Libra sun/moon, Virgo venus- Cancer mars
How would venuses signs act once they're into someone? (Page 2)
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Posted by CockatielMy Aries moon loves to fight with my Scorpio Venus, they're like siblings but occasionally they'll agree on something and just go after it with reckless abandon.
I'm a Libra Venus and I basically subconsiously mirror the people Im interested in to make myself seem more likeable
(My Aries moon wants me to do otherwise. ;u; )
Posted by Mayfly513Why you do you say that, could you please elaborate more?
I'm earth dominate. I don't think my Gemini Venus ever gets a says.
Posted by RooSagicornVenus in Capricorn, 19.48
Make a little effort and wait for them to show they like me too 🙄
I agree with the statement above.
I look for balance. Reciprocation.
Because I'm such a choosy venus, I don't fall in love easily. So it can be hard to put into words.
But remember that we are Cardinal, so we will make an effort and initiate.
Sexual attraction is one thing. Emotional attraction beyond that is another.
Venus in Taurus in 4th.
I smother you with food and drink and lots of sex. Massages, cuddles on the couch. Excess excess excess.
I smother you with food and drink and lots of sex. Massages, cuddles on the couch. Excess excess excess.
Posted by ariesnoNope, I just had the opportunity to lay out in detail a few things I've been thinking about with a aqua friend of mine. Let's see if he bites! 😆Posted by saggurl88I thought I was the only one 👀Posted by mini_asianI imagine sex details and the things I want to do all the time!! 😆 Even planning it out and fitting it into future conversations. Lol.Posted by saggurl88They know you're in the bushes/trees in front of their room lmao. I kid, but as a fellow ViS for some reason I won't stalk anyone even if I'm highkey about them. I just lay on heavy, if they respond with interest I kick it up even more. Even when I'm getting to know them I'll be imagining how I'm going to go down on them hahaha.Posted by hellosaggyProbably cause your airing out all your business! 😛 I only want to do this with someone I'm interested in and I'm currently NOT dating anyone. lolPosted by saggurl88@saggurl88
Scorpio Venus, silently stalk you, want to have lots of sex and be around you. I'll want to have sex whether I'm crushing on you or actually getting to know you, cause sex is how I get to know someone fully. Theres's no hiding when you're naked!
How cum when I do it... its a problem though?
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Pisces venus 1st house.
Nothing complicate cause you would definitely noticed me if I like you.
I talk to you more, jokes with you and ask you out.
Basically you become the center of my attention.
The downside is I'm easily bored and easily distracted. If you play so hard to get or not reciprocate, I'll move on fast.
Nothing complicate cause you would definitely noticed me if I like you.
I talk to you more, jokes with you and ask you out.
Basically you become the center of my attention.
The downside is I'm easily bored and easily distracted. If you play so hard to get or not reciprocate, I'll move on fast.
Aries Venus:
It's instant. The story line is already written. There may be some intriguing qualities, some mystery, but I have already won the war. I have to win at everything....even if I am not initiating anything. All is fair in love and war. My eyes draw them in, and then lock them in. Yet still, I do not initiate. I have already envisioned me on top of him, giving him multiple orgasms. But he has envisioned another love story, how he plans to win me over, how he plans to seduce me, how he plans to write the ending....I lead him to believe that it's HIS story. But I already wrote the script when first laid eyes on him. Infatuation leads me to be quite creative.
I am caught up with the whole idea of him, and yet I'm motivated to learn more....to know more....to write more....Then I get to really know him, and his written character is not quite how I imagined it would be....his written character isn't synonymous with his 'real life'character....and then...I just simply write him off.
It's instant. The story line is already written. There may be some intriguing qualities, some mystery, but I have already won the war. I have to win at everything....even if I am not initiating anything. All is fair in love and war. My eyes draw them in, and then lock them in. Yet still, I do not initiate. I have already envisioned me on top of him, giving him multiple orgasms. But he has envisioned another love story, how he plans to win me over, how he plans to seduce me, how he plans to write the ending....I lead him to believe that it's HIS story. But I already wrote the script when first laid eyes on him. Infatuation leads me to be quite creative.
I am caught up with the whole idea of him, and yet I'm motivated to learn more....to know more....to write more....Then I get to really know him, and his written character is not quite how I imagined it would be....his written character isn't synonymous with his 'real life'character....and then...I just simply write him off.
Posted by ariesnoHaha, you are not alone! Scorpio energy is very potent and sexual even when we're not trying to be overt with it. We cannot help it.Posted by saggurl88I thought I was the only one 👀Posted by mini_asianI imagine sex details and the things I want to do all the time!! 😆 Even planning it out and fitting it into future conversations. Lol.Posted by saggurl88They know you're in the bushes/trees in front of their room lmao. I kid, but as a fellow ViS for some reason I won't stalk anyone even if I'm highkey about them. I just lay on heavy, if they respond with interest I kick it up even more. Even when I'm getting to know them I'll be imagining how I'm going to go down on them hahaha.Posted by hellosaggyProbably cause your airing out all your business! 😛 I only want to do this with someone I'm interested in and I'm currently NOT dating anyone. lolPosted by saggurl88@saggurl88
Scorpio Venus, silently stalk you, want to have lots of sex and be around you. I'll want to have sex whether I'm crushing on you or actually getting to know you, cause sex is how I get to know someone fully. Theres's no hiding when you're naked!
How cum when I do it... its a problem though?
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Posted by Mayfly513You might have a stronger influence from your other placements. What's your moon sign? How are you when you lose interest in someone? I'm currently dealing with a Gemini Venus, and they were very direct and attentive at first but now they're withdrawn. I don't know whether they'll come around again 😢Posted by mini_asianGemini Venus from what I've read are flirty and flighty and unfaithful.Posted by Mayfly513Why you do you say that, could you please elaborate more?
I'm earth dominate. I don't think my Gemini Venus ever gets a says.
I'm very shy and when I like a person I'm all in..I dive in head first. I'm extremely loyal too.
I like people right off the bat and I'm a chaser. If you show me any interests I'm head over heals.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977That is a good synopsis. It seems to be a curse as I simply can't find much good for us in this Venus but it is what it is and we just have to somehow work around it.
Aries Venus:
It's instant. The story line is already written. There may be some intriguing qualities, some mystery, but I have already won the war. I have to win at everything....even if I am not initiating anything. All is fair in love and war. My eyes draw them in, and then lock them in. Yet still, I do not initiate. I have already envisioned me on top of him, giving him multiple orgasms. But he has envisioned another love story, how he plans to win me over, how he plans to seduce me, how he plans to write the ending....I lead him to believe that it's HIS story. But I already wrote the script when first laid eyes on him. Infatuation leads me to be quite creative.
I am caught up with the whole idea of him, and yet I'm motivated to learn more....to know more....to write more....Then I get to really know him, and his written character is not quite how I imagined it would be....his written character isn't synonymous with his 'real life'character....and then...I just simply write him off.
Posted by ariesnoMaybe your Arian placements? Aries is quite a sexual deviant too lmao.Posted by mini_asianI don’t have any scorpio placements, though, so must be something else 😄Posted by ariesnoHaha, you are not alone! Scorpio energy is very potent and sexual even when we're not trying to be overt with it. We cannot help it.Posted by saggurl88I thought I was the only one 👀Posted by mini_asianI imagine sex details and the things I want to do all the time!! 😆 Even planning it out and fitting it into future conversations. Lol.Posted by saggurl88They know you're in the bushes/trees in front of their room lmao. I kid, but as a fellow ViS for some reason I won't stalk anyone even if I'm highkey about them. I just lay on heavy, if they respond with interest I kick it up even more. Even when I'm getting to know them I'll be imagining how I'm going to go down on them hahaha.Posted by hellosaggyProbably cause your airing out all your business! 😛 I only want to do this with someone I'm interested in and I'm currently NOT dating anyone. lolPosted by saggurl88@saggurl88
Scorpio Venus, silently stalk you, want to have lots of sex and be around you. I'll want to have sex whether I'm crushing on you or actually getting to know you, cause sex is how I get to know someone fully. Theres's no hiding when you're naked!
How cum when I do it... its a problem though?
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Posted by Mayfly513Posted by mini_asianTaurus sunPosted by Mayfly513You might have a stronger influence from your other placements. What's your moon sign? How are you when you lose interest in someone? I'm currently dealing with a Gemini Venus, and they were very direct and attentive at first but now they're withdrawn. I don't know whether they'll come around again 😢Posted by mini_asianGemini Venus from what I've read are flirty and flighty and unfaithful.Posted by Mayfly513Why you do you say that, could you please elaborate more?
I'm earth dominate. I don't think my Gemini Venus ever gets a says.
I'm very shy and when I like a person I'm all in..I dive in head first. I'm extremely loyal too.
I like people right off the bat and I'm a chaser. If you show me any interests I'm head over heals.
Doesn't sound very airy...
Virgo moon
Mercury Gemini
Venus Gemini
Mars cancer
Libra asc
When I lose interest I feel bad and usually stick it out until I really can't stand it anymore. But sadly I'll still show affection and I guess sort of "lead that person on" I know, not a great thing to do but I feel bad hurting others.
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You have the same placements as the person I'm talking to, minus the Mars and Asc. This helps a lot, and I guess there's no point for me to stick around for someone that isn't feeling it anymore lol. Then again I did ask them, and they told me they have feelings for me but never initiates any conversations. Ehhhhh.
Posted by Mayfly513There's not much I can go off of because we're nearly 1000 miles apart. That does make sense though, she's not good with words and has anxiety when I disappear for a bit of time, but I always come back and I've made it known that I care about her immensely. Ironically, she came back around last night.Posted by mini_asianSo you are just going off initiating conversation. For me personally I show my love/like through physical gesturedPosted by Mayfly513Posted by mini_asianTaurus sunPosted by Mayfly513You might have a stronger influence from your other placements. What's your moon sign? How are you when you lose interest in someone? I'm currently dealing with a Gemini Venus, and they were very direct and attentive at first but now they're withdrawn. I don't know whether they'll come around again 😢Posted by mini_asianGemini Venus from what I've read are flirty and flighty and unfaithful.Posted by Mayfly513Why you do you say that, could you please elaborate more?
I'm earth dominate. I don't think my Gemini Venus ever gets a says.
I'm very shy and when I like a person I'm all in..I dive in head first. I'm extremely loyal too.
I like people right off the bat and I'm a chaser. If you show me any interests I'm head over heals.
Doesn't sound very airy...
Virgo moon
Mercury Gemini
Venus Gemini
Mars cancer
Libra asc
When I lose interest I feel bad and usually stick it out until I really can't stand it anymore. But sadly I'll still show affection and I guess sort of "lead that person on" I know, not a great thing to do but I feel bad hurting others.
I move on quickly though once I'm done with someone
You have the same placements as the person I'm talking to, minus the Mars and Asc. This helps a lot, and I guess there's no point for me to stick around for someone that isn't feeling it anymore lol. Then again I did ask them, and they told me they have feelings for me but never initiates any conversations. Ehhhhh.
Actions>words
I'm not good with words. I also always feel like I'm bothering someone when texting first or calling etc..
When I do units conversation like in person, it's always bad timing also. I pock the worst opportunitiesclick to expand
Posted by Mayfly513All of my relationships have been LD, or become LD. It's a rough life haha. My placements are Virgo Sun, Aries Moon/Asc, Libra Mercury, Scorpio Venus, Cancer Mars.Posted by mini_asianWell that's good. I have no expietence in LD relationships...I personally couldn't do it, so kudos to you. I would be an axioms wreck!Posted by Mayfly513There's not much I can go off of because we're nearly 1000 miles apart. That does make sense though, she's not good with words and has anxiety when I disappear for a bit of time, but I always come back and I've made it known that I care about her immensely. Ironically, she came back around last night.Posted by mini_asianSo you are just going off initiating conversation. For me personally I show my love/like through physical gesturedPosted by Mayfly513Posted by mini_asianTaurus sunPosted by Mayfly513You might have a stronger influence from your other placements. What's your moon sign? How are you when you lose interest in someone? I'm currently dealing with a Gemini Venus, and they were very direct and attentive at first but now they're withdrawn. I don't know whether they'll come around again 😢Posted by mini_asianGemini Venus from what I've read are flirty and flighty and unfaithful.Posted by Mayfly513Why you do you say that, could you please elaborate more?
I'm earth dominate. I don't think my Gemini Venus ever gets a says.
I'm very shy and when I like a person I'm all in..I dive in head first. I'm extremely loyal too.
I like people right off the bat and I'm a chaser. If you show me any interests I'm head over heals.
Doesn't sound very airy...
Virgo moon
Mercury Gemini
Venus Gemini
Mars cancer
Libra asc
When I lose interest I feel bad and usually stick it out until I really can't stand it anymore. But sadly I'll still show affection and I guess sort of "lead that person on" I know, not a great thing to do but I feel bad hurting others.
I move on quickly though once I'm done with someone
You have the same placements as the person I'm talking to, minus the Mars and Asc. This helps a lot, and I guess there's no point for me to stick around for someone that isn't feeling it anymore lol. Then again I did ask them, and they told me they have feelings for me but never initiates any conversations. Ehhhhh.
Actions>words
I'm not good with words. I also always feel like I'm bothering someone when texting first or calling etc..
When I do units conversation like in person, it's always bad timing also. I pock the worst opportunities
What are your placements btw?click to expand
Posted by halalbaeWhy do you say that you are frustrating to deal with?
Stare at them with love hearts in my eyes, smiles, creating a mutual vibe, look away when they stare back and play coy. Completely soak myself into their presence, everything surrounding me fails to exist
I can be frustrating to deal with tho. Once I believe something, its like no matter what you say, I wont believe it.
And I dont do long distance relationships. I might value freedom, but at the end of the day I need physical comfort, consistentcy and someone to go home to.
Taurus Venus
Posted by Leo188881My ex had Venus in Virgo and Leo sun, sag moon.
My venus is in virgo. I had no idea what that meant until i did a quick Google search just now. It seems to contradict what my Leo sun and Aires moon suggest.
When I'm into someone, I don't stop thinking about them. I'm super affectionate and stand offish and detatched all at the same time. One minute i feel insecure and unlovable and the next i feel like I'm awesome and how could you not love me. I'm a bit of a contradiction. I think my birth date is crazy and confused 😐
He was soooooo affectionate. That's what made me fall in love.
The insecurity was alot to deal with.
Posted by halalbaeThe word spiteful resonates with me alot.Posted by DMVPossessive to a fault, stubborn to the point of our own demise, self centered, either too emotional, dwelling on feelings or idgaf about anything, spitefulPosted by halalbaeWhy do you say that you are frustrating to deal with?
Stare at them with love hearts in my eyes, smiles, creating a mutual vibe, look away when they stare back and play coy. Completely soak myself into their presence, everything surrounding me fails to exist
I can be frustrating to deal with tho. Once I believe something, its like no matter what you say, I wont believe it.
And I dont do long distance relationships. I might value freedom, but at the end of the day I need physical comfort, consistentcy and someone to go home to.
Taurus Venus
But HEY we will love you to death and nurture through creating tangible things, dependable, patient, determined and sensual. It outweighs the bad 😏 (hopefully)
Are you dealing with someone with this Venus?click to expand
I've dated 2 Venus in Taurus in the past and I have 1 that I have my eye on. Pretty much same pattern with all of them.
They are super quick with the spiteful stuff.
I mean i get it being a Scorpio moon but can we at least talk about the perceived slight.
This Venus is my kryptonite. My venus in cap and Scorpio moon are engaged day one. I'm game. You have my full attention.
Starts off very well. Then I get hit with tons of spitefulness and feel like i have to walk on eggshells or I try to be more accomdating to them but I feel like my good efforts make then feel forced/pushed.
They say Venus in Taurus is slow, but not with being spiteful.
The one I have my eye on I hugged a fellow classmate and was hit with a possessive statement and I felt shunned for a week or so. He hasn't even made his intentions known. But I felt put on notice very early on.
Starts off very well and then I just have to quit.
I would live to experience the last paragraph, but I never make it there with them.
I swore that I would never date another Venus in Taurus but here we are.
No more after this.
Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesNow I understand he's never been really into me sigh
Virgo Venus will do anything and everything for you and then critize you about anything and everything but it's meant to be in a helpful, caring and loving way. Will buy things for you and do alot to take care of you. If Virgo Venus stops all critisism and any form of caring for you, you can bet your life Venus has gone cold on you and the relationship is pretty much done for. /sigh at the need for perfection but lack of accepting it's not out there and is something that has to be realizedclick to expand
Not necessarily. My ViV is retrograde so not sure if it affects it, but I don't criticize especially in the beginning. We are sloowwwww burners so it takes a lot to get through to me. But when someone takes the time to get me to let down my guard and trust them, I appreciate it and would give them the world.
We have to be very cognizant of not giving too much of ourselves without it being returned, definitely guilty of this...
Funny you mention Gemini.
They come across as spiteful and vindictive 2
They come across as spiteful and vindictive 2
Posted by tctaoPosted by Smidgescorpio mars has tunnel vision - he knows what he wantsPosted by lesenfantterriblesThanks, maybe I will. 😎Posted by Smidgegirl, i say he's interested. i definitely go w/ the pace that is set. a male cap venus may be different but i respect the flow of the other person.
Yeah, he's kinda mirroring my behaviour atm it seems. When we first started talking he was overly confident, I took a huge step back, then he took one too and it slowed right down.
He's Scorpio mars
if you are feelin' him, throw him a lil bone. but like.... just a little one...
Also he's completely ignoring my efforts to sabotage everything. I'm kinda impressed tbh...he'll just text the next day like " HI"...reminds me of that dog from UP when they try to get rid of him by throwing the ball but he just keeps coming back.click to expand
Absolutely, and we usually get it!
Aries Venus: I'm bold, blunt, and make the first move.
Posted by RaakacWell I used to not attract any Gemini. Friend or lover.Posted by DMVwhat do you mean?
Funny you mention Gemini.
They come across as spiteful and vindictive 2click to expand
Recently I have attracted nothing but Geminis.
I will give you an example,
I went on a trip with a Gemini friend. I have precheck and he doesn't. I used the precheck line and at first he taunted me for using precheck and then when I waited for him on the other side, he looked at me, made eye contact and proceeded to keep on walking.
I called him out on it and he swore up and down that wasn't what happened. He was all hush and not wanting to talk.
Ok girl.
I don't wanna say jealousy, but I have noticed that when Gemini feel like they are lacking or feel entitled to things and they don't get it or think they deserve better, they become vindictive.
Posted by Damnata💯
If you get this delusional lunatic idea that someone actually really cares about you and you feel safe and secure around them....that someone is a Cancer Venus who's into you.
Posted by Jules-llBelieve me I had his trust and I really really thought he cared much. And I gave him my whole world, more than I've ever given to anyone in my life. I did things someone would call it being crazy. I've done everything every single thing what I would have loved to get from him. And that was nothing pricey. I don't know, do you guys appreciate honesty? when he turned cold I became honest to the extreme, like sharing everything I held inside, wrote poems and now I feel so embarrassed, even tho everybody says I'm great with poetry. I don't know what happened. Sometimes he would be extremely sweet and attentive, then he would get lost for a few days, then come back again. And at some point I broke down, him being gone was too much, especially when he wasn't too much of a talker. I don't know, do you think he will ever come back? or do I need to reach him? why does he like ignoring, he put me thru the situation that I was afraid of opening my mouth, afraid of saying something he wouldn't like. No sorry could melt his heart. I don't know, I'm completely lost. Especially him refusing to discuss about things. What would you do if you was me? or what do you think is up on his mind? If you can give some insight pleasePosted by pisceanlovesPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesNow I understand he's never been really into me sigh
Virgo Venus will do anything and everything for you and then critize you about anything and everything but it's meant to be in a helpful, caring and loving way. Will buy things for you and do alot to take care of you. If Virgo Venus stops all critisism and any form of caring for you, you can bet your life Venus has gone cold on you and the relationship is pretty much done for. /sigh at the need for perfection but lack of accepting it's not out there and is something that has to be realized
Not necessarily. My ViV is retrograde so not sure if it affects it, but I don't criticize especially in the beginning. We are sloowwwww burners so it takes a lot to get through to me. But when someone takes the time to get me to let down my guard and trust them, I appreciate it and would give them the world.
We have to be very cognizant of not giving too much of ourselves without it being returned, definitely guilty of this...
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Posted by Leo188881i think men should chase women but...
My venus is in virgo. I had no idea what that meant until i did a quick Google search just now. It seems to contradict what my Leo sun and Aires moon suggest.
When I'm into someone, I don't stop thinking about them. I'm super affectionate and stand offish and detatched all at the same time. One minute i feel insecure and unlovable and the next i feel like I'm awesome and how could you not love me. I'm a bit of a contradiction. I think my birth date is crazy and confused 😐
i saw a young male Leo sun with Virgo venus on Terrace house Aloha State never ever approach a woman he liked.
he would talk and talk about it but NEVER approach to ask her out.
he would just say how he would go for this girl blah blah and never ask her...
he also had virgo mars too, conjunct. with a sag moon.
later in the series, only a double aries woman went after him.
it was the only time he got kissed and dates, because the woman was a chaser.
Posted by DMVvirgo venus in a man is really insecure. they need chasers.Posted by Leo188881My ex had Venus in Virgo and Leo sun, sag moon.
My venus is in virgo. I had no idea what that meant until i did a quick Google search just now. It seems to contradict what my Leo sun and Aires moon suggest.
When I'm into someone, I don't stop thinking about them. I'm super affectionate and stand offish and detatched all at the same time. One minute i feel insecure and unlovable and the next i feel like I'm awesome and how could you not love me. I'm a bit of a contradiction. I think my birth date is crazy and confused 😐
He was soooooo affectionate. That's what made me fall in love.
The insecurity was alot to deal with.click to expand
my sister is an aries sun, aqua venus, taurus moon pisces mars...she chased but at least he reciprocated cause he liked her alot in the beginning and it grew to love.
oh her husband is libra sun virgo venus.
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesSo weird I see a lot of people say Virgo Venus criticizes a lot rather than compliment but my Virgo Venus guy compliments more than anything. I'm even slightly sarcastic and yet he's pretty meloPosted by pisceanlovesI was speaking more from a personal experience though too. What are all his other placements?Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesCan't pick anything from your statement what matches him in any way. I've never really asked for anything, just wanted to spend more time with him. Sometimes he would ignore me, would disappear in the middle of the conversation, not necessarily saying good night. Too quiet type, once he was away and i told him wish he was there for me, he would have cooked something cause I was too hungry, he didn't respond for minutes until I said I was just kidding and I could take care of myself. Then there was something I asked something so simple like playing backgammon online and even tho he didn't know how to play I would have thought, he wouldn't. He used to call me sweet names and stuff but that wasn't enough. IdkPosted by pisceanlovesHow long have you been together?Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesNow I understand he's never been really into me sigh
Virgo Venus will do anything and everything for you and then critize you about anything and everything but it's meant to be in a helpful, caring and loving way. Will buy things for you and do alot to take care of you. If Virgo Venus stops all critisism and any form of caring for you, you can bet your life Venus has gone cold on you and the relationship is pretty much done for. /sigh at the need for perfection but lack of accepting it's not out there and is something that has to be realized
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Posted by pisceanlovesHow long have you been in a relationship with him? Did something happen to make him go cold? And what is your venus and mars? I can pull away at times it's how I recharge, but not on a consistent basis if involved in a relationship... There has to be compromise, communication and give and take to make it work. My advice would be to walk away, but that's just how I would handle it because why give so much of yourself to get nothing in return? Good luck to you whatever you decide, I hope you find someone that gives you what you need!Posted by Jules-llBelieve me I had his trust and I really really thought he cared much. And I gave him my whole world, more than I've ever given to anyone in my life. I did things someone would call it being crazy. I've done everything every single thing what I would have loved to get from him. And that was nothing pricey. I don't know, do you guys appreciate honesty? when he turned cold I became honest to the extreme, like sharing everything I held inside, wrote poems and now I feel so embarrassed, even tho everybody says I'm great with poetry. I don't know what happened. Sometimes he would be extremely sweet and attentive, then he would get lost for a few days, then come back again. And at some point I broke down, him being gone was too much, especially when he wasn't too much of a talker. I don't know, do you think he will ever come back? or do I need to reach him? why does he like ignoring, he put me thru the situation that I was afraid of opening my mouth, afraid of saying something he wouldn't like. No sorry could melt his heart. I don't know, I'm completely lost. Especially him refusing to discuss about things. What would you do if you was me? or what do you think is up on his mind? If you can give some insight pleasePosted by pisceanlovesPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesNow I understand he's never been really into me sigh
Virgo Venus will do anything and everything for you and then critize you about anything and everything but it's meant to be in a helpful, caring and loving way. Will buy things for you and do alot to take care of you. If Virgo Venus stops all critisism and any form of caring for you, you can bet your life Venus has gone cold on you and the relationship is pretty much done for. /sigh at the need for perfection but lack of accepting it's not out there and is something that has to be realized
Not necessarily. My ViV is retrograde so not sure if it affects it, but I don't criticize especially in the beginning. We are sloowwwww burners so it takes a lot to get through to me. But when someone takes the time to get me to let down my guard and trust them, I appreciate it and would give them the world.
We have to be very cognizant of not giving too much of ourselves without it being returned, definitely guilty of this...
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Posted by DMVOnly the undeveloped ones, come off as spiteful and vindictive. The ones I've come across, they're nervous folk much like their Virgo counterparts but like Virgos, they keep it in their minds and they physically maintain it better.
Funny you mention Gemini.
They come across as spiteful and vindictive 2
Posted by Jules-llI met him in 2015, but timing wasn't right for either of us, so we just backed up. Then we reconnected in 2016 and he was so happy about it. In the beginning I told him that I don't do well with disappearing acts and if he could work on that would have been awesome. He PROMISED me to never do that. For some time everything was fine, he shared so much with me, too personal things you don't talk to people. We were happy. He was planning to move out soon to a new place and he said it would be good for us to get an apartment together if I'm ready and want to. I said yes sure. Then some time passed and he started to disappearing again, sometimes for a day or 2. I tried to deal with that, reminded him gently that when he feels like he needs to be alone he can simply just tell me, so I wouldn't worry. Then again after some time he told me about not being able to have a child and he knew I wanted his baby at some point in the future. Then he disappeared again, maybe because I accidentally told him that's too bad. Next day I sent him a page long message it's okay and he wouldn't worry about that at all. If we can't have a child then I won't have any at all and it won't ever affect us as a couple. He sent me something sweet in return. I was hoping to see him soon afterwards, I was at work. Honestly I had so much going on in my own life and he had no idea about any of that, I never wanted to discuss about my problems with him, not because of trust issues but I was protecting him from anything negative. I never wanted him to worry about me, I wanted to show that I'm strong enough to take care of things by myself. Then I had an argument with my boss the very same day and me keeping a job was kinda questioned. Everything became too much and I broke down. I locked myself in the bathroom and cried my heart out. Then I sent him a message asking what was the reason of his disappearing acts, that I don't deserve that and I'm too good for that. you know I needed him to be supportive, like I needed to see that he was there no matter what.I didn't say anything negative about him, I just asked why. Then I kinda demanded that he either stops that behavior or we are over. Guess what, he sent me just one sentence message "we should end up then". Nothing else, I lost everything in a snap. Right away I knew I've done something very bad and I had better keep my mouth shoot but I couldn't take back whatever been said. I apologized over and over again, for days, months. Nothing has changed. He's gone. Then he's BDay came and I sent him little box, with my favorite lucky pendant and a leather bracelet I had made for him, along with the handwritten letter and a poem. He hasn't said anything. No thank you, No get off me we are done, nothing. It's like he wants me to think he suddenly passed away but he's alive.Posted by pisceanlovesHow long have you been in a relationship with him? Did something happen to make him go cold? And what is your venus and mars? I can pull away at times it's how I recharge, but not on a consistent basis if involved in a relationship... There has to be compromise, communication and give and take to make it work. My advice would be to walk away, but that's just how I would handle it because why give so much of yourself to get nothing in return? Good luck to you whatever you decide, I hope you find someone that gives you what you need!Posted by Jules-llBelieve me I had his trust and I really really thought he cared much. And I gave him my whole world, more than I've ever given to anyone in my life. I did things someone would call it being crazy. I've done everything every single thing what I would have loved to get from him. And that was nothing pricey. I don't know, do you guys appreciate honesty? when he turned cold I became honest to the extreme, like sharing everything I held inside, wrote poems and now I feel so embarrassed, even tho everybody says I'm great with poetry. I don't know what happened. Sometimes he would be extremely sweet and attentive, then he would get lost for a few days, then come back again. And at some point I broke down, him being gone was too much, especially when he wasn't too much of a talker. I don't know, do you think he will ever come back? or do I need to reach him? why does he like ignoring, he put me thru the situation that I was afraid of opening my mouth, afraid of saying something he wouldn't like. No sorry could melt his heart. I don't know, I'm completely lost. Especially him refusing to discuss about things. What would you do if you was me? or what do you think is up on his mind? If you can give some insight pleasePosted by pisceanlovesPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesNow I understand he's never been really into me sigh
Virgo Venus will do anything and everything for you and then critize you about anything and everything but it's meant to be in a helpful, caring and loving way. Will buy things for you and do alot to take care of you. If Virgo Venus stops all critisism and any form of caring for you, you can bet your life Venus has gone cold on you and the relationship is pretty much done for. /sigh at the need for perfection but lack of accepting it's not out there and is something that has to be realized
Not necessarily. My ViV is retrograde so not sure if it affects it, but I don't criticize especially in the beginning. We are sloowwwww burners so it takes a lot to get through to me. But when someone takes the time to get me to let down my guard and trust them, I appreciate it and would give them the world.
We have to be very cognizant of not giving too much of ourselves without it being returned, definitely guilty of this...
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I'm sorry for the length of a comment. I didn't want to miss anything so you have a clear idea what's up. Yes maybe it's time to move on, but I can't. I can't get him off my mind. My venus is in Pisces and mars in Gemini, along with pisces sun and cancer moon/virgo rising
Posted by lisabethur8Do you think a male mars Virgo needs to be chased 2?Posted by DMVvirgo venus in a man is really insecure. they need chasers.Posted by Leo188881My ex had Venus in Virgo and Leo sun, sag moon.
My venus is in virgo. I had no idea what that meant until i did a quick Google search just now. It seems to contradict what my Leo sun and Aires moon suggest.
When I'm into someone, I don't stop thinking about them. I'm super affectionate and stand offish and detatched all at the same time. One minute i feel insecure and unlovable and the next i feel like I'm awesome and how could you not love me. I'm a bit of a contradiction. I think my birth date is crazy and confused 😐
He was soooooo affectionate. That's what made me fall in love.
The insecurity was alot to deal with.
my sister is an aries sun, aqua venus, taurus moon pisces mars...she chased but at least he reciprocated cause he liked her alot in the beginning and it grew to love.
oh her husband is libra sun virgo venus.click to expand
Posted by DMVit depends on their venus though.Posted by lisabethur8Do you think a male mars Virgo needs to be chased 2?Posted by DMVvirgo venus in a man is really insecure. they need chasers.Posted by Leo188881My ex had Venus in Virgo and Leo sun, sag moon.
My venus is in virgo. I had no idea what that meant until i did a quick Google search just now. It seems to contradict what my Leo sun and Aires moon suggest.
When I'm into someone, I don't stop thinking about them. I'm super affectionate and stand offish and detatched all at the same time. One minute i feel insecure and unlovable and the next i feel like I'm awesome and how could you not love me. I'm a bit of a contradiction. I think my birth date is crazy and confused 😐
He was soooooo affectionate. That's what made me fall in love.
The insecurity was alot to deal with.
my sister is an aries sun, aqua venus, taurus moon pisces mars...she chased but at least he reciprocated cause he liked her alot in the beginning and it grew to love.
oh her husband is libra sun virgo venus.
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i'm thinking if they have aries venus, they want to be bold and chase, but the virgo part will go about it differently.
or leo venus, virgo mars. and so forth..
http://www.astrologymarina.com/2016/05/mans-mars-sign-in-love.html
Virgo Mars in Love – The Servant
These individuals, when trying to win your heart, will always readily offer a helping hand. Almost like a servant or personal assistant, they will help you with the “chores of life” and will take care of practical matters for you. They’ll pretty much do everything for you, so having a Virgo Mars court you is quite comfortable and quite the luxury. Always at your service, Virgo Mars will want to be so helpful to you that they become indispensable to your life – and that’s how they’ll win you over. They have immense attention for detail and remember all the little things you said or like and then cater to you accordingly. They are quite cautious in their pursuit and very analytical, making sure they know your preferences. Being the perfectionist that they are, they not only want to be the perfect man, but can also tend to treat others like projects, so they are picky when it comes to choosing someone worthy of the chase.
Men with Mars in Virgo: Dylan O’Brien, Idris Elba
i thnk the problem wtih virgo venus,
is that it's in the FALL...
and it has been told by even Virgo astrologers that it's difficult.
Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by Jules-llI met him in 2015, but timing wasn't right for either of us, so we just backed up. Then we reconnected in 2016 and he was so happy about it. In the beginning I told him that I don't do well with disappearing acts and if he could work on that would have been awesome. He PROMISED me to never do that. For some time everything was fine, he shared so much with me, too personal things you don't talk to people. We were happy. He was planning to move out soon to a new place and he said it would be good for us to get an apartment together if I'm ready and want to. I said yes sure. Then some time passed and he started to disappearing again, sometimes for a day or 2. I tried to deal with that, reminded him gently that when he feels like he needs to be alone he can simply just tell me, so I wouldn't worry. Then again after some time he told me about not being able to have a child and he knew I wanted his baby at some point in the future. Then he disappeared again, maybe because I accidentally told him that's too bad. Next day I sent him a page long message it's okay and he wouldn't worry about that at all. If we can't have a child then I won't have any at all and it won't ever affect us as a couple. He sent me something sweet in return. I was hoping to see him soon afterwards, I was at work. Honestly I had so much going on in my own life and he had no idea about any of that, I never wanted to discuss about my problems with him, not because of trust issues but I was protecting him from anything negative. I never wanted him to worry about me, I wanted to show that I'm strong enough to take care of things by myself. Then I had an argument with my boss the very same day and me keeping a job was kinda questioned. Everything became too much and I broke down. I locked myself in the bathroom and cried my heart out. Then I sent him a message asking what was the reason of his disappearing acts, that I don't deserve that and I'm too good for that. you know I needed him to be supportive, like I needed to see that he was there no matter what.I didn't say anything negative about him, I just asked why. Then I kinda demanded that he either stops that behavior or we are over. Guess what, he sent me just one sentence message "we should end up then". Nothing else, I lost everything in a snap. Right away I knew I've done something very bad and I had better keep my mouth shoot but I couldn't take back whatever been said. I apologized over and over again, for days, months. Nothing has changed. He's gone. Then he's BDay came and I sent him little box, with my favorite lucky pendant and a leather bracelet I had made for him, along with the handwritten letter and a poem. He hasn't said anything. No thank you, No get off me we are done, nothing. It's like he wants me to think he suddenly passed away but he's alive.Posted by pisceanlovesHow long have you been in a relationship with him? Did something happen to make him go cold? And what is your venus and mars? I can pull away at times it's how I recharge, but not on a consistent basis if involved in a relationship... There has to be compromise, communication and give and take to make it work. My advice would be to walk away, but that's just how I would handle it because why give so much of yourself to get nothing in return? Good luck to you whatever you decide, I hope you find someone that gives you what you need!Posted by Jules-llBelieve me I had his trust and I really really thought he cared much. And I gave him my whole world, more than I've ever given to anyone in my life. I did things someone would call it being crazy. I've done everything every single thing what I would have loved to get from him. And that was nothing pricey. I don't know, do you guys appreciate honesty? when he turned cold I became honest to the extreme, like sharing everything I held inside, wrote poems and now I feel so embarrassed, even tho everybody says I'm great with poetry. I don't know what happened. Sometimes he would be extremely sweet and attentive, then he would get lost for a few days, then come back again. And at some point I broke down, him being gone was too much, especially when he wasn't too much of a talker. I don't know, do you think he will ever come back? or do I need to reach him? why does he like ignoring, he put me thru the situation that I was afraid of opening my mouth, afraid of saying something he wouldn't like. No sorry could melt his heart. I don't know, I'm completely lost. Especially him refusing to discuss about things. What would you do if you was me? or what do you think is up on his mind? If you can give some insight pleasePosted by pisceanlovesPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesNow I understand he's never been really into me sigh
Virgo Venus will do anything and everything for you and then critize you about anything and everything but it's meant to be in a helpful, caring and loving way. Will buy things for you and do alot to take care of you. If Virgo Venus stops all critisism and any form of caring for you, you can bet your life Venus has gone cold on you and the relationship is pretty much done for. /sigh at the need for perfection but lack of accepting it's not out there and is something that has to be realized
Not necessarily. My ViV is retrograde so not sure if it affects it, but I don't criticize especially in the beginning. We are sloowwwww burners so it takes a lot to get through to me. But when someone takes the time to get me to let down my guard and trust them, I appreciate it and would give them the world.
We have to be very cognizant of not giving too much of ourselves without it being returned, definitely guilty of this...
I'm sorry for the length of a comment. I didn't want to miss anything so you have a clear idea what's up. Yes maybe it's time to move on, but I can't. I can't get him off my mind. My venus is in Pisces and mars in Gemini, along with pisces sun and cancer moon/virgo risingclick to expand
You sound like a very sweet person, my sister is a Pisces as well and she has one of the biggest hearts of anybody I've met in life. I'm sorry he is treating you like this. I hope you realize that you have a lot to offer, and that you deserve someone that appreciates this quality and gives it back to you. Don't know how old you are, but this is something that it took me a long time to learn in life. You can't make someone change, and you can't make someone want to be involved in your life fully that doesn't have the same desire. You should feel comfortable being yourself, and your partner should be there for you through the good times and the bad. All the best to you, I think you have your answer already...
Posted by DMVPosted by lisabethur8Do you think a male mars Virgo needs to be chased 2?Posted by DMVvirgo venus in a man is really insecure. they need chasers.Posted by Leo188881My ex had Venus in Virgo and Leo sun, sag moon.
My venus is in virgo. I had no idea what that meant until i did a quick Google search just now. It seems to contradict what my Leo sun and Aires moon suggest.
When I'm into someone, I don't stop thinking about them. I'm super affectionate and stand offish and detatched all at the same time. One minute i feel insecure and unlovable and the next i feel like I'm awesome and how could you not love me. I'm a bit of a contradiction. I think my birth date is crazy and confused 😐
He was soooooo affectionate. That's what made me fall in love.
The insecurity was alot to deal with.
my sister is an aries sun, aqua venus, taurus moon pisces mars...she chased but at least he reciprocated cause he liked her alot in the beginning and it grew to love.
oh her husband is libra sun virgo venus.
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but also it depends on the house too.
6th house venus can have similar effects.
and virgo mars in 12th house is dissovled and can out very piscean/ like pisces mars
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