XOXO2U
@XOXO2U
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Posted by ScenicPosted by bkbella86Posted by Scenic
XOXO, why are you only responding to the posts that get you riled up? Do you like to be angry and/or upset? I thought I gave pretty good advice about two pages back but it was ignored in favor of giving in to your ego and anger
someone wants an award for great advice...lol
Sorry, am I not allowed to be anything but a bitch? Don't worry, I'll go back to being that just for you since you seem to like that side to me so much. *wink*click to expand
Posted by bkbella86Posted by XOXO2UPosted by scorchedearth
listen you ignorant man beating cunt... i'm not angry. if you keep running your fucking mouth and piss me off you'll not like what happens. i've told you already that i'm not angry. accept it and move on.
and no, i've never punched someone in the face in anger. so in that way i'm nothing like you. i cuss a lot which isn't a crime. i will also never get an assault charge for calling you a dumb bitch. you on the other hand could have your ass in jail because you can't control yourself and you got all butthurt because some man cancelled plans. that's why you hit him. he cancelled. it hurt your feelings? big fucking deal. there is no excuse for laying your hands on someone else in anger. if he had done the same to you you would have thrown his ass in jail.
Is that a threat, Angry Bird?
Aaaaand you're wrong again. Him canceling wasn't the only reason why I was hurt. Instead of reading my comments, you pick and choose little things out of it to make it come off the way you want it to.
dont give this bird anymore life xoxox
talking bout she aint angry...lol its hard to tell.click to expand

Posted by bkbella86Posted by ScenicPosted by bkbella86Posted by Scenic
XOXO, why are you only responding to the posts that get you riled up? Do you like to be angry and/or upset? I thought I gave pretty good advice about two pages back but it was ignored in favor of giving in to your ego and anger
someone wants an award for great advice...lol
Sorry, am I not allowed to be anything but a bitch? Don't worry, I'll go back to being that just for you since you seem to like that side to me so much. *wink*
bitch? i dont remember ever calling ya one
do you?
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Posted by Scenic
XOXO, why are you only responding to the posts that get you riled up? Do you like to be angry and/or upset? I thought I gave pretty good advice about two pages back but it was ignored in favor of giving in to your ego and anger
Posted by bkbella86
xoxo please dont delete this...theres no need to

Posted by Andalusia
XOXO - my advice would be to take up a sport. Preferably a vigorous, competitive, endurance based one.. Maybe something like marathon canoe racing. Or bouldering.. Something to focus your mind and burn off some of the shit-ton of extraneous aggressive energy you've got coursing through you on a constant basis.
Posted by scorchedearth
give me a fucking break. i don't really give a shit what either of you think about me. so shove it up your ass.
xo, you'd be thinking about this thing in a completely different way if you had ever been on the receiving end of physical violence. you don't see it as a big of a deal as it really is because you've never gone through it. that's why you say stupid shit like "my friends told me he deserved it!" sorry. no one deserves to get punched in the face. it doesn't matter what they say to you or how many times they don't want to be around you. NOTHING gives you the right to physically harm another person.
i seriously hope you never end up in that situation. getting your ass beat actually hurts a lot more than being called names. i know because i've lived through it. it's not a hypothetical thing for me.

Posted by XOXO2UPosted by bkbella86
xoxo please dont delete this...theres no need to
She said that because she wants to take my thread to the police. That's why she keeps threatening me, but she doesn't put fear in my heart.click to expand

Posted by scorchedearthPosted by ScenicPosted by XOXO2UPosted by bkbella86
xoxo please dont delete this...theres no need to
She said that because she wants to take my thread to the police. That's why she keeps threatening me, but she doesn't put fear in my heart.
— Wasn't I the one who suggested taking down the thread? Did scorched do it too?
I don't remember threatening you? I'm confused. Did I miss something?
yeah i told her she should delete the thread. she wasn't talking about you.click to expand
Posted by scorchedearth
LOL. you're going to tell me what my ex didn't like about me? wow. what a dumb bitch.
jesus. the things abusive people will reach for to try to make themselves look bigger.
Posted by scorchedearth
i think the only way someone like you will really understand how fucked up and abusive it is is if it happens to you.
i don't wish that on anyone though.

Posted by xcake
Just trying to tell XO what could have possibly happened and since some women on this thread seems to encourage her behavior.
There are men out there who wouldn't think twice hitting a woman back. A slap would be enough to get knocked out, just like the first video.
If men are "stronger" then I wouldn't be encouraging or justifying XO's actions.

Posted by ScenicPosted by XOXO2UPosted by bkbella86
xoxo please dont delete this...theres no need to
She said that because she wants to take my thread to the police. That's why she keeps threatening me, but she doesn't put fear in my heart.
— Wasn't I the one who suggested taking down the thread? Did scorched do it too?
I don't remember threatening you? I'm confused. Did I miss something?click to expand
Posted by scorchedearth
oh spare me the "i've had a hard life" shit. there's not a person walking that hasn't had a difficult life. abusive parents. abusive partner. drug problems. friends betraying you. children hating you. people dying. people leaving and never coming back. you don't impress me with the fact you think you had a hard life. name me one person that hasn't.
Posted by scorchedearthPosted by XOXO2UPosted by scorchedearth
LOL. you're going to tell me what my ex didn't like about me? wow. what a dumb bitch.
jesus. the things abusive people will reach for to try to make themselves look bigger.
ABUSIVE PEOPLE— WHO'S ABUSING WHO HERE? IT MAY BE VERBALLY, BUT YOU ARE VERY ABUSIVE. And you probably verbally abused your ex, you abusive, Angry Bird. Too bad your abuse doesn't bother me. It's entertaining.
actually i've never been verbally abusive to an ex. i don't talk that way to everyone. you can ask feby of scenic if i've ever talked to them that way, and they'll tell you i haven't.
the only time i talk to someone that way is if they're themselves abusive and a waste of space. there's plenty of people i've never used a swear word once to.click to expand

Posted by scorchedearth
only one of us has slapped someone around in anger. ijs.
Posted by scorchedearth
i believe you about you not hitting someone else in anger about as much as you believe me about not being verbally abusive to my exs. the difference, i really wasn't. 😉

Posted by XOXO2UPosted by scorchedearthPosted by XOXO2UPosted by scorchedearth
LOL. you're going to tell me what my ex didn't like about me? wow. what a dumb bitch.
jesus. the things abusive people will reach for to try to make themselves look bigger.
ABUSIVE PEOPLE— WHO'S ABUSING WHO HERE? IT MAY BE VERBALLY, BUT YOU ARE VERY ABUSIVE. And you probably verbally abused your ex, you abusive, Angry Bird. Too bad your abuse doesn't bother me. It's entertaining.
actually i've never been verbally abusive to an ex. i don't talk that way to everyone. you can ask feby of scenic if i've ever talked to them that way, and they'll tell you i haven't.
the only time i talk to someone that way is if they're themselves abusive and a waste of space. there's plenty of people i've never used a swear word once to.
Buuuuuuuulllshiiiiiiit, Angry Bird! I'm suuuure you verbally abused your ex. And don't tell me to ask anyone if you talk to others that way, YOU DO! One person already said it A FEW TIMES. She said you talk to everyone like that on other threads. Please spare me the bullsh*t. Please go to another thread. You said pages upson pages back that you weren't gonna reply again on this thread, but you're still here cos all you want to do is be angry, you verbally abusive Angry Bird.click to expand
Posted by bkbella86Posted by XOXO2UPosted by scorchedearthPosted by XOXO2UPosted by scorchedearth
LOL. you're going to tell me what my ex didn't like about me? wow. what a dumb bitch.
jesus. the things abusive people will reach for to try to make themselves look bigger.
ABUSIVE PEOPLE— WHO'S ABUSING WHO HERE? IT MAY BE VERBALLY, BUT YOU ARE VERY ABUSIVE. And you probably verbally abused your ex, you abusive, Angry Bird. Too bad your abuse doesn't bother me. It's entertaining.
actually i've never been verbally abusive to an ex. i don't talk that way to everyone. you can ask feby of scenic if i've ever talked to them that way, and they'll tell you i haven't.
the only time i talk to someone that way is if they're themselves abusive and a waste of space. there's plenty of people i've never used a swear word once to.
Buuuuuuuulllshiiiiiiit, Angry Bird! I'm suuuure you verbally abused your ex. And don't tell me to ask anyone if you talk to others that way, YOU DO! One person already said it A FEW TIMES. She said you talk to everyone like that on other threads. Please spare me the bullsh*t. Please go to another thread. You said pages upson pages back that you weren't gonna reply again on this thread, but you're still here cos all you want to do is be angry, you verbally abusive Angry Bird.
She sure does. Many a time. She got really mad once when someone kept talking about her beloved sun sign. She goes from zero to 100 in 5 seconds or less. She is verbally abusive and has been since I've been around.click to expand

Posted by scorchedearth
scenic, i've never been verbally abusive to an ex. the ex that hit me said i was the best partner she ever had and that she didn't deserve me. the reason for the abuse had nothing to do with me. she had a lot of abusive partners and didn't know how to handle the dynamic of a healthy relationship and because i wasn't abusive she became the abusive party. those are her words, not mine.
Posted by scorchedearth
scenic, i've never been verbally abusive to an ex. the ex that hit me said i was the best partner she ever had and that she didn't deserve me. the reason for the abuse had nothing to do with me. she had a lot of abusive partners and didn't know how to handle the dynamic of a healthy relationship and because i wasn't abusive she became the abusive party. those are her words, not mine.

Posted by bkbella86Posted by scorchedearth
scenic, i've never been verbally abusive to an ex. the ex that hit me said i was the best partner she ever had and that she didn't deserve me. the reason for the abuse had nothing to do with me. she had a lot of abusive partners and didn't know how to handle the dynamic of a healthy relationship and because i wasn't abusive she became the abusive party. those are her words, not mine.
Not verbally abusive to an ex but only to strangers behind computers.click to expand
Posted by scorchedearth
i've never verbally abused my exs. that's the thing and i find it disgusting that you essentially think i "made" them do it. nothing says abusive like blaming the victim. there's someone on here that knows how i act when i have feelings for someone and they would tell you that i've never been emotionally or verbally abusive to them.
you on the other hand are violent and hit people. i'm sure it wasn't the first time and undoubtedly it won't be the last.
there is a difference between calling someone a cunt and punching them in the face. if you don't know the difference there's nothing i can do to show you. because you just refuse to see.
you'll be lucky if you suffer no consequences for this. i will tell you though i wouldn't press my luck with another man. i doubt you'd be that lucky more than once. the next time you'll probably get the shit beaten out of you.

Posted by XOXO2U
you verbally abusive Angry Bird.

Posted by scorchedearth
are you retarded? i've told you more than once that i was never verbally abusive to any of my exs, and that's the truth. you have actually PUNCHED SOMEONE IN THE FUCKING FACE because you were mad.
Posted by scorchedearthPosted by XOXO2UPosted by scorchedearth
only one of us has slapped someone around in anger. ijs.
Oh, did the Angry Bird run out of crap to say? Got tired of being verbally abusive, calling me names and wishing bad on me? Got tired of judging me for my one mistake? I'm sure you'll think of something after reading this. I see you had nothing to say about my valid points. Yes, I did what I did and feel bad about it, but at least I can be open about it and admit it. Let's see you get up here and be honest about your verbally abusive ways and how you verbally abused your ex and caused your ex to snap and make you stfu. Nope, you don't have the guts to do that. But you do, however, have the guts to sit back and judge while verbally abusing me.
You need serious psychological help. At least I recognized what I did and how wrong I was. You can't even open your eyes and see what did and are still doing wrong, Angry Bird.
quoting this so you can't hide and then deny you blamed me for my ex hitting me. 😉click to expand

Posted by XOXO2U
You can quote me all you want, Angry Bird. It still doesn't stop you from being the verbally abusive person you are and, somehow oblivious to it. I indicated that you both were abusive to each other. And yes, your abuse cause your abusive ex to abuse you too, just not in the same way your abusive a** abused your ex! Angry Bird.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by XOXO2UPosted by scorchedearthPosted by XOXO2UPosted by scorchedearth
LOL. you're going to tell me what my ex didn't like about me? wow. what a dumb bitch.
jesus. the things abusive people will reach for to try to make themselves look bigger.
ABUSIVE PEOPLE— WHO'S ABUSING WHO HERE? IT MAY BE VERBALLY, BUT YOU ARE VERY ABUSIVE. And you probably verbally abused your ex, you abusive, Angry Bird. Too bad your abuse doesn't bother me. It's entertaining.
actually i've never been verbally abusive to an ex. i don't talk that way to everyone. you can ask feby of scenic if i've ever talked to them that way, and they'll tell you i haven't.
the only time i talk to someone that way is if they're themselves abusive and a waste of space. there's plenty of people i've never used a swear word once to.
Buuuuuuuulllshiiiiiiit, Angry Bird! I'm suuuure you verbally abused your ex. And don't tell me to ask anyone if you talk to others that way, YOU DO! One person already said it A FEW TIMES. She said you talk to everyone like that on other threads. Please spare me the bullsh*t. Please go to another thread. You said pages upson pages back that you weren't gonna reply again on this thread, but you're still here cos all you want to do is be angry, you verbally abusive Angry Bird.
She sure does. Many a time. She got really mad once when someone kept talking about her beloved sun sign. She goes from zero to 100 in 5 seconds or less. She is verbally abusive and has been since I've been around.click to expand

Posted by scorchedearth
scenic, i've never been verbally abusive to an ex. the ex that hit me said i was the best partner she ever had and that she didn't deserve me. the reason for the abuse had nothing to do with me. she had a lot of abusive partners and didn't know how to handle the dynamic of a healthy relationship and because i wasn't abusive she became the abusive party. those are her words, not mine.

Posted by ScenicPosted by bkbella86Posted by scorchedearth
scenic, i've never been verbally abusive to an ex. the ex that hit me said i was the best partner she ever had and that she didn't deserve me. the reason for the abuse had nothing to do with me. she had a lot of abusive partners and didn't know how to handle the dynamic of a healthy relationship and because i wasn't abusive she became the abusive party. those are her words, not mine.
Not verbally abusive to an ex but only to strangers behind computers.
http://www.loveisrespect.org/is-this-abuse/types-of-abuse/what-is-emotional-verbal-abuse<BR>
Excerpts:
"Calling you names and putting you down."
"Using online communities or cell phones to control, intimidate or humiliate you."
There's one or two others on there can be be relevant if you stretch them, but um....
what is XOXO and you doing right now? How many people on this site are free from this guilt? If you're going to call another emotionally/verbally abusive then you have to agree that you and some of the people you defend are, too.click to expand
Posted by bkbella86
Scorched I have one question for you tho...you let another women beat ya ass? Repeatedly?

Posted by bkbella86Posted by ScenicPosted by bkbella86Posted by scorchedearth
scenic, i've never been verbally abusive to an ex. the ex that hit me said i was the best partner she ever had and that she didn't deserve me. the reason for the abuse had nothing to do with me. she had a lot of abusive partners and didn't know how to handle the dynamic of a healthy relationship and because i wasn't abusive she became the abusive party. those are her words, not mine.
Not verbally abusive to an ex but only to strangers behind computers.
http://www.loveisrespect.org/is-this-abuse/types-of-abuse/what-is-emotional-verbal-abuse<BR>
Excerpts:
"Calling you names and putting you down."
"Using online communities or cell phones to control, intimidate or humiliate you."
There's one or two others on there can be be relevant if you stretch them, but um....
what is XOXO and you doing right now? How many people on this site are free from this guilt? If you're going to call another emotionally/verbally abusive then you have to agree that you and some of the people you defend are, too.
Ooo I see how you are...I have yet to see you call out ya friend burnt earth...it's ok when she does it?
The difference is I never said my hands were clean..and I never climbed on that high horse...so....click to expand
Posted by bkbella86Posted by bkbella86Posted by XOXO2UPosted by scorchedearthPosted by XOXO2UPosted by scorchedearth
LOL. you're going to tell me what my ex didn't like about me? wow. what a dumb bitch.
jesus. the things abusive people will reach for to try to make themselves look bigger.
ABUSIVE PEOPLE— WHO'S ABUSING WHO HERE? IT MAY BE VERBALLY, BUT YOU ARE VERY ABUSIVE. And you probably verbally abused your ex, you abusive, Angry Bird. Too bad your abuse doesn't bother me. It's entertaining.
actually i've never been verbally abusive to an ex. i don't talk that way to everyone. you can ask feby of scenic if i've ever talked to them that way, and they'll tell you i haven't.
the only time i talk to someone that way is if they're themselves abusive and a waste of space. there's plenty of people i've never used a swear word once to.
Buuuuuuuulllshiiiiiiit, Angry Bird! I'm suuuure you verbally abused your ex. And don't tell me to ask anyone if you talk to others that way, YOU DO! One person already said it A FEW TIMES. She said you talk to everyone like that on other threads. Please spare me the bullsh*t. Please go to another thread. You said pages upson pages back that you weren't gonna reply again on this thread, but you're still here cos all you want to do is be angry, you verbally abusive Angry Bird.
She sure does. Many a time. She got really mad once when someone kept talking about her beloved sun sign. She goes from zero to 100 in 5 seconds or less. She is verbally abusive and has been since I've been around.
She cursed the girl out so badly...names and all
Just because the girl was talking about Taurus men.click to expand
Posted by XOXO2UPosted by bkbella86
Scorched I have one question for you tho...you let another women beat ya ass? Repeatedly?
Yep, she did! And she was verbally abusive.
And I'm the one that needs help.click to expand

Posted by XOXO2U
Liiiiiiiiiies ALL LIES! Go ahead, try to make everyone believe you were this sweet little angel who never verbally abused your ex. You know you did. But you don't have the guts to admit it so you're gonna say anything to make it seem like you were this great person in the relationship. Your ex didn't get mad, out of the blue because of past relationships. Your ex got pissed because you couldn't control yourself and was verbally abusive.
Posted by ScenicPosted by scorchedearth
scenic, i've never been verbally abusive to an ex. the ex that hit me said i was the best partner she ever had and that she didn't deserve me. the reason for the abuse had nothing to do with me. she had a lot of abusive partners and didn't know how to handle the dynamic of a healthy relationship and because i wasn't abusive she became the abusive party. those are her words, not mine.
There's a good amount of people like that.
14% of the males incarcerated have been abused before
36% of the females incarcerated have been abused before
I don't know the statistics but I imagine a good amount of people who have experienced abuse become abusers as well. It's hard to live a healthy life style when you've been traumatized like that. Be proud you've never done that to someone as close to you as that. Restraint is a good thing to learn in life, whether you feel compelled to act out or not!click to expand

Posted by XOXO2U
No wonder why Angry Bird is so verbally abusive and can't control it.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by scorchedearth
scenic, i've never been verbally abusive to an ex. the ex that hit me said i was the best partner she ever had and that she didn't deserve me. the reason for the abuse had nothing to do with me. she had a lot of abusive partners and didn't know how to handle the dynamic of a healthy relationship and because i wasn't abusive she became the abusive party. those are her words, not mine.
Not verbally abusive to an ex but only to strangers behind computers.click to expand

Posted by XOXO2U
She's crazy
Posted by bkbella86
And after she gets mad she blames it on her Aries placements...lmao

Posted by XOXO2U
Sounds like bull to me too. If she's that way to complete strangers I can only imagine how she is towards partners when her feelings get involved.click to expand
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It's clear that you need to read what the hell I said. Him standing me up, on Christmas Day was a big thing to me, but that's NOT the only reason why I was hurt and I expressed all the reasons why in many comments. It's not my fault you pick and chose what you wanted to read.
That's your problem, you think what YOU say stands, but the world doesn't revolve around you. I can tell you now that that's one of the things your ex couldn't stand about you. Take your a** to another message board, Angry Bird.