@Cancan26
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what your attracted to ...
pisces mars lol
Posted by Shadowcat
I actually really appreciate kindness, but also ruthless efficiency. So it's a tie between those.
omg! lol 😆 what is your mars ...cause that ruthless efficiency screams capricorn 😆
Posted by Shadowcat
I actually really appreciate kindness, but also ruthless efficiency. So it's a tie between those.omg! lol 😆 what is your mars ...cause that ruthless efficiency screams capricorn 😆
Lol mars in virgo opposite saturn
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I take that back ...that describe virgo mars perfectly kindness with a mix of ruthless efficiency 😄
Posted by -Flo-
Gemini Mars in 12thCompassionate and Genuine
I can see that I know a couple of people with this mars ...they seem to be attracted to intelligence... but they themselves are very compassionate and genuine
Posted by bumboklatt
My Mars is in TaurusI appreciate solidarity and self respect
taurus mars ...keeping it ...
Posted by lovecraftian
Mars in Aries. I'm attracted to cockiness that has been visibly earned. Guys who reserve their respect for the worthy.
I get that ...it something about a man that is accomplished and confident in himself, what he has done and what he will do ...
Posted by Dastardly
Scorp Mars.Good looks and sex appeal. Especially the latter.
good lort ...that bulge tho....
Posted by Cancan26
whats your mars sign and what is the signal most attractive trait someone can have ...for me its kindness in a man ...in a world full assholes there is something particularly attractive about kindness...I have a pisces mars ...case and point ...
Loyalty loyalty loyalty
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another rare trait in 2017
Scorp mars
I prefer my men to be deep and passionate. I like a darker side in a man. I love great sex appeal. But I also like a man whom I can respect and get his job done right.
Mars in Libra
I'm usually attracted to a calm, deep voice and composed gesticulation and facial expression, as it gives me a sense of stability.
Mars in Capricorn.
I like strong silent types. Humble with swag. Hardworking with the fruits to show their labor. Patient. Kind hearted. But internally strong.
Mars in cap. I like bosses. Capable men. Also smart men street and books.
I have a Mars in Pisces and a Venus in Aries....
He has to be sweet, gentle and kind with a little swag.
Posted by Cancan26
whats your mars sign and what is the single most attractive trait someone can have ...for me its kindness in a man ...in a world full assholes there is something particularly attractive about kindness...I have a pisces mars ...case and point ...
http://www.livescience.com/53533-women-prefer-altruism-over-looks.html
Nice Guys Win: Women Choose Altruism Over Looks
Forget the expression "nice guys finish last." A new study finds that men who are concerned for the well-being of others in place of themselves may have a better shot with women compared to men who are just good-looking.
Researchers found that women reported men as being more attractive when the guys were paired with a scenario showing them doing something kind, generous or heroic, compared to men who were notable for their physical appeal.
Altruism is the term for when someone acts in a way that is beneficial to others and not themselves. Scientists from the University of Worcester and the University of Sunderland, both in the United Kingdom, said they wanted to know if this trait has any impact on how women choose a partner. [5 Ways Relationships Are Good for Your Health]
In the new study, the researchers analyzed what happened when two desirable characteristics, physical attractiveness and altruism, were investigated together, and whether women preferred one quality over the other.
"I have been interested in why altruism or cooperation occurs in our species, seeing as it is something that traditional views of evolution … would suggest shouldn't occur," study lead author Daniel Farrelly, a senior lecturer at the Institute of Health and Society at the University of Worcester, told Live Science. The theory of evolution suggests that individuals should do things that only benefit the passing on of their own genes.
The study included 202 women, who were shown pictures of 24 men of varying degrees of handsomeness, judged independently by the three study authors. Alongside the photos were descriptions of the men doing something like saving a child from a river or buying coffee for a homeless person. Other photos were accompanied with not-so-nice situations, such as the man refusing to help in either of the previous scenarios.
"We found, in particular, that being altruistic is better than being attractive for long-term relationships," Farrelly told Live Science.
The researchers found that being selfless gave men a better chance with a woman if she was looking for something long term. The findings support previous studies that say altruism is desirable to women, because it means an individual is more likely to be supportive and because altruistic men are more likely to be better fathers.
In contrast, the new study found that selfish men were seen as more desirable among women who were looking for a fling. Farrelly said he found this result interesting, and he said one possible explanation is that it relates to other characteristics that women prefer in short-term partners. For instance, it might be that if a woman is looking for something short term, her choice of a partner might be one with less socially desirable traits such as narcissism, the researchers said.
Next, Farrelly said he wants to look into whether the findings relate to actual decision-making when a man or woman picks a partner. Although it is good to conduct studies with a high level of control over the conditions, it would be more valuable to see how these preferences apply in the real world, he said.
"Apart from looking at real-world settings, it would be very useful to see what the pattern of results is for men's ratings of women," he added. "I think there will be some overlap, but some differences — we shall see!"
Posted by TaurusBull1977
I have a Mars in Pisces and a Venus in Aries....He has to be sweet, gentle and kind with a little swag.
You have a mars in Pisces!!!
yyyyyaaaasss!!! I knew it Your such a sweet heart! 😄 😄
Posted by Cancan26
whats your mars sign and what is the single most attractive trait someone can have ...for me its kindness in a man ...in a world full assholes there is something particularly attractive about kindness...I have a pisces mars ...case and point ...
Straight forwardness, authenticity, morals and ethics, genuine kindness (ie. not only that which can be seen and tallied).
Mars aries, venus leo, moon pisces
Posted by Cancan26
whats your mars sign and what is the single most attractive trait someone can have ...for me its kindness in a man ...in a world full assholes there is something particularly attractive about kindness...I have a pisces mars ...case and point ...
http://www.livescience.com/53533-women-prefer-altruism-over-looks.html
Nice Guys Win: Women Choose Altruism Over Looks
Forget the expression "nice guys finish last." A new study finds that men who are concerned for the well-being of others in place of themselves may have a better shot with women compared to men who are just good-looking.
Researchers found that women reported men as being more attractive when the guys were paired with a scenario showing them doing something kind, generous or heroic, compared to men who were notable for their physical appeal.
Altruism is the term for when someone acts in a way that is beneficial to others and not themselves. Scientists from the University of Worcester and the University of Sunderland, both in the United Kingdom, said they wanted to know if this trait has any impact on how women choose a partner. [5 Ways Relationships Are Good for Your Health]
In the new study, the researchers analyzed what happened when two desirable characteristics, physical attractiveness and altruism, were investigated together, and whether women preferred one quality over the other.
"I have been interested in why altruism or cooperation occurs in our species, seeing as it is something that traditional views of evolution … would suggest shouldn't occur," study lead author Daniel Farrelly, a senior lecturer at the Institute of Health and Society at the University of Worcester, told Live Science. The theory of evolution suggests that individuals should do things that only benefit the passing on of their own genes.
The study included 202 women, who were shown pictures of 24 men of varying degrees of handsomeness, judged independently by the three study authors. Alongside the photos were descriptions of the men doing something like saving a child from a river or buying coffee for a homeless person. Other photos were accompanied with not-so-nice situations, such as the man refusing to help in either of the previous scenarios.
"We found, in particular, that being altruistic is better than being attractive for long-term relationships," Farrelly told Live Science.
The researchers found that being selfless gave men a better chance with a woman if she was looking for something long term. The findings support previous studies that say altruism is desirable to women, because it means an individual is more likely to be supportive and because altruistic men are more likely to be better fathers.
In contrast, the new study found that selfish men were seen as more desirable among women who were looking for a fling. Farrelly said he found this result interesting, and he said one possible explanation is that it relates to other characteristics that women prefer in short-term partners. For instance, it might be that if a woman is looking for something short term, her choice of a partner might be one with less socially desirable traits such as narcissism, the researchers said.
Next, Farrelly said he wants to look into whether the findings relate to actual decision-making when a man or woman picks a partner. Although it is good to conduct studies with a high level of control over the conditions, it would be more valuable to see how these preferences apply in the real world, he said.
"Apart from looking at real-world settings, it would be very useful to see what the pattern of results is for men's ratings of women," he added. "I think there will be some overlap, but some differences — we shall see!"
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Yes all of this ^^^ being kind or heroic towards others makes the guy more hot in my eyes....
Single most? Not sure I can narrow it down. Hmm stability and loyalty, I do tend to like em manly rugged looking if we add in physical. Ohh has to have humor! I love a man that can make me laugh. Like deep belly laughs that make you need to pee or hurts from laughing to hard. ?
Gotta add in being real/genuine.
Sag Mars here.
Posted by justagirl
Single most? Not sure I can narrow it down. Hmm stability and loyalty, I do tend to like em manly rugged looking if we add in physical. Ohh has to have humor! I love a man that can make me laugh. Like deep belly laughs that make you need to pee or hurts from laughing to hard. ?Gotta add in being real/genuine.
Sag Mars here.
Wow. Now this is interesting I thought a sag mars might say they were most attracted to something stereotypical like someone fun... Stability and loyalty as one of your top traits! That's awesome!
Posted by justagirl
Single most? Not sure I can narrow it down. Hmm stability and loyalty, I do tend to like em manly rugged looking if we add in physical. Ohh has to have humor! I love a man that can make me laugh. Like deep belly laughs that make you need to pee or hurts from laughing to hard. ?Gotta add in being real/genuine.
Sag Mars here.
Wow. Now this is interesting I thought a sag mars might say they were most attracted to something stereotypical like someone fun... Stability and loyalty as one of your top traits! That's awesome!
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Slore mars, sooo misunderstood lolol ?
Maybe my aspects? Maybe my life experiences have taught me to seek, crave this?
Taking Astro in account- its my Saturn in Taurus.
Saturn in Taurus has a deep need to feel secure; both emotionally and financially. They like to keep a strict control over their daily tasks. Unfortunately for them, nothing comes easy. They have to work hard for everything they get.
Taurus is my 6th and 7th house, I MUST have stability.
Posted by justagirl
Single most? Not sure I can narrow it down. Hmm stability and loyalty, I do tend to like em manly rugged looking if we add in physical. Ohh has to have humor! I love a man that can make me laugh. Like deep belly laughs that make you need to pee or hurts from laughing to hard. ?Gotta add in being real/genuine.
Sag Mars here.
Wow. Now this is interesting I thought a sag mars might say they were most attracted to something stereotypical like someone fun... Stability and loyalty as one of your top traits! That's awesome!
Slore mars, sooo misunderstood lolol ?
Maybe my aspects? Maybe my life experiences have taught me to seek, crave this?
Taking Astro in account- its my Saturn in Taurus.
Saturn in Taurus has a deep need to feel secure; both emotionally and financially. They like to keep a strict control over their daily tasks. Unfortunately for them, nothing comes easy. They have to work hard for everything they get.
Taurus is my 6th and 7th house, I MUST have stability.
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I always forget about the houses and other aspects that affect people charts!!! And that alone makes a huge difference
Aries Mars (5th house)
I like a dude who can be playful with me. Make me laugh, do silly things with me, be random and don't take life so seriously...at the same time I need someone who knows when to be serious. Lol. Maybe that's my Scorp Venus chiming in. 😛
Anywho, if you can relax and let loose with me, get me laughing and being genuinely happy in my presence...that's what I like.
Posted by AerialView
pisces mars lolwhat dis mean ?
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illusion mars.
Posted by AerialView
pisces mars lolwhat dis mean ?
illusion mars.
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I like sexy illusions? can you break that down for me !
Posted by Cancan26
whats your mars sign and what is the single most attractive trait someone can have ...for me its kindness in a man ...in a world full assholes there is something particularly attractive about kindness...I have a pisces mars ...case and point ...
What if he is kind as Santa Claus but also lazy and works one day per year...like Santa Claus—
— have fun with that one!
Posted by AerialView
pisces mars lolwhat dis mean ?
illusion mars.
I like sexy illusions? can you break that down for me !
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not like that lol
i attracted wrong women most.
maybe they see me as a different person from who i really am.
Posted by Cancan26
whats your mars sign and what is the single most attractive trait someone can have ...for me its kindness in a man ...in a world full assholes there is something particularly attractive about kindness...I have a pisces mars ...case and point ...
What if he is kind as Santa Claus but also lazy and works one day per year...like Santa Claus—
— have fun with that one!
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lmao in my opinion kind does not equal lazy ... but if I can only get one ...yea ..homeboy gotta go to work ....just like I do
Posted by Cancan26
whats your mars sign and what is the single most attractive trait someone can have ...for me its kindness in a man ...in a world full assholes there is something particularly attractive about kindness...I have a pisces mars ...case and point ...
What if he is kind as Santa Claus but also lazy and works one day per year...like Santa Claus—
— have fun with that one!
lmao in my opinion kind does not equal lazy ... but if I can only get one ...yea ..homeboy gotta go to work ....just like I do
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So kindness moves to #2? Lol
Mars In Cancer, for starters a strong sense of humor and a little sassy confidence gets my attention.
Posted by LovingSeraphina
Mars in Gemini. For them to be happy and kind.And also be able to talk to anyone 🙂 (cuz I can't so I admire that 🙂 )
Actually that's pretty good, to be able to chat to someone for hours on end, just good banter about anything.
Posted by lovecraftian
Mars in Aries. I'm attracted to swagger that has been visibly earned. Guys who reserve their respect for the worthy.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
I have a Mars in Pisces and a Venus in Aries....He has to be sweet, gentle and kind with a little swag.
mee toooo ... love the swag ...
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whats your mars sign and what is the single most attractive trait someone can have ...for me its kindness in a man ...in a world full assholes there is something particularly attractive about kindness...I have a pisces mars ...
case and point ...