How would someone with mostly Virgo and Libra in their chart be?

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Nameless Nemean
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These are always fun. My guess: You'll have to be friends first for sure, though I always say be direct with your intention too. They will be extremely calculating and observant, having an (or "the") idea of what they are looking for in a romantic partner.

They will be critical of you as well, at least as they get more comfortable with you. They may nit pick and try to help you in a lot of little ways. They love by doing/serving, don't expect verbal affirmation until later. Be sure not to criticize them back, they already know their faults and will take offense. From my own experience, you will meet them when they are not at their best OR while they are in a tumultuous situation. This can make them endearing when you realize that they are completely normal.

They will however seem somewhat indecisive as they are looking for a more balanced relationship. Fair is fair. They want someone who they can share with and vice versa. They are looking for a partner in crime. Mental stimulation is also key here as they may like a spirited yet rational debate.

They may also have the "Goldilocks" syndrome as they look for someone who is "juuust" right. They may not be terribly aggressive about this though. You won't be able to force or push anything here. You need to have a mental allure and a charm to you. They'll also need space to figure you out at times.

Don't give them too much space though because they will worry. Fair is fair remember. If it's your turn to reach out to them, do it. They will notice. They will do the same in turn.
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Spotlessmind
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Chuckcem pretty much hit the nail on the head, I like to be friends first but like when a guy lets me know his intentions. I slowly leak out puzzle pieces of myself when I really like somebody and they naturally check off my imaginary checklist (genuinely make me happy)

I feel like my emotions are "too much" at times for the good and bad, so I usually gauge the emotional intensity of a situation before I respond to it. As far as friends, it seems like I can have a convo with just about anybody and strangers regularly talk to me, so I have a pretty random variety of friends nowadays lol

I'm picky when it comes to partners but at the same time not completely, I want "the perfect partner" but that means someone thats perfect for me. You & I dm'ed about the cancer guy that was in my life (on another account), he showed me a lot of things that I wanted in a lifetime partner but also showed me what I didn't want (a few negatives that we had issues working through)

I think the best way to describe myself is chill, goofy, moody? lol. People think I don't have a care in the world but I'm pretty sure I spend 85% of my day internally stressing & feel like I'd do best with a caring partner that would listen to my concern but ultimately tell me "everything will be ok".