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Shaymaci
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Posted by LordComplexity
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Going back to my statement that I would regard Cancer Mars strictly FWB material. You just captured exactly why. It's not just about the idea of them being strictly unfaithful or whatever. But I don't see the point in casual dating.

I mean I get we just met. But regardless the end goal is to find someone who is exclusively committed to me. So it doesn't make sense to me to reach that point on the note that we literally got there by fucking other people until we decided to be together. It's so contradictory.

I am similar in the way that I am reserved. But I'm even more so reserved. I tend not to get involved in meaningless flings or what have you. I usually wait until I find someone I'm interested in who also proclaims that they want to be exclusive with me.

Which usually leaves long dry spells in my sex life. But I tend to make up for it by dicking down that person as much as possible. Although I've become increasingly patient and thorough in my analysis of people. I've learned to not be naive about things. So if I see that they are like you describe yourself, they'd be a pass. Someone I wouldn't want to get involved with.

Not saying I couldn't do something meaningless. But it just usually doesn't happen because I'm so reserved and self-focused outside of a relationship.
I fit with this. Heavily.
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pisceanloves
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I don't like cancer mars, maybe because don't know how to deal with it.

Why do people always say this

I've dealt with so many cancer mars and they're just super cuddly and soft with this tough exterior but that dun fool me
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I don't know how to respond their passive agresiveness.The guy im into has that placement, when he's upset he would shut down completely leaving me confused, not talking out loud. Just would ignore me and leave relationship open without saying anything. Now he does the same and it's just killing me, why it has to be like that, we are both grown ups, we can talk about stuff and not take everything seriously. I apologized but still he won't talk to me. I don't even know how do I make him come back. How do i make him talk, I'm sad. I don't have anything against cancer mars except I don't understand them, I'm trying tho. They are super reserved whilst I'm more open. I don't know ?
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Posted by pisceanloves
Posted by SassyKiwi
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I don't like cancer mars, maybe because don't know how to deal with it.

Why do people always say this

I've dealt with so many cancer mars and they're just super cuddly and soft with this tough exterior but that dun fool me
I don't know how to respond their passive agresiveness.The guy im into has that placement, when he's upset he would shut down completely leaving me confused, not talking out loud. Just would ignore me and leave relationship open without saying anything. Now he does the same and it's just killing me, why it has to be like that, we are both grown ups, we can talk about stuff and not take everything seriously. I apologized but still he won't talk to me. I don't even know how do I make him come back. How do i make him talk, I'm sad. I don't have anything against cancer mars except I don't understand them, I'm trying tho. They are super reserved whilst I'm more open. I don't know ?
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It can be hard to get them to open up about personal stuff. They're really sensitive so when they're hurt they really hold it against you (I'm a fire mars I will literally forget and move on quickly) so I will poke at them with my thoughts and kind of nag them until they tell me tbh. They're adorable and really do keep you around if you match their effort. You need to be vocal about your expectations, how you both need to be able to openly discuss things because you're both adults like c'mon. Ask him does he not expect the same of you, etc. Get him in your shoes. Also remind him why you're into him, just be genuine. But wait. He's a Libra sun, Libra moon. From my experience, people with too much Libra suck as a person tbh. Libras will make it obvious if they're into you, so if they don't blatantly try, ditch them.
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pisceanloves
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Posted by SassyKiwi
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Posted by SassyKiwi
Posted by pisceanloves
I don't like cancer mars, maybe because don't know how to deal with it.

Why do people always say this

I've dealt with so many cancer mars and they're just super cuddly and soft with this tough exterior but that dun fool me
I don't know how to respond their passive agresiveness.The guy im into has that placement, when he's upset he would shut down completely leaving me confused, not talking out loud. Just would ignore me and leave relationship open without saying anything. Now he does the same and it's just killing me, why it has to be like that, we are both grown ups, we can talk about stuff and not take everything seriously. I apologized but still he won't talk to me. I don't even know how do I make him come back. How do i make him talk, I'm sad. I don't have anything against cancer mars except I don't understand them, I'm trying tho. They are super reserved whilst I'm more open. I don't know ?

It can be hard to get them to open up about personal stuff. They're really sensitive so when they're hurt they really hold it against you (I'm a fire mars I will literally forget and move on quickly) so I will poke at them with my thoughts and kind of nag them until they tell me tbh. They're adorable and really do keep you around if you match their effort. You need to be vocal about your expectations, how you both need to be able to openly discuss things because you're both adults like c'mon. Ask him does he not expect the same of you, etc. Get him in your shoes. Also remind him why you're into him, just be genuine. But wait. He's a Libra sun, Libra moon. From my experience, people with too much Libra suck as a person tbh. Libras will make it obvious if they're into you, so if they don't blatantly try, ditch them.
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So I guess he's not that into me? Yeah maybe, but it was him who offered moving together in September. I don't know, can't seem to give up so easily and the same time I feel nothing would help no matter what I do. I don't know, I'm not in his head unfortunately. And there was that lady calling him babe and stuff I texted her asking what does she have with him, she didn't respond but ugh she seems his mom. God will help me, didn't know it was possible calling your adult son babe and stuff. I used to call him the same and didn't like it.
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Sp17
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Posted by Capmercury87
Op find an Aries mars with a Pisces moon and you will change your mind about that.

Personally Taurus mars.

He was lazy and then afterwards made fun of me for not wanting to ride a bike with him cause I was tired.

2 hours in the sac doing all the work, for you to act like a little bitch, don't think so.

He had a cap moon.
Can you describe Aries Mars with Pisces Moon? I have Scorpio Mars with Pisces Moon i'm curious about mine as well.