks this fella... nothing too outstanding... in fact, he seemed to lack self confidence in his demeanor. Not judging, just observation. Boy, you would not believe the way she reacted when he came in. She practically panicked, and behaved like she didn't know me. I was quite pissed.

I did some checking and seems he is her bf for a little while before me. So it appears that I have been the odd one out. It was pretty rough for me as I felt a great deal for her.

So if you can, please tell me if Aquarians generally practice double standards, or is it just her? Do Aquarians have a loyal bone in their body?

Thanks everyone.

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I read the original post, and skipped to Le last page.

So what do you think? You still want her?

Is this the kind of behavior as something you look for in a person? Do you like it when you're treated that way?

Take note, these aren't rhetorical questions or questions to make you feel as if I'm trying to point out the obvious.

It's legit questions, because it's not in my place to know what you want.
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So she showed you who she really is and you still reaching. Do you like pain?

wheres is your self respect? That's attractive ya know.

And no they aren't known for their undying loyalty.


I agree with this.

OP, she obviously doesn't want you.

find another woman.

plenty of fish out there.

who will want you. your first post was already reaching, with her getting pissed at you.