Sagifloss
@Sagifloss
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Standing up to a Scorpio man.
Scorpios don't compromise, they're bastards. If you don't have equivalent Scorpio energy, just run...You will never be happy.
He is there to suck any power|control out of you.
Either you play the slave.
Or you quit.
Freedom loving Sag, egoistical Fire sign dealing with a dominant power sucker? You'll get crazy if you don't internalize that early enough. All the energy he could put into understanding you, he will invest in pull the earth under your feet.
Use all your serving energy of Virgo Mars&Jupiter, all the manipulating energy of ScorpioMercury and CapVenus and CancerMoon. And play with these fights. Knowingly that at the end of the day he'll get the power. You can only achieve that this thing has a little substance|flesh. You have to give yourself for getting time-together.
And I feel sorry that I had to be this bold with you. Only to save your sanity. And time.
Either you play the slave.
Or you quit.
Freedom loving Sag, egoistical Fire sign dealing with a dominant power sucker? You'll get crazy if you don't internalize that early enough. All the energy he could put into understanding you, he will invest in pull the earth under your feet.
Use all your serving energy of Virgo Mars&Jupiter, all the manipulating energy of ScorpioMercury and CapVenus and CancerMoon. And play with these fights. Knowingly that at the end of the day he'll get the power. You can only achieve that this thing has a little substance|flesh. You have to give yourself for getting time-together.
And I feel sorry that I had to be this bold with you. Only to save your sanity. And time.
Posted by bricklemark
Scorpios don't compromise, they're bastards. If you don't have equivalent Scorpio energy, just run...You will never be happy.
she has Scorp, Cap, Cancer and Virgo placements.
I think she can handle it well if she's aware of what is going on. The Scorp is irritated what a good match they are so he is nervous and creates obstacles. The Sag is irritated why they are not laughing together at life problems and fighting each other. The VirgoMars is analyzing. The CapVenus is happy that it is to go a long way of building trust.
Maybe their Sat=Jup=Virgo helps them anyway.
Maybe his SagVenus wants to cancel when his other parts are too fast with moving in etc.?
Posted by Sagifloss
... I need change our plans.... do my best, ... to accommodate him ...
If he needs to change our plans and I say I'm unhappy about it, he says I'm making things difficult and tying to dictate to him. It causes a huge row and he is loathed to accommodate me or my opinion. To him, I am simply wrong and my request is unacceptable....
look, you've been accustomed to a Pisces. A mutable sign.
Compare an electrical lamp with the sun. A lamp you can turn it on or off (of course you clean it and take care of it and so on). To the sunrise and sunset you adapt.
F I X E D
E N E R G Y
Posted by DwellingOnMoveIt sounds like you really know what you're talking about. Whats the best way to handle him?Posted by bricklemark
Scorpios don't compromise, they're bastards. If you don't have equivalent Scorpio energy, just run...You will never be happy.
she has Scorp, Cap, Cancer and Virgo placements.
I think she can handle it well if she's aware of what is going on. The Scorp is irritated what a good match they are so he is nervous and creates obstacles. The Sag is irritated why they are not laughing together at life problems and fighting each other. The VirgoMars is analyzing. The CapVenus is happy that it is to go a long way of building trust.
Maybe their Sat=Jup=Virgo helps them anyway.
Maybe his SagVenus wants to cancel when his other parts are too fast with moving in etc.?click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvI think my cancer moon makes me do a lot more to appease him. I love to make him happy and content.
Honestly take a look how often do you change plans bs him
Is it equal?
Posted by DwellingOnMoveWhat does he want? A mute? A yes person? Should i stop trying to comunicate my feelings with him?Posted by Sagifloss
... I need change our plans.... do my best, ... to accommodate him ...
If he needs to change our plans and I say I'm unhappy about it, he says I'm making things difficult and tying to dictate to him. It causes a huge row and he is loathed to accommodate me or my opinion. To him, I am simply wrong and my request is unacceptable....
look, you've been accustomed to a Pisces. A mutable sign.
Compare an electrical lamp with the sun. A lamp you can turn it on or off (of course you clean it and take care of it and so on). To the sunrise and sunset you adapt.
F I X E D
E N E R G Yclick to expand
Posted by Caramel_PrincessHe always ends up back with me. I presume he wants me if he only calls it a day to try to control the argument then tells me he loves me and doesn't want things to end. It's a huge struggle to get him to listen, let alone tollerate another point of view. He's just goes in a rage as if someone dared to have a different point of view and see his any negative in his decisions. He's stubbon and narrow minded.Posted by bricklemarkWe compromise, but depends on how much we actually want you. Sorry OP, sounds like he doesn’t want you.
Scorpios don't compromise, they're bastards. If you don't have equivalent Scorpio energy, just run...You will never be happy.
However, I doubt disrespecting him gets you any closer to what you want here, only the opposite.click to expand
If i ask him what we can do to stop the next argument escalating, he can only say "you have an answer to everything. You back me into a corner. You bring up things from the past".
Basically he just blames me and doesn't try to see a way to resolve it or develop/learn from a disagreement.
Posted by ShadowcatYes. He doesn't seem to like to talk about it and see a way past it and a better future. I likes to blame me for everything and gets agitated again.Posted by Sagiflosshave you communicated this to him directly?
This Scorpio man will get annoyed if I need change our plans. I will do my best, with least possible fuss to accommodate him when he tells me he is unhappy. I presume this makes him feel important and happy.
If he needs to change our plans and I say I'm unhappy about it, he says I'm making things difficult and tying to dictate to him. It causes a huge row and he is loathed to accommodate me or my opinion. To him, I am simply wrong and my request is unacceptable.
What is the best way to get a scorpio man to take on board my feelings and see his double standards?
If it's importaint to me, would it be best to exhaust myself arguing until breaking point?
Should I wait for the next oppertunity to treat him with the same disrespect in the hope that he will see the error in his ways?
Or...is there another way to deal with an angry scorpio male who is willing to throw the whole relationship away just to win an argument?
Calm explinations and reasoning don't seem to work with him, he flies into a rage everytime I'm upset by something he does. If I disagree with him. He calls me pathetic and impossible.
Obviously I'm not looking for the whole "run for the hills" responce from people. I'm trying to figure out a better way to deal with situations without it escalating ridiculously everytime.
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Communication is awful with him. He expresses himself via touch and actions. Words don't seem to come easy to him. He gets frustrated extreemly easy, as though I am a disobedient child daring to answer him back when i just want to discuss a touchy subject, the arn from it and move forward.
Posted by TotiHimPosted by SagiflossAny virgo in his chart?Posted by ShadowcatYes. He doesn't seem to like to talk about it and see a way past it and a better future. I likes to blame me for everything and gets agitated again.Posted by Sagiflosshave you communicated this to him directly?
This Scorpio man will get annoyed if I need change our plans. I will do my best, with least possible fuss to accommodate him when he tells me he is unhappy. I presume this makes him feel important and happy.
If he needs to change our plans and I say I'm unhappy about it, he says I'm making things difficult and tying to dictate to him. It causes a huge row and he is loathed to accommodate me or my opinion. To him, I am simply wrong and my request is unacceptable.
What is the best way to get a scorpio man to take on board my feelings and see his double standards?
If it's importaint to me, would it be best to exhaust myself arguing until breaking point?
Should I wait for the next oppertunity to treat him with the same disrespect in the hope that he will see the error in his ways?
Or...is there another way to deal with an angry scorpio male who is willing to throw the whole relationship away just to win an argument?
Calm explinations and reasoning don't seem to work with him, he flies into a rage everytime I'm upset by something he does. If I disagree with him. He calls me pathetic and impossible.
Obviously I'm not looking for the whole "run for the hills" responce from people. I'm trying to figure out a better way to deal with situations without it escalating ridiculously everytime.
Communication is awful with him. He expresses himself via touch and actions. Words don't seem to come easy to him. He gets frustrated extreemly easy, as though I am a disobedient child daring to answer him back when i just want to discuss a touchy subject, the arn from it and move forward.click to expand
Sun- scorpio
Moon- virgo
Mercury- sagitarius
Venus- sagitarius
Mars- Leo
Jupiter- virgo
Saturn- virgo
Uranus- Scorpio
Neptune- sagitarius
Pluto- libra
Me
Sun- Sagitarius
Moon- Cancer
Mercury- Scorpio
Venus- Capricorn
Mars- Virgo
Jupiter- Virgo
Saturn- Virgo
Uranus- Scorpio
Neptune- Sagitarius
Pluto- Libra
Posted by WaterbearerwearerYeah l find them very dangerous....l know a triple scorp it's like endless traps and abuse waiting to happen...you can't reason with em.Posted by bricklemarkSooooo true. I have a Scorpio and his energy is pathological but I detach and put a massive boot in on the way out.
Scorpios don't compromise, they're bastards. If you don't have equivalent Scorpio energy, just run...You will never be happy.
To handle Scorpio men who have intense mummy issues you gotta be that harsh parental figure or just flee.
It’s bewilderingclick to expand
Posted by Totiding ding!! my virguy is similar. walking on eggshells sux. im sorry love. i think he's probably just immature. mine is 😝 you can ride it out and lead by example with healthy communication and boundaries and see where that goes ie. patience and mindfulness oooor put up with it till you cant take it anymore and leave... best wishes!Posted by SagiflossAny virgo in his chart?Posted by ShadowcatYes. He doesn't seem to like to talk about it and see a way past it and a better future. I likes to blame me for everything and gets agitated again.Posted by Sagiflosshave you communicated this to him directly?
This Scorpio man will get annoyed if I need change our plans. I will do my best, with least possible fuss to accommodate him when he tells me he is unhappy. I presume this makes him feel important and happy.
If he needs to change our plans and I say I'm unhappy about it, he says I'm making things difficult and tying to dictate to him. It causes a huge row and he is loathed to accommodate me or my opinion. To him, I am simply wrong and my request is unacceptable.
What is the best way to get a scorpio man to take on board my feelings and see his double standards?
If it's importaint to me, would it be best to exhaust myself arguing until breaking point?
Should I wait for the next oppertunity to treat him with the same disrespect in the hope that he will see the error in his ways?
Or...is there another way to deal with an angry scorpio male who is willing to throw the whole relationship away just to win an argument?
Calm explinations and reasoning don't seem to work with him, he flies into a rage everytime I'm upset by something he does. If I disagree with him. He calls me pathetic and impossible.
Obviously I'm not looking for the whole "run for the hills" responce from people. I'm trying to figure out a better way to deal with situations without it escalating ridiculously everytime.
Communication is awful with him. He expresses himself via touch and actions. Words don't seem to come easy to him. He gets frustrated extreemly easy, as though I am a disobedient child daring to answer him back when i just want to discuss a touchy subject, the arn from it and move forward.click to expand
Frankly he sounds like a bitter asshole. What princess. Act like a man.
Well his ex wife (cancer) cheated on him and moved her lover in a few weeks later. They are still together. So maybe that made him bitter and I'm dealing with the backlash?
Posted by TotiI like the specific details in your advice. I will give it a go. But he comes over to my house every night....So its kind of difficult to ignore him, but if I'm on my phone for too long or not paying him attention, wow does he get paranoid and jealous. Ha...he's like a little boy really.
He is sensitive to criticism, but he will criticize others till the last breath. He wants everything and doesn't want anything. He doesn't want to feel trapped. Sort of a Peter Pan.You are sensitive and loving, but you don't easily show affection. You show love by mothering and taking care of your beloved ones.He likes to be the centre of attention, likes to be his way or the highway.Likes to be right even when he knows he isn't. Stubborn till death.Ignore him for a while. When he contacts you be loving and sexy. Mysterious. Scorpios love mysterious people. Tell him no with a smile. Don't talk much. We don't really like that. When he is in the mood to talk, oh he will talk. Don't be always available. Do your things. Change a hair style . Make yourself feel good. When he sees something is happening, he will follow. Good luck!
Posted by SagiflossPosted by DwellingOnMoveIt sounds like you really know what you're talking about. Whats the best way to handle him?Posted by bricklemark
Scorpios don't compromise, they're bastards. If you don't have equivalent Scorpio energy, just run...You will never be happy.
she has Scorp, Cap, Cancer and Virgo placements.
I think she can handle it well if she's aware of what is going on. The Scorp is irritated what a good match they are so he is nervous and creates obstacles. The Sag is irritated why they are not laughing together at life problems and fighting each other. The VirgoMars is analyzing. The CapVenus is happy that it is to go a long way of building trust.
Maybe their Sat=Jup=Virgo helps them anyway.
Maybe his SagVenus wants to cancel when his other parts are too fast with moving in etc.?
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I think you should do the same thing what you are doing now. But only as a role you play.
Imagine how you'd fall before a baby so it has something to laugh at! Do you know this game with babies?
Discuss with him. Tell him the truth about your real motivation why you need to change plans or anything else your subject may be. But be aware he will let it all look dangerous|aggressive|uneasy. In your heart keep distance to the thrill. Your Cap Venus might be able to do so. And be prepared that his word count more. Sometimes suddenly after you accepted his cutting word, he comes with an exception and reward you with something which is comfortable for you.
Posted by Sagiflossthat's alot of virgo.Posted by TotiHimPosted by SagiflossAny virgo in his chart?Posted by ShadowcatYes. He doesn't seem to like to talk about it and see a way past it and a better future. I likes to blame me for everything and gets agitated again.Posted by Sagiflosshave you communicated this to him directly?
This Scorpio man will get annoyed if I need change our plans. I will do my best, with least possible fuss to accommodate him when he tells me he is unhappy. I presume this makes him feel important and happy.
If he needs to change our plans and I say I'm unhappy about it, he says I'm making things difficult and tying to dictate to him. It causes a huge row and he is loathed to accommodate me or my opinion. To him, I am simply wrong and my request is unacceptable.
What is the best way to get a scorpio man to take on board my feelings and see his double standards?
If it's importaint to me, would it be best to exhaust myself arguing until breaking point?
Should I wait for the next oppertunity to treat him with the same disrespect in the hope that he will see the error in his ways?
Or...is there another way to deal with an angry scorpio male who is willing to throw the whole relationship away just to win an argument?
Calm explinations and reasoning don't seem to work with him, he flies into a rage everytime I'm upset by something he does. If I disagree with him. He calls me pathetic and impossible.
Obviously I'm not looking for the whole "run for the hills" responce from people. I'm trying to figure out a better way to deal with situations without it escalating ridiculously everytime.
Communication is awful with him. He expresses himself via touch and actions. Words don't seem to come easy to him. He gets frustrated extreemly easy, as though I am a disobedient child daring to answer him back when i just want to discuss a touchy subject, the arn from it and move forward.
Sun- scorpio
Moon- virgo
Mercury- sagitarius
Venus- sagitarius
Mars- Leo
Jupiter- virgo
Saturn- virgo
Uranus- Scorpio
Neptune- sagitarius
Pluto- libra
Me
Sun- Sagitarius
Moon- Cancer
Mercury- Scorpio
Venus- Capricorn
Mars- Virgo
Jupiter- Virgo
Saturn- Virgo
Uranus- Scorpio
Neptune- Sagitarius
Pluto- Libra
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my father in law is a sag rising, double virgo and a scorpio stellium.
it was his way or the highway..
and he left my mother in law decades ago. if you dont bend to him ....well... you think that being a double mutable he was reasonable?
nope.
he's with a gemini sun with aries moon, cancer and taurus dominant.
she bends alot. and he's happier that way.
his way or the highway.
Posted by Totii love/hate both and im scorp dominant 😝😝 hahaPosted by AbbyNormalVirgos are impossible but irresistible. Scorpio men too. I don't like Scorpio men though and I'm a Scorpio woman. I'm virgo oriented😂Posted by Totiding ding!! my virguy is similar. walking on eggshells sux. im sorry love. i think he's probably just immature. mine is 😝 you can ride it out and lead by example with healthy communication and boundaries and see where that goes ie. patience and mindfulness oooor put up with it till you cant take it anymore and leave... best wishes!Posted by SagiflossAny virgo in his chart?Posted by ShadowcatYes. He doesn't seem to like to talk about it and see a way past it and a better future. I likes to blame me for everything and gets agitated again.Posted by Sagiflosshave you communicated this to him directly?
This Scorpio man will get annoyed if I need change our plans. I will do my best, with least possible fuss to accommodate him when he tells me he is unhappy. I presume this makes him feel important and happy.
If he needs to change our plans and I say I'm unhappy about it, he says I'm making things difficult and tying to dictate to him. It causes a huge row and he is loathed to accommodate me or my opinion. To him, I am simply wrong and my request is unacceptable.
What is the best way to get a scorpio man to take on board my feelings and see his double standards?
If it's importaint to me, would it be best to exhaust myself arguing until breaking point?
Should I wait for the next oppertunity to treat him with the same disrespect in the hope that he will see the error in his ways?
Or...is there another way to deal with an angry scorpio male who is willing to throw the whole relationship away just to win an argument?
Calm explinations and reasoning don't seem to work with him, he flies into a rage everytime I'm upset by something he does. If I disagree with him. He calls me pathetic and impossible.
Obviously I'm not looking for the whole "run for the hills" responce from people. I'm trying to figure out a better way to deal with situations without it escalating ridiculously everytime.
Communication is awful with him. He expresses himself via touch and actions. Words don't seem to come easy to him. He gets frustrated extreemly easy, as though I am a disobedient child daring to answer him back when i just want to discuss a touchy subject, the arn from it and move forward.click to expand
Posted by UnicornSagabsolutely!! 💯
then why are you working hard on maintaining the relationship which he's ready to throw away just to win an argument? Not only that he disrespects you but he clearly doesn't even car what you will do, as long as you indulge him you're good, the soon you stop doing it you're no good and trash to take out. So what is there exactly to save? And no, by mirroring his behavior you will gain nothing cause he just doesn't see it, He thinks he's right and only option I see that might work is to tell him your concerns directly and eave him to think about it. And I mean literally leave him. If he respects you the slightest bit he will reconsider his action and think about your words and try to adjust his actions as well. Right now you're his slave and have no right to speak. If you want to chose to stay that is up to you.
But you secretly love the conflict dynamic, admit it.
This guy sounds like a very dysfunctional Scorpio, one who cannot rise above his emotional pain and need for total control.
My advice would be to walk away totally. This is what I was faced with two years ago. Having realised there was a distinct lack of healthiness, I walked away from love and have rarely looked back over my shoulder. He will not change unless he undergoes some serious self-analysis and decides to apologise and rise above his current pettiness. You should not be blamed, controlled, or made to feel less.
My partner's insecurities caused him to put me down (when I supported him) and push me away (when I was there for him) all the while proclaiming his love for me.
You deserve better and to be unburdened by his emotional punishments. As you say, he's narrow-minded and stubborn (like my ex-partner) and this doesn't mesh well with a freedom-loving, generous Sag girl.
My advice would be to walk away totally. This is what I was faced with two years ago. Having realised there was a distinct lack of healthiness, I walked away from love and have rarely looked back over my shoulder. He will not change unless he undergoes some serious self-analysis and decides to apologise and rise above his current pettiness. You should not be blamed, controlled, or made to feel less.
My partner's insecurities caused him to put me down (when I supported him) and push me away (when I was there for him) all the while proclaiming his love for me.
You deserve better and to be unburdened by his emotional punishments. As you say, he's narrow-minded and stubborn (like my ex-partner) and this doesn't mesh well with a freedom-loving, generous Sag girl.
Posted by UnicornSag
... Right now you're his slave and have no right to speak. If you want to chose to stay that is up to you.
I might be wrong but I think their problem is that she currently is no slave. She is a freedom loving Sag woman who has been living with a Pisces man. So she is just handling it as if they are eye to eye.
But does he think they are eye to eye? And if not, should she choose him or her freedom (for the talk of dignity it's too soon, cause little info)? Wouldn't her Virgo-Cap-Cancer parts bleed if she leaves him cause Sag cannot be a slave?
I never stood by my Scorp. But I had nothing but a Pisces Moon to offer. So it was right for me to choose freedom. But to OP, how can we know she's better off with or without him?
I'm understanding more and more. So his virgo makes him critical and basically i should smile, nod, roll my eyes and ignore him like a misbehaving child lol...basically when he want to be nice to me I will show some attention and when he's doing something I dont like I will tell him to do whatever he pleases and ignore him making myself busy with other things. Am i right?
What about when he costantly asks me "what is wrong why are you being quiet?" (He does this a lot).. shoulf i just say nothing and let him stew on it?
What about when he costantly asks me "what is wrong why are you being quiet?" (He does this a lot).. shoulf i just say nothing and let him stew on it?
Posted by AzureBlue
... dysfunctional Scorpio, ... need for total control.
... I was faced with two years ago. Having realised there was a distinct lack of healthiness, ...
two questions:
- do you have Fixed sign placements?
- do you have Cap, Virgo or Cancer placements?
Posted by Totithis reminded me of scorpio sun, Libra venus/libra mars Josh Duhamel....Posted by lisabethur8Guy I was with was the same plus had Venus and Mars in libra. He would get annoyed with silliest thing, wouldn't show it but would become very mean in his critique of me. Or ignore me for days. Or make changes in plans. I thought he was crazy. I miss him sometimes but that was a crazy ride. I could never know where I stand in his life.Posted by Sagiflossthat's alot of virgo.Posted by TotiHimPosted by SagiflossAny virgo in his chart?Posted by ShadowcatYes. He doesn't seem to like to talk about it and see a way past it and a better future. I likes to blame me for everything and gets agitated again.Posted by Sagiflosshave you communicated this to him directly?
This Scorpio man will get annoyed if I need change our plans. I will do my best, with least possible fuss to accommodate him when he tells me he is unhappy. I presume this makes him feel important and happy.
If he needs to change our plans and I say I'm unhappy about it, he says I'm making things difficult and tying to dictate to him. It causes a huge row and he is loathed to accommodate me or my opinion. To him, I am simply wrong and my request is unacceptable.
What is the best way to get a scorpio man to take on board my feelings and see his double standards?
If it's importaint to me, would it be best to exhaust myself arguing until breaking point?
Should I wait for the next oppertunity to treat him with the same disrespect in the hope that he will see the error in his ways?
Or...is there another way to deal with an angry scorpio male who is willing to throw the whole relationship away just to win an argument?
Calm explinations and reasoning don't seem to work with him, he flies into a rage everytime I'm upset by something he does. If I disagree with him. He calls me pathetic and impossible.
Obviously I'm not looking for the whole "run for the hills" responce from people. I'm trying to figure out a better way to deal with situations without it escalating ridiculously everytime.
Communication is awful with him. He expresses himself via touch and actions. Words don't seem to come easy to him. He gets frustrated extreemly easy, as though I am a disobedient child daring to answer him back when i just want to discuss a touchy subject, the arn from it and move forward.
Sun- scorpio
Moon- virgo
Mercury- sagitarius
Venus- sagitarius
Mars- Leo
Jupiter- virgo
Saturn- virgo
Uranus- Scorpio
Neptune- sagitarius
Pluto- libra
Me
Sun- Sagitarius
Moon- Cancer
Mercury- Scorpio
Venus- Capricorn
Mars- Virgo
Jupiter- Virgo
Saturn- Virgo
Uranus- Scorpio
Neptune- Sagitarius
Pluto- Libra
my father in law is a sag rising, double virgo and a scorpio stellium.
it was his way or the highway..
and he left my mother in law decades ago. if you dont bend to him ....well... you think that being a double mutable he was reasonable?
nope.
he's with a gemini sun with aries moon, cancer and taurus dominant.
she bends alot. and he's happier that way.
his way or the highway.
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he left Fergie anyway, because it was his way or the highway..
different life goals.
i have a feeling they would keep their marriage if she kept bending to him...
she kept it longer when they took marriage counseling after his cheating. and then they had a baby.
another...Libra venus/Libra mars guy ...married Jolie, and his 2nd marriage to another Gemini sun lasted.
Jolie is 1st, 11th, and 9th house dominant (those are not indicators of wanting traditional wifey stuff)(...she even said she didnt feel like being a wife then. lol i bet he was sad but no hard feelings they both wrote on tabloids.
Posted by Sagifloss
I'm understanding more and more. So his virgo makes him critical and basically i should smile, nod, roll my eyes and ignore him like a misbehaving child lol...basically when he want to be nice to me I will show some attention and when he's doing something I dont like I will tell him to do whatever he pleases and ignore him making myself busy with other things. Am i right?
What about when he costantly asks me "what is wrong why are you being quiet?" (He does this a lot).. shoulf i just say nothing and let him stew on it?
tell the truth.
He wants to involve you anyway. or get himself involved. So silence makes the dialogue longer and uneasier.
I disagree with total silence and replacing words with roll-eyes.
cause the scorp mind is curious and investigating. you should tell him the truth. but sometimes only part of it. he needs stimulation. this is why a Scorp placement would create thrill even if there's enough reason for a celebration.
Go simply for a mix of what a Cancer, Pisces, Cap and Virgo would do:
- play the seducer, victim and peace-keeper,
- manipulate, thrill, presume, threat and clap back,
- accept, follow, understand and say yes.
cerian rising (as did he) and a few minor planets in Capricorn and Scorpio, but mostly Sagittarius & Aqua V.
He was 80% water (like most humans beings!)
Does that help?Posted by DwellingOnMovePosted by AzureBlue
... dysfunctional Scorpio, ... need for total control.
... I was faced with two years ago. Having realised there was a distinct lack of healthiness, ...
two questions:
- do you have Fixed sign placements?
- do you have Cap, Virgo or Cancer placements?click to expand
Posted by DwellingOnMoveuh a smart man can see through the bullshit.Posted by Sagifloss
I'm understanding more and more. So his virgo makes him critical and basically i should smile, nod, roll my eyes and ignore him like a misbehaving child lol...basically when he want to be nice to me I will show some attention and when he's doing something I dont like I will tell him to do whatever he pleases and ignore him making myself busy with other things. Am i right?
What about when he costantly asks me "what is wrong why are you being quiet?" (He does this a lot).. shoulf i just say nothing and let him stew on it?
tell the truth.
He wants to involve you anyway. or get himself involved. So silence makes the dialogue longer and uneasier.
I disagree with total silence and replacing words with roll-eyes.
cause the scorp mind is curious and investigating. you should tell him the truth. but sometimes only part of it. he needs stimulation. this is why a Scorp placement would create thrill even if there's enough reason for a celebration.
Go simply for a mix of what a Cancer, Pisces, Cap and Virgo would do:
- play the seducer, victim and peace-keeper,
- manipulate, thrill, presume, threat and clap back,
- accept, follow, understand and say yes.click to expand
a man doesn't need coercian if he already loves you.
Posted by Totii dont think they have virgo. lolPosted by lisabethur8Strong Libra and virgo placements are tricky in relationships.Posted by Totithis reminded me of scorpio sun, Libra venus/libra mars Josh Duhamel....Posted by lisabethur8Guy I was with was the same plus had Venus and Mars in libra. He would get annoyed with silliest thing, wouldn't show it but would become very mean in his critique of me. Or ignore me for days. Or make changes in plans. I thought he was crazy. I miss him sometimes but that was a crazy ride. I could never know where I stand in his life.Posted by Sagiflossthat's alot of virgo.Posted by TotiHimPosted by SagiflossAny virgo in his chart?Posted by ShadowcatYes. He doesn't seem to like to talk about it and see a way past it and a better future. I likes to blame me for everything and gets agitated again.Posted by Sagiflosshave you communicated this to him directly?
This Scorpio man will get annoyed if I need change our plans. I will do my best, with least possible fuss to accommodate him when he tells me he is unhappy. I presume this makes him feel important and happy.
If he needs to change our plans and I say I'm unhappy about it, he says I'm making things difficult and tying to dictate to him. It causes a huge row and he is loathed to accommodate me or my opinion. To him, I am simply wrong and my request is unacceptable.
What is the best way to get a scorpio man to take on board my feelings and see his double standards?
If it's importaint to me, would it be best to exhaust myself arguing until breaking point?
Should I wait for the next oppertunity to treat him with the same disrespect in the hope that he will see the error in his ways?
Or...is there another way to deal with an angry scorpio male who is willing to throw the whole relationship away just to win an argument?
Calm explinations and reasoning don't seem to work with him, he flies into a rage everytime I'm upset by something he does. If I disagree with him. He calls me pathetic and impossible.
Obviously I'm not looking for the whole "run for the hills" responce from people. I'm trying to figure out a better way to deal with situations without it escalating ridiculously everytime.
Communication is awful with him. He expresses himself via touch and actions. Words don't seem to come easy to him. He gets frustrated extreemly easy, as though I am a disobedient child daring to answer him back when i just want to discuss a touchy subject, the arn from it and move forward.
Sun- scorpio
Moon- virgo
Mercury- sagitarius
Venus- sagitarius
Mars- Leo
Jupiter- virgo
Saturn- virgo
Uranus- Scorpio
Neptune- sagitarius
Pluto- libra
Me
Sun- Sagitarius
Moon- Cancer
Mercury- Scorpio
Venus- Capricorn
Mars- Virgo
Jupiter- Virgo
Saturn- Virgo
Uranus- Scorpio
Neptune- Sagitarius
Pluto- Libra
my father in law is a sag rising, double virgo and a scorpio stellium.
it was his way or the highway..
and he left my mother in law decades ago. if you dont bend to him ....well... you think that being a double mutable he was reasonable?
nope.
he's with a gemini sun with aries moon, cancer and taurus dominant.
she bends alot. and he's happier that way.
his way or the highway.
he left Fergie anyway, because it was his way or the highway..
different life goals.
i have a feeling they would keep their marriage if she kept bending to him...
she kept it longer when they took marriage counseling after his cheating. and then they had a baby.
another...Libra venus/Libra mars guy ...married Jolie, and his 2nd marriage to another Gemini sun lasted.
Jolie is 1st, 11th, and 9th house dominant (those are not indicators of wanting traditional wifey stuff)(...she even said she didnt feel like being a wife then. lol i bet he was sad but no hard feelings they both wrote on tabloids.
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i think they have aquarius and pisces placements next to scorpio and libra
Posted by AzureBlue
A strong Cancerian rising (as did he) and a few minor planets in Capricorn and Scorpio, but mostly Sagittarius & Aqua V.
He was 80% water (like most humans beings!)
Does that help?Posted by DwellingOnMovePosted by AzureBlue
... dysfunctional Scorpio, ... need for total control.
... I was faced with two years ago. Having realised there was a distinct lack of healthiness, ...
two questions:
- do you have Fixed sign placements?
- do you have Cap, Virgo or Cancer placements?click to expand
My theory is that
- Fixed placements like your Aquas and additionally Sag placements make it hard to play the 2nd violin.
- Cap, Virgo, Cancer and Pisces on the other side let see it all as a team work thing.
So your case (like mine) had to end with a separation.
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