@heliumfiasco
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I have no game. I do not know how to flirt, and rarely ever get hit on.
haha!
Posted by heliumfiasco
Does anyone else suffer from this? haha
With a face like yours you don't need game. Sit back and let the men come to you.
Posted by heliumfiasco
Does anyone else suffer from this? hahaWith a face like yours you don't need game. Sit back and let the men come to you.
She said she rarely gets hit on.
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I very much doubt that. She just doesn't recognize that she's being hit on.
Op, if a guy strikes up a conversation with you and he's not taking your order or trying to sell you something... he's interested.
Posted by heliumfiasco
Does anyone else suffer from this? hahaWhats your ascendant
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I'm also curious to know...
I just totally feel like men might be interested but never take the initiative. Ya know? I also depending on my mood can be extremely introverted or extroverted... one extreme or the other, as I get older way more introverted.
Posted by heliumfiasco
Does anyone else suffer from this? hahaWith a face like yours you don't need game. Sit back and let the men come to you.
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Awww thanks! That was really nice!
What about the cancer guy tho? U never reply to that
Posted by Mimi24
What about the cancer guy tho? U never reply to that
That never mended itself. He acted like a child. I am moving forward.
I'm just looking to get some game going. I feel like Im soooo awkward. haha
Posted by Mimi24
What about the cancer guy tho? U never reply to thatThat never mended itself. He acted like a child. I am moving forward.
I'm just looking to get some game going. I feel like Im soooo awkward. haha
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If you see a cute guy, smile and make eye contact. It really is that simple.
Posted by heliumfiasco
Does anyone else suffer from this? hahaWith a face like yours you don't need game. Sit back and let the men come to you.
All right, calm down.
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Lol just keeping it ?
Posted by UnderFire
And that's coming from a Libra with a Gemini moon? You must be kidding me, no? Lmao!JK
Actually my Libra sun, Gemini moon, Libra rising friend is the same as her and she's beautiful af.
Posted by tiziani
I never get hit on either.Tall + stoic face.
Dont we have similar charts?!
Posted by Mimi24
What about the cancer guy tho? U never reply to thatThat never mended itself. He acted like a child. I am moving forward.
I'm just looking to get some game going. I feel like Im soooo awkward. haha
What bout the virgo at work?
Blimey! It's all coming out of the woodwork!
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The Virgo is cute, but I dont really know if hes interested. We actually have mutual friends outside of work and we are going to a concert together next Thursday. I need to step my game up by then!! haha
Posted by tiziani
I never get hit on either.Tall + stoic face.
Dont we have similar charts?!
Yep, I think we may even be born on the same day, same year. The 5th?
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Oct 4th 1985 8:16 am
When I was single I had the same problem. Plus if I like someone I won't give anything away until I feel the feelings mutual. Infact I was more introverted around people that I fancied until I felt comfortable.
When I did the online dating one of my dates told me that if he seen me in a bar he would never have approached me?! I asked why, he said that my height (5ft 10 without heels) the way I dress, I can be reserved, I'm not loud and brash, he said he'd feel like I was too intimidating to approach!! I was like "i'm one of the most down to earth people you could meet! I'll talk to anyone" he said I know that because I got to know you before we met. Charming ?
I liked the Cancer because I had to do zero work breaking the ice on our date. He was so outwardly confident (inside not so much,come to find out) But our first date he just came in my house, opened my fridge, grabbed a beer and was like "sup?". I appreciated someone making me feel so at ease. He wasnt someone id physically go after, but that was so attractive to me.
Posted by Mimi24
What about the cancer guy tho? U never reply to thatThat never mended itself. He acted like a child. I am moving forward.
I'm just looking to get some game going. I feel like Im soooo awkward. haha
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A Gemini moon....Girl how come?!!
I can easily flirt with people I'm not interested in.
Apparently, I do this all the time..but didn't know.
Maybe it's part of the Libra Moon charm....
When it comes to someone I'm interested in...like really interested....I have the worst game ever.
New game plan is just to shut up, act aloof and barely reply to texts.
I did that in the beginning and it worked really well. Now that I've opened up and am acting normal.I feel the power dynamic has shifted and I'm coming across like I'm really into her. And she's taking that for granted.....and subsequently cheapening our interactions.
Time to pull back...way the fuq back...and go cold.
Depends on how comfortable you are talking to people. Really that's all flirting is, talking. You can also call men to you by simply looking at a man, holding eye contact, and smiling. Play with your hair for added effect. Touching a man's arm and laughing at his "jokes" will also portray interest. Tease the guy a little to make sure he's got a spine, but keep it playful. Keep it simple.
Posted by tiziani
I never get hit on either.Tall + stoic face.
Pfffft! You live in the wrong zip code. Your hair alone is a conversation starter.
People think I'm flirting when I'm avoiding them and avoiding them when I'm trying to flirt.
I have good game though with the ones I'm not really interested romantically.. but I'm clumsy when it's someone I do like.
And about you, maybe it's the same issue haha but I'm sure you do get hit on but maybe guys who you don't like so you don't care. The ones you do like might be afraid to reach out to you.
Posted by Aerazo
People think I'm flirting when I'm avoiding them and avoiding them when I'm trying to flirt.
Those are my experiences with you guys. lol
Give an example if possible
Posted by Aerazo
People think I'm flirting when I'm avoiding them and avoiding them when I'm trying to flirt.Those are my experiences with you guys. lol
Give an example if possible
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lol When a guy I'm not interested talks to me. I talk!! and even long time, no nervousness and I'm even funny making jokes then they ask me out and I just smile trying to say no thanks. Some keep insisting, I've been called egocentric, and I've even had to call security twice. Some guys get rude when turned down.
When a guy I like talks to me I am staring trying to seem interested but all my mind is blank so I can't recall anything to talk about. I stay there, they think I'm not interested and leave. They don't even ask me out 😢 Some have actually told me they like me and I agree to go out but I have hard time telling saying I like them.
Posted by Aerazo
People think I'm flirting when I'm avoiding them and avoiding them when I'm trying to flirt.Those are my experiences with you guys. lol
Give an example if possible
lol When a guy I'm not interested talks to me. I talk!! and even long time, no nervousness and I'm even funny making jokes then they ask me out and I just smile trying to say no thanks.
When a guy I like talks to me I am staring trying to seem interested but all my mind is blank so I can't recall anything to talk about. I stay there, they think I'm not interested and leave. They don't even ask me out 😢 Some have actually told me they like me and I agree to go out but I have hard time telling saying I like them.
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I see
A lot of women do this though
Im just awkward I guess. One of my guy friends said I have an intimidating disposition. Like not very approachable.
Just talk like your from the skreets
Posted by heliumfiasco
Im just awkward I guess. One of my guy friends said I have an intimidating disposition. Like not very approachable.
Are you Scorpio rising? I know misted said libra but if your sun is leeb in 12th doesn't that make you a fellow scorp rising?
You have RBF and you will seem unapproachable and cold to others. Smile more...*cringe*
Posted by heliumfiasco
Does anyone else suffer from this? hahaWhats your ascendant
I'm also curious to know...
Maybe she like me intimidates people?she looks unapproachable
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This ^ is what I get told by my guy friends... All. The. Time.
Posted by heliumfiasco
Does anyone else suffer from this? haha
That damn 12 house
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
its because MEN ARE PUSSIES, THEY CAN'T DO SHIT WITHOUT THE INTERNET.V
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That's a vivid picture you've drawn.
When I did the online dating one of my dates told me that if he seen me in a bar he would never have approached me?! I asked why, he said that my height (5ft 10 without heels) the way I dress, I can be reserved, I'm not loud and brash, he said he'd feel like I was too intimidating to approach!!
Same problem #tallgirlissues
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Tall girls are the best for so many reasons. I've never understood men who get intimidated by height. Not to hate on short women, I love them too.
Sun Libra, Moon Gemini, Mercury Libra, Venus Virgo, Mars Virgo, Ascendant Libra.
You have almost the same chart as my ex (Gem Rising though) & that chick had MAD game. #astrologyisbs
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX
Hang out with me for a night and I'll show you my ways.
You near Boston? haha
When I did the online dating one of my dates told me that if he seen me in a bar he would never have approached me?! I asked why, he said that my height (5ft 10 without heels) the way I dress, I can be reserved, I'm not loud and brash, he said he'd feel like I was too intimidating to approach!!
Same problem #tallgirlissues
Tall girls are the best for so many reasons. I've never understood men who get intimidated by height. Not to hate on short women, I love them too.
Maybe it's the height combination with my first impression or personality. I've had men say to me that I am very intimidating due to my heigh, body type, beauty and brains.
It sucks because I'm not willing to compromise my personality or who I am to get the guy. I think this why I like fire signs or end up with fire sign dominant men. Very straightforward and unafraid (or at least pretend they aren't).
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That's a good thing, it shows you have inner strength. Never compromise your personality. The right guys won't be intimidated.
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Does anyone else suffer from this? haha