why I only like people ''out of my league''

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Maybe not so astrology related but why someone keeps falling for someone really out of their league, like in some cases even for famous people?

I feel so heart broken because I found out my favourite local singer is not single anymore. I was already making a plan how to meet her through mutal friends.

In the past it has been the same, I choose some person who is perfect (and admired by many) and feel sad when they already are into someone else.

I never like someone ''regular and eartly''.

Like I have normal appearance, personality, I would definately find a mate but I just don't have those big feelings for normal, eartly persons and that is a deal breaker for me. I want a fairy tale.



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It happens to me too but not with famous people.

Its more that I always crush on the most handsome guy everyone likes..... The one everyone knows and is friends with at University and back at school too.

I am the opposite of that so I guess that's the reason.

But then being the opposite myself like more shy and introverted this type of guy is difficult to get with me.
I am like that but because I like the challenge.
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Yeah I get it I think. I always wanted to be with someone where my relationship feels like a bank robbery, and I got away with the loot.

Aladdin fantasy.



Like @xkraft told me though, best advice: "I'm the hot one. I make the rules."
That is the best feeling ever, you shouldn’t give up on that 😄
It is! I got exactly what i wanted in the end.
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There’s nothing wrong with wanting something you feel is just out of reach. It’s healthy and gives you motivation
......unless they are married or in a rship



That isn't healthy
What about Work, life or education? I think it’s healthy to strive for what you want
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Totally! I like to push myself and the boundaries .. my life has had so many lIfe altering changes and I took some risks that paid off

I was talking about someone wanting someone else's wife or hubbie

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Posted by pisceswoman123
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It happens to me too but not with famous people.

Its more that I always crush on the most handsome guy everyone likes..... The one everyone knows and is friends with at University and back at school too.

I am the opposite of that so I guess that's the reason.

But then being the opposite myself like more shy and introverted this type of guy is difficult to get with me.
I am like that but because I like the challenge.

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I am like that cause I can't help it plus I don't like the challenge hahaha.
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Posted by FieryOceana
It happens to me too but not with famous people.

Its more that I always crush on the most handsome guy everyone likes..... The one everyone knows and is friends with at University and back at school too.

I am the opposite of that so I guess that's the reason.

But then being the opposite myself like more shy and introverted this type of guy is difficult to get with me.
I am like that but because I like the challenge.


I don't know about you, but to me, whenever I hear somebody say, "Oh, don't you dare approach that chick. She's out of your league," it immediately triggers my competitive spirit and my Aqua Venus that despises being told what not to do. As a result, I tell the SOB to hold my beer and I march right there fearless and shameless. Half the time, she is exposed for the shallow and inhumane person she truly is and I end up being the person that is out of her league. I have a different name for the whole "out of your league" crapola -- I tend to call it "Malignant Narcissism" because, at its core, that's what it truly is - along with a side order or two of inadequacy and this outmoded idea that poor should only date poor people, middle class should only date middle class, and so forth.

Caste mentality.

Motherfuckers have to put on their britches one leg at a time like the rest of us, right? 😄
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I don’t pick up guys like that so I cannot relate.

But for me out of my league is a package thing. They are the best in personality, success, charm and looks. They will be the *cash* in any given group or situation. And that is the person that I will be attracted to and try to atrack. 😊 I like the best.
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Posted by crazysioux
Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by FieryOceana
It happens to me too but not with famous people.

Its more that I always crush on the most handsome guy everyone likes..... The one everyone knows and is friends with at University and back at school too.

I am the opposite of that so I guess that's the reason.

But then being the opposite myself like more shy and introverted this type of guy is difficult to get with me.
I am like that but because I like the challenge.


I don't know about you, but to me, whenever I hear somebody say, "Oh, don't you dare approach that chick. She's out of your league," it immediately triggers my competitive spirit and my Aqua Venus that despises being told what not to do. As a result, I tell the SOB to hold my beer and I march right there fearless and shameless. Half the time, she is exposed for the shallow and inhumane person she truly is and I end up being the person that is out of her league. I have a different name for the whole "out of your league" crapola -- I tend to call it "Malignant Narcissism" because, at its core, that's what it truly is - along with a side order or two of inadequacy and this outmoded idea that poor should only date poor people, middle class should only date middle class, and so forth.

Caste mentality.

Motherfuckers have to put on their britches one leg at a time like the rest of us, right? 😄
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I like how to have cut it to the core and nailed it! I like that Aqua spirit 🙂