I can't work with Cancers!

I've worked with a lot of cancerians and we always clash in one way or another I'm starting to think god has put them on earth to teach me patience or to speak up against them because the patient approach isn't doing shit for me.

First time I picked on this shit was my first ex cancerian he was in advertising and he had this Vietnamese assistant and he would always come home telling me how useless she is and he would enjoy telling me how he bosses her around.

Second time was when I was working at a restaurant I was the only gay guy working there and the cancerian guy working there liked to pretend he was gay/fey so he could sleaze on girls but when he was around me he would act alpha male....everyone hated him there as well

Third time was my bitch boss from hell, I threw my back out at work and really hurt it and she would say I was useless even though I was doing all the labour in the store and all the customers liked me and hated her because she would gossip about them in the store and would go apeshit every delivery day, 6 months after I quit the store closed down and she has been jumping from job to job because people can't stand her.

Now I'm at my current job, there is this cancer guy who is useless at his job, he is always on his phone when he works at the bar, he eats behind the bar and everyone mentions how lazy and useless he is yet he still works here....

On the other end of the spectrum there is this cancerian girl who kisses the bosses ass so much but throws her other work mates under the bus because she wants to be manager so much but instead of working hard she gets other people to do her work for her, apparently she has even started taking pictures after the bar has been closed of things people haven't been doing properly and sending them to the manager, she has no intention of working as a team leader let alone a part of a team.

And now I come to my cancerian manager, I like him as a friend but professionally he is asshole and prides himself on being one, I turn up to work half an hour early and ready to work every shift with a smile on my face and he just says "wtf are you smiling at" and he is purely an unpleasant guy to work with because he is a drunk and his life is shit and he purely likes to bring people down and it gives him some sort of relief to, he accused me of leaving the pub unlocked the other night and I knew he was lying so I said "no I didn't" and he threatened me saying "do you want me to tell the manager that you left the pub unlocked"? I wanted to take him to the office to show me on the cameras but I didn't want to start an argument with him....anyways as Ai was leaving he said I needed to learn respect......but I don't have respect for him, I don't expect him to be a nice guy and kiss my ass I just expect him to be professional and he's not even that, he sleazes on the other girls in the bar and they all reciprocate because it gets them more shifts but behind his back they come to me telling me how much of a sneeze he is!!

The main thing I notice about cancerians is when they feel threatened they lash out, their emotions are like dropping a glass of water, they crack and water goes everywhere....

Crabs are hard on the outside and soft on the inside and that's what tricks everyone into thinking they're competent because they have this false bravado going on and people eat that shit....I see through that shit but I don't know what to do with it.

Albus dumbledore tricks

I know a few who are awesome people, genuine and caring and enjoy the world. they just get on with shit. And I know a few who are absolutely vile, I can feel toxic dripping off them. Yuk. Though there are some who are in between and i guess every sign has these I just feel it more clearly with Cancers as I am a Scorpio.

The bad Cancers ive known have a way of thinking that the world around them is evil and they are gods gift to cure it, When in reality they are projecting that evil out on the world. And what you said, They love to bring you down to their level, misery loves company and they have no back bone to face their pain on their own. The also get pissed off at me when I am in bad mood and act like it is any of their business lol, they are offended that I have feelings. Truth is they are extremely emphatic but they are not built to handle a Scorpios emotions one little taste of it sends them into a freak out, this is the bad ones. The good ones will be there for you in mind body soul and spirit, they bad ones will just resent you for it.

sorry @OP, it is what it is with cookiemonster people - be it Cancer or not - you're having your share poor thing -

I notice that those who bash the labeling across the board just turn around and lash out in the same fashion so ?

it is what it is ...

i worked with a few females and they are alright.. most days , except on full moons, then watch out.

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Uh, I have never had anything by positive experiences with Cancers.