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Posted by Teena
Right now it's not important at all. Daily? I'm not sure if I even think of it daily.But I do whenever I see @Vageenka 's posts Lol! I don't think it has got anything to do with my Cancer mars.----
I think it actually has smth to do with it
I feel ya
Haha..yeah it might. I'm not a fan of that placement. So didn't bother to read much about it ?
You have mars in cancer too?
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It's victims aren't either #KillerMars
Maybe, or maybe I know some ppl with it.
What I know clearly is that demisexuality is very unfamiliar to many ppl.
I know you didn't say that, but I think demis. doesn't make sb less sexual, it directs sexuality onto a specific person. Just thinking out loud 🤔
Posted by Teena
Right now it's not important at all. Daily? I'm not sure if I even think of it daily.But I do whenever I see @Vageenka 's posts Lol! I don't think it has got anything to do with my Cancer mars.----
I think it actually has smth to do with it
I feel ya
Haha..yeah it might. I'm not a fan of that placement. So didn't bother to read much about it ?
You have mars in cancer too?
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It's victims aren't either #KillerMars
Maybe, or maybe I know some ppl with it.
What I know clearly is that demisexuality is very unfamiliar to many ppl.
I know you didn't say that, but I think demis. doesn't make sb less sexual, it directs sexuality onto a specific person. Just thinking out loud 🤔
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Lol!! Really? Killer mars?? Then I think I'm liking it 😛
Yeah I know. It's misinterpreted many times. That's right. Demisexuality doesn't make anyone less sexual. But you only feel that way when you love a person..when you have this strong emotional bond. If there's no love you can feel pretty much dead in that department.
Posted by Teena
Right now it's not important at all. Daily? I'm not sure if I even think of it daily.But I do whenever I see @Vageenka 's posts Lol! I don't think it has got anything to do with my Cancer mars.----
I think it actually has smth to do with it
I feel ya
Haha..yeah it might. I'm not a fan of that placement. So didn't bother to read much about it ?
You have mars in cancer too?
----
It's victims aren't either #KillerMars
Maybe, or maybe I know some ppl with it.
What I know clearly is that demisexuality is very unfamiliar to many ppl.
I know you didn't say that, but I think demis. doesn't make sb less sexual, it directs sexuality onto a specific person. Just thinking out loud 🤔
Lol!! Really? Killer mars?? Then I think I'm liking it 😛
Yeah I know. It's misinterpreted many times. That's right. Demisexuality doesn't make anyone less sexual. But you only feel that way when you love a person..when you have this strong emotional bond. If there's no love you can feel pretty much dead in that department.
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hahah Idk, I've heard about it, but no judge could incriminate us because of that
I don't *need* a strong bond, but at least I need to know the person, and like it, and for that I have to know it's personality (and like it o.c.) and have some kind of relationship.
I'm happy to know others like me T3T. Demi powa!
Posted by Teena
Right now it's not important at all. Daily? I'm not sure if I even think of it daily.But I do whenever I see @Vageenka 's posts Lol! I don't think it has got anything to do with my Cancer mars.----
I think it actually has smth to do with it
I feel ya
Haha..yeah it might. I'm not a fan of that placement. So didn't bother to read much about it ?
You have mars in cancer too?
----
It's victims aren't either #KillerMars
Maybe, or maybe I know some ppl with it.
What I know clearly is that demisexuality is very unfamiliar to many ppl.
I know you didn't say that, but I think demis. doesn't make sb less sexual, it directs sexuality onto a specific person. Just thinking out loud 🤔
Lol!! Really? Killer mars?? Then I think I'm liking it 😛
Yeah I know. It's misinterpreted many times. That's right. Demisexuality doesn't make anyone less sexual. But you only feel that way when you love a person..when you have this strong emotional bond. If there's no love you can feel pretty much dead in that department.
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hahah Idk, I've heard about it, but no judge could incriminate us because of that
I don't *need* a strong bond, but at least I need to know the person, and like it, and for that I have to know it's personality (and like it o.c.) and have some kind of relationship.
I'm happy to know others like me T3T. Demi powa!
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Yayy!!! 🍹
Posted by GetMisted
I find the idea of sex more interesting than the physical act. I'd rather think/talk about it rather than actually doing it.Mars in Aquarius (8th house)
Same. Not important for me to have lots of sex. If I do then it's straight to the point. I have things to do lol.
Mars in aries, 5th house, square Neptune
I think about sex often. It's a way for me to get to know someone and destress. It's a nice way to pass time 😉 But honestly, sex is a want. Not a need.
Posted by enfant_terrible
Oh and edit: I do think about sex all the time. If you have a vageenka and we're interacting in any way or form, I'm def undressing you with my eyes and wondering what you'd be tasting like ¯\_(ツ)_/ ¯
Would you say this applies to all men?
Posted by Smidge
it's more of a want than a need for me.but i love it and if i can get it, i'll take it fo sho
i separate sex and emotions.
i'm a very passionate and intense lover (it would seem) but when emotions are involved my sex life with that person takes a turn for the worst. (wouldn't mind getting some opinions on that actually)
mars in gem in 12th house
I'm mars in the 12th too and I'm the same way. Sex is a want, not a need.
Mars in Sag...
I can't imagine being in a relationship and not having sex often.
I do love me some Mars in Scorp guys though.. been with 3.. current guy is too.. ??
Posted by Neno
How important is sex in your life,how much u think of sex daily and what sex means to u?State your Mars sign☺
Consistently sensual, and sexual. But not too extreme much. Mars in Taurus I can go along time without it or with it but I just have to a connection first. Its important for me to trust and be comfortable. I might even ask qyestions related to sex process of getting to know someone.
not important at all
mars in cap in 10th house
Posted by YasmineMin
Mars in 6th house Libra.I think people are too addicted to sexual intercourse. People think it's a basic need in your life, like it's the most important thing in life. I hate this mindset. People can be really gross, it just warps some people minds. I dont think about sexual intercourse very often, but if I do I think about it with a guy Im really into and only him. & no I dont like any of that gross crap. I kind if feel like I can be celibate if I wanted to though. But really with a guy I like I find it hard to control myself. But basically my answer is no, I dont think it's that important, I think there are things way more important in life.
These people are rarely happy in themselves and are constantly reaching out to get their fix
I don't need sex a lot .. I think about it more than actually doing it .. What I need is for the sex to be great when I do have it.. Not that easy to find .. Mars Libra
Posted by YasmineMin
Mars in 6th house Libra.I think people are too addicted to sexual intercourse. People think it's a basic need in your life, like it's the most important thing in life. I hate this mindset. People can be really gross, it just warps some people minds. I dont think about sexual intercourse very often, but if I do I think about it with a guy Im really into and only him. & no I dont like any of that gross crap. I kind if feel like I can be celibate if I wanted to though. But really with a guy I like I find it hard to control myself. But basically my answer is no, I dont think it's that important, I think there are things way more important in life.
I need an emotional bond! I want a gentle sweet lover, if I can find a guy like me I would be so happy. I dont know if it exists but I'll keep dreaming
yes but when u have mars in Scorpio its a need,everyday and even often in a day,u get obsessive and u cant think of nothing else but sex,its not our fault, its a heavy feeling
Posted by littlenanobyte
Cancer mars. Not that important, I prioritize many things over sex daily. Work, classes, homework. I'm also in a LDR so clearly I don't need it all the time lol.second cancer mars that said that?
i see a pattern?
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No no . I dont think cancer mars has anything to do with not prioritising sex. I am married to one so i know .
Posted by pisces4scorpio
Mars in CapricornSex is life
Sex is the best possible thing I could be doing
Sex is my favorite
I think about it always
It's an open app running 24/7 in my mind and body
are u sure ur not scorpio mars because whatever you just described is what i am
Posted by YasmineMin
Mars in 6th house Libra.I think people are too addicted to sexual intercourse. People think it's a basic need in your life, like it's the most important thing in life. I hate this mindset. People can be really gross, it just warps some people minds. I dont think about sexual intercourse very often, but if I do I think about it with a guy Im really into and only him. & no I dont like any of that gross crap. I kind if feel like I can be celibate if I wanted to though. But really with a guy I like I find it hard to control myself. But basically my answer is no, I dont think it's that important, I think there are things way more important in life.
I need an emotional bond! I want a gentle sweet lover, if I can find a guy like me I would be so happy. I dont know if it exists but I'll keep dreaming
yes but when u have mars in Scorpio its a need,everyday and even often in a day,u get obsessive and u cant think of nothing else but sex,its not our fault, its a heavy feeling
Well Im not necessarily saying it's your fault, just that I personally dont like these types of people. It's not just the mars in Scorpio, it's the majority of people. People seemed to be addicted to the bad. It's easier for people to be bad than to be good. Sad, but true.
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i like taboo things,most of them are not considered normal in the society norms but i think am more good than 95% of mankind
Posted by littlenanobyte
Cancer mars. Not that important, I prioritize many things over sex daily. Work, classes, homework. I'm also in a LDR so clearly I don't need it all the time lol.second cancer mars that said that?
i see a pattern?
No no . I dont think cancer mars has anything to do with not prioritising sex. I am married to one so i know .
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i suppose u its the whole chart influence but it seems cancer mars people are not that into it?
Posted by littlenanobyte
Cancer mars. Not that important, I prioritize many things over sex daily. Work, classes, homework. I'm also in a LDR so clearly I don't need it all the time lol.second cancer mars that said that?
i see a pattern?
No no . I dont think cancer mars has anything to do with not prioritising sex. I am married to one so i know .
i suppose u its the whole chart influence but it seems cancer mars people are not that into it?
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Possibly . He is a leo sun and rising so that in itself would be enough 😆
Posted by YasmineMin
Mars in 6th house Libra.I think people are too addicted to sexual intercourse. People think it's a basic need in your life, like it's the most important thing in life. I hate this mindset. People can be really gross, it just warps some people minds. I dont think about sexual intercourse very often, but if I do I think about it with a guy Im really into and only him. & no I dont like any of that gross crap. I kind if feel like I can be celibate if I wanted to though. But really with a guy I like I find it hard to control myself. But basically my answer is no, I dont think it's that important, I think there are things way more important in life.
These people are rarely happy in themselves and are constantly reaching out to get their fix
Which people are talking about? The ones like me or the ones highly sexual?
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The sex addicts....
Posted by YasmineMin
Mars in 6th house Libra.I think people are too addicted to sexual intercourse. People think it's a basic need in your life, like it's the most important thing in life. I hate this mindset. People can be really gross, it just warps some people minds. I dont think about sexual intercourse very often, but if I do I think about it with a guy Im really into and only him. & no I dont like any of that gross crap. I kind if feel like I can be celibate if I wanted to though. But really with a guy I like I find it hard to control myself. But basically my answer is no, I dont think it's that important, I think there are things way more important in life.
I need an emotional bond! I want a gentle sweet lover, if I can find a guy like me I would be so happy. I dont know if it exists but I'll keep dreaming
yes but when u have mars in Scorpio its a need,everyday and even often in a day,u get obsessive and u cant think of nothing else but sex,its not our fault, its a heavy feeling
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It's because you ain't getting any...you are not meant to be celibate at your age
Sag mars, sex is very important and has to be passionate! Sex is my promise of love lol sounds stupid! But I cant help it... 6 cap placements
Posted by YasmineMin
Mars in 6th house Libra.I think people are too addicted to sexual intercourse. People think it's a basic need in your life, like it's the most important thing in life. I hate this mindset. People can be really gross, it just warps some people minds. I dont think about sexual intercourse very often, but if I do I think about it with a guy Im really into and only him. & no I dont like any of that gross crap. I kind if feel like I can be celibate if I wanted to though. But really with a guy I like I find it hard to control myself. But basically my answer is no, I dont think it's that important, I think there are things way more important in life.
I need an emotional bond! I want a gentle sweet lover, if I can find a guy like me I would be so happy. I dont know if it exists but I'll keep dreaming
yes but when u have mars in Scorpio its a need,everyday and even often in a day,u get obsessive and u cant think of nothing else but sex,its not our fault, its a heavy feeling
It's because you ain't getting any...you are not meant to be celibate at your age
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i had to many sex and with too many woman so i decided to not have it anymore with every girl i meet?
Posted by YasmineMin
Mars in 6th house Libra.I think people are too addicted to sexual intercourse. People think it's a basic need in your life, like it's the most important thing in life. I hate this mindset. People can be really gross, it just warps some people minds. I dont think about sexual intercourse very often, but if I do I think about it with a guy Im really into and only him. & no I dont like any of that gross crap. I kind if feel like I can be celibate if I wanted to though. But really with a guy I like I find it hard to control myself. But basically my answer is no, I dont think it's that important, I think there are things way more important in life.
I need an emotional bond! I want a gentle sweet lover, if I can find a guy like me I would be so happy. I dont know if it exists but I'll keep dreaming
yes but when u have mars in Scorpio its a need,everyday and even often in a day,u get obsessive and u cant think of nothing else but sex,its not our fault, its a heavy feeling
It's because you ain't getting any...you are not meant to be celibate at your age
i had to many sex and with too many woman so i decided to not have it anymore with every girl i meet?
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Good for you...that leaves one empty
Hope you meet your match soon who you can connect with in all ways...not just sexually 🙂
Posted by YasmineMin
Mars in 6th house Libra.I think people are too addicted to sexual intercourse. People think it's a basic need in your life, like it's the most important thing in life. I hate this mindset. People can be really gross, it just warps some people minds. I dont think about sexual intercourse very often, but if I do I think about it with a guy Im really into and only him. & no I dont like any of that gross crap. I kind if feel like I can be celibate if I wanted to though. But really with a guy I like I find it hard to control myself. But basically my answer is no, I dont think it's that important, I think there are things way more important in life.
I need an emotional bond! I want a gentle sweet lover, if I can find a guy like me I would be so happy. I dont know if it exists but I'll keep dreaming
yes but when u have mars in Scorpio its a need,everyday and even often in a day,u get obsessive and u cant think of nothing else but sex,its not our fault, its a heavy feeling
It's because you ain't getting any...you are not meant to be celibate at your age
i had to many sex and with too many woman so i decided to not have it anymore with every girl i meet?
Good for you...that leaves one empty
Hope you meet your match soon who you can connect with in all ways...not just sexually 🙂
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thank u?i will try
Posted by YasmineMin
Mars in 6th house Libra.I think people are too addicted to sexual intercourse. People think it's a basic need in your life, like it's the most important thing in life. I hate this mindset. People can be really gross, it just warps some people minds. I dont think about sexual intercourse very often, but if I do I think about it with a guy Im really into and only him. & no I dont like any of that gross crap. I kind if feel like I can be celibate if I wanted to though. But really with a guy I like I find it hard to control myself. But basically my answer is no, I dont think it's that important, I think there are things way more important in life.
I need an emotional bond! I want a gentle sweet lover, if I can find a guy like me I would be so happy. I dont know if it exists but I'll keep dreaming
yes but when u have mars in Scorpio its a need,everyday and even often in a day,u get obsessive and u cant think of nothing else but sex,its not our fault, its a heavy feeling
It's because you ain't getting any...you are not meant to be celibate at your age
i had to many sex and with too many woman so i decided to not have it anymore with every girl i meet?
Good for you...that leaves one empty
Hope you meet your match soon who you can connect with in all ways...not just sexually 🙂
thank u?i will try
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Do you have Moon and Venus in Scorp too?
Posted by YasmineMin
Mars in 6th house Libra.I think people are too addicted to sexual intercourse. People think it's a basic need in your life, like it's the most important thing in life. I hate this mindset. People can be really gross, it just warps some people minds. I dont think about sexual intercourse very often, but if I do I think about it with a guy Im really into and only him. & no I dont like any of that gross crap. I kind if feel like I can be celibate if I wanted to though. But really with a guy I like I find it hard to control myself. But basically my answer is no, I dont think it's that important, I think there are things way more important in life.
I need an emotional bond! I want a gentle sweet lover, if I can find a guy like me I would be so happy. I dont know if it exists but I'll keep dreaming
yes but when u have mars in Scorpio its a need,everyday and even often in a day,u get obsessive and u cant think of nothing else but sex,its not our fault, its a heavy feeling
It's because you ain't getting any...you are not meant to be celibate at your age
i had to many sex and with too many woman so i decided to not have it anymore with every girl i meet?
Good for you...that leaves one empty
Hope you meet your match soon who you can connect with in all ways...not just sexually 🙂
thank u?i will try
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Do you have Moon and Venus in Scorp too?
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i have moon in cancer and venus in Capricorn?pluto,mars,sun,Mercury and rising in scorpio
Posted by jane84
Mars in Sag...I can't imagine being in a relationship and not having sex often.
I do love me some Mars in Scorp guys though.. been with 3.. current guy is too.. ??
For me I dont feel I need to be in a relationship and have sex often. I can love him just fine in other ways. I think it's better to not have it so often, that way it's more meaningful
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That makes sense for some. Which is why it is important to be with someone who matches you in many ways, even sexually. Life does get in the way, and I don't have to have it every day. But I would say often is more of what I would want...
That's funny that you happen to be a Pisces... I've never had any connection with a Pisces. We seem to be so very different...
Posted by AquaNextDoor
Sag mars, sex is very important and has to be passionate! Sex is my promise of love lol sounds stupid! But I cant help it... 6 cap placements
Yes for me it's not just about having sex often, it's about being in love with that person and demonstrating it. Passionate sex is what I want, not just sex all the time for the sake of it.
Pisces Mars
When in a relationship I think about it all the time and want it all the time, I have a very high sex drive…I can very easily go 3-4 times a day every day and still want more. My interactions will be very playful and I like to do it a verity of ways, not wanting it the same way every day. One day I will want it ruff, raw and primal with some bondage added in and the next it might be slow, loving and tender. I think this might go along with my Gemini Venus needing verity and stimulation. I also love to play dress up…I’m the kind of girl that if you’re sick I’ll bring you chicken soup in a sexy little nurses outfit. 😉
When not in one I can control myself and I go pretty dormant…this I learned and tamed with age. I have tried the whole FWB thing but that and one night stands just leave me feeling empty so I have learned that outside of a relationship I have to control myself. I also do not find myself interested in that many people (lucky if I meet one guy a year that I have that attraction and connection with) so if I have sex and it’s not with someone I really have a connection with it just leaves me hungry for more and unsatisfied…which is not fun so I just turn it off now.
If you need me I’ll be over in that not getting any section with VirgoGent and Capri-sun…at least I’ll have good company. And hopefully VirgoGent is good looking so me and Capri-sun have some eye candy while we are there!
I've had a sense, since I was a teenager, that my libido is my source of energy. I'm very aware of it, and it's rare for me to go for long without it entering my mind in some way. It's great when I have a partner, but I'm fine dealing with it on my own when I don't have a partner, or days I'm not physical with a partner if I have one -- I have to, or it creates a tension that is very annoying and distracting.
Mars in Libra
Posted by jane84
Mars in Sag...I can't imagine being in a relationship and not having sex often.
I do love me some Mars in Scorp guys though.. been with 3.. current guy is too.. ??
For me I dont feel I need to be in a relationship and have sex often. I can love him just fine in other ways. I think it's better to not have it so often, that way it's more meaningful
That makes sense for some. Which is why it is important to be with someone who matches you in many ways, even sexually. Life does get in the way, and I don't have to have it every day. But I would say often is more of what I would want...
That's funny that you happen to be a Pisces... I've never had any connection with a Pisces. We seem to be so very different...
What is your sign? I dont tend to find fire or air appealing to me. Most guys Ive liked are earth or water. I dont really care for Scorpio guys either.
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Yeah, I'm a Libra.. I find that Pisces do great with Earth and Water. Although I do know some Pisces m/libra f couples.. I don't know their other placements though.
I'm the same way, I even have had a Pisces male close friend for a long time now.. I think of him as a brother and just can't see myself with him or any others I've ever known..
Posted by justawhatwhat
that's like asking how important hunger is if you think about it? Who the hell doesn't LOVE EATING? Sex is just as basic a human need. We all crave it, search for it...devour it.
Everyone is different.
Some people can and do live without...
I did for 10 years and would still be if...
Sag Mars
I enjoy sex and think of it often, but I have to have a mental and emotional connection if I am intimate with a man. I will forgo sex if i am not within a partnership with the person.
I also have a very dirty mind and can equate sex to most conversations, yes I am a perv 😆
This site has great info: things I related to the most below.
https://www.goodgollyastrology.com/your-mars-and-venus-playbook/mars-in-sagittarius.html
Sexual enjoyment comes naturally to the Mars in Sagittarius Love or it does come at all. These are Lovers for whom sex must be spontaneous and unfettered. It must be an unpremeditated expression of joy, freedom and exuberant physical energy. They are typically very generous Lovers, anxious to please and full of high-minded principles. They also tend to be bold and impulsive Lovers who swoop down on the objects of their desire with irresistible energy and verve. But most of all, for these eager and enthusiastic Lovers, love at first sight is not just a possibility, it is a necessity.
Mars in Sagittarius Lovers are the least controlling and demanding Lovers in the Zodiac. They are always fun, straightforward and bubbling with sexual excitement. They treat their sex partners like good friends and build relationships on the very simple basis of trust and mutual respect. Some people might find this approach lacking in emotional depth and sincerity but, for the Mars in Sagittarius Lover, this simple, spontaneous friendliness is the only reliable foundation of a life-long commitment.
Mars in Leo. Feel like I'm horny all day every day xD
Posted by GC01
Taurus mars- I literally think about sex alllllll theeeee timmeeeee. I'm a total perv.
i noticed taurus mars is almost like Scorpio mars?i like it
Posted by justawhatwhat
that's like asking how important hunger is if you think about it? Who the hell doesn't LOVE EATING? Sex is just as basic a human need. We all crave it, search for it...devour it.
No "we" don't all crave it actually
I have met people that would rather have a cup of tea than have sex. I've always had a massive sex drive, but I haven't died the last while without it...if I had gone without food for this long I would have croaked it by now.
No comparison between food and sex
Posted by Immaculate_Perfection
Mars in Scorpio.Sex is not important. Mars rules my 3rd and 8th houses.
Interesting to hear ye are not all sex freaks....I guess your brain is in your head and not in your pants
I love Wales 🙂
Yup yup Mars in Taurus folks I'm nodding woth ya. And I bet we're the ones in the group with our minds constantly in the gutter. I know I am. Never ending funny perv innuendos. 😄
when u have mars in scorpio and u want sex u get obsessive, i just see red and sex drive is huge
click to expandOh man so true. Actually in one of those episodes I actually think of men and try to imagine how the fuck they can control so much testosterone running through them and still for them to be so peaceful about it. I find it fascinating and I have a great deal of respect for the male species to be able to contain themselves so good. Is it because from an early age you learn to get things under control?
Posted by justawhatwhat
that's like asking how important hunger is if you think about it? Who the hell doesn't LOVE EATING? Sex is just as basic a human need. We all crave it, search for it...devour it.You cant even compare food and sex. We cant survive without food. Everyone needs food, it's a necessity or else we die. No ones going to die if dont have sex, lol that's a silly analogy. If that's how you feel about it, fine, but it's not a basic human need.
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...um obviously you have no medical curiosity to realize how important is sex actually for the body and how many healthy hormones get released during intercourse, hormones that normally you can't replace through other artificial chemicals, hormones that are very important to the body's immune system... You don't realize that most of ovarian female cysts (and some of them if they not found in time can become cancerous) are sometimes a cause from not having a partner and a balanced sexual life. Basically you refuse to acknowledge your animality and the fact that you are human and humans have to have sex just like any other animal. And not only for reproduction motives.
I recommend you https://www.kinseyinstitute.org/ and also to give a look on medical articles about the relationship between the importance of a healthy balance of hormones in your body and sex.
Yes I agree with this. But I think sex is important too. For example a depressed person will have already covered the basic needs of food, water, warmth + rest, but if they don't have covered the part with the sex/love, a lot of the basic needs will start to decrease more and more: they'll experience loss of appetite, they'll start being insomniac and have problems sleeping and go more and more in the downward spiral of depression. Food covers a certain type of hormones, but not all of them.
Personally I find it really sad that in 21 century we still have to have the talk why sex is important... Or why so many women cannot orgasm... So many centuries of controlling religion and repressed sexuality ended up in all sorts of deviations and problems.
I also think sex education is taken so lightly in school. I hardly believe all women actually know what they're made of. In life we are born and learn to become humans. But sometimes we lack basic teachings of how are bodies actually work and what we need to be our most best selves. When we buy a tech stuff we usually get a manual to learn how to operate it. We certainly do not get a manual for ourselves when we are born.
keep the thread running?
Yes I agree with this. But I think sex is important too. For example a depressed person will have already covered the basic needs of food, water, warmth + rest, but if they don't have covered the part with the sex/love, a lot of the basic needs will start to decrease more and more: they'll experience loss of appetite, they'll start being insomniac and have problems sleeping and go more and more in the downward spiral of depression. Food covers a certain type of hormones, but not all of them.
Personally I find it really sad that in 21 century we still have to have the talk why sex is important... Or why so many women cannot orgasm... So many centuries of controlling religion and repressed sexuality ended up in all sorts of deviations and problems.
I also think sex education is taken so lightly in school. I hardly believe all women actually know what they're made of. In life we are born and learn to become humans. But sometimes we lack basic teachings of how are bodies actually work and what we need to be our most best selves. When we buy a tech stuff we usually get a manual to learn how to operate it. We certainly do not get a manual for ourselves when we are born.
I've seen more psychological and physical problems in people who are oversexed than the other way around.
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Of course, it can become an addiction like anything else
...the person that can do without anything other than those things that keep us alive is far healthier
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...the person that can do without anything other than those things that keep us alive is far healthier
people are interesting just because they need more than just basic stuff and people
even complicate it more?
Posted by MyStarsShine
...the person that can do without anything other than those things that keep us alive is far healthierpeople are interesting just because they need more than just basic stuff and people
even complicate it more?
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In what way?
I just disagree with the notion that sex is on the same level as survival needs. I was abstinent for years at one point, and I didn't go crazy. I actually healed during that time from some bad patterns. There are nuns, monks, and others who decide to live the entire lives celibate. I couldn't do that, but these are some very happy people.
Happier in many cases i would say Pooty. The yearning, lusting and always reaching out to fill that void can make people unfulfilled and unhappy.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by MyStarsShine
...the person that can do without anything other than those things that keep us alive is far healthierpeople are interesting just because they need more than just basic stuff and people
even complicate it more?
In what way?
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i mean people usually go for unhealthy things because healthy ones are boring,same for sex,sex is fun and sometimes unhealthy but never boring
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Mars in Venus
Sex is like breathing for me