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Gemini Moon - Difficult committing to things?
Why Gemini Moons Struggle with Commitment and How to Overcome It
Gemini Moons often find it challenging to commit because of their curiosity and desire for variety. To improve focus, prioritize goals, create routines, and set small, achievable steps. Embracing patience and developing discipline can help Gemini Moons see projects through without losing their natural curiosity.
ahh, i just feel like there is soooo much I want to do I have a hard time staying focused on one thing at a time!
Looking for advise in general on this...
Anyone else struggle with this....from a non-astrological standpoint or whatever?
My GF is a gemini moon.
Yeah, she has a hard time sticking to goals or plans. She needs variety, she dreams about owning an internet business but she won't put the minimal effort to do so, she expect everything to be fun if its require hard work, she will gradually putting it on stand by.
I said that she needed to make a list on Excel of the products she wanted to sell...She tried only on the 1st night, everytime I talked to her about it, she was like " I will finish that, not now but I will finish " .
Honestly I don't think she will accomplish much in life by herself, she doesnt have the drive, the fire in the eyes...Im a scorpio moon so I can be obssessive about my goals.
hehe... Gem moon issues. I get what you saying. I get curious about it and if it does not hold my attention or I get bored I can move onto something else very quickly,
I think it just depends on what has caught my interest at that time I would say. But then I have other placements in my chart that make me very determined. If I want something, I want it and will stop at no ends to get it.
One of the most committed ppl I know is an Aries/Gemini moon... whether it's relationships, work or hobbies.
LOLwut?
Fickle? Non-committal?
Not the gem moons I know.
@Feral_doe
Posted by enfant_terrible
One of the most committed ppl I know is an Aries/Gemini moon... whether it's relationships, work or hobbies.
My Gem moon grandfather stuck to his marriage for 65 years, come hell or high water.
Honestly I don't think she will accomplish much in life by herself, she doesnt have the drive, the fire in the eyes...Im a scorpio moon so I can be obssessive about my goals.
Seriously, you really need to stop this "I'm better than everyone else" attitude. It will eventually become your own undoing.
If anything you need to have more faith in people and stop questioning everything and everyone.
And none of that "but I'm a Scorpio moon" bullshit cos that's just a lame excuse for bad Scorpio moon behaviour.
Posted by VirgoGent
(1) Obtained bachelors degree(2) Four years active military
(3) Several years of building and operating my business.
I'm not afraid of commitment.
I think it's more a case of maturity rather that simply being a Gem moon. Like this:
Posted by BuffaloBills28
It's about the Gem's variety of interests I think. It's not that we don't like to commit to things, it's that we're all over the place, and so many things interests us. But once we truly commit, then it's good morning, good afternoon, and goodnight. It's a done deal.click to expand
Honestly I don't think she will accomplish much in life by herself, she doesnt have the drive, the fire in the eyes...Im a scorpio moon so I can be obssessive about my goals.
Seriously, you really need to stop this "I'm better than everyone else" attitude. It will eventually become your own undoing.
If anything you need to have more faith in people and stop questioning everything and everyone.
And none of that "but I'm a Scorpio moon" bullshit cos that's just a lame excuse for bad Scorpio moon behaviour.
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Wow, I don't know why you came at me like that, I was being realistic.
With her attitude of not finishing and not paying the price she won't accomplish anything relevant in life, Im not saying that I will but believe Im just 25 and accomplished much more than all of my friends or family would dream that I could.
Im not saying this is because of my Scorpio moon but Scorpio is a fixed sign and known for its obssessive behavior, this is why I mentioned that.
Its not a matter of being good or bad, maybe she eventually accomplish a lot of things in her life but it wont be through that attitude.
Posted by raad182
My GF is a gemini moon.Yeah, she has a hard time sticking to goals or plans. She needs variety, she dreams about owning an internet business but she won't put the minimal effort to do so, she expect everything to be fun if its require hard work, she will gradually putting it on stand by.
I said that she needed to make a list on Excel of the products she wanted to sell...She tried only on the 1st night, everytime I talked to her about it, she was like " I will finish that, not now but I will finish " .
Honestly I don't think she will accomplish much in life by herself, she doesnt have the drive, the fire in the eyes...Im a scorpio moon so I can be obssessive about my goals.
What are your goals, raad?
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I don't like to share, dont get me wrong.
Honestly I don't think she will accomplish much in life by herself, she doesnt have the drive, the fire in the eyes...Im a scorpio moon so I can be obssessive about my goals.
Seriously, you really need to stop this "I'm better than everyone else" attitude. It will eventually become your own undoing.
If anything you need to have more faith in people and stop questioning everything and everyone.
And none of that "but I'm a Scorpio moon" bullshit cos that's just a lame excuse for bad Scorpio moon behaviour.
Wow, I don't know why you came at me like that, I was being realistic.
With her attitude of not finishing and not paying the price she won't accomplish anything relevant in life, Im not saying that I will but believe Im just 25 and accomplished much more than all of my friends or family would dream that I could.
Im not saying this is because of my Scorpio moon but Scorpio is a fixed sign and known for its obssessive behavior, this is why I mentioned that.
Its not a matter of being good or bad, maybe she eventually accomplish a lot of things in her life but it wont be through that attitude.
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How do you know she will not accomplish anything relevant in life, either now or later? Are you able to see into the future?
Just because you're 25 and feel you've accomplished something DOES NOT mean other people are at the same pace as you in their lives and that they should follow your standards because "it will be good for them". To think that way is just foolish and judgmental as fuck.
I don't think you even realise that you're actually looking down on her and seem to have no faith in her.
Posted by raad182
My GF is a gemini moon.Yeah, she has a hard time sticking to goals or plans. She needs variety, she dreams about owning an internet business but she won't put the minimal effort to do so, she expect everything to be fun if its require hard work, she will gradually putting it on stand by.
I said that she needed to make a list on Excel of the products she wanted to sell...She tried only on the 1st night, everytime I talked to her about it, she was like " I will finish that, not now but I will finish " .
Honestly I don't think she will accomplish much in life by herself, she doesnt have the drive, the fire in the eyes...Im a scorpio moon so I can be obssessive about my goals.
What are your goals, raad?
I don't like to share, dont get me wrong.
Yes, you do. Or else you wouldn't have said "I'm a Scorpio moon, so I'm obsessive about my goals" when that piece of information has no relevance to Gemini moon or your gf you were just talking shit about.
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Maybe because she is a Gemini Moon she will crave variety and fall in love with another man? eh? Hey, it happened to me! Ooooooh!
I am totally joking by the way. I did fall in love with someone else though when I was with my ex 😢
There I go, oversharing!
Posted by raad182
My GF is a gemini moon.Yeah, she has a hard time sticking to goals or plans. She needs variety, she dreams about owning an internet business but she won't put the minimal effort to do so, she expect everything to be fun if its require hard work, she will gradually putting it on stand by.
I said that she needed to make a list on Excel of the products she wanted to sell...She tried only on the 1st night, everytime I talked to her about it, she was like " I will finish that, not now but I will finish " .
Honestly I don't think she will accomplish much in life by herself, she doesnt have the drive, the fire in the eyes...Im a scorpio moon so I can be obssessive about my goals.
What are your goals, raad?
I don't like to share, dont get me wrong.
Yes, you do. Or else you wouldn't have said "I'm a Scorpio moon, so I'm obsessive about my goals" when that piece of information has no relevance to Gemini moon or your gf you were just talking shit about.
Maybe because she is a Gemini Moon she will crave variety and fall in love with another man? eh? Hey, it happened to me! Ooooooh!
I am totally joking by the way. I did fall in love with someone else though when I was with my ex 😢
There I go, oversharing!
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Its possible to happen with any moon placement not only gemini lol
But I trust in her Cancer sun and I read her natal chart...Astrologically speaking there is no chance for that to happen...But this is life, right?!
Posted by raad182
My GF is a gemini moon.Yeah, she has a hard time sticking to goals or plans. She needs variety, she dreams about owning an internet business but she won't put the minimal effort to do so, she expect everything to be fun if its require hard work, she will gradually putting it on stand by.
I said that she needed to make a list on Excel of the products she wanted to sell...She tried only on the 1st night, everytime I talked to her about it, she was like " I will finish that, not now but I will finish " .
Honestly I don't think she will accomplish much in life by herself, she doesnt have the drive, the fire in the eyes...Im a scorpio moon so I can be obssessive about my goals.
What are your goals, raad?
I don't like to share, dont get me wrong.
Yes, you do. Or else you wouldn't have said "I'm a Scorpio moon, so I'm obsessive about my goals" when that piece of information has no relevance to Gemini moon or your gf you were just talking shit about.
Maybe because she is a Gemini Moon she will crave variety and fall in love with another man? eh? Hey, it happened to me! Ooooooh!
I am totally joking by the way. I did fall in love with someone else though when I was with my ex 😢
There I go, oversharing!
Its possible to happen with any moon placement not only gemini lol
But I trust in her Cancer sun and I read her natal chart...Astrologically speaking there is no chance for that to happen...But this is life, right?!
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I'm Cancer sun and Cancer venus, babe! haha
Posted by raad182
My GF is a gemini moon.Yeah, she has a hard time sticking to goals or plans. She needs variety, she dreams about owning an internet business but she won't put the minimal effort to do so, she expect everything to be fun if its require hard work, she will gradually putting it on stand by.
I said that she needed to make a list on Excel of the products she wanted to sell...She tried only on the 1st night, everytime I talked to her about it, she was like " I will finish that, not now but I will finish " .
Honestly I don't think she will accomplish much in life by herself, she doesnt have the drive, the fire in the eyes...Im a scorpio moon so I can be obssessive about my goals.
What are your goals, raad?
I don't like to share, dont get me wrong.
Yes, you do. Or else you wouldn't have said "I'm a Scorpio moon, so I'm obsessive about my goals" when that piece of information has no relevance to Gemini moon or your gf you were just talking shit about.
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I mentioned the Scorpio moon just to explain the OP what was my point of view and why I was saying that...
" From a Scorpio moon obssessive eyes, she isnt putting enough effort "
Posted by raad182
My GF is a gemini moon.Yeah, she has a hard time sticking to goals or plans. She needs variety, she dreams about owning an internet business but she won't put the minimal effort to do so, she expect everything to be fun if its require hard work, she will gradually putting it on stand by.
I said that she needed to make a list on Excel of the products she wanted to sell...She tried only on the 1st night, everytime I talked to her about it, she was like " I will finish that, not now but I will finish " .
Honestly I don't think she will accomplish much in life by herself, she doesnt have the drive, the fire in the eyes...Im a scorpio moon so I can be obssessive about my goals.
What are your goals, raad?
I don't like to share, dont get me wrong.
Yes, you do. Or else you wouldn't have said "I'm a Scorpio moon, so I'm obsessive about my goals" when that piece of information has no relevance to Gemini moon or your gf you were just talking shit about.
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I mentioned the Scorpio moon just to explain the OP what was my point of view and why I was saying that...
" From a Scorpio moon obssessive eyes, she isnt putting enough effort "
Honestly I don't think she will accomplish much in life by herself, she doesnt have the drive, the fire in the eyes...Im a scorpio moon so I can be obssessive about my goals.
Seriously, you really need to stop this "I'm better than everyone else" attitude. It will eventually become your own undoing.
If anything you need to have more faith in people and stop questioning everything and everyone.
And none of that "but I'm a Scorpio moon" bullshit cos that's just a lame excuse for bad Scorpio moon behaviour.
Wow, I don't know why you came at me like that, I was being realistic.
With her attitude of not finishing and not paying the price she won't accomplish anything relevant in life, Im not saying that I will but believe Im just 25 and accomplished much more than all of my friends or family would dream that I could.
Im not saying this is because of my Scorpio moon but Scorpio is a fixed sign and known for its obssessive behavior, this is why I mentioned that.
Its not a matter of being good or bad, maybe she eventually accomplish a lot of things in her life but it wont be through that attitude.
How do you know she will not accomplish anything relevant in life, either now or later? Are you able to see into the future?
Just because you're 25 and feel you've accomplished something DOES NOT mean other people are at the same pace as you in their lives and that they should follow your standards because "it will be good for them". To think that way is just foolish and judgmental as fuck.
I don't think you even realise that you're actually looking down on her and seem to have no faith in her.
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Sorry, im not an english native speaker so sometimes I can be misunderstood.
Im not saying that we wont accomplish anything, people change and she could work on this behavior.
What im saying is that its almost impossible to achieve any goal if you dont put the effort required and its what she is doing NOW. Im saying this based on her actual behavior and way of thinking because as you said I cant predict the future and I said that " Maybe she accomplish even more than me " but not with that behavior IMO.
And trust me, I try to guide her and show what is doing wrong because she always complain about her own attitude.
Posted by raad182
My GF is a gemini moon.Yeah, she has a hard time sticking to goals or plans. She needs variety, she dreams about owning an internet business but she won't put the minimal effort to do so, she expect everything to be fun if its require hard work, she will gradually putting it on stand by.
I said that she needed to make a list on Excel of the products she wanted to sell...She tried only on the 1st night, everytime I talked to her about it, she was like " I will finish that, not now but I will finish " .
Honestly I don't think she will accomplish much in life by herself, she doesnt have the drive, the fire in the eyes...Im a scorpio moon so I can be obssessive about my goals.
What are your goals, raad?
I don't like to share, dont get me wrong.
Yes, you do. Or else you wouldn't have said "I'm a Scorpio moon, so I'm obsessive about my goals" when that piece of information has no relevance to Gemini moon or your gf you were just talking shit about.
Maybe because she is a Gemini Moon she will crave variety and fall in love with another man? eh? Hey, it happened to me! Ooooooh!
I am totally joking by the way. I did fall in love with someone else though when I was with my ex 😢
There I go, oversharing!
Its possible to happen with any moon placement not only gemini lol
But I trust in her Cancer sun and I read her natal chart...Astrologically speaking there is no chance for that to happen...But this is life, right?!
I'm Cancer sun and Cancer venus, babe! haha
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aspects, aspects, aspects...
but shit happens, I wouldn't die if she fall for some other guy...I would get really mad if she act behind my back.
Posted by raad182
My GF is a gemini moon.Yeah, she has a hard time sticking to goals or plans. She needs variety, she dreams about owning an internet business but she won't put the minimal effort to do so, she expect everything to be fun if its require hard work, she will gradually putting it on stand by.
I said that she needed to make a list on Excel of the products she wanted to sell...She tried only on the 1st night, everytime I talked to her about it, she was like " I will finish that, not now but I will finish " .
Honestly I don't think she will accomplish much in life by herself, she doesnt have the drive, the fire in the eyes...Im a scorpio moon so I can be obssessive about my goals.
What are your goals, raad?
I don't like to share, dont get me wrong.
Yes, you do. Or else you wouldn't have said "I'm a Scorpio moon, so I'm obsessive about my goals" when that piece of information has no relevance to Gemini moon or your gf you were just talking shit about.
Maybe because she is a Gemini Moon she will crave variety and fall in love with another man? eh? Hey, it happened to me! Ooooooh!
I am totally joking by the way. I did fall in love with someone else though when I was with my ex 😢
There I go, oversharing!
Its possible to happen with any moon placement not only gemini lol
But I trust in her Cancer sun and I read her natal chart...Astrologically speaking there is no chance for that to happen...But this is life, right?!
I'm Cancer sun and Cancer venus, babe! haha
aspects, aspects, aspects...
but shit happens, I wouldn't die if she fall for some other guy...I would get really mad if she act behind my back.
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I hear you. I literally have zero aspects that would predispose me to "cheating" though. But at the end of the day, astrology is only a part of the puzzle at play.
Cheating generally does occur behind someones back though haha. That is usually how cheating works....
But I ended things so I wasn't like a horrible POS or anything
Posted by raad182
My GF is a gemini moon.Yeah, she has a hard time sticking to goals or plans. She needs variety, she dreams about owning an internet business but she won't put the minimal effort to do so, she expect everything to be fun if its require hard work, she will gradually putting it on stand by.
I said that she needed to make a list on Excel of the products she wanted to sell...She tried only on the 1st night, everytime I talked to her about it, she was like " I will finish that, not now but I will finish " .
Honestly I don't think she will accomplish much in life by herself, she doesnt have the drive, the fire in the eyes...Im a scorpio moon so I can be obssessive about my goals.
That's interesting. Two of my closest exes were Gem moons and both were very focused on what they wanted to do with their lives. Both were earth suns though, so maybe the sign the sun falls into has something to do with it ?
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Do other fellow Gemini Mooners notice if they have a hard time committing to things such as goals or dreams or things they want to try or dabble in? And hard to focus on one because you have sooo many things you want to try and experience? I love my endless curiosity but feel like I lack the discipline to follow through long-term unlike other moon signs (I'm thinking Taurus moon or something) that can commit and see projects/goals through.
That being said, how do you overcome it....? It has been a constant struggle my whole life!