@Elissar18
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Having someone question our moods or feelings and insist we are not in a good mood will make us moody, because who the fuvk are u to dictate? We don’t like being criticized or told what our feelings are. It’s patronizing. We get annoyed when ppl think they know us more than we know ourselves
I know. It's like adding fuel to an already burning fire. I hate people doing that to me too.
Ya my cap does it to me. I could be zoned out looking at a wall and he’s telling me I’m grumpy. Which makes me grumpy
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Yeah the Cancer does it to me when I'm not talking enough because I'm half asleep. I think boys just do that. I was dating an aqua before this one and he did the same thing. It's annoying af. And you can't even answer no I'm not, because they keep at it til you do get mad because they wont shut up.
Dip them in butter then eat them
Or you know , just leave them be and they will come out of their shell eventually
Honestly, I get moody when I'm hungry or tired. It's just basic necessities, and it just happens. So maybe eat with him and take a nap? Sounds like caring for a child but at least for me 9/10 it's when I'm most "crabby"
They can be triggered by anything tbh. I just usually gave him space and eventually he'd come around...or I'd crack a couple jokes or just get pissed off lol.
Just depends on what kind of bad mood he is in...like how deep he is in one I guess I should say. Lol
Today I Said he sounds like he's in a good mood then he said he's always in a good mood. I avoided calling bullshit and setting off that landmine but it's like he's on his period sometimes. Space makes him get all sulky and annoying because he thinks I'm avoiding him so that doesn't work on my needy man bitch. I think he's abnormal
Ha...mine would say the same thing. I'm always in a good mood...🙄🙄. I know he liked space majority of the time but I'm sure there were times where he wished I didn't...but I just couldn't handle the sulking. It gets old after a while...like I get it...I have my moods too but nothing like a cancer man lol.
Nope, not abnormal... he's just a cancer man lol.
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My says he’s always chill (lies) , never gets angry (lies), never emotional (lies ) lol
They can be triggered by anything tbh. I just usually gave him space and eventually he'd come around...or I'd crack a couple jokes or just get pissed off lol.
Just depends on what kind of bad mood he is in...like how deep he is in one I guess I should say. Lol
Today I Said he sounds like he's in a good mood then he said he's always in a good mood. I avoided calling bullshit and setting off that landmine but it's like he's on his period sometimes. Space makes him get all sulky and annoying because he thinks I'm avoiding him so that doesn't work on my needy man bitch. I think he's abnormal
Ha...mine would say the same thing. I'm always in a good mood...🙄🙄. I know he liked space majority of the time but I'm sure there were times where he wished I didn't...but I just couldn't handle the sulking. It gets old after a while...like I get it...I have my moods too but nothing like a cancer man lol.
Nope, not abnormal... he's just a cancer man lol.
How do you put up with it? Patience isn't a virtue I have. I get so close to dumping his ass sometimes and then I just tell myself he's on his period and bleeding from his vagina and it will pass then he'll be good again. I don't know how a guy can be the awesomest and the worst at the same time. At least it's never boring though.
I couldn't ...after 7 yrs of arguments not just about his moody ass but about everything . I just had enough. I still love him though ..always will but he had a lot of growing up to do. But I'm not innocent either...I provoked him and was kind of a harsh bitch. I had a lot of emotional shit going on during that time...not an excuse but it's the truth.
We had distance between us that helped...so it not like we could just run across the street and see each other...that was nice tbh. But yeah, it was def not boring...never knew what Id get when we'd see each other lol.
I remember one time...idk exactly what happened but he literally stormed off like a child and slept on my couch. I tried to get him to come to bed but he wouldn't budge and even had a pouty lip...it was ridiculous. I rolled my eyes and told him to grow up and went to bed 😂. He was still pouting in the morning but grabbed me, hugged me and pulled me on the couch. Smh lol
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Omg I feel like I’m heading this route n I saw you’re a Virgo too . Im around n I’m tired of him avoiding talking , ignoring n not acknowledging the problem just for it to happen again get mad n ignore it again ..is it the itch ? I don’t know how much longer I can last .
We had a fight n he left n sat on the couch , I had to go get him n sweet talk him to just come back in the same room . Mine is long distance too. Oh gosh it’s like to type my story
My crab is awesome most of the time. He's funny, sweet and charming and he makes me smile. But when he's got his crabby pants on, he's annoying as fuck and frustrates the shit out of me.
So... is there anyway to fix or prevent the shitty moods?
How's this, you let him fucking be in a bad mood when he feels like it if he's "awesome most of the time" ? I don't see the problem.
You can't fixe their moods
Their are controled by the moon
It's even hard for them to control it
Am in relationship with a cancer man since 9 years .. i just learned to live with it.
If you love him or like him enough just copy with it .. check the moon phases it will help u .
Understand his mood swings
They never want to go out or socialize with people when it's half or full moon.
They need to be alone and not speak to anyone.
They can get angry so fast for a small things during this time.so don't fight back
Just give them space or try to create a calm
environment.
By keep on
Telling him how much you love him
And that u understand his mood swings.
By the way It's full moon
Don't take it personal.
If he stop talking or he gave u the slient treatment.the moon has a strong effect to their moods .. they even hates it when it happens.
I'm wondering because my crab bf has been silent for several days. 😢 I know he's been reading my messages though.
How long you've been together?
Just a little over 2 months. As far as I know nothing's wrong. He's told me we're good together, etc. (I posted about it in a thread here). I think he's just processing his emotions. He also has a virgo moon and Taurus Venus. Which might mean slow romantically.
R u sure he has venus in taurus—?
Just a little over 2 months. As far as I know nothing's wrong. He's told me we're good together, etc. (I posted about it in a thread here). I think he's just processing his emotions. He also has a virgo moon and Taurus Venus. Which might mean slow romantically.
R u sure he has venus in taurus—?
Yes
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Venus travels from 0 to 1 degree, 16 minutes a day, depending on its motion, and stays in a sign approximately 23 days
So Venus is never more than two signs away from the Sun, and often is found in the same or neighboring house as the Sun by transit
Ignore ignore ignore
You can't fixe their moods
Their are controled by the moon
It's even hard for them to control it
Am in relationship with a cancer man since 9 years .. i just learned to live with it.
If you love him or like him enough just copy with it .. check the moon phases it will help u .
Understand his mood swings
They never want to go out or socialize with people when it's half or full moon.
They need to be alone and not speak to anyone.
They can get angry so fast for a small things during this time.so don't fight back
Just give them space or try to create a calm
environment.
By keep on
Telling him how much you love him
And that u understand his mood swings.
By the way It's full moon
Don't take it personal.
If he stop talking or he gave u the slient treatment.the moon has a strong effect to their moods .. they even hates it when it happens.
9 years is a long time. My one hasn't done silent treatment. I have cancer mars so I'm the one that wants to avoid conflict and he is aries mars so he wants to run at me like a ram and butt heads with me then my crab claws come out.
I am patient and I can handle moods but sometimes hes mean. I think I'll probably end up with a complex because he always says things about my voice when he gets in a bad mood. He says I sound like a cabbage patch kid or a baby or he says something about my accent. Does your one complain or pick on you about something specific when he's mad?
You can't fixe their moods
Their are controled by the moon
It's even hard for them to control it
Am in relationship with a cancer man since 9 years .. i just learned to live with it.
If you love him or like him enough just copy with it .. check the moon phases it will help u .
Understand his mood swings
They never want to go out or socialize with people when it's half or full moon.
They need to be alone and not speak to anyone.
They can get angry so fast for a small things during this time.so don't fight back
Just give them space or try to create a calm
environment.
By keep on
Telling him how much you love him
And that u understand his mood swings.
By the way It's full moon
Don't take it personal.
If he stop talking or he gave u the slient treatment.the moon has a strong effect to their moods .. they even hates it when it happens.
9 years is a long time. My one hasn't done silent treatment. I have cancer mars so I'm the one that wants to avoid conflict and he is aries mars so he wants to run at me like a ram and butt heads with me then my crab claws come out.
I am patient and I can handle moods but sometimes hes mean. I think I'll probably end up with a complex because he always says things about my voice when he gets in a bad mood. He says I sound like a cabbage patch kid or a baby or he says something about my accent. Does your one complain or pick on you about something specific when he's mad?
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Yes he does complain when he's in a bad mood and critisize me alot.
I learn to ignore it i know deep down he doesn't mean it he has a lot of positive things that i love about him so when this happen i just laugh or i try to make him laugh.
Not everyone
Will react the same way
Most people hates when someone complain and picks on them.
You might think he wanna puts you down.
But trust me it's not their intentions.
They hate themselves when this happen and feel bad about it.
cancer is ruled by the moon that make them act this way during certain times.
Try to focus on their good sides.
We all have our weekness.
Im not perfect either i have my bad habits too and he's understanding too.
Im capricorn with pisces moon.
And he's cancer with aries moon.
His mars sign in libra and mine in scorpio.
Just a little over 2 months. As far as I know nothing's wrong. He's told me we're good together, etc. (I posted about it in a thread here). I think he's just processing his emotions. He also has a virgo moon and Taurus Venus. Which might mean slow romantically.
R u sure he has venus in taurus—?
Yes
Venus travels from 0 to 1 degree, 16 minutes a day, depending on its motion, and stays in a sign approximately 23 days
So Venus is never more than two signs away from the Sun, and often is found in the same or neighboring house as the Sun by transit
Lol ok, let me check his chart again then.
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Maybe he's born in 22ed of june?
People who can deal with Cancers shitty ass mood swings/childish antics deserve a nobel peace prize.
Edit. Cancer men! Cancer women i love!
Lol agreed. They're hard work. I think they get easier as you get to know them though. He still drives me nuts sometimes but the moods last less time and he gets over whatever the reason faster now.
Only way is to leave them alone till they come around lol
You can't leave them alone. Then they get insecure and think you're not talking to them lol. Them boys are complicated
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Capricorn. I don't know much about that one