Cancer man stood me up for my birthday

Understanding Cancer Men's Behavior in Relationships

Cancer men can be moody and emotionally distant when stressed or overwhelmed. They often struggle to express their feelings and may withdraw if they feel overwhelmed. Clear communication and patience are key, but they also need to take responsibility for their actions to build trust back.

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Piscessoulchild
@Piscessoulchild
9 Years

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This guy is weird first he all over me, morning texts facetime the lot, when we started dating in June last year! A month after he asked me to be his and I said I didn't want to rush and we should take it slow a few months after he ask me Again and I said yes then he just turns cold I know cancers are moody so I leave him till he comes to me or sometimes I will send him a little message so he knows I'm thinking of him when he's stressed but he doesn't make time anymore, whenever I address the issue of him making no effort he apologises and says he's working overtime... I know this man is a grinder, his family live in St Lucia and he provide for his mum and daughter so I get being busy but 2 months—? he does nothing with his action to reassure me, he won't open up and although I've been patient I have had 1 or 2 little outburst telling him if u can't hack being in a relationship then that's fine he should just be honest with me his response again was I don't want to be single I even said I love you first and got a I love you too so I don't understand when we are together he is energy I can feel it's real! my birthday was Saturday gone and I arranged to go to a hotel spa with my mates I invited him told him the price when and when I was going to book it he confirmed that he would be there the day of the event I messaged to see what he plans was... and he completely aired me I woke up on my actually birthday to no apology nothing! I texted him out of rage and sheer embarrassment delete my number don't ever speak to me again but now I think it was a bit harsh I really wanna text him for answers because I do miss him and I love him regardless but I can't stand when people don't own their wrongs!!! but on the other side I'm pissed that he did that and until I get some sort of acknowledgement of why he did that I feel he should come to me am I being a spoilt brat— Or am I being too nice I'm a Pisces #iguessthatsthewaylovegoes p.s help
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Piscessoulchild
@Piscessoulchild
9 Years

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Posted by piscespoppy
Bless you, how old is he ? Oh and happy birthday ? for last week fellow fish x

He is 32 and he came to my house last night and apologised he said he was moving house and that when I told him not to talk to me he closed up but after talking to his friend he realised he was wrong he's got a surprise for me later and he will pick me up for half 8 he won't tell me anything else but he has been blowing up my line since this morning confused.com
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DeeLovesRed
@DeeLovesRed
9 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by Piscessoulchild
Posted by DeeLovesRed
My bday was Saturday as well.. hi twin, and yea leave I think he's hiding something because even the busiest person makes time....


Hey twin that's what I thought but I guess I'm a sucker for love and tbh I don't fall in love a lot I always leave if my standards ain't met but there is something about us that I can't shake
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Hmmm, maybe cause you sense a familiarity... after all he is a water sign..