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Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus and Gemini Mars?


I have gemini mars.

My mother is Aries and Aries venus. What do you want to know?
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I am curious what you think/see about your mother?
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I don't have problems liking other people. I have problems with them liking me. It's like they feel as if I'm a threat.

I've heard ppl say intimidating until they get to know me.

I have a very hard don't fuk with me exterior

I think all that should mean for you is you need a guy who can handle that and get through that demeanor. But it's easier said than done. It is what it is. Maybe you have a don't fuck with me mentally that naturally gets projected through your demeanor?
It does why men don't approach but I'm maxing these days

I try to soften my face and my exterior

But I don't really do a good job

My head and heart hurts so much. The societal pressure to be in relationships - long term or short term can go fuck itself. But you can't fight your internal needs. I really pray someone good for you falls into your life.
Thanks for you as well

You also hope he's hot, that's really my only criteria lol
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Tbh yes. He needs to be hot bc my kids can't all look like me (unfortunately) lmao and faithful aka no Aries or Gemini placements. Das all I need.
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Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus and Gemini Mars?


How can you be repulsed and unfamiliar at the same time?



If you're unfamiliar how can you have any feelings at all?

Repulsed from the stigma of those energies. It's possible the reason why I don't attract them is due to my subconscious repulsion of them.

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FIXED.

You're not unconscious. You're still here posting.
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LMAO

when I was interviewed for this shitty job the HR manager was like so tell me about yourself and I was like

....

....

I'm the middle child

manager:....

me: *shit shouldn't have said that*

manager: haha

me: that was funny?

manager: kind of


LOL so cheesy


and I was spinning on the fucking chair the whole time idk why they have those in every stupid building so addicting lol

I thought id get a bigass fat No

idk what is it that made him give me a chance lol

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You made him laugh.
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Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus?

PSA: If you are a Taurus sun with an Aries venus please post your presence.
My boyfriend has those placements. What's his moon?
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Aries. Yours? How long have you two been together and what's he like? His history too.
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Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus and Gemini Mars?


How can you be repulsed and unfamiliar at the same time?



If you're unfamiliar how can you have any feelings at all?

Repulsed from the stigma of those energies. It's possible the reason why I don't attract them is due to my subconscious repulsion of them.


FIXED.

You're not unconscious. You're still here posting.
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Shhhhhhh. I'm having a Neptune transit so it works
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LMAO

when I was interviewed for this shitty job the HR manager was like so tell me about yourself and I was like

....

....

I'm the middle child

manager:....

me: *shit shouldn't have said that*

manager: haha

me: that was funny?

manager: kind of


LOL so cheesy


and I was spinning on the fucking chair the whole time idk why they have those in every stupid building so addicting lol

I thought id get a bigass fat No

idk what is it that made him give me a chance lol




Oh. My. God.

I can't believe you actually got the job. Lol


same

#blessed
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I'm inspired to completely yolo interviews and see where that gets me
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Posted by SassyKiwi
Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus and Gemini Mars?


Gemini mars. Scattered brained people who have trouble focusing on one thing/person at a time.



Also, I have gem in merc and mars lol
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Oh gotcha ๐Ÿ˜„

You ain't no good at hints lmao ๐Ÿ™‚
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Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus?

PSA: If you are a Taurus sun with an Aries venus please post your presence.
My boyfriend has those placements. What's his moon?

Aries. Yours? How long have you two been together and what's he like? His history too.


Sag.

A month and a half, so very early. Mischievous, very competitive, helpful, supportive, dismissive, very affectionate, highly intelligent, easygoing, etc etc etc



What about his history?
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Has he had lots of past relationships. Is he the type to hop around?
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I generally don't dislike any placement, but there are 2 placements I don't understand.

Scorpio Mars and Aqua moon.

OH!

And Cap moon on an Aqua sun/Mercury.

Scorpio Mars are the real psychopaths

Aqua moon are know-it-all smartasses

Cap moon on Aqua sun are actually very normal people

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I dunno man. This one has been my buddy for almost 12 years and I still can't figure her out. Her sense of logic always on its head.
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I generally don't dislike any placement, but there are 2 placements I don't understand.

Scorpio Mars and Aqua moon.

OH!

And Cap moon on an Aqua sun/Mercury.

Scorpio Mars are the real psychopaths

Aqua moon are know-it-all smartasses

Cap moon on Aqua sun are actually very normal people


I dunno man. This one has been my buddy for almost 12 years and I still can't figure her out. Her sense of logic always on its head.
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You're an Aries so of course it's like that... I'm kidding lol. Idk any cap moons irl or at least that I'm aware of. Those placements are both supposedly detrimental.
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Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus?

PSA: If you are a Taurus sun with an Aries venus please post your presence.
My boyfriend has those placements. What's his moon?

Aries. Yours? How long have you two been together and what's he like? His history too.


Sag.

A month and a half, so very early. Mischievous, very competitive, helpful, supportive, dismissive, very affectionate, highly intelligent, easygoing, etc etc etc



What about his history?

Has he had lots of past relationships. Is he the type to hop around?


Nope. I'm the first.
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Interesting... Can you post his chart? And you're American right?
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Posted by SassyKiwi
Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus?

PSA: If you are a Taurus sun with an Aries venus please post your presence.
My boyfriend has those placements. What's his moon?

Aries. Yours? How long have you two been together and what's he like? His history too.


Sag.

A month and a half, so very early. Mischievous, very competitive, helpful, supportive, dismissive, very affectionate, highly intelligent, easygoing, etc etc etc



What about his history?

Has he had lots of past relationships. Is he the type to hop around?


Nope. I'm the first.

Interesting... Can you post his chart? And you're American right?


Lol I really don't want to post his chart here. Hell I won't even post mine. Call me paranoid. They have heavy algol and nessus, so that's something interesting to add to the picture.

Yeah I'm American.

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Can you PM it to me? Lol I don't need your chart. I'm just trying to understand something.

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Posted by SassyKiwi
Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus and Gemini Mars?


Gemini mars. Scattered brained people who have trouble focusing on one thing/person at a time.



Also, I have gem in merc and mars lol


Oh gotcha ๐Ÿ˜„

You ain't no good at hints lmao ๐Ÿ™‚
:p

Well then, care to add to the gem discussion mi lady?

What say you and your airy mars?
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You can sweetheart

My mars put me through a lot of trouble lmao
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Sags with heavy Cap and Scorp energy are

funny (not humorous)-- they HATE being

advised of anything, but they give themselves

ultimatums that they inevitably break.

They're also rabid control freaks... just don't

fence them in. ?

Those are a strange combination of energy. There was this one guy I knew, cap sun, sag moon. Saturn mixed with Jupiter is something alright. Definitely on the control freak side.
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I hadn't looked at it like that... Jupiter expanding

the hell out of Saturn.

Makes my eyes cross.

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I don't love pisces men / leo mooners.

Also mercury in leo ):


Better make an exception for that last one.

?
Hahhah it's that your mercury montgomery?

What did u think of scorpio merc ?๐Ÿ™‚

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It is, yes.

Scorp merc is good.. they say a lot without

actually saying very much.

Is that your merc?

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no placements bother me really...they all have positives/negatives....if I try to name a placement I don't like, I can think of a person irl or a dxp-er with it that I like...

Orlly. Taurus with Aries venus? Anyone? No one cause they're too busy screwing the next thing that moves.
Never met a Taurus person I didn't like....except maybe scorched on dxp.....and...she does have aries venus...

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See.

Worst combo people ever. In all aspects.
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no placements bother me really...they all have positives/negatives....if I try to name a placement I don't like, I can think of a person irl or a dxp-er with it that I like...

Orlly. Taurus with Aries venus? Anyone? No one cause they're too busy screwing the next thing that moves.
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Not really lol.

My best friend has those two placements, plus Aries Mars. Takes a damn long time to move on to the next relationship, unless the partner cheats on him.
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Pisces suns controlling tendencies, victim mentality, guilt trips

I don't get their controlling nature regarding how someone feels, they want everyone to be happy around them. like no one gets to be moody but them.


I'm none of that?! But maybe it's because I'm Libra Stellium and air dominant ??โ€โ™€๏ธ
oh god no

you got nights placements

as if one wasn't enough
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Nights placements?

Argh come on I'm not that bad!
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Pisces suns controlling tendencies, victim mentality, guilt trips

I don't get their controlling nature regarding how someone feels, they want everyone to be happy around them. like no one gets to be moody but them.


I'm none of that?! But maybe it's because I'm Libra Stellium and air dominant ??โ€โ™€๏ธ
oh god no

you got nights placements

as if one wasn't enough

Nights placements?

Argh come on I'm not that bad!


lmao no

nights = a user here called afternoondelights

ok I will give you a chance (since you helped us in that one game ๐Ÿ˜„)
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Hmmm I do recognise that name will keep an eye out lol

You're too kind ?
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Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus?

PSA: If you are a Taurus sun with an Aries venus please post your presence.


Does an Aries Taurus cusp count? With an Aries penis....I mean Venus ?? ?

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I consider cusps more of the previous sign but why not. Do you suck at relationships cause you a ho?
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no placements bother me really...they all have positives/negatives....if I try to name a placement I don't like, I can think of a person irl or a dxp-er with it that I like...

Orlly. Taurus with Aries venus? Anyone? No one cause they're too busy screwing the next thing that moves.
Not really lol.

My best friend has those two placements, plus Aries Mars. Takes a damn long time to move on to the next relationship, unless the partner cheats on him.
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Wtf was I given a broken, malfunctioning one. What did I ever do
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There is a Taurus male with aries venus on the site and you know him Sassy ๐Ÿ˜›



Who? I only have like a select peoples' venuses memorized against my will bc shameless self promotions
Taureye / DickButt
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OHHHH it was him with the gem mars too. Poor kid. Wow. Gee. Well then. I feel a little upset for some reason now.
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Pisces suns controlling tendencies, victim mentality, guilt trips

I don't get their controlling nature regarding how someone feels, they want everyone to be happy around them. like no one gets to be moody but them.


I'm none of that?! But maybe it's because I'm Libra Stellium and air dominant ??โ€โ™€๏ธ
oh god no

you got nights placements

as if one wasn't enough

Nights placements?

Argh come on I'm not that bad!


lmao no

nights = a user here called afternoondelights

ok I will give you a chance (since you helped us in that one game ๐Ÿ˜„)
Hmmm I do recognise that name will keep an eye out lol

You're too kind ?
LOL I get that a lot thank you
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Mars in Sag

Nah uh boo boo you need to be more detailed. Why?
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It is a placement that tends to make one afraid/ less inclined to commit (absent stronger influences to balance this out). In my experience, it also makes the person unable/ unwilling to partake in self-reflection and thereby inhibits self-awareness- -making these individual less likely to be able to deal with difficult personal situations. It doesn't make them bad people- just difficult to connect with and rely on for something long-term (romantically speaking).
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I've never met anyone with Aqua Mars, at least someone I've looked up.

How would that pan out?

Also someone who has like Scorpio everything except they have mercury in sag,



Aqua Mars are freaks in bed is all I hear.

They're more open-minded to others' perspectives than a Scorpio stellium person who doesn't have Sag or Aqua placements.
I have an aqua mars lmao. I don't have enough experience to know whether the freaks in bed thing applies to me or not. I feel like my other aspects are muting it or suppressing that. But in my younger teenaged years I was quite innocent and seeing or hearing about people doing dirty things disgusted me so much. But of course my mentality has changed lol



Interesting. It could be your Virgo and Aqua energy being the root of the exact same things.


Those are Scorpio symbols haha. I'm pretty sure it's my Pisces Venus conjunct Saturn restricting and setting boundaries on that energy. So I predict to see it come out as I get older

LOL shh. Virgo has the tail crossed oops. Have fun with that triggered Aqua Mars hahah
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True..certain things and topics I feel strongly about do trigger me ?
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Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus and Gemini Mars?


Aries Venus - very impulsive when it comes to romantic matters. It's true they want constant new stimulation in the relationship or they get bored easily. A friend of mine's with this placement told me he gets bored of people easily. This guy I dated with this venus said that he "can't understand how a person can stay with one person for their entire life/not get bored after learning everything about them." I did not agree with that at all. There's so much more to just that; it's about finding someone who you enjoy the company of enough and have a great enough connection that you'd want to share the rest of your life with. And also someone could probably never learn everything about me. The same guy moved SUPER quickly and was impulsive in everything he said and did, and it freaked me out so I had to end things. Red flags 101. He was also a Taurus though so he was ruled by his venus, and his moon probably affected it too. So that's a really exaggerated version of an Aries Venus



That right there is EXACTLY why I find aries energy repulsive. I was afraid of this. I've currently fell hard for a Taurus with an Aries venus and he moves fast. Doesn't see himself settling until like another decade. I feel nauseated about his nature. For me... after learning everything about a person... I feel more reluctant to keep them around and treasure but energies like gemini and aries are the opposite and need constant new stimulation and end up being suspectible to jumping from person to person. It's all EXTREMELY repulsive to me. I feel like throwing up right now.


Yeah exactly! I could never be with someone who thinks that way. I feel like I wouldn't be able to connect with them on a deeper romantic level. I like slowly getting to know everything about someone as well and the more closer we mutually get to each other/share about ourselves, it becomes something more special. But I see how everyone different from people I meet. Like what do you do about someone who's an open book and tells you everything about themselves but you're way more reserved and less inclined to share even half the same amount back?

You can't change the way a person feels but I guess that's why we are just made to be compatible with different people. It's hard though because it's never just black and white. Even with astrology someone's chart can vary or have difficult aspects in itself that makes a person's nature contradictory.



I agree with everything you've said. I'm the same. And it just completely sucks when you know you're incompatible with someone like that but have irrationally hard feelings for them anyway. Like wtf gives. That's just venus-pluto transit crap I'm getting. But it's just always sad to once again confirm astrology this way... I need to stop hoping they could possibly suddenly change the way they are.
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Yeah astrology has made it easier for me to confirm whether I'm ultimately compatible with them and it makes it easier for myself to justify letting them go. We could seem like we get along now but then I wonder if they could handle the real me lol.

It's probably the venus retrograde right now too
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Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus and Gemini Mars?


Aries Venus - very impulsive when it comes to romantic matters. It's true they want constant new stimulation in the relationship or they get bored easily. A friend of mine's with this placement told me he gets bored of people easily. This guy I dated with this venus said that he "can't understand how a person can stay with one person for their entire life/not get bored after learning everything about them." I did not agree with that at all. There's so much more to just that; it's about finding someone who you enjoy the company of enough and have a great enough connection that you'd want to share the rest of your life with. And also someone could probably never learn everything about me. The same guy moved SUPER quickly and was impulsive in everything he said and did, and it freaked me out so I had to end things. Red flags 101. He was also a Taurus though so he was ruled by his venus, and his moon probably affected it too. So that's a really exaggerated version of an Aries Venus



That right there is EXACTLY why I find aries energy repulsive. I was afraid of this. I've currently fell hard for a Taurus with an Aries venus and he moves fast. Doesn't see himself settling until like another decade. I feel nauseated about his nature. For me... after learning everything about a person... I feel more reluctant to keep them around and treasure but energies like gemini and aries are the opposite and need constant new stimulation and end up being suspectible to jumping from person to person. It's all EXTREMELY repulsive to me. I feel like throwing up right now.


Yeah exactly! I could never be with someone who thinks that way. I feel like I wouldn't be able to connect with them on a deeper romantic level. I like slowly getting to know everything about someone as well and the more closer we mutually get to each other/share about ourselves, it becomes something more special. But I see how everyone different from people I meet. Like what do you do about someone who's an open book and tells you everything about themselves but you're way more reserved and less inclined to share even half the same amount back?

You can't change the way a person feels but I guess that's why we are just made to be compatible with different people. It's hard though because it's never just black and white. Even with astrology someone's chart can vary or have difficult aspects in itself that makes a person's nature contradictory.



I agree with everything you've said. I'm the same. And it just completely sucks when you know you're incompatible with someone like that but have irrationally hard feelings for them anyway. Like wtf gives. That's just venus-pluto transit crap I'm getting. But it's just always sad to once again confirm astrology this way... I need to stop hoping they could possibly suddenly change the way they are.
Yeah astrology has made it easier for me to confirm whether I'm ultimately compatible with them and it makes it easier for myself to justify letting them go. We could seem like we get along now but then I wonder if they could handle the real me lol.

It's probably the venus retrograde right now too
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Yeah, I can't deny I've seen consistent astrological patterns of compatibility with people throughout my life.

Supposedly a venus retrograde during a venus-pluto transit will swap the obsession... I can only hope tbh. I do feel like I'm coping better with the obsession than before the retrograde began. Do you know what exact day it began?
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Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus?



Lol wow. "Repulsed" is a pretty strong reactions.

Ram Venus...had difficulty calming the ego, which I found annoying. I just blocked it out after a while.

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no placements bother me really...they all have positives/negatives....if I try to name a placement I don't like, I can think of a person irl or a dxp-er with it that I like...

Orlly. Taurus with Aries venus? Anyone? No one cause they're too busy screwing the next thing that moves.
Not really lol.

My best friend has those two placements, plus Aries Mars. Takes a damn long time to move on to the next relationship, unless the partner cheats on him.

Wtf was I given a broken, malfunctioning one. What did I ever do

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It's other stuff besides placements, you know that.
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Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus and Gemini Mars?


Aries Venus - very impulsive when it comes to romantic matters. It's true they want constant new stimulation in the relationship or they get bored easily. A friend of mine's with this placement told me he gets bored of people easily. This guy I dated with this venus said that he "can't understand how a person can stay with one person for their entire life/not get bored after learning everything about them." I did not agree with that at all. There's so much more to just that; it's about finding someone who you enjoy the company of enough and have a great enough connection that you'd want to share the rest of your life with. And also someone could probably never learn everything about me. The same guy moved SUPER quickly and was impulsive in everything he said and did, and it freaked me out so I had to end things. Red flags 101. He was also a Taurus though so he was ruled by his venus, and his moon probably affected it too. So that's a really exaggerated version of an Aries Venus

Gemini Mars - enjoys socializing, wittiness, variety of interests, curious about sex and may be willing to try anything (the types to google things and go by those etc.)

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I was wondering if there were other specs in his chart made him more over the top, because if anything the one I mentioned was the opposite. Lawd have mercy moving slow as molasses doesn't quite describe it....

The impulsivity only seem to show itself when we were having a discussion. The person would often cut me off and assume they knew what was about to come out of my mouth. It got annoying as well. That was something I couldn't ignore.
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Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus?



Lol wow. "Repulsed" is a pretty strong reactions.

Ram Venus...had difficulty calming the ego, which I found annoying. I just blocked it out after a while.

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Yeah, it is a strong reaction but it's held very true for me.

I easily get annoyed of aries/ego energy lol for that reason lol.
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Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus?



Lol wow. "Repulsed" is a pretty strong reactions.

Ram Venus...had difficulty calming the ego, which I found annoying. I just blocked it out after a while.



Yeah, it is a strong reaction but it's held very true for me.

I easily get annoyed of aries/ego energy lol for that reason lol.

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jfc...
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Posted by SassyKiwi
Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus?



Lol wow. "Repulsed" is a pretty strong reactions.

Ram Venus...had difficulty calming the ego, which I found annoying. I just blocked it out after a while.



Yeah, it is a strong reaction but it's held very true for me.

I easily get annoyed of aries/ego energy lol for that reason lol.


jfc...
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LOL ?
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Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus?



Lol wow. "Repulsed" is a pretty strong reactions.

Ram Venus...had difficulty calming the ego, which I found annoying. I just blocked it out after a while.



Yeah, it is a strong reaction but it's held very true for me.

I easily get annoyed of aries/ego energy lol for that reason lol.

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Lol. I get it. I struggle with Ram energy for the same reason, but I have found it's much more manageable when placed with water placements and less so with fire, air and earth placements. In that order. Perhaps because water signs are so passive, the fire doesn't burn as strong? *shrug* It's almost like I understand where they are coming from a bit better when they do get fired up.

Gem energy on the other hand, I feel you on that. Gem Moon is the worst placement of them all.

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Screw ego boosting, positive threads.

I am repulsed by and completely unfamiliar with aries and gemini energy.

I haven't grown up around much of it nor have attracted it throughout my life.

Can anyone tell me their experiences about Aries Venus?



Lol wow. "Repulsed" is a pretty strong reactions.

Ram Venus...had difficulty calming the ego, which I found annoying. I just blocked it out after a while.



Yeah, it is a strong reaction but it's held very true for me.

I easily get annoyed of aries/ego energy lol for that reason lol.



Lol. I get it. I struggle with Ram energy for the same reason, but I have found it's much more manageable when placed with water placements and less so with fire, air and earth placements. In that order. Perhaps because water signs are so passive, the fire doesn't burn as strong? *shrug* It's almost like I understand where they are coming from a bit better when they do get fired up.

Gem energy on the other hand, I feel you on that. Gem Moon is the worst placement of them all.

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My fire energy gets theirs and can be attracted to it but I don't have Aries energy specifically so there's this different undertone to it that can make me roll my eyes to the back of my head at times and it always gotta do with their ego. But yeah I agree with that order.

Yes there's this... odd, superficial energy to it and I feel it from those with the sun too but I'm surprised at your objectivity to it xD my progressed moon has been in Gemini for a while so I been a psychopath with lots to question for, it's been real fun