Your chiron in which house and tell me if you have this pain

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"Chiron in the 8th House

This native seems to try to be better than his animal nature. One has an animal nature, whether or not one agrees. If one tries to rise above it, to a neurotic degree, one will have a self made prison. In truth, the native is the same as any human being. It is just not okay to be down and dirty. This applies to emotions as well as bodily passions. I think this Chiron is one of the hardest."

I have a very strong sexual energy, which I have tried to suppress most of my life. There's multiple reasons for that though.
I had an ex with this...dunno what to really make of it.
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Chiron in 12th

"This Chiron seems to deny his own pain. It seems to come out sideways, in some manner to which he is not aware, such as an addiction, for one example."

No addictions thankfully, and no denial of pain, though maybe when I was younger I distanced from it more so it was closer to denial. I'd say that of all of the descriptions, the 6th house Chiron fits best but is still not quite right.
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Chiron in the 12th

This Chiron seems to deny his own pain. It seems to come out sideways, in some manner to which he is not aware, such as an addiction, for one example.



Yes i have denied my pain in the past, i am the opposite to a hypochondriac, as in if i feel ill i will try to not talk about it, although i will do all in my power to heal it.

I believe that Chiron has a huge influence on the birth chart
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Mine =10 th house, yes my parents pushed me way too much, even when l was doing well, giving my all, or suffering like crazy at school....gave me a "dont give a fk" attitude, a "why bother". I also feel like an outsider no matter where l go. Hated for what l am, but lm white, l should be accepted.
That sounds tough 😢

Why do you think you are hated?
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Chiron in the 5th, I'm very creative, don't feel that pain, maybe the letting go childlike, I was told, I was born and adult, so maybe in that way?
Funny, sometimes it's the exact opposite...do you have any squares or ops to chiron?
It does square my saturn and mars. And ops uranus.

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Could literally not have been more tense....lol maybe the negativity actually reverses the effect...even if the effect is negative?
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Chiron in the 5th, I'm very creative, don't feel that pain, maybe the letting go childlike, I was told, I was born and adult, so maybe in that way?
Funny, sometimes it's the exact opposite...do you have any squares or ops to chiron?
It does square my saturn and mars. And ops uranus.


Could literally not have been more tense....lol maybe the negativity actually reverses the effect...even if the effect is negative?
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Hahaha, I would expect nothing less from my chart.... after spending time on dxp, I've learned that I was born into my crazy, not sure what everyone else's excuse is. ?

I'm guessing something cancels some of this out because like I said, I'm very creative and I use drawing and painting to soothe my soul. I often say art puts the pieces of our soul back together.
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Chiron in Cancer in the 7th. Conjunct moon.

'Chiron in the 7th House

This native may have pain with marriage and/or serious relationships.'

^and that feels like a rip off. I may have pain with serious relationships? Okwhodoesnt.
Because the sign actually matters. Try reading Chiron in Cancer and Libra (7th house) - http://www.alwaysastrology.com/chiron-signs.html Cancer will be the actual wound...and Libra will be the area where you feel it deeply. So something like you pour so much love and care into a relationship but often feel like it's not reciprocated which leaves you feeling unwanted and unloved. You should have some idea of what it is when you read the 2 entries there...like a light comes on.

The thing about Chiron's wound is that it never healed. It was always there. He just learned to deal with it. That's the kind of wound Chiron talks about...you will never really "fix"it, you'll just learn to accept it and deal with it in appropriate ways (hopefully).
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Chiron in 12th

"This Chiron seems to deny his own pain. It seems to come out sideways, in some manner to which he is not aware, such as an addiction, for one example."

No addictions thankfully, and no denial of pain, though maybe when I was younger I distanced from it more so it was closer to denial. I'd say that of all of the descriptions, the 6th house Chiron fits best but is still not quite right.
You're in denial about your denial.
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Damn, you're right.

I'm CopperDove and I'm a denialoholic.



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Chiron in 12th

"This Chiron seems to deny his own pain. It seems to come out sideways, in some manner to which he is not aware, such as an addiction, for one example."

No addictions thankfully, and no denial of pain, though maybe when I was younger I distanced from it more so it was closer to denial. I'd say that of all of the descriptions, the 6th house Chiron fits best but is still not quite right.
You're in denial about your denial.
Damn, you're right.

I'm CopperDove and I'm a denialoholic.



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Hi Copperdove ?

Only you can know, or others that know you, also it seems that aspects to a planet can reverse the effect...
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Chiron in the 10th - no aspects. I've always had trouble with bosses and working for others, male authority figures. It finally got better when I decided to work for myself. It may not pay as well, yet, but I'm in control, less stressed and more fulfilled. I'm meeting great people with the same interests and some with whom I can collaberate. I'm not in as much pain as I used to be before making the break from something that wasn't working at all.
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Chiron in 12th

"This Chiron seems to deny his own pain. It seems to come out sideways, in some manner to which he is not aware, such as an addiction, for one example."

No addictions thankfully, and no denial of pain, though maybe when I was younger I distanced from it more so it was closer to denial. I'd say that of all of the descriptions, the 6th house Chiron fits best but is still not quite right.
You're in denial about your denial.
Damn, you're right.

I'm CopperDove and I'm a denialoholic.




Hi Copperdove ?

Only you can know, or others that know you, also it seems that aspects to a planet can reverse the effect...
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haha 🙂

I do have positive aspects with it - trine Mercury and Neptune, and sextile moon - so maybe that helps.

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Chiron in the 10th - no aspects. I've always had trouble with bosses and working for others, male authority figures. It finally got better when I decided to work for myself. It may not pay as well, yet, but I'm in control, less stressed and more fulfilled. I'm meeting great people with the same interests and some with whom I can collaberate. I'm not in as much pain as I used to be before making the break from something that wasn't working at all.
Awesome !! I hope l get so lucky....?
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Mine =10 th house, yes my parents pushed me way too much, even when l was doing well, giving my all, or suffering like crazy at school....gave me a "dont give a fk" attitude, a "why bother". I also feel like an outsider no matter where l go. Hated for what l am, but lm white, l should be accepted.
That sounds tough 😢

Why do you think you are hated?
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Yes chiron is huge!...

I guess l have englishman ears in a french land...they're very racist...
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Chiron in the 10th - no aspects. I've always had trouble with bosses and working for others, male authority figures. It finally got better when I decided to work for myself. It may not pay as well, yet, but I'm in control, less stressed and more fulfilled. I'm meeting great people with the same interests and some with whom I can collaberate. I'm not in as much pain as I used to be before making the break from something that wasn't working at all.
Awesome !! I hope l get so lucky....?
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I hope so too. I'm not so sure that it's entirely luck as much as choosing not to remain a slave to a painful situation. Where's your NN? Mine is in Sag, so it seemed like a good time to expand in this way and take a chance on something better.

Good luck to you.
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Chiron in the 10th - no aspects. I've always had trouble with bosses and working for others, male authority figures. It finally got better when I decided to work for myself. It may not pay as well, yet, but I'm in control, less stressed and more fulfilled. I'm meeting great people with the same interests and some with whom I can collaberate. I'm not in as much pain as I used to be before making the break from something that wasn't working at all.
Awesome !! I hope l get so lucky....?
I hope so too. I'm not so sure that it's entirely luck as much as choosing not to remain a slave to a painful situation. Where's your NN? Mine is in Sag, so it seemed like a good time to expand in this way and take a chance on something better.

Good luck to you.
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Nn in libra....no l don't have any hope...
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in the 3rd:

"felt pain associated with communication"

very often.

I feel bad for things I say.

As Sag Sun I talk boldy then I ask myself if the audience is now condemning me cause MC square to Mercury.

Also I talk confusingly with Mercury detriment. Often the others say they don't get what I wanna say. There I hate myself why I cannot learn to talk simple. Or in patterns known to them.

With family talks bring memories and melancholy to me.

"tuttered"

no

"learning disability"

no

"extreme shyness"

no

but I'm cautious with unknown people. almost distrustful.

"siblings"

it got painful communication only in the recent years. During childhood all was nice with them.

"early school experiences"

In primary school I detected I was jealous cause my bff had found new girls and I had missed the point.

"something happening in the neighborhood"

When I was five years old I found out the girls in the neighbourhood had met in a house and didn't tell me. Also they didn't open the door for me. Not sure if it was an accident, they were not at home and I was parnoid or it was true.
Gee, thanks for sharing! Maybe now you can encourage others to communicate, you can be a positive influence to your neighborhood...

Do you have any Cancer placements?
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in the 3rd:

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Gee, thanks for sharing! Maybe now you can encourage others to communicate, you can be a positive influence to your neighborhood...

Do you have any Cancer placements?

funny question. NN Cancer in the empty 8th house.

the only Cancer placement I have is the thing Astrology says I need to add to my character. yeah, the Cap SN is hard to leave.

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And wheres your moon?
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"siblings"

it got painful communication only in the recent years. During childhood all was nice with them.

I think the reason for this difference is that I have Jupiter in the 4th. So my childhood home was very nice to me and may they enjoyed my good luck. provided that we belive in "Jupiter brings luck".

But now we all live in different places. They have problems and I cannot help them and our communication patterns repeat and we feel each other's pain.



wait, I'm complaining.gonna stoppit.
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Mine is in the 10th house - I feel like an outsider no matter where I go too... Even among my own people. It's come to a point where I've become numb to societal trends and pressures. They don't influence me at all. I've found it rare to come across others like me. It can suck. It is what it is. I could also never work for a corporation. I'm all for small businesses and self-employment. I look for ways to work the system rather than I working for it.
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in the 3rd:

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Gee, thanks for sharing! Maybe now you can encourage others to communicate, you can be a positive influence to your neighborhood...

Do you have any Cancer placements?

funny question. NN Cancer in the empty 8th house.

the only Cancer placement I have is the thing Astrology says I need to add to my character. yeah, the Cap SN is hard to leave.


And wheres your moon?

Ah, there I have a little advantage. It is Pisces.

only it is too much of the good probably.

up to a certain level I want to care for others. when it is overwhelming the 1st house Sun's egoism and Cap SN orders to escape.

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But...do you have Moon in 4th house? Or close? Cause that's significant.
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Mine is in the 10th house - I feel like an outsider no matter where I go too... Even among my own people. It's come to a point where I've become numb to societal trends and pressures. They don't influence me at all. I've found it rare to come across others like me. It can suck. It is what it is. I could also never work for a corporation. I'm all for small businesses and self-employment. I look for ways to work the system rather than I working for it.
Dayum same here...l hate everything about society. I just want a big house, lots to do, crystal clean water...that's about it... maybe we should meet, there'd at least be two of us ?
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in the 3rd:

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Gee, thanks for sharing! Maybe now you can encourage others to communicate, you can be a positive influence to your neighborhood...

Do you have any Cancer placements?

funny question. NN Cancer in the empty 8th house.

the only Cancer placement I have is the thing Astrology says I need to add to my character. yeah, the Cap SN is hard to leave.


And wheres your moon?

Ah, there I have a little advantage. It is Pisces.

only it is too much of the good probably.

up to a certain level I want to care for others. when it is overwhelming the 1st house Sun's egoism and Cap SN orders to escape.


But...do you have Moon in 4th house? Or close? Cause that's significant.

yes, it is in the 4th.

4th house is extended from Pisces to Aries. So I have PiMoon and JupAr there. Also part of Spirit, of Courage and of Love, all in the 4th house. Happy home.

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Moon in 4th is like moon in cancer, and it's an angular house so it counts for more 🙂

And jup 4 is great !! Large happy home...
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Posted by AneemA
Chiron in Gemini and its in the 7th house

Well, yeah I totally agree. So far my love life sucks and I'm thinking to just dedicate my life to travel and my hobbies. I don't want to bother looking for "the one" for me. It's bullshit.

However I should seek out dates tho. One must fulfill her sexual needs. Guys who are with me nowadays would feel great coz I won't ask them no commitment. I'm sick of it and so I expect none at all when it comes to relationships.

Wish me luck!
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