
Scenic
@Scenic
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Posted by Undine
To have the same impact as a man's fist, a woman would have to use a baseball bat!
Posted by xcakePosted by Undine
Again. "The difference is that a GUY who did what she did would have his ass in JAIL."
The point I'm making is that a furious man will make more damage (and therefore more likely to land in jail) than a similarly furious woman, due to the sheer strength of his muscles.
Are you really surprised by that?click to expand
You might be right.
Now, is it excusable for a woman to hit a man?
Posted by CharlieSlaughter
Burn the past and let it go my friend .
You MUST take this kind of things out of your life:
*Destructive Relationships
*False friendship
No foolish emotions, stay free!
Posted by cornfuzzled4ever
ot friends, because my friends wouldn't cross the lines that she had, and she burst into tears and punched me in the face. I got into my car and left.
The END
In her situation, she shouldn't have punched the guy. But after what he did to her and WHEN, I totally think he deserved to be slapped. If one of MY male friends did that to a girl and told me about it, I'd slap them upside the face. And I'd expect them to do the same to me.
Posted by cornfuzzled4everPosted by bkbella86Posted by xcakePosted by Undine
Again. "The difference is that a GUY who did what she did would have his ass in JAIL."
The point I'm making is that a furious man will make more damage (and therefore more likely to land in jail) than a similarly furious woman, due to the sheer strength of his muscles.
Are you really surprised by that?click to expand
You might be right.
Now, is it excusable for a woman to hit a man?
Posted by scorchedearth
well if you don't think it's abuse... you at least accept that she assaulted him, yes? punching him in the face is assault.
and i've been on the receiving end of an abusive partner so the rest of what i have to say will not be liked by either of you.
if he wanted he could press charges and she could go to jail. she's lucky he's letting it go. no amount of strange justifications for terrible behavior by keyboard warriors would keep her ass out of jail.

Posted by scorchedearth
i don't think spanking is an effective form of punishment. a spanking hurts for two seconds and then you're off the hook. it's much better to take the tv or video games away for a week or whatever. THAT will piss them off and make them think twice before they misbehave.
it's not my place to tell other people how to raise their children though. but if it leaves a mark then they open themselves up to the courts and that is stupid. it's easier to just not hit your kids and then you don't have to worry about leaving bruises and getting your kids yanked for it.

Posted by scorchedearth
i don't think spanking is an effective form of punishment. a spanking hurts for two seconds and then you're off the hook.

Posted by cornfuzzled4everPosted by Scenic
. And if you forgot the point I was making since I almost did, I've already confirmed she was violent and since it appears that physical violence against a person is abuse, she would have also committed abuse. .
Touche 🙂click to expand


Posted by cornfuzzled4ever
I'll have to disagree to an extent, about physical punishment being solely about fear of pain. When I said I would slap a friend or expect a friend to slap me if I did something super douchey, I say that because it's happened many times. The last time a friend slapped me, it was because I was making excuses to not go talk to some girl that I thought was cute. So one of my friends stepped up and slapped me upside the face, harder than any female has ever hit me, honestly. And I wasn't afraid of this dude at all; in fact, we both knew I could have beat him in a fight without trying. Anyday. But the physical pain brought me back to reality and served to put me in my place. And I think people do need to be put in their place, every now and then.
^Just trying to derail further. 😉
Posted by CharlieSlaughter
Burn the past and let it go my friend .
You MUST take this kind of things out of your life:
*Destructive Relationships
*False friendship
No foolish emotions, stay free!
Posted by cornfuzzled4ever
ot friends, because my friends wouldn't cross the lines that she had, and she burst into tears and punched me in the face. I got into my car and left.
The END
In her situation, she shouldn't have punched the guy. But after what he did to her and WHEN, I totally think he deserved to be slapped. If one of MY male friends did that to a girl and told me about it, I'd slap them upside the face. And I'd expect them to do the same to me.
Posted by scorchedearth
well if you don't think it's abuse... you at least accept that she assaulted him, yes? punching him in the face is assault.
and i've been on the receiving end of an abusive partner so the rest of what i have to say will not be liked by either of you.
if he wanted he could press charges and she could go to jail. she's lucky he's letting it go. no amount of strange justifications for terrible behavior by keyboard warriors would keep her ass out of jail.
Posted by scorchedearth
the thing that pisses me off about this dumb bitch is that while she keeps saying "i know what i did was wrong i wish i could take it back" she's also saying shit like her friends tell her he deserved it and it wasn't a big deal, thus making excuses and justifications for her behavior passively.
laying hands on someone is always a big deal. shit like that can escalate very quickly. and it's not okay for her to do it because she's a vag. if it was some dude that did the same shit everyone would freak their shit and run the guy off the board.
look at how aggressively some people attack tbc since he said he assaulted his wife. there's very few threads he's involved in that don't get that thrown in his face. tbc has deleted multiple times no doubt to destroy evidence about his abusive past.
Posted by scorchedearth
cornfuzzled, getting hit is not fun. getting hit by someone that supposedly cares about you is even less fun.

Posted by cornfuzzled4ever
@Scenic, thanks for YOUR link, hahaha I'll want to link battle you later, but on this battle, you win and I lose.
As for children, I really think it's situational. The way I perceive it, it should only be done WHEN it's explained that its for the child's own good. Yes, I realize that not all children (perhaps most?) can't understand that. That is why I think its got to be offset with the love, so they don't view the parent as a monster, but STILL as someone in authority. And even if they don't understand it, they'll remember it, and at some moment the "aha!" will occur. If not, I think it's probably that the child has deeper issues than having been spanked for discipline. I actually completely agree with Andalusia's sentiment. If spanking is done in anger, then the parent shouldn't be doing it. But I don't think that precludes spanking entirely as a form of discipline. I just think that it means that you shouldn't try and discipline your child when you're angry at them. I don't think you should make judgments based on emotions anyway.
^This sounds like a new thread entirely.

Posted by bkbella86
should ALL parents be hauled off to jail for spanking their children?

Quick question, why are you so angry?


Posted by cornfuzzled4ever
@Scenic, well thank you for fully explaining your views throughout this discourse. I'll have thoughts to chew along with my chicken for dinner 🙂
Also, I'm not a parent. So I fully appreciate my own lack of experience in this area. Good to have these discussion though now, to better prepare for then.
But I'm not changing my stance about matured adults needing to be slapped, when they're acting immature. 😛

Posted by scorchedearth
jesus... when will you idiots realize i'm not angry. it's like some of you refuse to believe that aries placements exist in real life. *shakes head*


Posted by scorchedearth
if you hit one person in the face in anger it's likely that you'll hit someone else in anger too. that's why people want women to leave their abusive husbands. it doesn't stop and it gets worse over time. sometimes it ends up with the person dying.
you're just sucking the dicks of everyone that is essentially saying what you did is okay. you've done nothing but make excuses over what you did trying to justify your actions. you're really lucky he didn't beat your fucking ass for hitting him. you should never hit a man unless you expect to be hit like a man. what you did was fucking moronic and suicidal. you should be grateful it was a pisces you hit and not a fire sign.
Posted by cornfuzzled4everPosted by scorchedearth
you're really lucky he didn't beat your fucking ass for hitting him. you should never hit a man unless you expect to be hit like a man. what you did was fucking moronic and suicidal. you should be grateful it was a pisces you hit and not a fire sign.
Okay, this I have to stand behind.click to expand


Posted by scorchedearth
if you hit one person in the face in anger it's likely that you'll hit someone else in anger too. that's why people want women to leave their abusive husbands. it doesn't stop and it gets worse over time. sometimes it ends up with the person dying.
you're just sucking the dicks of everyone that is essentially saying what you did is okay. you've done nothing but make excuses over what you did trying to justify your actions. you're really lucky he didn't beat your fucking ass for hitting him. you should never hit a man unless you expect to be hit like a man. what you did was fucking moronic and suicidal. you should be grateful it was a pisces you hit and not a fire sign.
Posted by scorchedearth
xo, you're a piece of shit person and i hope like hell that he presses charges against you instead of bashing your skull in. something needs to happen so that you actually understand the seriousness of your actions. right now you're parroting "oh i know what i did was terrible, BUT" with the emphasis on the but. you don't seem to understand the gravity of your actions.
and these people aren't doing you any favors. if you don't learn that what you did has consequences you're going to do it again and there's no guarantee that the next guy you hit will take it as passively as this one. the next one could beat you to death for daring. that's the thing you're not understanding.
Posted by scorchedearth
how do you decide what a "good" reason is though. some man could decide that his wife telling her friends about his cheating as a "good" reason to slap the shit out of her. in his mind that makes total sense.
i would hope to most people that would seem insane.
Posted by scorchedearth
xo, you're a piece of shit person and i hope like hell that he presses charges against you instead of bashing your skull in. something needs to happen so that you actually understand the seriousness of your actions. right now you're parroting "oh i know what i did was terrible, BUT" with the emphasis on the but. you don't seem to understand the gravity of your actions.
and these people aren't doing you any favors. if you don't learn that what you did has consequences you're going to do it again and there's no guarantee that the next guy you hit will take it as passively as this one. the next one could beat you to death for daring. that's the thing you're not understanding.
Posted by scorchedearth
listen you ignorant man beating cunt... i'm not angry. if you keep running your fucking mouth and piss me off you'll not like what happens. i've told you already that i'm not angry. accept it and move on.
and no, i've never punched someone in the face in anger. so in that way i'm nothing like you. i cuss a lot which isn't a crime. i will also never get an assault charge for calling you a dumb bitch. you on the other hand could have your ass in jail because you can't control yourself and you got all butthurt because some man cancelled plans. that's why you hit him. he cancelled. it hurt your feelings? big fucking deal. there is no excuse for laying your hands on someone else in anger. if he had done the same to you you would have thrown his ass in jail.
Posted by scorchedearthPosted by XOXO2UPosted by scorchedearth
cornfuzzled, getting hit is not fun. getting hit by someone that supposedly cares about you is even less fun.
Neither is getting your feelings hurt by someone that supposedly cares about you. Like I said before, in my opinion, emotional pain cuts deeper and lasts longer. Still to this day I would trade the emotional pain I felt with the physical pain he felt. And no, I'm not justifying my actions.
Quick question, why are you so angry?
so if i went to your house and beat you half to death you would prefer that to me calling you a stupid cunt? honest question.click to expand
Posted by scorchedearthPosted by bkbella86Posted by scorchedearth
listen you ignorant man beating cunt... i'm not angry. if you keep running your fucking mouth and piss me off you'll not like what happens. i've told you already that i'm not angry. accept it and move on.
and no, i've never punched someone in the face in anger. so in that way i'm nothing like you. i cuss a lot which isn't a crime. i will also never get an assault charge for calling you a dumb bitch. you on the other hand could have your ass in jail because you can't control yourself and you got all butthurt because some man cancelled plans. that's why you hit him. he cancelled. it hurt your feelings? big fucking deal. there is no excuse for laying your hands on someone else in anger. if he had done the same to you you would have thrown his ass in jail.
stfu
you scare no one
go fuck yourself bella. you're sitting here advocating domestic violence so really your opinion on anything really isn't worth dick. it would be interesting to see what you would do if some man beat your ass for your mouth. you'd probably run crying to the police assuming a victim stance.
but it's totally okay for this bitch to punch some dude in the face because he didn't want to hang out with her.click to expand

Posted by scorchedearth
listen you ignorant man beating cunt... i'm not angry. if you keep running your fucking mouth and piss me off you'll not like what happens. i've told you already that i'm not angry. accept it and move on.
and no, i've never punched someone in the face in anger. so in that way i'm nothing like you. i cuss a lot which isn't a crime. i will also never get an assault charge for calling you a dumb bitch. you on the other hand could have your ass in jail because you can't control yourself and you got all butthurt because some man cancelled plans. that's why you hit him. he cancelled. it hurt your feelings? big fucking deal. there is no excuse for laying your hands on someone else in anger. if he had done the same to you you would have thrown his ass in jail.

Posted by xcakePosted by Scenic
Imo, those first two videos display that these women feel they can do whatever they want and not have consequences to their actions. This is from being socialized. Of course, either gender can think like this. The third video was completely different, though. In the end, whoever commits an act of violence is wrong and should probably get some help.
The third video is showing what man* can be capable of since
"The point I'm making is that a furious man will make more damage (and therefore more likely to land in jail) than a similarly furious woman, due to the sheer strength of his muscles."
If that ^ is true, I don't understand why some people are not understanding the gravity of the OPs action.click to expand
Posted by XOXO2UPosted by scorchedearth
listen you ignorant man beating cunt... i'm not angry. if you keep running your fucking mouth and piss me off you'll not like what happens. i've told you already that i'm not angry. accept it and move on.
and no, i've never punched someone in the face in anger. so in that way i'm nothing like you. i cuss a lot which isn't a crime. i will also never get an assault charge for calling you a dumb bitch. you on the other hand could have your ass in jail because you can't control yourself and you got all butthurt because some man cancelled plans. that's why you hit him. he cancelled. it hurt your feelings? big fucking deal. there is no excuse for laying your hands on someone else in anger. if he had done the same to you you would have thrown his ass in jail.
Is that a threat, Angry Bird?
Aaaaand you're wrong again. Him canceling wasn't the only reason why I was hurt. Instead of reading my comments, you pick and choose little things out of it to make it come off the way you want it to.click to expand

Posted by scorchedearthPosted by bkbella86Posted by scorchedearth
listen you ignorant man beating cunt... i'm not angry. if you keep running your fucking mouth and piss me off you'll not like what happens. i've told you already that i'm not angry. accept it and move on.
and no, i've never punched someone in the face in anger. so in that way i'm nothing like you. i cuss a lot which isn't a crime. i will also never get an assault charge for calling you a dumb bitch. you on the other hand could have your ass in jail because you can't control yourself and you got all butthurt because some man cancelled plans. that's why you hit him. he cancelled. it hurt your feelings? big fucking deal. there is no excuse for laying your hands on someone else in anger. if he had done the same to you you would have thrown his ass in jail.
stfu
you scare no one
go fuck yourself bella. you're sitting here advocating domestic violence so really your opinion on anything really isn't worth dick. it would be interesting to see what you would do if some man beat your ass for your mouth. you'd probably run crying to the police assuming a victim stance.
but it's totally okay for this bitch to punch some dude in the face because he didn't want to hang out with her.click to expand
Posted by Scenic
XOXO, why are you only responding to the posts that get you riled up? Do you like to be angry and/or upset? I thought I gave pretty good advice about two pages back but it was ignored in favor of giving in to your ego and anger
Posted by scorchedearth
i never said i wanted to hurt you with me words so i don't really give a shit either way. and i'm not angry you dumb bitch. what about that is hard for you to understand?
the people close to you are blowing smoke up your ass justifying your violent behavior.
some man not wanting to spend time with you is NOT a good reason to HIT them. what part of that are you not understanding? that's what this all boils down to. you got butthurt that the guy you were seeing didn't want to spend time with you. your crazy ass pounded down his door and forced yourself into his place and then ASSAULTED HIM because he said something you didn't like.

Posted by bkbella86Posted by Scenic
XOXO, why are you only responding to the posts that get you riled up? Do you like to be angry and/or upset? I thought I gave pretty good advice about two pages back but it was ignored in favor of giving in to your ego and anger
someone wants an award for great advice...lol
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I wonder if you've even looked up the word abuse? Go ahead, type in 'is it abuse if it only happens once?' And tells me what everything on the front page says. Not a single post is going to say 'if it happens once it's not abuse'. Abuse can be physical or mental so I'm assuming you at least think that getting punched on multiple occasions would be abuse, so thus, it comes down to 'does getting hit once count?'. That's why I think it's relevant to look up the information above.
Also I'm not sure why you mention spanking kids because there's tons of evidence to support that hitting your child is damaging and does not correct behavior and plenty of teachers are now including this in their lectures, which is where I learned this from. It would be much easier to form an argument based around 'hitting people causes negative reactions and can even cause mental issues' with what you said.