
MrFirebird
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Posted by Gooober
So it's homophobic for a straight male or female to not want to be ''romantically'' involved with another male or female? Noooo waaaayyy.
EDIT: Maybe it was his title that gave off the homophobic vibes— ....


Posted by HarukaaExactly - you can't make people like you.
We all free people
You can't force anyone to love you or study with you


Posted by KoniuchaThat's his choice and if he so chooses to become his "buddy", that's his choice also.
Well if you kept reading, he eventually said, guess I will keep him as a partner.


Posted by CrabraPerfect! You need to tell rein it's ok to be called a homophobe OP.When it's ok for him to leave his friend for being a gay,what's wrong with us calling him a homophobe or talking about his attitude towards them??N the problem for the rest of us was not he being a homophobe (which he's not.. Else he wouldn't say he doesn't have problem anymore now) but his way of treating another human.It's like a serial killer killing people just because he doesn't like to see them alive.Well,this is an exaggeration.. But yeah!Just look at him.. He talks like an attempted-rape victim
If you want to use claustrophobia, then we have to assume that this person has a true psychological fear of gay people. Is this case? Rarely ever it is. The problem is in another thread he talked about what a good study partner this person is, and it becomes clear that he does not want to be associated with this person simply because he is gay.
A Scorpio friend and my Aries brother are the exact same way. The guy could be absolutely amazing, and a total joy to be around. If they find out he's gay. He's out. Just like that. It is some of the shittiest behaviour I've ever witnessed.
I wish I could talk to this gay guy, so I can tell him what jerk the OP is, and to not allow himself to be used as a study buddy when the latter of that term isn't true.

Posted by CrabraEveryone has a "phobia".
If you want to use claustrophobia, then we have to assume that this person has a true psychological fear of gay people. Is this case? Rarely ever it is. The problem is in another thread he talked about what a good study partner this person is, and it becomes clear that he does not want to be associated with this person simply because he is gay.
A Scorpio friend and my Aries brother are the exact same way. The guy could be absolutely amazing, and a total joy to be around. If they find out he's gay. He's out. Just like that. It is some of the shittiest behaviour I've ever witnessed.
I wish I could talk to this gay guy, so I can tell him what jerk the OP is, and to not allow himself to be used as a study buddy when the latter of that term isn't true.

Posted by MrFirebird😆
This thread was inspired by Rein's coming out of the closet and sharing his story about how his male study buddy asked
him to come over and study at his house. Some people called him a homophobe because he said "no">

Posted by julietteSometimes, that might be the case. Other times, it's a whole nother story.
but homophobes don't have a problem when they beat up a gay person. so it's not the "touch" thing. it's something else.

Posted by MrFirebirdI don't think it was the fact he didn't want to continue working with his study buddy that they were upset about because he had good reason to not want to continue imo, but more or so his title.Posted by Gooober
So it's homophobic for a straight male or female to not want to be ''romantically'' involved with another male or female? Noooo waaaayyy.
EDIT: Maybe it was his title that gave off the homophobic vibes— ....
IF you are straight and disagree with the homosexual lifestyle in all it's incarnations, they will identify and label you as a "Homophobe" and a hater.
There's something wrong with you.
Little do they realize that they are either a "Heterophobe" or "Homophobophobe".
Their supporters are what I might call... "Pro-homophobophobe"
These are the ones who would say "You're a homophobe because you don't want to go to (LGBT)'s study-buddy's house"
The humor in irony.
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Posted by Arielle83They're no better than the homosexual that may have asked for it. That's a sick perversion on top of a sick perversion.Posted by julietteYa the hate crimes can be sexual too. Where they rape the homosexual person.
but homophobes don't have a problem when they beat up a gay person. so it's not the "touch" thing. it's something else.
Ironic.click to expand

Posted by seraphWhoa!!
No, it's not OK. For reasons that in 2016 should be obvious.
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Posted by seraph
No, it's not OK. For reasons that in 2016 should be obvious.
Thread reported.
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Posted by CapTennThat's right.
Straight guys and gay guys don't mix.
Don't fight nature.

Posted by FinbuffI'll respond with a question of my own: If you need it explained to you why this is really shitty behaviour, then why should I put forth any energy that will inevitably be a futile effort to convince you so? I think we can both make better use of our time.Posted by Crabra"It is some of the shittiest behaviour I've ever witnessed"
If you want to use claustrophobia, then we have to assume that this person has a true psychological fear of gay people. Is this case? Rarely ever it is. The problem is in another thread he talked about what a good study partner this person is, and it becomes clear that he does not want to be associated with this person simply because he is gay.
A Scorpio friend and my Aries brother are the exact same way. The guy could be absolutely amazing, and a total joy to be around. If they find out he's gay. He's out. Just like that. It is some of the shittiest behaviour I've ever witnessed.
I wish I could talk to this gay guy, so I can tell him what jerk the OP is, and to not allow himself to be used as a study buddy when the latter of that term isn't true.
Please explain to me WHY this is the shittiest behaviour you've ever witnessed. Thanks
I'm sure it has NOTHING to do with your opinion, and it's entirely based on some logical, factual reason, so I really can't wait to hear it.click to expand


Posted by FinbuffPeter Piper picked a peck of pickled peppers;Posted by JahliaYou've been brainwashed by the liberal media. Don't be afraid, just admit it.Posted by CapTennThat's not true. The main thing that stands between them is ignorance.
Straight guys and gay guys don't mix.
Don't fight nature.click to expand

Posted by FinbuffIf bitchmuff can't reply to this message it's because he's too busy being the bottom bitch in a masculine gangbang to come up with a good cumback. Just like his daddy taught his mommy.Posted by CrabraSo in other words, you can't really explain it, it's just "a gut feeling of rhetorical emotion". It's what liberals do - they project their emotions on to others, as if they are supposed to "feel" the same cause for concern as they do. 'Feelings, nothing more than, feelings....trying to forget my feelings....."Posted by FinbuffI'll respond with a question of my own: If you need it explained to you why this is really shitty behaviour, then why should I put forth any energy that will inevitably be a futile effort to convince you so? I think we can both make better use of our time.Posted by Crabra"It is some of the shittiest behaviour I've ever witnessed"
If you want to use claustrophobia, then we have to assume that this person has a true psychological fear of gay people. Is this case? Rarely ever it is. The problem is in another thread he talked about what a good study partner this person is, and it becomes clear that he does not want to be associated with this person simply because he is gay.
A Scorpio friend and my Aries brother are the exact same way. The guy could be absolutely amazing, and a total joy to be around. If they find out he's gay. He's out. Just like that. It is some of the shittiest behaviour I've ever witnessed.
I wish I could talk to this gay guy, so I can tell him what jerk the OP is, and to not allow himself to be used as a study buddy when the latter of that term isn't true.
Please explain to me WHY this is the shittiest behaviour you've ever witnessed. Thanks
I'm sure it has NOTHING to do with your opinion, and it's entirely based on some logical, factual reason, so I really can't wait to hear it.click to expand


Posted by JahliaYour avi clearly states you are female, therefore you have no perspective as a straight male.Posted by CapTennThat's not true. The main thing that stands between them is ignorance.
Straight guys and gay guys don't mix.
Don't fight nature.click to expand

Posted by CapTenn
Straight guys and gay guys don't mix.
Don't fight nature.

Posted by FinbuffNo, it means that there isn't any point explaining anything to you, and it is a waste of time so I'd rather just nip it at the bud.Posted by CrabraSo in other words, you can't really explain it, it's just "a gut feeling of rhetorical emotion". It's what liberals do - they project their emotions on to others, as if they are supposed to "feel" the same cause for concern as they do. 'Feelings, nothing more than, feelings....trying to forget my feelings....."Posted by FinbuffI'll respond with a question of my own: If you need it explained to you why this is really shitty behaviour, then why should I put forth any energy that will inevitably be a futile effort to convince you so? I think we can both make better use of our time.Posted by Crabra"It is some of the shittiest behaviour I've ever witnessed"
If you want to use claustrophobia, then we have to assume that this person has a true psychological fear of gay people. Is this case? Rarely ever it is. The problem is in another thread he talked about what a good study partner this person is, and it becomes clear that he does not want to be associated with this person simply because he is gay.
A Scorpio friend and my Aries brother are the exact same way. The guy could be absolutely amazing, and a total joy to be around. If they find out he's gay. He's out. Just like that. It is some of the shittiest behaviour I've ever witnessed.
I wish I could talk to this gay guy, so I can tell him what jerk the OP is, and to not allow himself to be used as a study buddy when the latter of that term isn't true.
Please explain to me WHY this is the shittiest behaviour you've ever witnessed. Thanks
I'm sure it has NOTHING to do with your opinion, and it's entirely based on some logical, factual reason, so I really can't wait to hear it.click to expand

Posted by JahliaDo you know what it's like to be a straight male?Posted by CapTennDid you just try to use my gender against me? Um, how intelligent? That only makes me doubt your side more.Posted by JahliaYour avi clearly states you are female, therefore you have no perspective as a straight male.Posted by CapTennThat's not true. The main thing that stands between them is ignorance.
Straight guys and gay guys don't mix.
Don't fight nature.
In other words, you don't know shit.
Your logic Is just so flawed I don't even know where to begin. I mean obviously I know from observing interactions between straight men and gay men. Or from studying people in general. Basic intelligence. There's actually a variety of ways that I would know these things, despite not being male.
But seriously your logic. How do you 'know shit' about dogs if you're not a dog? Or about a door? Are you made out of wood? Female and male perspectives aren't the same, duh, But what you said was vastly inaccurate.click to expand

Posted by Arielle83Ariella, do you relish the idea of your hubby chasin' peter than chasin' you?Posted by MrFirebirdSo is this like how rapists see women too "they're asking for it"?Posted by Arielle83They're no better than the homosexual that may have asked for it. That's a sick perversion on top of a sick perversion.Posted by julietteYa the hate crimes can be sexual too. Where they rape the homosexual person.
but homophobes don't have a problem when they beat up a gay person. so it's not the "touch" thing. it's something else.
Ironic.
I'm not advocating that homosexuals be mindlessly bludgeoned and ramrodded to death with a spear up the arse.
What I'm advocating is if you want my respect, you damned well better know your place and respect my space.
Cuz I've heard that too.
So I guess homophobes think homosexuals "are asking for it" too?
Cuz every homosexual wants a dirty ole homophobic dick.click to expand


Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberMy boyfriend agrees bitch. 🙂Posted by kissmygritsWith political beliefs such as these, I see a lot of cats in your future, lady.
I do not agree with that Tennessee Mike Huckabee supporter.
I'm more afraid of straight touchy rapey men than gay people. These bible thumping idiots don't know what consent is. They're not going anywhere to try to fuck you. They got enough love life problems. No they don't sit around giving head to each other. They're trying to have a normal life amongst a sea of bigot dumb asses. No they don't want to rim job you on the bus but that a sexual predator might. Keep an eye on that youth minister down the road.click to expand


Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberHe certainly does fuck tard. My step brother's are gay. 5 of my besties swing both wsys. I feel safer with them than any straight homophobic person. Most homophobic people get caught doing nasty shit behind doors.
He clearly doesn't know your inner thoughts, then, bitch.
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Posted by MrFirebird
They're no better than the homosexual that may have asked for it. That's a sick perversion on top of a sick perversion.
I'm not advocating that homosexuals be mindlessly bludgeoned and ramrodded to death with a spear up the arse.
What I'm advocating is if you want my respect, you damned well better know your place and respect my space.



Posted by MrFirebirdI must have missed the part about him no longer with the Pisces.... It was so recent that he was talking about possibly getting married!Posted by KoniuchaThat's his choice and if he so chooses to become his "buddy", that's his choice also.
Well if you kept reading, he eventually said, guess I will keep him as a partner.
I'd pity the Pisces gal he'd been with, if they were still together and she didn't approve.
I'm personally against homosexuality, but I'm not an anti-homo-activist. I usually don't have problems
with them. They leave me alone, like most people, in real life, do.click to expand


Posted by julietteIt's not a touch thing, it's a psychological thing. They're not fully secure in their own sexuality, probably have homosexual fantasies, but they hate that about themselves because of society/religion conditioning, so they project that hatred and fear onto those who are brave enough to own their sexuality.
but homophobes don't have a problem when they beat up a gay person. so it's not the "touch" thing. it's something else.





Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberDon't project your behavior onto me. I don't troll, unless someone proves they're an ill mannered shit, like Denver, and I don't harass, unless they prove they're an unmannered shit who harasses, like Denver. You, on the other hand.....well, hold tight to the mirror and take a good long look, because that's exactly what you do, including in RL in instances that could have landed you in hot water with the military.Posted by MoonArtistHahaha, I ought to get a shovel out for that load of bullshit.
I support differences in opinion. I do not support bigotry.
You constantly troll and harass people with your bullshit name-calling on a daily basis simply because their opinion is different from yours.
YOU, by definition, are a bigot yourself.click to expand

Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberGood job lumping everyone together. I've never once said bigots should die or be imprisoned for their disgusting beliefs. Commit a crime, then you should be punished, but it's not a crime to be a bigot, even if it is low brow.
Your argument identifies more with a communist style than anything else.
Your buddy Soul already acknowledged this point, when she/he/it argued that men like me should be killed to make way for more queers.
Stalin, Hitler and so many others like them had the same mentality.
If we do not accept your beliefs, then we are to first be shamed and called names.
If that does not work, you make it clear that we are to be removed from society either through imprisonment or death.
You militant homosexualists are closet De Facto totalitarians filled with hatred that is inspired mostly by your hatred of God and all of mankind.
.....Just like they were.

Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberCareful, you seem to be losing your temper. wouldn't want your true colors to show. Oh, to hell with it!.....call me a dirty bitch like you do all the other gals you don't like. 😉
You are a damn liar, MoonArtist.
You troll and harass me all the time with your petty and childish name-calling.
You are NO ONE to speak to me the way you do, and as I have also said in the past, need to back the fuck off.


Posted by starloverThank you, Star!Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberNo, Moonie, is a very open minded lady,,nothing bigoted about her at all actuallyPosted by MoonArtistHahaha, I ought to get a shovel out for that load of bullshit.
I support differences in opinion. I do not support bigotry.
You constantly troll and harass people with your bullshit name-calling on a daily basis simply because their opinion is different from yours.
YOU, by definition, are a bigot yourself.click to expand


Posted by starloverPosted by MoonArtistPosted by starloverThank you, Star!Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberNo, Moonie, is a very open minded lady,,nothing bigoted about her at all actuallyPosted by MoonArtistHahaha, I ought to get a shovel out for that load of bullshit.
I support differences in opinion. I do not support bigotry.
You constantly troll and harass people with your bullshit name-calling on a daily basis simply because their opinion is different from yours.
YOU, by definition, are a bigot yourself.click to expand
No problem! I speak the truth
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Posted by starloverNo he isn't learning. He's mad that I'm not validating his existence and ideals. He's also mad that I'm not a conservative. "Damn, she seemed so cool.....but then I found out she's a fucking HIPPY!".....something like that. lolPosted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberAre you not learning your lessons, still, Fishy?Posted by MoonArtistHahaha, I ought to get a shovel out for that load of bullshit.
I support differences in opinion. I do not support bigotry.
You constantly troll and harass people with your bullshit name-calling on a daily basis simply because their opinion is different from yours.
YOU, by definition, are a bigot yourself.
The lady doesn't behave that way at all......you must be thinking of someone else?
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him to come over and study at his house. Some people called him a homophobe because he said "no".
It's OK To Be A Homophobe
It's perfectly natural. Think about people who are uncomfortable with confined spaces.
They suffer from claustrophobia, but nobody calls them haters, "do they"? Of course not.
If the Bacon, Lettuce and Tomato Gang have a problem with your heterosexual lifestyle, forget 'em!
All you need to remember is that they are simply a slice of meat and cheese, short, a full bacon-cheeseburger.
So, what if they hatefully accuse you of being a "hater" and a "homophobe".
So what! You don't really give a damn, do ya? I don't!
I believe in equality.
If you want to start holding Straight Pride Parades, by all means do it!
If they decide to hold protest your parade, either ignore 'em or laugh at 'em.
Don't feel bad if they don't like you because you identify with the heterosexual's sexual orientation.
Remember, haters are going to hate.