How inclined will a man with the following placements be, to a lasting Polyamorous relationship?

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Sun conjunct ascendant in : Cancer

Moon: Scorpio

Venus: Gemini

Mars: Aries

Over times he has said that "I am always looking for someone better looking once I am in a relationship" and "I miss the chase and playful aspect once a relationship becomes solid".
I think I'd forget about focusing on his astrological placements and focus more on what he's said. If he's looking for someone better every time he's in a relationship, that's not a very mature attitude and doesn't augur well for the success of a long term relationship. Don't you think?
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That's the thing. He is Islamic. I cannot be looking for a longterm relationship and am okay with him being with or marrying other women. My main motive is to have his "presence" (sexual or otherwise) in my life as:

1. I am myself when I am with him and he doesnt judge me

2. He is a great listener and gives very good advice

3. He is very witty and charismatic and suave and interesting

I could be friends ofcourse, but I don't think he has any female friends or even makes female friends for that matter. He has told me previously on some occasion that he just can't maintain longterm platonic relationships with women (even if he begins them) as they plateau out eventually.

Currently he just sees me a a friend (without an iota of physical or romantic attraction) who he can have good conversations with but I know within time, it will all plateau out and he will forget me.

Once I told him that I am open to Polygamous relationships (not with him but in general) and that piqued his interest quite a lot.

My only mission is to stay "connected" to him and or have him in my life for years to come. As a bro or homie or lover or acquaintance or whatever it may be.
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Posted by Bloop
Sun conjunct ascendant in : Cancer

Moon: Scorpio

Venus: Gemini

Mars: Aries

Over times he has said that "I am always looking for someone better looking once I am in a relationship" and "I miss the chase and playful aspect once a relationship becomes solid".
you know what?? that doesn't sound like Gemini love.

they look for intelligence, mental stimulation more than "looks"



it's probably his Aries Mars/ Scorpio moon combo.



http://www.lovehoroscope.us/venus-in-signs/venus-in-gemini





Male: The male Gemini lover is probably the only male in the zodiac that is not attracted to a person based on their looks.

The Venus in Gemini male is attracted to women who are intelligent and clever. He must connect with a woman on a mental level before physical desire takes place. He wants a smart, intellectual lover who knows how to carry on a decent conversation. The Venus in Gemini male truly enjoys the flirtation and mind games that take place during the courtship stage of a relationship. He also tends to be attracted to average-looking women who are witty and interesting, rather than gorgeous females who have nothing to talk about. A woman who can keep him guessing is particularly attractive. His biggest fear is boredom, so he tends to also find complex women a turn on.




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they are hard to pin down:

Venus in Gemini lover is the charmer of the zodiac. This is the most emotionally-detached sign of the zodiac. Gemini is the first air sign and, like air, comes and goes as it pleases. Falling in love isn’t hard for Venus in Gemini. If they love you, they’ll show it lightly and playfully; no heavy emotional displays or extravagant gifts. For Venus in Gemini, friendship will be a vital component of love. They are really looking for a companion - someone they enjoy talking to and with whom they can share their ideas and interests. They like to remain friends with all of their past lovers, they cannot bear to end friendships. Friendships mean more to them than romances. Shakespeare was born with Venus in Gemini and was of course able to describe the feelings of Romeo and Juliet down to its last detail. Venus in Gemini people will try to win over the object of their affection with witty conversation, displaying just how much they "know", and demonstrating their diverse interests.
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See i can do that go with the flow with VIG but something always tugs at me. I start to like the energy and it's fun something I need and like to have. Then I start brain storming on what I actually need I already know. But then I start getting nervous or spewing some hot mixed with cool feeling that way they probably used to and won't settle down then it's like oh I saw some actions then it's oh now it changed again.
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here is a Cancer sun/Gemini venus man who does NOT choose women based on "Looks" or what standards of beauty is...

Chris Isaak was dating Margaret Cho, and sure shes cute, but she's not what people would generally consider "beauty" like Gracey Kelly or Sophia Loren. But he liked her personality and craziness and it kept up with his Gemini venus and he liked it a lot.

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despite Isaak being in a video with a beautiful woman here. lol