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On my 25th b-day....My "cheap" Pisces friend called me ON my b-day and said "What CD or DVD" do you want for your b-day....I'm at Circuit city.....I was thinking WTF!! "Did I say I wanted a DVD or CD".....cause I don't recall that??..So he comes over with a Donnell Jones CD.....I just told him flat out....Maybe in highschool baby....but I am a grown a** woman now...and this is not apprpriate....keep in mind I had known him three years....It wasn't the price.....but the lack of thought is what bothered me....Now my other Pisces friend....picked me up....took me to dinner...and to the mall where he had spreviously seen an outfit that he thought would look good on me.....I liked it....he bought it.
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OK update. Last night Mr.Pisces came round to see me and he was all in a bad mood cause he had an arguement with his brother's (who hes very close to) g/f. Aparently he went to see his brother and his brother was arguing with his g/f. One of those arguements where they're just both in bad moods and picking at every little detai labout eachother. So mr.Pisces gets involved defending his brother and she starts shouting at him so he leaves and comes to see me.

After he vented and told me everything I said he could stay at my place if he wanted and so everything was going ok but then he got a little over friendly and when I told him to stop he got really pissed off at me telling me i'd been leading him on and stuff. I reminded him that we've been going out for like a week and I'd never sleep with anyone that quick so its nothing personal against him but he was still pissed off and just up and left at about 2am.
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Sometimes Sex can be the best healer of wounds...Seriously.

I think you were right to stand up for your beliefs, but you should have just maybe held him and gave him words of encouragement. Unless you have problems with that sort of thing.

Sometimes when I have a friend that is unhappy, I can listen, I can help find a solution, I can physically give them affection, but it is so hard for me to find the right words of encouragement. Do you have that problem too CancerKitten?

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Depends who the person is. I know exactly what I want to say and if I could write it down I'm sure I could explain myself fully but sometimes I just get scared that I'm revealing too much or sounding stupid. With him I'm usually ok and everything and I did the whole comfort thing. its not like I was even angry with him trying it on I was quite calm. I told I wasn't ready but he got all angry. I think he thinks its something hes done that makes me not like him but I dunno.
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lol. That didn't happen Haffo. I don't have to listen to these wild accusations.

But anyway, things are going ok with him right now. We're still together and hes ok about last week and the trying to have sex malarkey. I called, we talked, all was resolved. He said he was sorry and I said it wasn't his fault and we were both just in bad moods. Its all fine and dandy now though.
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*sigh* If any pisces are on here can you tell me if you're all irrationally jealous or if its just mine. Hes always been protective of me and I liked that, like when we were out and he thinks some guy is paying too much attention to me and isn't good enough for me and stuff. He did that before we dated but now hes getting jealous of me with my friends, who he has known for ages. One guy in particular who I'm really good friends with and hes really good looking but I just know a relationship between us (beyond friendship) would stand no chance. I tell my P-guy this but I can still see how he looks at this other guy whenever I so much as say Hi to him.gah.
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Man I haven't been here in a while.My computer at home is broken so I'm at a library.Man computers at libraries....madness!
Hes being ok right now cause the other guy is on holiday(well actually he should be back today) and we've been having fun together. He might be ok with it now.Hes usually just really protective but this other guy is like the only male friend I'm really close to that he doesn't know really well. I think it'll be ok though.
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pisces man and virgo woman ultimately fall victim to too many differences and neither being able to completely understand the the other (opposites).

pisces man and libra woman differ in ways that cause there to be no real stability due to the breezy nature of libra and space - cadet nature of the pisces. (turbulent).

pisces man and cancer woman, as i have stated plenty of times before, is a very harmonious and fulfilling union.

-Jack

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Posted by cancerlady
Sooooo....What IS Haffo?

CancerKitten, it is a direct contradiction to say that you are afraid of getting hurt by somebody with a girlfriend. You are bound to get hurt unless he was immediately to leave her & be with you.BR>
Cancerlady
WTF?! People who leave current gfs for prospects are just as bad as cheaters. LOL. They are always shopping for the next best thing to jump ships. Just LOL.