Cancer man stood me up for my birthday

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Piscessoulchild
@Piscessoulchild
8 Years

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This guy is weird first he all over me, morning texts facetime the lot, when we started dating in June last year! A month after he asked me to be his and I said I didn't want to rush and we should take it slow a few months after he ask me Again and I said yes then he just turns cold I know cancers are moody so I leave him till he comes to me or sometimes I will send him a little message so he knows I'm thinking of him when he's stressed but he doesn't make time anymore, whenever I address the issue of him making no effort he apologises and says he's working overtime... I know this man is a grinder, his family live in St Lucia and he provide for his mum and daughter so I get being busy but 2 months—? he does nothing with his action to reassure me, he won't open up and although I've been patient I have had 1 or 2 little outburst telling him if u can't hack being in a relationship then that's fine he should just be honest with me his response again was I don't want to be single I even said I love you first and got a I love you too so I don't understand when we are together he is energy I can feel it's real! my birthday was Saturday gone and I arranged to go to a hotel spa with my mates I invited him told him the price when and when I was going to book it he confirmed that he would be there the day of the event I messaged to see what he plans was... and he completely aired me I woke up on my actually birthday to no apology nothing! I texted him out of rage and sheer embarrassment delete my number don't ever speak to me again but now I think it was a bit harsh I really wanna text him for answers because I do miss him and I love him regardless but I can't stand when people don't own their wrongs!!! but on the other side I'm pissed that he did that and until I get some sort of acknowledgement of why he did that I feel he should come to me am I being a spoilt brat— Or am I being too nice I'm a Pisces #iguessthatsthewaylovegoes p.s help
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Piscessoulchild
@Piscessoulchild
8 Years

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Posted by piscespoppy
Bless you, how old is he ? Oh and happy birthday ? for last week fellow fish x

He is 32 and he came to my house last night and apologised he said he was moving house and that when I told him not to talk to me he closed up but after talking to his friend he realised he was wrong he's got a surprise for me later and he will pick me up for half 8 he won't tell me anything else but he has been blowing up my line since this morning confused.com
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DeeLovesRed
@DeeLovesRed
9 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by DeeLovesRed
My bday was Saturday as well.. hi twin, and yea leave I think he's hiding something because even the busiest person makes time....


Hey twin that's what I thought but I guess I'm a sucker for love and tbh I don't fall in love a lot I always leave if my standards ain't met but there is something about us that I can't shake
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Hmmm, maybe cause you sense a familiarity... after all he is a water sign..