@cornmaizeshark
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Congratulations on being the most caring sign
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
? But we could be cruel as hell too!
Yes, but whenever I've seen this it's when a Cancer has had their feelings hurt. Not an excuse but it boils down to them caring too much about a perceived offense! I think it would be very rare for a Cancer to be randomly sadistic.
I think caring too much gets us into a shiton of trouble... We just can't help ourselves.. I know plenty of cancers(myself included) that get caught up in things that have nothing to do with them simply cause we can't stand to see people mistreated....
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
? But we could be cruel as hell too!Yes, but whenever I've seen this it's when a Cancer has had their feelings hurt. Not an excuse but it boils down to them caring too much about a perceived offense! I think it would be very rare for a Cancer to be randomly sadistic.
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Lmao you know us don't you... Crabbies we mirror and if we feel like your being an asshole we will be a bigger asshole back.. Its a way to level the playing field 🙂
To those they care for, yes.
Everyone else can piss off.
At least ime.
Great ally for sure-- kind of like a LEO, but with
a 'loose cannon' feel.
Posted by Montgomery
To those they care for, yes.Everyone else can piss off.
At least ime.
Great ally for sure-- kind of like a LEO, but with
a 'loose cannon' feel.
Lol the most accurate description I have ever heard 😆
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
? But we could be cruel as hell too!Yes, but whenever I've seen this it's when a Cancer has had their feelings hurt. Not an excuse but it boils down to them caring too much about a perceived offense! I think it would be very rare for a Cancer to be randomly sadistic.
The only problem with that is it takes little to nothing to hurt your feelings. You guys are emotionally retarded and crazy too!!!
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1. I don't think op is a cancer I thought they were a Pisces?
2. We aren't crazy... We are petty... Difference
If you do something to us expect have it done back.
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
? But we could be cruel as hell too!Yes, but whenever I've seen this it's when a Cancer has had their feelings hurt. Not an excuse but it boils down to them caring too much about a perceived offense! I think it would be very rare for a Cancer to be randomly sadistic.
The only problem with that is it takes little to nothing to hurt your feelings. You guys are emotionally retarded and crazy too!!!
1. I don't think op is a cancer I thought they were a Pisces?
2. We aren't crazy... We are petty... Difference
If you do something to us expect have it done back.
I don't see that. And i give everyone a chance. It doesn't takemuch to get you in the deep end. And the other person doesn't have to do much or anything. You're not the most straight forward so you expectations on folks but when those expectations are not met, the crazy person comes out.
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I understand and some of us can be vague in my earlier years I expected people to "know" what I needed and when they hurt me... As I have gotten older I make sure to speak up about what pisses me off, hurts me, etc... Your a Gemini right... You aren't exactly the easy people for us to understand either.
Posted by Goateeguru
Btw a cancer woman is texting me crazy things as im writing these responses lol.
Is it crazy... Or you mean you don't understand... BIG DIFFERENCE... I'm always weary of people who ise the word crazy... It's a way of dismissing people's point of view that you don't understand... -_-
i want cancer mum.
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
? But we could be cruel as hell too!Yes, but whenever I've seen this it's when a Cancer has had their feelings hurt. Not an excuse but it boils down to them caring too much about a perceived offense! I think it would be very rare for a Cancer to be randomly sadistic.
The only problem with that is it takes little to nothing to hurt your feelings. You guys are emotionally retarded and crazy too!!!
1. I don't think op is a cancer I thought they were a Pisces?
2. We aren't crazy... We are petty... Difference
If you do something to us expect have it done back.
I don't see that. And i give everyone a chance. It doesn't takemuch to get you in the deep end. And the other person doesn't have to do much or anything. You're not the most straight forward so you expectations on folks but when those expectations are not met, the crazy person comes out.
I understand and some of us can be vague in my earlier years I expected people to "know" what I needed and when they hurt me... As I have gotten older I make sure to speak up about what pisses me off, hurts me, etc... Your a Gemini right... You aren't exactly the easy people for us to understand either.
I'm very straightforward and open. So thats not an issue with me at all.
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I never said you werent straight forward I said gemini can be hard for cancer to understand.. The way you look at things, the duality... Etc. While your thinking she is crazy she might the same thing about you... Take the time to try understand the cancer girl and she will mirror you... What ever you dish out she will give it back to you.
Posted by Goateeguru
Btw a cancer woman is texting me crazy things as im writing these responses lol.Is it crazy... Or you mean you don't understand... BIG DIFFERENCE... I'm always weary of people who ise the word crazy... It's a way of dismissing people's point of view that you don't understand... -_-
When you're highly emotional for no reason at all and you get all vengeful for no reason... Thats crazy to me. And i always try to clear the air through dialogue but thats gotten me no where. If you dont like crazy I'll use emotionally retarded
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But there is a reason... You just don't know what it is... But there is always a reason 🙂
I'd trade it any day for some genuine idgaf.
Posted by peo
I'd trade it any day for some genuine idgaf.
We all have our crosses to bear. Yours is an inability to not gaf
Posted by cornmaizeshark
You make the rest of us look slightly sociopathic. No one has the capacity for caring (about anything and everything) as Cancer does.God bless your sweet (and sometimes batshit insane) souls.
As much as this is flattering to most cancerians I have seen other sun signs doing similar caring acts. So, it's special that these things happened, it makes the World a better place.
Yes, we are caring people, I guess it is in our nature. The best thing though is that we don't expect anything in return. Most of the times.
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Of course, and it's not as if every Cancer is more caring than everyone of other signs. I'm just doing group awards. Sag is most charming. Cancer is more caring.
Posted by cornmaizeshark
You make the rest of us look slightly sociopathic. No one has the capacity for caring (about anything and everything) as Cancer does.God bless your sweet (and sometimes batshit insane) souls.
As much as this is flattering to most cancerians I have seen other sun signs doing similar caring acts. So, it's special that these things happened, it makes the World a better place.
Yes, we are caring people, I guess it is in our nature. The best thing though is that we don't expect anything in return. Most of the times.
Of course, and it's not as if every Cancer is more caring than everyone of other signs. I'm just doing group awards. Sag is most charming. Cancer is more caring.
I want to respect everyone's oppinion here but, I do think Cancers are more caring than other sun sign because we are more sensitive and feel very much. And that include cancer moon, rising.
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I agree, also cancer venus.
We are the mental cases of the Zodiac, hands down. But we're also the therapists. You know how counselors are usually wackos themselves? That's basically cancer. We care and want to help so much, but it is very emotionally taxing because we feel their pain as if it is our own. It's not a good idea to underestimate just how powerful emotion is, and how strongly cancer feels it.
We don't expect much in return, but do like to feel appreciated for what we do. If we feel like someone we care about is taking us for granted, they will incur a cancer's wrath. It's just how it goes. The fact that a crab gives two schits about you is the reason why they will send the tsunami after you in the first place. Hope you're a good swimmer!
Posted by Crabra
We are the mental cases of the Zodiac, hands down. But we're also the therapists. You know how counselors are usually wackos themselves? That's basically cancer. We care and want to help so much, but it is very emotionally taxing because we feel their pain as if it is our own. It's not a good idea to underestimate just how powerful emotion is, and how strongly cancer feels it.We don't expect much in return, but do like to feel appreciated for what we do. If we feel like someone we care about is taking us for granted, they will incur a cancer's wrath. It's just how it goes. The fact that a crab gives two schits about you is the reason why they will send the tsunami after you in the first place. Hope you're a good swimmer!
This is all what I've observed as well!
Posted by Crabra
We are the mental cases of the Zodiac, hands down. But we're also the therapists. You know how counselors are usually wackos themselves? That's basically cancer. We care and want to help so much, but it is very emotionally taxing because we feel their pain as if it is our own. It's not a good idea to underestimate just how powerful emotion is, and how strongly cancer feels it.We don't expect much in return, but do like to feel appreciated for what we do. If we feel like someone we care about is taking us for granted, they will incur a cancer's wrath. It's just how it goes. The fact that a crab gives two schits about you is the reason why they will send the tsunami after you in the first place. Hope you're a good swimmer!
Either the tsunami or the deep freeze.
Posted by Crabra
We are the mental cases of the Zodiac, hands down. But we're also the therapists. You know how counselors are usually wackos themselves? That's basically cancer. We care and want to help so much, but it is very emotionally taxing because we feel their pain as if it is our own. It's not a good idea to underestimate just how powerful emotion is, and how strongly cancer feels it.We don't expect much in return, but do like to feel appreciated for what we do. If we feel like someone we care about is taking us for granted, they will incur a cancer's wrath. It's just how it goes. The fact that a crab gives two schits about you is the reason why they will send the tsunami after you in the first place. Hope you're a good swimmer!
click to expandI'm a Cancer and I'm in love with my therapist. I hope that you're right and that she is a wacko--wacko enough to contact me one day if she gets divorced.
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You make the rest of us look slightly sociopathic. No one has the capacity for caring (about anything and everything) as Cancer does.
God bless your sweet (and sometimes batshit insane) souls.