Crab Walk with Cancer Moon

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Okay.. I promise I was out minding my own business. Couple friends asked if I was going to the bar Saturday.. I show up around midnight right. I decided to wear overalls and I think this caught cancer moon's attention.

Her chart:

Gemini Sun

Cancer moon

Leo Rising

Leo Venus

Gemini Mars

So anyway I'm standing up at the bar and she immediately walks up next to me to order a drink. She didn't say anything though. Aries co-worker who is drunk immediately says something to her. She then looks at me like "what's wrong with him?" We laugh and then the convo gets started.

Cancer moon says she drove up from Orlando for the comedy show solo. We chat for about 30 minutes and then Gemini co-worker says lets bounce to another bar and invites her to tag along. The shit turned into a date basically and we spent about 4 hours together.

Cancer moon is now tipsy so I walk her to her car. The bottom of her heel fell off at some point so I made a joke about her sounding like she was galloping. She repeatedly tells me "I'm a dick", but she enjoys my company. I never said anything rude, I think she was just sensitive to banter. We sat in the car an hour and it's now 4:00 AM so I tell her I'm headed home. She says she is headed to a musical Sunday but never asks what my plans are other than I should attend the comedy show she went to.

Cancer moon sends me video of the musical and that's it until about 10 PM Sunday. She sees my friends at the club and texts me "are you coming out". They were at a Carribean event and I guess she heard the music near her hotel. I show up and the party was wack. We leave and go to a karaoke spot. Cancer moon is tipsy again and can't read me.. Says I'm a dick again, but not a bad dick and she's having fun.

We drive back to her hotel parking lot where after an hour we're just doing foreplay and she says she doesn't want to invite me inside.. but feels bad (Looking for my reaction?) It's now 4 AM so I tell her I have to work at 9. She gets all sad and apologizes for keeping me out late.

Cancer moon texts me in the evening and asks how I'm doing.. says she wants to see me. I tell her we can watch a movie together in the evening, I'm not coming out since i'm tired. We agree on 1030 ish. I wake up at 10:40 and she texted me a few mins before that she's going out and says goodnight. I tell her I'm up and she ignores my text. About 3 hours later at 1 AM she drunk calls & texts me she misses me and wants to see me.

Maybe it's me but she purposely waited to call until she thought I was sleep. I reply in the morning and she gives off a gloomy vibe that we're never going to meet again and she's driving back to Orlando today.

I haven't replied back yet because I feel like we're doing the crab walk.
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how much fire you got in your chart?

Zero



okay its situations like this that fire placements would really help here. this is some cold war shit.
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LMAO... I'm air dominant.. there just comes a point where I'm like look.. but i'm starting to see cancer moon needs a lot of reassurance and pats on the back saying it's okay.
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Okay.. I promise I was out minding my own business. Couple friends asked if I was going to the bar Saturday.. I show up around midnight right. I decided to wear overalls and I think this caught cancer moon's attention.

Her chart:

Gemini Sun

Cancer moon

Leo Rising

Leo Venus

Gemini Mars

So anyway I'm standing up at the bar and she immediately walks up next to me to order a drink. She didn't say anything though. Aries co-worker who is drunk immediately says something to her. She then looks at me like "what's wrong with him?" We laugh and then the convo gets started.

Cancer moon says she drove up from Orlando for the comedy show solo. We chat for about 30 minutes and then Gemini co-worker says lets bounce to another bar and invites her to tag along. The shit turned into a date basically and we spent about 4 hours together.

Cancer moon is now tipsy so I walk her to her car. The bottom of her heel fell off at some point so I made a joke about her sounding like she was galloping. She repeatedly tells me "I'm a dick", but she enjoys my company. I never said anything rude, I think she was just sensitive to banter. We sat in the car an hour and it's now 4:00 AM so I tell her I'm headed home. She says she is headed to a musical Sunday but never asks what my plans are other than I should attend the comedy show she went to.

Cancer moon sends me video of the musical and that's it until about 10 PM Sunday. She sees my friends at the club and texts me "are you coming out". They were at a Carribean event and I guess she heard the music near her hotel. I show up and the party was wack. We leave and go to a karaoke spot. Cancer moon is tipsy again and can't read me.. Says I'm a dick again, but not a bad dick and she's having fun.

We drive back to her hotel parking lot where after an hour we're just doing foreplay and she says she doesn't want to invite me inside.. but feels bad (Looking for my reaction?) It's now 4 AM so I tell her I have to work at 9. She gets all sad and apologizes for keeping me out late.

Cancer moon texts me in the evening and asks how I'm doing.. says she wants to see me. I tell her we can watch a movie together in the evening, I'm not coming out since i'm tired. We agree on 1030 ish. I wake up at 10:40 and she texted me a few mins before that she's going out and says goodnight. I tell her I'm up and she ignores my text. About 3 hours later at 1 AM she drunk calls & texts me she misses me and wants to see me.

Maybe it's me but she purposely waited to call until she thought I was sleep. I reply in the morning and she gives off a gloomy vibe that we're never going to meet again and she's driving back to Orlando today.

I haven't replied back yet because I feel like we're doing the crab walk.


From what you said, she is attracted to you, she is interested.

Those dick coments were actually her complementing you in a sarcastic way.

She was flirting with you in a humorous way to her.

I bet you 1k, if you had a recording of the conversations, every woman on her would tell you the same. How something is said matters more then words, especially with woman.
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Okay.. I promise I was out minding my own business. Couple friends asked if I was going to the bar Saturday.. I show up around midnight right. I decided to wear overalls and I think this caught cancer moon's attention.
Her chart:
Gemini Sun
Cancer moon
Leo Rising
Leo Venus
Gemini Mars
So anyway I'm standing up at the bar and she immediately walks up next to me to order a drink. She didn't say anything though. Aries co-worker who is drunk immediately says something to her. She then looks at me like "what's wrong with him?" We laugh and then the convo gets started.
Cancer moon says she drove up from Orlando for the comedy show solo. We chat for about 30 minutes and then Gemini co-worker says lets bounce to another bar and invites her to tag along. The shit turned into a date basically and we spent about 4 hours together.
Cancer moon is now tipsy so I walk her to her car. The bottom of her heel fell off at some point so I made a joke about her sounding like she was galloping. She repeatedly tells me "I'm a dick", but she enjoys my company. I never said anything rude, I think she was just sensitive to banter. We sat in the car an hour and it's now 4:00 AM so I tell her I'm headed home. She says she is headed to a musical Sunday but never asks what my plans are other than I should attend the comedy show she went to.
Cancer moon sends me video of the musical and that's it until about 10 PM Sunday. She sees my friends at the club and texts me "are you coming out". They were at a Carribean event and I guess she heard the music near her hotel. I show up and the party was wack. We leave and go to a karaoke spot. Cancer moon is tipsy again and can't read me.. Says I'm a dick again, but not a bad dick and she's having fun.
We drive back to her hotel parking lot where after an hour we're just doing foreplay and she says she doesn't want to invite me inside.. but feels bad (Looking for my reaction?) It's now 4 AM so I tell her I have to work at 9. She gets all sad and apologizes for keeping me out late.
Cancer moon texts me in the evening and asks how I'm doing.. says she wants to see me. I tell her we can watch a movie together in the evening, I'm not coming out since i'm tired. We agree on 1030 ish. I wake up at 10:40 and she texted me a few mins before that she's going out and says goodnight. I tell her I'm up and she ignores my text. About 3 hours later at 1 AM she drunk calls & texts me she misses me and wants to see me.
Maybe it's me but she purposely waited to call until she thought I was sleep. I reply in the morning and she gives off a gloomy vibe that we're never going to meet again and she's driving back to Orlando today.
I haven't replied back yet because I feel like we're doing the crab walk.

From what you said, she is attracted to you, she is interested.

Those dick coments were actually her complementing you in a sarcastic way.

She was flirting with you in a humorous way to her.

I bet you 1k, if you had a recording of the conversations, every woman on her would tell you the same. How something is said matters more then words, especially with woman.
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oh yeah I got that part. But i'm focusing on how we discussed plans and I overslept by a few minutes. I get it, but she blew me off for 3 hours then all of a sudden wanted to see me at 1 AM knowing I had to work today. Right after staying out until 4 AM the day before.

her - 10:30 You must be sleep, I'm gonna explore the area. Have a goodnight

me - 1040 - I'm sorry I overslept by a few mins. I'm up now.

her - 11:15 - I am at the spot we were at yesterday.

me - 11:17 - well enjoy your night out.

her - 12:30 AM - Are you coming out?

1:10 AM Missed Call

1:30 AM I miss you. I want to see you before I leave

me - 8:00 AM I went to sleep after you said you were out. (The call woke me up but I'm not responding that late when she knows I have to work)

Thats playing games to me.
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@BadderBunny is right. This is Gem sun coming out to play, not Cancer moon. I should know because those are my placements.

Yeah, she’s playing games, testing you, testing the boundaries. It’s what we do! 🤷🏻‍♀️ And fire Venus again like me but me but mine’s in Aries. She’s not shy! Haha! My Aries Venus makes me love the chase. Someone too available? ( yawns)

Don’t give in to her shit. Back off when she’s being an idiot or inappropriate. She’ll either fall in line (if she likes you) or leave to find someone else to torture. That’s Cancer moon. They are incapable of leaving someone they want to be with.
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Okay.. I promise I was out minding my own business. Couple friends asked if I was going to the bar Saturday.. I show up around midnight right. I decided to wear overalls and I think this caught cancer moon's attention.
Her chart:
Gemini Sun
Cancer moon
Leo Rising
Leo Venus
Gemini Mars
So anyway I'm standing up at the bar and she immediately walks up next to me to order a drink. She didn't say anything though. Aries co-worker who is drunk immediately says something to her. She then looks at me like "what's wrong with him?" We laugh and then the convo gets started.
Cancer moon says she drove up from Orlando for the comedy show solo. We chat for about 30 minutes and then Gemini co-worker says lets bounce to another bar and invites her to tag along. The shit turned into a date basically and we spent about 4 hours together.
Cancer moon is now tipsy so I walk her to her car. The bottom of her heel fell off at some point so I made a joke about her sounding like she was galloping. She repeatedly tells me "I'm a dick", but she enjoys my company. I never said anything rude, I think she was just sensitive to banter. We sat in the car an hour and it's now 4:00 AM so I tell her I'm headed home. She says she is headed to a musical Sunday but never asks what my plans are other than I should attend the comedy show she went to.
Cancer moon sends me video of the musical and that's it until about 10 PM Sunday. She sees my friends at the club and texts me "are you coming out". They were at a Carribean event and I guess she heard the music near her hotel. I show up and the party was wack. We leave and go to a karaoke spot. Cancer moon is tipsy again and can't read me.. Says I'm a dick again, but not a bad dick and she's having fun.
We drive back to her hotel parking lot where after an hour we're just doing foreplay and she says she doesn't want to invite me inside.. but feels bad (Looking for my reaction?) It's now 4 AM so I tell her I have to work at 9. She gets all sad and apologizes for keeping me out late.
Cancer moon texts me in the evening and asks how I'm doing.. says she wants to see me. I tell her we can watch a movie together in the evening, I'm not coming out since i'm tired. We agree on 1030 ish. I wake up at 10:40 and she texted me a few mins before that she's going out and says goodnight. I tell her I'm up and she ignores my text. About 3 hours later at 1 AM she drunk calls & texts me she misses me and wants to see me.
Maybe it's me but she purposely waited to call until she thought I was sleep. I reply in the morning and she gives off a gloomy vibe that we're never going to meet again and she's driving back to Orlando today.
I haven't replied back yet because I feel like we're doing the crab walk.

From what you said, she is attracted to you, she is interested.

Those dick coments were actually her complementing you in a sarcastic way.

She was flirting with you in a humorous way to her.

I bet you 1k, if you had a recording of the conversations, every woman on her would tell you the same. How something is said matters more then words, especially with woman.



oh yeah I got that part. But i'm focusing on how we discussed plans and I overslept by a few minutes. I get it, but she blew me off for 3 hours then all of a sudden wanted to see me at 1 AM knowing I had to work today. Right after staying out until 4 AM the day before.

her - 10:30 You must be sleep, I'm gonna explore the area. Have a goodnight
me - 1040 - I'm sorry I overslept by a few mins. I'm up now.
her - 11:15 - I am at the spot we were at yesterday.
me - 11:17 - well enjoy your night out.
her - 12:30 AM - Are you coming out?
1:10 AM Missed Call
1:30 AM I miss you. I want to see you before I leave
me - 8:00 AM I went to sleep after you said you were out. (The call woke me up but I'm not responding that late when she knows I have to work)

Thats playing games to me.
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No it isn't. Thats just how you interpret it.

Lmao this is woman 101 stuff.

She isn't being intentionally strategic or wishy-washy. Thats her litterally giving in and saying something to you about how she feels, which is wanting to see you.

Letting things slip so to speak. Booze will do that😂

P.S

If you last that long, she will be more forthecoming as she feels more comfortable with you or if you ask her to be, WITH encouragement.

Honestly you been on 1 maybe 1 1/2 "dates", were you expecting her to just automatically know and decide from just that?

Dude what do you expect in so little time...what's you goal here with her?

Whatever your intentions puts some effort to show you yourself are interested.



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Okay.. I promise I was out minding my own business. Couple friends asked if I was going to the bar Saturday.. I show up around midnight right. I decided to wear overalls and I think this caught cancer moon's attention.
Her chart:
Gemini Sun
Cancer moon
Leo Rising
Leo Venus
Gemini Mars
So anyway I'm standing up at the bar and she immediately walks up next to me to order a drink. She didn't say anything though. Aries co-worker who is drunk immediately says something to her. She then looks at me like "what's wrong with him?" We laugh and then the convo gets started.
Cancer moon says she drove up from Orlando for the comedy show solo. We chat for about 30 minutes and then Gemini co-worker says lets bounce to another bar and invites her to tag along. The shit turned into a date basically and we spent about 4 hours together.
Cancer moon is now tipsy so I walk her to her car. The bottom of her heel fell off at some point so I made a joke about her sounding like she was galloping. She repeatedly tells me "I'm a dick", but she enjoys my company. I never said anything rude, I think she was just sensitive to banter. We sat in the car an hour and it's now 4:00 AM so I tell her I'm headed home. She says she is headed to a musical Sunday but never asks what my plans are other than I should attend the comedy show she went to.
Cancer moon sends me video of the musical and that's it until about 10 PM Sunday. She sees my friends at the club and texts me "are you coming out". They were at a Carribean event and I guess she heard the music near her hotel. I show up and the party was wack. We leave and go to a karaoke spot. Cancer moon is tipsy again and can't read me.. Says I'm a dick again, but not a bad dick and she's having fun.
We drive back to her hotel parking lot where after an hour we're just doing foreplay and she says she doesn't want to invite me inside.. but feels bad (Looking for my reaction?) It's now 4 AM so I tell her I have to work at 9. She gets all sad and apologizes for keeping me out late.
Cancer moon texts me in the evening and asks how I'm doing.. says she wants to see me. I tell her we can watch a movie together in the evening, I'm not coming out since i'm tired. We agree on 1030 ish. I wake up at 10:40 and she texted me a few mins before that she's going out and says goodnight. I tell her I'm up and she ignores my text. About 3 hours later at 1 AM she drunk calls & texts me she misses me and wants to see me.
Maybe it's me but she purposely waited to call until she thought I was sleep. I reply in the morning and she gives off a gloomy vibe that we're never going to meet again and she's driving back to Orlando today.
I haven't replied back yet because I feel like we're doing the crab walk.
From what you said, she is attracted to you, she is interested.
Those dick coments were actually her complementing you in a sarcastic way.
She was flirting with you in a humorous way to her.
I bet you 1k, if you had a recording of the conversations, every woman on her would tell you the same. How something is said matters more then words, especially with woman.




oh yeah I got that part. But i'm focusing on how we discussed plans and I overslept by a few minutes. I get it, but she blew me off for 3 hours then all of a sudden wanted to see me at 1 AM knowing I had to work today. Right after staying out until 4 AM the day before.

her - 10:30 You must be sleep, I'm gonna explore the area. Have a goodnight

me - 1040 - I'm sorry I overslept by a few mins. I'm up now.

her - 11:15 - I am at the spot we were at yesterday.

me - 11:17 - well enjoy your night out.

her - 12:30 AM - Are you coming out?

1:10 AM Missed Call

1:30 AM I miss you. I want to see you before I leave

me - 8:00 AM I went to sleep after you said you were out. (The call woke me up but I'm not responding that late when she knows I have to work)

Thats playing games to me.
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No it isn't. Thats just how you interpret it.

Lmao this is woman 101 stuff.

She isn't being intentionally strategic or wishy-washy. Thats her litterally giving in and saying something to you about how she feels, which is wanting to see you.

Letting things slip so to speak. Booze will do that😂

P.S

If you last that long, she will be more forthecoming as she feels more comfortable with you or if you ask her to be, WITH encouragement.

Honestly you been on 1 maybe 1 1/2 "dates", were you expecting her to just automatically know and decide from just that?

Dude what do you expect in so little time...what's you goal here with her?

Whatever your intentions puts some effort to show you yourself are interested.



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This isn't cut & dry here.. she's clearly conflicted.

Don't you think it's a bit early in the process to be drunk calling someone? I look at actions, not words and if she wanted to see me that bad, then she would have adjusted after I reached out. Or at the very least asked was I still wanting to do something.

Then like I mentioned earlier, I get the doom & gloom subtle text basically saying "bye forever." I picked up on this and assured her we can meet again. She was more receptive after that.

I don't have a goal here.. she kind of just put herself in my orbit at the bar. While chatting she says she's focused on her PHD and isn't looking for a man.

That's fine.. but now you're drunk texting and calling me. That's why I said she's doing the crab walk.

Confusion.

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Okay.. I promise I was out minding my own business. Couple friends asked if I was going to the bar Saturday.. I show up around midnight right. I decided to wear overalls and I think this caught cancer moon's attention.
Her chart:
Gemini Sun
Cancer moon
Leo Rising
Leo Venus
Gemini Mars
So anyway I'm standing up at the bar and she immediately walks up next to me to order a drink. She didn't say anything though. Aries co-worker who is drunk immediately says something to her. She then looks at me like "what's wrong with him?" We laugh and then the convo gets started.
Cancer moon says she drove up from Orlando for the comedy show solo. We chat for about 30 minutes and then Gemini co-worker says lets bounce to another bar and invites her to tag along. The shit turned into a date basically and we spent about 4 hours together.
Cancer moon is now tipsy so I walk her to her car. The bottom of her heel fell off at some point so I made a joke about her sounding like she was galloping. She repeatedly tells me "I'm a dick", but she enjoys my company. I never said anything rude, I think she was just sensitive to banter. We sat in the car an hour and it's now 4:00 AM so I tell her I'm headed home. She says she is headed to a musical Sunday but never asks what my plans are other than I should attend the comedy show she went to.
Cancer moon sends me video of the musical and that's it until about 10 PM Sunday. She sees my friends at the club and texts me "are you coming out". They were at a Carribean event and I guess she heard the music near her hotel. I show up and the party was wack. We leave and go to a karaoke spot. Cancer moon is tipsy again and can't read me.. Says I'm a dick again, but not a bad dick and she's having fun.
We drive back to her hotel parking lot where after an hour we're just doing foreplay and she says she doesn't want to invite me inside.. but feels bad (Looking for my reaction?) It's now 4 AM so I tell her I have to work at 9. She gets all sad and apologizes for keeping me out late.
Cancer moon texts me in the evening and asks how I'm doing.. says she wants to see me. I tell her we can watch a movie together in the evening, I'm not coming out since i'm tired. We agree on 1030 ish. I wake up at 10:40 and she texted me a few mins before that she's going out and says goodnight. I tell her I'm up and she ignores my text. About 3 hours later at 1 AM she drunk calls & texts me she misses me and wants to see me.
Maybe it's me but she purposely waited to call until she thought I was sleep. I reply in the morning and she gives off a gloomy vibe that we're never going to meet again and she's driving back to Orlando today.
I haven't replied back yet because I feel like we're doing the crab walk.
From what you said, she is attracted to you, she is interested.
Those dick coments were actually her complementing you in a sarcastic way.
She was flirting with you in a humorous way to her.
I bet you 1k, if you had a recording of the conversations, every woman on her would tell you the same. How something is said matters more then words, especially with woman.

oh yeah I got that part. But i'm focusing on how we discussed plans and I overslept by a few minutes. I get it, but she blew me off for 3 hours then all of a sudden wanted to see me at 1 AM knowing I had to work today. Right after staying out until 4 AM the day before.

her - 10:30 You must be sleep, I'm gonna explore the area. Have a goodnight
me - 1040 - I'm sorry I overslept by a few mins. I'm up now.
her - 11:15 - I am at the spot we were at yesterday.
me - 11:17 - well enjoy your night out.
her - 12:30 AM - Are you coming out?
1:10 AM Missed Call
1:30 AM I miss you. I want to see you before I leave
me - 8:00 AM I went to sleep after you said you were out. (The call woke me up but I'm not responding that late when she knows I have to work)

Thats playing games to me.
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No it isn't. Thats just how you interpret it.
Lmao this is woman 101 stuff.
She isn't being intentionally strategic or wishy-washy. Thats her litterally giving in and saying something to you about how she feels, which is wanting to see you.
Letting things slip so to speak. Booze will do that😂
P.S
If you last that long, she will be more forthecoming as she feels more comfortable with you or if you ask her to be, WITH encouragement.
Honestly you been on 1 maybe 1 1/2 "dates", were you expecting her to just automatically know and decide from just that?
Dude what do you expect in so little time...what's you goal here with her?
Whatever your intentions puts some effort to show you yourself are interested.

click to expand
This isn't cut & dry here.. she's clearly conflicted.
Don't you think it's a bit early in the process to be drunk calling someone? I look at actions, not words and if she wanted to see me that bad, then she would have adjusted after I reached out. Or at the very least asked was I still wanting to do something.
Then like I mentioned earlier, I get the doom & gloom subtle text basically saying "bye forever." I picked up on this and assured her we can meet again. She was more receptive after that.
I don't have a goal here.. she kind of just put herself in my orbit at the bar. While chatting she says she's focused on her PHD and isn't looking for a man.
That's fine.. but now you're drunk texting and calling me. That's why I said she's doing the crab walk.
Confusion.

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Dual personality. Don't be confused, just enjoy the journey. She has you intrigued, this might be exactly what you need.
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Good energy and interesting convos. Wanted to know my whole chart and all that.
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Okay.. I promise I was out minding my own business. Couple friends asked if I was going to the bar Saturday.. I show up around midnight right. I decided to wear overalls and I think this caught cancer moon's attention.
Her chart:
Gemini Sun
Cancer moon
Leo Rising
Leo Venus
Gemini Mars
So anyway I'm standing up at the bar and she immediately walks up next to me to order a drink. She didn't say anything though. Aries co-worker who is drunk immediately says something to her. She then looks at me like "what's wrong with him?" We laugh and then the convo gets started.
Cancer moon says she drove up from Orlando for the comedy show solo. We chat for about 30 minutes and then Gemini co-worker says lets bounce to another bar and invites her to tag along. The shit turned into a date basically and we spent about 4 hours together.
Cancer moon is now tipsy so I walk her to her car. The bottom of her heel fell off at some point so I made a joke about her sounding like she was galloping. She repeatedly tells me "I'm a dick", but she enjoys my company. I never said anything rude, I think she was just sensitive to banter. We sat in the car an hour and it's now 4:00 AM so I tell her I'm headed home. She says she is headed to a musical Sunday but never asks what my plans are other than I should attend the comedy show she went to.
Cancer moon sends me video of the musical and that's it until about 10 PM Sunday. She sees my friends at the club and texts me "are you coming out". They were at a Carribean event and I guess she heard the music near her hotel. I show up and the party was wack. We leave and go to a karaoke spot. Cancer moon is tipsy again and can't read me.. Says I'm a dick again, but not a bad dick and she's having fun.
We drive back to her hotel parking lot where after an hour we're just doing foreplay and she says she doesn't want to invite me inside.. but feels bad (Looking for my reaction?) It's now 4 AM so I tell her I have to work at 9. She gets all sad and apologizes for keeping me out late.
Cancer moon texts me in the evening and asks how I'm doing.. says she wants to see me. I tell her we can watch a movie together in the evening, I'm not coming out since i'm tired. We agree on 1030 ish. I wake up at 10:40 and she texted me a few mins before that she's going out and says goodnight. I tell her I'm up and she ignores my text. About 3 hours later at 1 AM she drunk calls & texts me she misses me and wants to see me.
Maybe it's me but she purposely waited to call until she thought I was sleep. I reply in the morning and she gives off a gloomy vibe that we're never going to meet again and she's driving back to Orlando today.
I haven't replied back yet because I feel like we're doing the crab walk.
From what you said, she is attracted to you, she is interested.
Those dick coments were actually her complementing you in a sarcastic way.
She was flirting with you in a humorous way to her.
I bet you 1k, if you had a recording of the conversations, every woman on her would tell you the same. How something is said matters more then words, especially with woman.

oh yeah I got that part. But i'm focusing on how we discussed plans and I overslept by a few minutes. I get it, but she blew me off for 3 hours then all of a sudden wanted to see me at 1 AM knowing I had to work today. Right after staying out until 4 AM the day before.

her - 10:30 You must be sleep, I'm gonna explore the area. Have a goodnight
me - 1040 - I'm sorry I overslept by a few mins. I'm up now.
her - 11:15 - I am at the spot we were at yesterday.
me - 11:17 - well enjoy your night out.
her - 12:30 AM - Are you coming out?
1:10 AM Missed Call
1:30 AM I miss you. I want to see you before I leave
me - 8:00 AM I went to sleep after you said you were out. (The call woke me up but I'm not responding that late when she knows I have to work)

Thats playing games to me.
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No it isn't. Thats just how you interpret it.
Lmao this is woman 101 stuff.
She isn't being intentionally strategic or wishy-washy. Thats her litterally giving in and saying something to you about how she feels, which is wanting to see you.
Letting things slip so to speak. Booze will do that😂
P.S
If you last that long, she will be more forthecoming as she feels more comfortable with you or if you ask her to be, WITH encouragement.
Honestly you been on 1 maybe 1 1/2 "dates", were you expecting her to just automatically know and decide from just that?
Dude what do you expect in so little time...what's you goal here with her?
Whatever your intentions puts some effort to show you yourself are interested.

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This isn't cut & dry here.. she's clearly conflicted.
Don't you think it's a bit early in the process to be drunk calling someone? I look at actions, not words and if she wanted to see me that bad, then she would have adjusted after I reached out. Or at the very least asked was I still wanting to do something.
Then like I mentioned earlier, I get the doom & gloom subtle text basically saying "bye forever." I picked up on this and assured her we can meet again. She was more receptive after that.
I don't have a goal here.. she kind of just put herself in my orbit at the bar. While chatting she says she's focused on her PHD and isn't looking for a man.
That's fine.. but now you're drunk texting and calling me. That's why I said she's doing the crab walk.
Confusion.
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Dual personality. Don't be confused, just enjoy the journey. She has you intrigued, this might be exactly what you need.
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Good energy and interesting convos. Wanted to know my whole chart and all that.
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This is a mutable woman, you need to take the lead. She will initiate contact for a while, but eventually she will assume you're not that into her if your effort seems low. She said she doesn't want anything serious, but she's a fixed venus so thats a lie lol. She just doesn't want to waste her time. Plus cancer moon being guarded, hence the waiting til drunk to call as an excuse lol.
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😂😂😂 I did the Venus & mars tables through the years and oh my god, she'll be 41 this year. No wonder she didn't want to tell me.

Honestly, she could pass for early 30s.
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You seem really passive. Making plans with someone and “falling asleep” is weird game playing behaviors. She probably just wants to get laid but she’s begging you to have even an ounce of excitement about the idea of banging her and you just don’t.


That's not what happened. I was up until close to 5 AM and then I went to work at 9.

Did an 8 hour shift and then I went to sleep when I got home. I told her we could hang around the 1030 timeframe, but I woke up a little later than that. She was just visiting here and it was her idea to hang after I got some rest.
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Okay.. I promise I was out minding my own business. Couple friends asked if I was going to the bar Saturday.. I show up around midnight right. I decided to wear overalls and I think this caught cancer moon's attention.
Her chart:
Gemini Sun
Cancer moon
Leo Rising
Leo Venus
Gemini Mars
So anyway I'm standing up at the bar and she immediately walks up next to me to order a drink. She didn't say anything though. Aries co-worker who is drunk immediately says something to her. She then looks at me like "what's wrong with him?" We laugh and then the convo gets started.
Cancer moon says she drove up from Orlando for the comedy show solo. We chat for about 30 minutes and then Gemini co-worker says lets bounce to another bar and invites her to tag along. The shit turned into a date basically and we spent about 4 hours together.
Cancer moon is now tipsy so I walk her to her car. The bottom of her heel fell off at some point so I made a joke about her sounding like she was galloping. She repeatedly tells me "I'm a dick", but she enjoys my company. I never said anything rude, I think she was just sensitive to banter. We sat in the car an hour and it's now 4:00 AM so I tell her I'm headed home. She says she is headed to a musical Sunday but never asks what my plans are other than I should attend the comedy show she went to.
Cancer moon sends me video of the musical and that's it until about 10 PM Sunday. She sees my friends at the club and texts me "are you coming out". They were at a Carribean event and I guess she heard the music near her hotel. I show up and the party was wack. We leave and go to a karaoke spot. Cancer moon is tipsy again and can't read me.. Says I'm a dick again, but not a bad dick and she's having fun.
We drive back to her hotel parking lot where after an hour we're just doing foreplay and she says she doesn't want to invite me inside.. but feels bad (Looking for my reaction?) It's now 4 AM so I tell her I have to work at 9. She gets all sad and apologizes for keeping me out late.
Cancer moon texts me in the evening and asks how I'm doing.. says she wants to see me. I tell her we can watch a movie together in the evening, I'm not coming out since i'm tired. We agree on 1030 ish. I wake up at 10:40 and she texted me a few mins before that she's going out and says goodnight. I tell her I'm up and she ignores my text. About 3 hours later at 1 AM she drunk calls & texts me she misses me and wants to see me.
Maybe it's me but she purposely waited to call until she thought I was sleep. I reply in the morning and she gives off a gloomy vibe that we're never going to meet again and she's driving back to Orlando today.
I haven't replied back yet because I feel like we're doing the crab walk.
From what you said, she is attracted to you, she is interested.
Those dick coments were actually her complementing you in a sarcastic way.
She was flirting with you in a humorous way to her.
I bet you 1k, if you had a recording of the conversations, every woman on her would tell you the same. How something is said matters more then words, especially with woman.

oh yeah I got that part. But i'm focusing on how we discussed plans and I overslept by a few minutes. I get it, but she blew me off for 3 hours then all of a sudden wanted to see me at 1 AM knowing I had to work today. Right after staying out until 4 AM the day before.

her - 10:30 You must be sleep, I'm gonna explore the area. Have a goodnight
me - 1040 - I'm sorry I overslept by a few mins. I'm up now.
her - 11:15 - I am at the spot we were at yesterday.
me - 11:17 - well enjoy your night out.
her - 12:30 AM - Are you coming out?
1:10 AM Missed Call
1:30 AM I miss you. I want to see you before I leave
me - 8:00 AM I went to sleep after you said you were out. (The call woke me up but I'm not responding that late when she knows I have to work)

Thats playing games to me.
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No it isn't. Thats just how you interpret it.
Lmao this is woman 101 stuff.
She isn't being intentionally strategic or wishy-washy. Thats her litterally giving in and saying something to you about how she feels, which is wanting to see you.
Letting things slip so to speak. Booze will do that😂
P.S
If you last that long, she will be more forthecoming as she feels more comfortable with you or if you ask her to be, WITH encouragement.
Honestly you been on 1 maybe 1 1/2 "dates", were you expecting her to just automatically know and decide from just that?
Dude what do you expect in so little time...what's you goal here with her?
Whatever your intentions puts some effort to show you yourself are interested.

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This isn't cut & dry here.. she's clearly conflicted.
Don't you think it's a bit early in the process to be drunk calling someone? I look at actions, not words and if she wanted to see me that bad, then she would have adjusted after I reached out. Or at the very least asked was I still wanting to do something.
Then like I mentioned earlier, I get the doom & gloom subtle text basically saying "bye forever." I picked up on this and assured her we can meet again. She was more receptive after that.
I don't have a goal here.. she kind of just put herself in my orbit at the bar. While chatting she says she's focused on her PHD and isn't looking for a man.
That's fine.. but now you're drunk texting and calling me. That's why I said she's doing the crab walk.
Confusion.
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Dual personality. Don't be confused, just enjoy the journey. She has you intrigued, this might be exactly what you need.
click to expand
Good energy and interesting convos. Wanted to know my whole chart and all that.
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This is a mutable woman, you need to take the lead. She will initiate contact for a while, but eventually she will assume you're not that into her if your effort seems low. She said she doesn't want anything serious, but she's a fixed venus so thats a lie lol. She just doesn't want to waste her time. Plus cancer moon being guarded, hence the waiting til drunk to call as an excuse lol.




😂😂😂 I did the Venus & mars tables through the years and oh my god, she'll be 41 this year. No wonder she didn't want to tell me.

Honestly, she could pass for early 30s.
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You know black don't crack lol. I'm guessing you all are black. Could be wrong. Ask for ID next time. 😝 So you turning down this cougar love or nah?
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🤣 yes..

I don't know.. she's 11 years older. I might just have to be her distant lover 🤣🤣
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Okay.. I promise I was out minding my own business. Couple friends asked if I was going to the bar Saturday.. I show up around midnight right. I decided to wear overalls and I think this caught cancer moon's attention.
Her chart:
Gemini Sun
Cancer moon
Leo Rising
Leo Venus
Gemini Mars
So anyway I'm standing up at the bar and she immediately walks up next to me to order a drink. She didn't say anything though. Aries co-worker who is drunk immediately says something to her. She then looks at me like "what's wrong with him?" We laugh and then the convo gets started.
Cancer moon says she drove up from Orlando for the comedy show solo. We chat for about 30 minutes and then Gemini co-worker says lets bounce to another bar and invites her to tag along. The shit turned into a date basically and we spent about 4 hours together.
Cancer moon is now tipsy so I walk her to her car. The bottom of her heel fell off at some point so I made a joke about her sounding like she was galloping. She repeatedly tells me "I'm a dick", but she enjoys my company. I never said anything rude, I think she was just sensitive to banter. We sat in the car an hour and it's now 4:00 AM so I tell her I'm headed home. She says she is headed to a musical Sunday but never asks what my plans are other than I should attend the comedy show she went to.
Cancer moon sends me video of the musical and that's it until about 10 PM Sunday. She sees my friends at the club and texts me "are you coming out". They were at a Carribean event and I guess she heard the music near her hotel. I show up and the party was wack. We leave and go to a karaoke spot. Cancer moon is tipsy again and can't read me.. Says I'm a dick again, but not a bad dick and she's having fun.
We drive back to her hotel parking lot where after an hour we're just doing foreplay and she says she doesn't want to invite me inside.. but feels bad (Looking for my reaction?) It's now 4 AM so I tell her I have to work at 9. She gets all sad and apologizes for keeping me out late.
Cancer moon texts me in the evening and asks how I'm doing.. says she wants to see me. I tell her we can watch a movie together in the evening, I'm not coming out since i'm tired. We agree on 1030 ish. I wake up at 10:40 and she texted me a few mins before that she's going out and says goodnight. I tell her I'm up and she ignores my text. About 3 hours later at 1 AM she drunk calls & texts me she misses me and wants to see me.
Maybe it's me but she purposely waited to call until she thought I was sleep. I reply in the morning and she gives off a gloomy vibe that we're never going to meet again and she's driving back to Orlando today.
I haven't replied back yet because I feel like we're doing the crab walk.
From what you said, she is attracted to you, she is interested.
Those dick coments were actually her complementing you in a sarcastic way.
She was flirting with you in a humorous way to her.
I bet you 1k, if you had a recording of the conversations, every woman on her would tell you the same. How something is said matters more then words, especially with woman.




oh yeah I got that part. But i'm focusing on how we discussed plans and I overslept by a few minutes. I get it, but she blew me off for 3 hours then all of a sudden wanted to see me at 1 AM knowing I had to work today. Right after staying out until 4 AM the day before.

her - 10:30 You must be sleep, I'm gonna explore the area. Have a goodnight

me - 1040 - I'm sorry I overslept by a few mins. I'm up now.

her - 11:15 - I am at the spot we were at yesterday.

me - 11:17 - well enjoy your night out.

her - 12:30 AM - Are you coming out?

1:10 AM Missed Call

1:30 AM I miss you. I want to see you before I leave

me - 8:00 AM I went to sleep after you said you were out. (The call woke me up but I'm not responding that late when she knows I have to work)

Thats playing games to me.
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No it isn't. Thats just how you interpret it.

Lmao this is woman 101 stuff.

She isn't being intentionally strategic or wishy-washy. Thats her litterally giving in and saying something to you about how she feels, which is wanting to see you.

Letting things slip so to speak. Booze will do that😂

P.S

If you last that long, she will be more forthecoming as she feels more comfortable with you or if you ask her to be, WITH encouragement.

Honestly you been on 1 maybe 1 1/2 "dates", were you expecting her to just automatically know and decide from just that?

Dude what do you expect in so little time...what's you goal here with her?

Whatever your intentions puts some effort to show you yourself are interested.





This isn't cut & dry here.. she's clearly conflicted.

Don't you think it's a bit early in the process to be drunk calling someone? I look at actions, not words and if she wanted to see me that bad, then she would have adjusted after I reached out. Or at the very least asked was I still wanting to do something.

Then like I mentioned earlier, I get the doom & gloom subtle text basically saying "bye forever." I picked up on this and assured her we can meet again. She was more receptive after that.

I don't have a goal here.. she kind of just put herself in my orbit at the bar. While chatting she says she's focused on her PHD and isn't looking for a man.

That's fine.. but now you're drunk texting and calling me. That's why I said she's doing the crab walk.

Confusion.

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Hmm how to put this, if you know whats going on it's not confusing, it's indirect, which seems like you don’t like. Actions matter yes, emotions give you a clue and cues.

Lol it seems like a anxious dance of uncertainty on her end. Thats actually normal. Perhaps you would prefer older woman who are more assertive?

I know her placements you just got to go for it and initiate when you know she is actively holding back. Tease it out of her.
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Okay.. I promise I was out minding my own business. Couple friends asked if I was going to the bar Saturday.. I show up around midnight right. I decided to wear overalls and I think this caught cancer moon's attention.
Her chart:
Gemini Sun
Cancer moon
Leo Rising
Leo Venus
Gemini Mars
So anyway I'm standing up at the bar and she immediately walks up next to me to order a drink. She didn't say anything though. Aries co-worker who is drunk immediately says something to her. She then looks at me like "what's wrong with him?" We laugh and then the convo gets started.
Cancer moon says she drove up from Orlando for the comedy show solo. We chat for about 30 minutes and then Gemini co-worker says lets bounce to another bar and invites her to tag along. The shit turned into a date basically and we spent about 4 hours together.
Cancer moon is now tipsy so I walk her to her car. The bottom of her heel fell off at some point so I made a joke about her sounding like she was galloping. She repeatedly tells me "I'm a dick", but she enjoys my company. I never said anything rude, I think she was just sensitive to banter. We sat in the car an hour and it's now 4:00 AM so I tell her I'm headed home. She says she is headed to a musical Sunday but never asks what my plans are other than I should attend the comedy show she went to.
Cancer moon sends me video of the musical and that's it until about 10 PM Sunday. She sees my friends at the club and texts me "are you coming out". They were at a Carribean event and I guess she heard the music near her hotel. I show up and the party was wack. We leave and go to a karaoke spot. Cancer moon is tipsy again and can't read me.. Says I'm a dick again, but not a bad dick and she's having fun.
We drive back to her hotel parking lot where after an hour we're just doing foreplay and she says she doesn't want to invite me inside.. but feels bad (Looking for my reaction?) It's now 4 AM so I tell her I have to work at 9. She gets all sad and apologizes for keeping me out late.
Cancer moon texts me in the evening and asks how I'm doing.. says she wants to see me. I tell her we can watch a movie together in the evening, I'm not coming out since i'm tired. We agree on 1030 ish. I wake up at 10:40 and she texted me a few mins before that she's going out and says goodnight. I tell her I'm up and she ignores my text. About 3 hours later at 1 AM she drunk calls & texts me she misses me and wants to see me.
Maybe it's me but she purposely waited to call until she thought I was sleep. I reply in the morning and she gives off a gloomy vibe that we're never going to meet again and she's driving back to Orlando today.
I haven't replied back yet because I feel like we're doing the crab walk.
From what you said, she is attracted to you, she is interested.
Those dick coments were actually her complementing you in a sarcastic way.
She was flirting with you in a humorous way to her.
I bet you 1k, if you had a recording of the conversations, every woman on her would tell you the same. How something is said matters more then words, especially with woman.




oh yeah I got that part. But i'm focusing on how we discussed plans and I overslept by a few minutes. I get it, but she blew me off for 3 hours then all of a sudden wanted to see me at 1 AM knowing I had to work today. Right after staying out until 4 AM the day before.

her - 10:30 You must be sleep, I'm gonna explore the area. Have a goodnight

me - 1040 - I'm sorry I overslept by a few mins. I'm up now.

her - 11:15 - I am at the spot we were at yesterday.

me - 11:17 - well enjoy your night out.

her - 12:30 AM - Are you coming out?

1:10 AM Missed Call

1:30 AM I miss you. I want to see you before I leave

me - 8:00 AM I went to sleep after you said you were out. (The call woke me up but I'm not responding that late when she knows I have to work)

Thats playing games to me.
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No it isn't. Thats just how you interpret it.

Lmao this is woman 101 stuff.

She isn't being intentionally strategic or wishy-washy. Thats her litterally giving in and saying something to you about how she feels, which is wanting to see you.

Letting things slip so to speak. Booze will do that😂

P.S

If you last that long, she will be more forthecoming as she feels more comfortable with you or if you ask her to be, WITH encouragement.

Honestly you been on 1 maybe 1 1/2 "dates", were you expecting her to just automatically know and decide from just that?

Dude what do you expect in so little time...what's you goal here with her?

Whatever your intentions puts some effort to show you yourself are interested.





This isn't cut & dry here.. she's clearly conflicted.



Don't you think it's a bit early in the process to be drunk calling someone? I look at actions, not words and if she wanted to see me that bad, then she would have adjusted after I reached out. Or at the very least asked was I still wanting to do something.



Then like I mentioned earlier, I get the doom & gloom subtle text basically saying "bye forever." I picked up on this and assured her we can meet again. She was more receptive after that.



I don't have a goal here.. she kind of just put herself in my orbit at the bar. While chatting she says she's focused on her PHD and isn't looking for a man.



That's fine.. but now you're drunk texting and calling me. That's why I said she's doing the crab walk.



Confusion.






Hmm how to put this, if you know whats going on it's not confusing, it's indirect, which seems like you don’t like. Actions matter yes, emotions give you a clue and cues.
Lol it seems like a anxious dance of uncertainty on her end. Thats actually normal. Perhaps you would prefer older woman who are more assertive?
I know her placements you just got to go for it and initiate when you know she is actively holding back. Tease it out of her.
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She's 11 years older.. this whole post is OBE (Overcome By Events) now lol..

I need to re-evaluate what she's trying to do here and have a light-hearted chat.
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You seem really passive. Making plans with someone and “falling asleep” is weird game playing behaviors. She probably just wants to get laid but she’s begging you to have even an ounce of excitement about the idea of banging her and you just don’t.




That's not what happened. I was up until close to 5 AM and then I went to work at 9.

Did an 8 hour shift and then I went to sleep when I got home. I told her we could hang around the 1030 timeframe, but I woke up a little later than that. She was just visiting here and it was her idea to hang after I got some rest.
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If she knew you were resting and it was her idea can you explain this comment?

“Maybe it's me but she purposely waited to call until she thought I was sleep.”

It probably seems like a coincidence to her that you woke up 10 minutes after you had talked about hanging out.

You didn’t set an alarm to like freshen up before she got there? Brush your teeth and wash your balls just in case? What was your plan?


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While I was at lunch at work, I asked what her plans were for the day. She said "seeing you." That's when I suggested the time and activity. I was obviously going to wash my ass lol.. I would've had about 20 minutes from her leaving the hotel.

I responded within a reasonable time-frame and like I said, it just didn't seem like a priority to her. Zero suggestions made. Even if she did not want to come over, there was no mention of seeing me until I basically walked away from the situation and bid her goodnight, as she was headed out.

But it's not that big of a deal, she apparently is an aspiring psychiatrist and would over-analyze everything. This may have been the Leo Venus or Cancer Moon speaking, but she did not do well with banter.

Like for instance, she had glasses but did not necessarily use them all night. We were at Waffle House (it was about 3AM) and she's squinting to see the menu. I joke, "go ahead and pull out your bifocals, I see you struggling."

She giggled a little, and then an hour or so late she says that hurt her feelings and it felt like an attack. — I reassure her it's just teasing, nobody is out to get you.

That's how the dynamic went often. She didn't want to banter at all and did not dance at the Carribean event. My Gem friend asked her why she isn't dancing, and she was offended once again. I defended her by saying the DJ was wack and throwing off the vibe. (The DJ was just mixing the music too often honestly.) However, she once again brings up while we're alone that she didn't like him questioning her.

There was nothing inappropriate about him asking, it was just a genuine question. So I feel like we're dealing with ego issues here. But outside of that, I enjoyed her company. She did confess upon first meeting that she's a bit of a tight-ass. In hindsight, that's pretty clear. I should also mention she got into an argument with a bartender over wine.

There was a lot going on.
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"She giggled a little, and then an hour or so late she says that hurt her feelings and it felt like an attack. — I reassure her it's just teasing, nobody is out to get you."

Oh HELL no! This is just the tip of the iceberg. Get out now while you can. Maybe smash first. Then go!


Upon more research it seems her moon is in her 12th house, making her a bit fragile with communication?

childishness, over-sensitivity, emotional eating, clinginess, and moodiness?
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Her chart looks pretty tragic imo. No earth. Not sure where her Merc is, that might be good to know. But that Gem Mars? ugh! Good luck with that. And the way she is acting for her age is very, very immature. She lacks confidence and clarity about herself. Very defensive and quick to image bad intent in someone else. I'm stressed out just reading about her! Here's how I see this unfolding - you are going to be with an unpredictable and emotionally clingy partner if you keep going. I don't see this ending well.
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Posted by meowbellee
crab walk LMAO

anyways look like ur not really communicating with her. do u also tell her that u miss her?

from what u texted to her, it didn't seem like u were making any effort to see or meet her, like falling asleep on ur date

its over for u jk


Yes I told her. I also did not ignore her, I had like 3 hours sleep that night after staying up on top of going to work. She understood, but then claimed I stood her up and explained how she wanted to see me. A bunch of hot air.. if you go back and read at the beginning, she waited several hours to reply to me.

She was acting crabby again last night after saying she needed to speak with me. Turns out the big surprise is that she has a daughter thats 11.

Not really a huge deal considering she wasn't looking for something serious in the first place. Her logic was that I was going to cut her off because she's a single mom. I asked her why she felt like that and it's because of all the red-pill content she's seen.

I told her to stop watching that garbage. Men who barely get dates or pay for kewchie have the most to say on platforms.