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Which placement for a man would make him want a house wife?
What placement influences a man's desire for a housewife
Astrological placements related to Venus and the Fourth House can influence a man's desire for a traditional housewife. These placements often emphasize values around home, family, and nurturing roles. However, individual choices depend on the entire chart and personal beliefs.
I would say a man who can afford it 😎
My hubz is a cap sun /libra moon/scorp venus/pisces mars and he is very proud to be able to take care fully of us without me needing to work. That was my demand when we were talking about starting a family since I wanted to be there for our kids until they go to kindergarden around age 4.
I’ve heard cap Venus like traditional roles. Although I haven’t seen it in person
I am a cap venus and I always wanted to be a wife/housewife/mother 😍
Someone born before the 1950s
Lol
Aries sun.....mummy, wife at home
I’ve heard cap Venus like traditional roles. Although I haven’t seen it in person
I am a cap venus and I always wanted to be a wife/housewife/mother 😍
Wouldn't you say that's more due to having both, a Cap moon and Venus (and basically all other possible planets..)?
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Probably damn right 😎
A man who can't afford/handle Independent woman.
Capricorn.
yes sir. this one.
Capricorn/Cancer axis.
10th and 4th house dominant.
Look at even Donald trump 10th house dominant, Cancer dominant.
sure she's not housewife, but shes not career woman ...she's more SUPPORT for her husband,
because they like it like that ;p
Venus in capricorn,
No housewife for me but I do enjoy making lunches and running showers and baths.
Something is wrong here, I don't think men want house wives at all.
Almost all my married friends are married to house-wives and they all complain about it. They want their wives to work, at least part time (some do) because when they get home they are too tired to take them out or talking to them and it's ME who suffers the most, because they use ME as an apology to escape from home, like almost every damn day. Sometimes they ring my bell past 10 pm during week just to go for a walk but they lie to their wives, telling them I asked them to help me throwing things out etc. Like 2 days ago when my stupid Sag and Gemin friends came to my place, already high after work and when one of their wives called he didn't pick the phone saying to me "ooooh noo, I don't want to talk to her". So she called me instead and I had to lie for him...I never lie but I had to. 😢
So what have we learned now:
1. ladies, you need a JOB, trust me
2. to all married men outhere: leave us single men alone damn it, we didn't make you marry your wives! The damage is done, now deal with it! 😡
Something is wrong here, I don't think men want house wives at all.
Almost all my married friends are married to house-wives and they all complain about it. They want their wives to work, at least part time (some do) because when they get home they are too tired to take them out or talking to them and it's ME who suffers the most, because they use ME as an apology to escape from home, like almost every damn day. Sometimes they ring my bell past 10 pm during week just to go for a walk but they lie to their wives, telling them I asked them to help me throwing things out etc. Like 2 days ago when my stupid Sag and Gemin friends came to my place, already high after work and when one of their wives called he didn't pick the phone saying to me "ooooh noo, I don't want to talk to her". So she called me instead and I had to lie for him...I never lie but I had to. 😢
So what have we learned now:
1. ladies, you need a JOB, trust me
2. to all married men outhere: leave us single men alone damn it, we didn't make you marry your wives! The damage is done, now deal with it! 😡
It’s a balance
Women who are physically and emotionally exhausted from doing most of the child rearing and household duties and want/need support
Men who are drained from work and want to come home to a loving environment vs stressed wife
Both play a part and both can stop the cycle
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My friends act like singles, even I don't and I can do whatever I want. Sometimes I have to "lie" to them, in order to not hurt their feelings because I want to stay home so I am like "I am sorry I can't go out now guys, I am having sex with a woman and I still don't know her name yet". You know what I mean.. 😢
Something is wrong here, I don't think men want house wives at all.
Almost all my married friends are married to house-wives and they all complain about it. They want their wives to work, at least part time (some do) because when they get home they are too tired to take them out or talking to them and it's ME who suffers the most, because they use ME as an apology to escape from home, like almost every damn day. Sometimes they ring my bell past 10 pm during week just to go for a walk but they lie to their wives, telling them I asked them to help me throwing things out etc. Like 2 days ago when my stupid Sag and Gemin friends came to my place, already high after work and when one of their wives called he didn't pick the phone saying to me "ooooh noo, I don't want to talk to her". So she called me instead and I had to lie for him...I never lie but I had to. 😢
So what have we learned now:
1. ladies, you need a JOB, trust me
2. to all married men outhere: leave us single men alone damn it, we didn't make you marry your wives! The damage is done, now deal with it! 😡
It’s a balance
Women who are physically and emotionally exhausted from doing most of the child rearing and household duties and want/need support
Men who are drained from work and want to come home to a loving environment vs stressed wife
Both play a part and both can stop the cycle
My friends act like singles, even I don't and I can do whatever I want. Sometimes I have to "lie" to them, in order to not hurt their feelings because I want to stay home so I am like "I am sorry I can't go out now guys, I am having sex with a woman and I still don't know her name yet". You know what I mean.. 😢
Your friends don’t sound mature enough for a long term relationship
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none of them is lol
A man who can't afford/handle Independent woman.
Capricorn.
Agree! But she has to bring income anyway...go figure them out...
Aries sun.....mummy, wife at home
Nope in my case. Super supportive of my career.
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👍
It’s definitely you isn’t it Jemima?
Not Jemima 😩 Lol. No seriously though I'd love to one day have a husband who would let me have a part time business at home. Because believe me o have to work I have to stay busy that is in my nature but I'd love to not work for corporate America because I am very creative and I would like to use my talents.
Pluto in libra.
This is a generational thing.
Cost of living is too high now to have a stay at home wifee for millennials
Me. Pisces placements.
@AerialView you are a sun in Aqua right? What's your Mars?
My Chart.
Which placements?
Mummy's boys?
Want a second mummy at home....waiting for them
Mummy's boys?
Want a second mummy at home....waiting for them
Wants their kids to have a mother at home...at least until they are at school...
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I agree.....I just find the woman expected to stay home before she has kids a bit weird....1950s ... Stepford Wives vibe
I’ve heard cap Venus like traditional roles. Although I haven’t seen it in person
Really?
I’ve heard cap Venus like traditional roles. Although I haven’t seen it in person
Really?
Yes. From what I saw, they tend to like traditional roles but often are attracted to the opposite of what they’re compatible with.
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Hmm the two people I know with this placement go all traditional or nothing at all lol.
I’ve heard cap Venus like traditional roles. Although I haven’t seen it in person
Really?
Yes. From what I saw, they tend to like traditional roles but often are attracted to the opposite of what they’re compatible with.
Hmm the two people I know with this placement go all traditional or nothing at all lol.
Did they have a traditional upbringing?
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Nope not at all lol
I’ve heard cap Venus like traditional roles. Although I haven’t seen it in person
Really?
Yes. From what I saw, they tend to like traditional roles but often are attracted to the opposite of what they’re compatible with.
Hmm the two people I know with this placement go all traditional or nothing at all lol.
Did they have a traditional upbringing?
Nope not at all lol
Interesting. Might be their need for security to protect their soft(er) sides.
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They are both soft on the inside. But really enjoy security.
Mummy's boys?
Want a second mummy at home....waiting for them
Wants their kids to have a mother at home...at least until they are at school...
I agree.....I just find the woman expected to stay home before she has kids a bit weird....1950s ... Stepford Wives vibe
I find it weird for a women to be expected to go to work 9 to 5, Pay taxes, Get payed fuck all Get pregnant , Still go to work while she is pregnant which puts stress on the baby, have a baby, Go back to work 10 weeks after having a baby when she is still breast feeding and her mind, body and soul are 100% dedicated to raising that child. blah blah blah, the list goes on... I find that weird and I don't like it, I hate it. I hate that making money for someone else is more important than raising family's in this day and age. I think it's all about capitalism.
Not that women shouldn't have all those opportunity's if she wants them. Anyway, I am ranting lol. I think the 1950's were a much simpler time, things were slower, we were less wasteful. We used to get our milk in glass bottles and take them back for refills. We didn't need a new phone every week or what ever. Things were generally pretty damn good in the 1950s.
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I'm with you on the childcare thing, sadly a lot of women can't not work. I felt very blessed that our lad's dad and I both could work from home, so we were able to raise him together, in a cottage overlooking the sea, safe and calm...very very fortunate. He had a very present Dad, which can be rare, as well as a mum
I'd not agree that things were pretty damn good for women in the 50s though. I'd not be able to live the way I do had I have been back there....travelling alone, going into gigs without a man, etc...i think it would just about suck the life out of me, living the way women did then. It seems so dull, life in black and white, and certain shades of grey...
Scarily suffocating .... 😬
The placement who wants a second mother
Yes!
😱
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i LOL'ed.
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@AerialView you are a sun in Aqua right? What's your Mars?
Yes Aqua Sun. Pisces Mars.
Cap Ven here. Yes I want my wife as a housewife, but the fact is I don't want any wife.
Taurus/Cancer (2nd/4th houses) placements
Taurus is about possessing people - I have Venus in Taurus and love the idea of having a house wife.
Cancer is about the home itself
12th house is about isolation too, a man with love planets here may desire to keep his wife hidden from the world but not essentially at home.
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