Posted by PossessionStYou think it'll change with time?
Well you are 18
Posted by Fun4Life
Yes it will change with time. If you start living on your own, you will have to learn to budget.
Posted by PossessionStI'm not broke, I just have a spending knack and like to spend my money on expensive things! I have a job with a great pay, I just like to have nice things for myself and my family so I spend like a great deal of money on things that don't actually have to be bought. I have a go get it type of attitude like if you say you want it I will go out of my way to buy it no matter the price! But not broke exactly I was referencing spending all of my money unwisely on unnecessary things!Posted by CrabNextDoorBeing broke surePosted by PossessionStYou think it'll change with time?
Well you are 18click to expand
Posted by nikkistarI work in a building with 4 adults; a home health care service and I am a clerk, work the same shift and get paid the same as them, if they can do it with kids (one has 1 (4) year old and the other has 2 (16) and (18) I think great pay is an understatement!
Great pay at 18 is subjective.
You don't have to pay rent, car insurance, gas, groceries, health insurance, utilities, car repairs, cell phone, internet, etc... yet.
Posted by LadyNeptuneIts A Sagittarius Moon
Whats your moon? 2nd house?
Posted by CrabNextDoorThat's why you have a spending problem.Posted by LadyNeptuneIts A Sagittarius Moon
Whats your moon? 2nd house?click to expand
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI really feel like that is true — my dad is a Leo and likes to spend, but I think i do more spending because of my online shopping addiction SMH. But I buy more for others than myself, so maybe when it's just me I'll be more saving wisePosted by CrabNextDoorlol i was listening to horoscope for july, lady said we could outspend LEOS
I have such a rich life style I'm trying to accomplish. I know we are supposed to be money wise, but give me a pretty penny and I'll spend it and not on anything thrifty! I only want the best stuff; no knock off, cheap shit. Any other non cheap cancers?
and to watch our selves
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeHaven't yet accomplished this part
im way overspending right now...i just dont give a fuk...drinking LATTES everyday
but honestly its cause for last 4 months i been diligently paying off debt and i gave my cousin in Sudan money
im tired of not treating myself
tonight im going to go watch Michael Che
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee??Posted by Teenawelll his moon might be taurus
My dad is a ♋ n he thinks Expensive=Bestclick to expand
Posted by CrabNextDoorAt your age, yes, probably.Posted by nikkistarI work in a building with 4 adults; a home health care service and I am a clerk, work the same shift and get paid the same as them, if they can do it with kids (one has 1 (4) year old and the other has 2 (16) and (18) I think great pay is an understatement!
Great pay at 18 is subjective.
You don't have to pay rent, car insurance, gas, groceries, health insurance, utilities, car repairs, cell phone, internet, etc... yet.click to expand
Posted by nikkistarWhat does that even mean I am literally stating if someone with a whole fucking life and bills and mortgage and kids with an active school life can do it so can I why is that hard to understand?Posted by CrabNextDoorAt your age, yes, probably.Posted by nikkistarI work in a building with 4 adults; a home health care service and I am a clerk, work the same shift and get paid the same as them, if they can do it with kids (one has 1 (4) year old and the other has 2 (16) and (18) I think great pay is an understatement!
Great pay at 18 is subjective.
You don't have to pay rent, car insurance, gas, groceries, health insurance, utilities, car repairs, cell phone, internet, etc... yet.
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Posted by CrabNextDoor1) A clerk should not know what other co-workers are making. For anyone to talk about wages openly, is a HR nightmare. So I doubt you ACTUALLY know their pay unless you are directly involved in doing actual payroll, and again you are a clerk, so doubt that.Posted by nikkistarWhat does that even mean I am literally stating if someone with a whole fucking life and bills and mortgage and kids with an active school life can do it so can I why is that hard to understand?Posted by CrabNextDoorAt your age, yes, probably.Posted by nikkistarI work in a building with 4 adults; a home health care service and I am a clerk, work the same shift and get paid the same as them, if they can do it with kids (one has 1 (4) year old and the other has 2 (16) and (18) I think great pay is an understatement!
Great pay at 18 is subjective.
You don't have to pay rent, car insurance, gas, groceries, health insurance, utilities, car repairs, cell phone, internet, etc... yet.
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Posted by nikkistarYep you are so right thanks for that! Have a great day!Posted by CrabNextDoor1) A clerk should not know what other co-workers are making. For anyone to talk about wages openly, is a HR nightmare. So I doubt you ACTUALLY know their pay unless you are directly involved in doing actual payroll, and again you are a clerk, so doubt that.Posted by nikkistarWhat does that even mean I am literally stating if someone with a whole fucking life and bills and mortgage and kids with an active school life can do it so can I why is that hard to understand?Posted by CrabNextDoorAt your age, yes, probably.Posted by nikkistarI work in a building with 4 adults; a home health care service and I am a clerk, work the same shift and get paid the same as them, if they can do it with kids (one has 1 (4) year old and the other has 2 (16) and (18) I think great pay is an understatement!
Great pay at 18 is subjective.
You don't have to pay rent, car insurance, gas, groceries, health insurance, utilities, car repairs, cell phone, internet, etc... yet.
2) Clerks are entry level positions that make more than minimum wage, but less then "stellar" pay. But at age 18, it would be seen as extremely good pay.
3) You have no idea what other aspects monetarily wise, your co-workers are obtaining. Are they receiving aid, child support, etc?? Are they single or double income households? Are they getting subsidized housing? Receiving state health care? You don't know.
4) Home service workers typically work long hours, and aren't really paid stellar amounts of money.
You're 18, and don't truly understand anything. And the fact that you are getting defensive over this, shows it.click to expand
Posted by nikkistarNevermind that those people likely have a second income to help out as well.Posted by CrabNextDoorAt your age, yes, probably.Posted by nikkistarI work in a building with 4 adults; a home health care service and I am a clerk, work the same shift and get paid the same as them, if they can do it with kids (one has 1 (4) year old and the other has 2 (16) and (18) I think great pay is an understatement!
Great pay at 18 is subjective.
You don't have to pay rent, car insurance, gas, groceries, health insurance, utilities, car repairs, cell phone, internet, etc... yet.
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Posted by rockyroadicecreamBoth single parent but I'm not trying to argue I really appreciate y'all opinion!Posted by nikkistarNevermind that those people likely have a second income to help out as well.Posted by CrabNextDoorAt your age, yes, probably.Posted by nikkistarI work in a building with 4 adults; a home health care service and I am a clerk, ywork the same shift and get paid the same as them, if they can do it with kids (one has 1 (4) year old and the other has 2 (16) and (18) I think great pay is an understatement!
Great pay at 18 is subjective.
You don't have to pay rent, car insurance, gas, groceries, health insurance, utilities, car repairs, cell phone, internet, etc... yet.
This bitch is either a troll or she's just suffering from head up the ass-itis.click to expand
Posted by CrabNextDoorWhat's 'great pay'?Posted by PossessionStI'm not broke, I just have a spending knack and like to spend my money on expensive things! I have a job with a great pay, I just like to have nice things for myself and my family so I spend like a great deal of money on things that don't actually have to be bought. I have a go get it type of attitude like if you say you want it I will go out of my way to buy it no matter the price! But not broke exactly I was referencing spending all of my money unwisely on unnecessary things!Posted by CrabNextDoorBeing broke surePosted by PossessionStYou think it'll change with time?
Well you are 18click to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamFirst time agreeing with you.Posted by nikkistarNevermind that those people likely have a second income to help out as well.Posted by CrabNextDoorAt your age, yes, probably.Posted by nikkistarI work in a building with 4 adults; a home health care service and I am a clerk, work the same shift and get paid the same as them, if they can do it with kids (one has 1 (4) year old and the other has 2 (16) and (18) I think great pay is an understatement!
Great pay at 18 is subjective.
You don't have to pay rent, car insurance, gas, groceries, health insurance, utilities, car repairs, cell phone, internet, etc... yet.
This bitch is either a troll or she's just suffering from head up the ass-itis.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunebut 2nd house is a good house to have any personal planets and even jupiter and pluto.Posted by CrabNextDoorThat's why you have a spending problem.Posted by LadyNeptuneIts A Sagittarius Moon
Whats your moon? 2nd house?click to expand
Posted by nikkistarPosted by CrabNextDoor1) A clerk should not know what other co-workers are making. For anyone to talk about wages openly, is a HR nightmare. So I doubt you ACTUALLY know their pay unless you are directly involved in doing actual payroll, and again you are a clerk, so doubt that.Posted by nikkistarWhat does that even mean I am literally stating if someone with a whole fucking life and bills and mortgage and kids with an active school life can do it so can I why is that hard to understand?Posted by CrabNextDoorAt your age, yes, probably.Posted by nikkistarI work in a building with 4 adults; a home health care service and I am a clerk, work the same shift and get paid the same as them, if they can do it with kids (one has 1 (4) year old and the other has 2 (16) and (18) I think great pay is an understatement!
Great pay at 18 is subjective.
You don't have to pay rent, car insurance, gas, groceries, health insurance, utilities, car repairs, cell phone, internet, etc... yet.
2) Clerks are entry level positions that make more than minimum wage, but less then "stellar" pay. But at age 18, it would be seen as extremely good pay.
3) You have no idea what other aspects monetarily wise, your co-workers are obtaining. Are they receiving aid, child support, etc?? Are they single or double income households? Are they getting subsidized housing? Receiving state health care? You don't know.
4) Home service workers typically work long hours, and aren't really paid stellar amounts of money.
You're 18, and don't truly understand anything. And the fact that you are getting defensive over this, shows it.click to expand
Posted by nikkistarfor her living with parents, it's awesome.
I bet you make 12-14 bucks an hour. LMAO
Posted by CrabNextDoorIt depends on your circumstance. Never talk about money ...i mean in RL...Posted by Fun4Life
Yes it will change with time. If you start living on your own, you will have to learn to budget.
Y'all really think so?
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Posted by nikkistarPosted by CrabNextDoor1) A clerk should not know what other co-workers are making. For anyone to talk about wages openly, is a HR nightmare. So I doubt you ACTUALLY know their pay unless you are directly involved in doing actual payroll, and again you are a clerk, so doubt that.Posted by nikkistarWhat does that even mean I am literally stating if someone with a whole fucking life and bills and mortgage and kids with an active school life can do it so can I why is that hard to understand?Posted by CrabNextDoorAt your age, yes, probably.Posted by nikkistarI work in a building with 4 adults; a home health care service and I am a clerk, work the same shift and get paid the same as them, if they can do it with kids (one has 1 (4) year old and the other has 2 (16) and (18) I think great pay is an understatement!
Great pay at 18 is subjective.
You don't have to pay rent, car insurance, gas, groceries, health insurance, utilities, car repairs, cell phone, internet, etc... yet.
2) Clerks are entry level positions that make more than minimum wage, but less then "stellar" pay. But at age 18, it would be seen as extremely good pay.
3) You have no idea what other aspects monetarily wise, your co-workers are obtaining. Are they receiving aid, child support, etc?? Are they single or double income households? Are they getting subsidized housing? Receiving state health care? You don't know.
4) Home service workers typically work long hours, and aren't really paid stellar amounts of money.
You're 18, and don't truly understand anything. And the fact that you are getting defensive over this, shows it.click to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamI am working 3 jobs to buy you a potatoPosted by nikkistarNevermind that those people likely have a second income to help out as well.Posted by CrabNextDoorAt your age, yes, probably.Posted by nikkistarI work in a building with 4 adults; a home health care service and I am a clerk, work the same shift and get paid the same as them, if they can do it with kids (one has 1 (4) year old and the other has 2 (16) and (18) I think great pay is an understatement!
Great pay at 18 is subjective.
You don't have to pay rent, car insurance, gas, groceries, health insurance, utilities, car repairs, cell phone, internet, etc... yet.
This bitch is either a troll or she's just suffering from head up the ass-itis.click to expand
Posted by LittleFairyPosted by CrabNextDoorIt depends on your circumstance. Never talk about money ...i mean in RL...Posted by Fun4Life
Yes it will change with time. If you start living on your own, you will have to learn to budget.
Y'all really think so?
No one is in your circumstances but you. You might be able to spend...it depends on where you have already savings and health insurance ..good job ..if your parents invested for you.
Others will need to save for those.
I know kids who chose not use the money their parents put away for college ..for college..Because it didn't cover their entire education and they use the excuse ..i didn't want to be in debt. But they spend it ..within like 6 yrs ..and have nothing for it ...yet don't use it for college fearing getting into partial debt...I think THAT is crazy.click to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamThe vast majority of young people flash with cash ...or unstressed by it do. The only self made woman with wealth gave me some good advice. NEVER compare yourself financially to others.Posted by nikkistarNevermind that those people likely have a second income to help out as well.Posted by CrabNextDoorAt your age, yes, probably.Posted by nikkistarI work in a building with 4 adults; a home health care service and I am a clerk, work the same shift and get paid the same as them, if they can do it with kids (one has 1 (4) year old and the other has 2 (16) and (18) I think great pay is an understatement!
Great pay at 18 is subjective.
You don't have to pay rent, car insurance, gas, groceries, health insurance, utilities, car repairs, cell phone, internet, etc... yet.
This bitch is either a troll or she's just suffering from head up the ass-itis.click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8I don't think it should be a choice ..if someone gave you money for a specific thing and you didn't use it for that you should not pend it on junk...use it wisely. But that is what happens for a lot of young people so don't compare your life style to theirs.Posted by LittleFairyPosted by CrabNextDoorIt depends on your circumstance. Never talk about money ...i mean in RL...Posted by Fun4Life
Yes it will change with time. If you start living on your own, you will have to learn to budget.
Y'all really think so?
No one is in your circumstances but you. You might be able to spend...it depends on where you have already savings and health insurance ..good job ..if your parents invested for you.
Others will need to save for those.
I know kids who chose not use the money their parents put away for college ..for college..Because it didn't cover their entire education and they use the excuse ..i didn't want to be in debt. But they spend it ..within like 6 yrs ..and have nothing for it ...yet don't use it for college fearing getting into partial debt...I think THAT is crazy.
it's really expensive to have children. you put away for their college education ect.
and health /life insurance, ect.
but it's a choice for children when they get to college age if they want to use it for college, that's what it's there for.
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why is this titled, "expensive but broke' lol 😆
OP isn't broke. but the expensive title fits.
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Posted by lisabethur8Sag's are notorious for being impulsive spenders. 2nd house is your house of money.Posted by LadyNeptunebut 2nd house is a good house to have any personal planets and even jupiter and pluto.Posted by CrabNextDoorThat's why you have a spending problem.Posted by LadyNeptuneIts A Sagittarius Moon
Whats your moon? 2nd house?
Oprah Winfrey has Sagittarius Rising and moon and shes a billionaire.
her planets are in the 2nd house.
Same thing with Jennifer Aniston. (i dont know any other sagittarius moons with different suns, i'm gonna have to research)
she's never in debt. You dont hear them being in debt, like say, someone like Tori Spelling who is in serious debt or Johnny Depp or even a Taurus mooner, like Lindsay lohan.
i dont know why they are in deep debt, but maybe it has to do with spending habits and their upbringing. Tori Spelling is a Scorpio moon and she was raised very very wealthy, and she admitted online on youtube she dont want to live under her means cause she is so used to the wealthy life. Which is hard for her to live frugal that's why she's in debt.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by lisabethur8Sag's are notorious for being impulsive spenders. 2nd house is your house of money.Posted by LadyNeptunebut 2nd house is a good house to have any personal planets and even jupiter and pluto.Posted by CrabNextDoorThat's why you have a spending problem.Posted by LadyNeptuneIts A Sagittarius Moon
Whats your moon? 2nd house?
Oprah Winfrey has Sagittarius Rising and moon and shes a billionaire.
her planets are in the 2nd house.
Same thing with Jennifer Aniston. (i dont know any other sagittarius moons with different suns, i'm gonna have to research)
she's never in debt. You dont hear them being in debt, like say, someone like Tori Spelling who is in serious debt or Johnny Depp or even a Taurus mooner, like Lindsay lohan.
i dont know why they are in deep debt, but maybe it has to do with spending habits and their upbringing. Tori Spelling is a Scorpio moon and she was raised very very wealthy, and she admitted online on youtube she dont want to live under her means cause she is so used to the wealthy life. Which is hard for her to live frugal that's why she's in debt.
You can't use celebrities as counter examples. They aren't real people. Oprah has more money than god and couldn't spend it all if she tried.click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8It's because she's super rich that her placements don't mean jack. She's one of the wealthiest people and has a team of professionals to handle her money for her.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by lisabethur8Sag's are notorious for being impulsive spenders. 2nd house is your house of money.Posted by LadyNeptunebut 2nd house is a good house to have any personal planets and even jupiter and pluto.Posted by CrabNextDoorThat's why you have a spending problem.Posted by LadyNeptuneIts A Sagittarius Moon
Whats your moon? 2nd house?
Oprah Winfrey has Sagittarius Rising and moon and shes a billionaire.
her planets are in the 2nd house.
Same thing with Jennifer Aniston. (i dont know any other sagittarius moons with different suns, i'm gonna have to research)
she's never in debt. You dont hear them being in debt, like say, someone like Tori Spelling who is in serious debt or Johnny Depp or even a Taurus mooner, like Lindsay lohan.
i dont know why they are in deep debt, but maybe it has to do with spending habits and their upbringing. Tori Spelling is a Scorpio moon and she was raised very very wealthy, and she admitted online on youtube she dont want to live under her means cause she is so used to the wealthy life. Which is hard for her to live frugal that's why she's in debt.
You can't use celebrities as counter examples. They aren't real people. Oprah has more money than god and couldn't spend it all if she tried.
yes you can because it helps us see what happens to their lives and what they did with it having those placements.
they're not imaginary.
just because she's super rich, doesn't make her any less alive.
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Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by lisabethur8It's because she's super rich that her placements don't mean jack. She's one of the wealthiest people and has a team of professionals to handle her money for her.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by lisabethur8Sag's are notorious for being impulsive spenders. 2nd house is your house of money.Posted by LadyNeptunebut 2nd house is a good house to have any personal planets and even jupiter and pluto.Posted by CrabNextDoorThat's why you have a spending problem.Posted by LadyNeptuneIts A Sagittarius Moon
Whats your moon? 2nd house?
Oprah Winfrey has Sagittarius Rising and moon and shes a billionaire.
her planets are in the 2nd house.
Same thing with Jennifer Aniston. (i dont know any other sagittarius moons with different suns, i'm gonna have to research)
she's never in debt. You dont hear them being in debt, like say, someone like Tori Spelling who is in serious debt or Johnny Depp or even a Taurus mooner, like Lindsay lohan.
i dont know why they are in deep debt, but maybe it has to do with spending habits and their upbringing. Tori Spelling is a Scorpio moon and she was raised very very wealthy, and she admitted online on youtube she dont want to live under her means cause she is so used to the wealthy life. Which is hard for her to live frugal that's why she's in debt.
You can't use celebrities as counter examples. They aren't real people. Oprah has more money than god and couldn't spend it all if she tried.
yes you can because it helps us see what happens to their lives and what they did with it having those placements.
they're not imaginary.
just because she's super rich, doesn't make her any less alive.
She couldn't be a more different person from the op despite them sharing this one placement.
So agree to disagree.click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8My dominant element is earth, dominant sign is Taurus. Is that a fixed sign?Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by lisabethur8It's because she's super rich that her placements don't mean jack. She's one of the wealthiest people and has a team of professionals to handle her money for her.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by lisabethur8Sag's are notorious for being impulsive spenders. 2nd house is your house of money.Posted by LadyNeptunebut 2nd house is a good house to have any personal planets and even jupiter and pluto.Posted by CrabNextDoorThat's why you have a spending problem.Posted by LadyNeptuneIts A Sagittarius Moon
Whats your moon? 2nd house?
Oprah Winfrey has Sagittarius Rising and moon and shes a billionaire.
her planets are in the 2nd house.
Same thing with Jennifer Aniston. (i dont know any other sagittarius moons with different suns, i'm gonna have to research)
she's never in debt. You dont hear them being in debt, like say, someone like Tori Spelling who is in serious debt or Johnny Depp or even a Taurus mooner, like Lindsay lohan.
i dont know why they are in deep debt, but maybe it has to do with spending habits and their upbringing. Tori Spelling is a Scorpio moon and she was raised very very wealthy, and she admitted online on youtube she dont want to live under her means cause she is so used to the wealthy life. Which is hard for her to live frugal that's why she's in debt.
You can't use celebrities as counter examples. They aren't real people. Oprah has more money than god and couldn't spend it all if she tried.
yes you can because it helps us see what happens to their lives and what they did with it having those placements.
they're not imaginary.
just because she's super rich, doesn't make her any less alive.
She couldn't be a more different person from the op despite them sharing this one placement.
So agree to disagree.
oh ok. sometimes you seem so fixed, like a double fixed sign. lol
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Posted by LadyNeptuneah no wonder. lolPosted by lisabethur8My dominant element is earth, dominant sign is Taurus. Is that a fixed sign?Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by lisabethur8It's because she's super rich that her placements don't mean jack. She's one of the wealthiest people and has a team of professionals to handle her money for her.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by lisabethur8Sag's are notorious for being impulsive spenders. 2nd house is your house of money.Posted by LadyNeptunebut 2nd house is a good house to have any personal planets and even jupiter and pluto.Posted by CrabNextDoorThat's why you have a spending problem.Posted by LadyNeptuneIts A Sagittarius Moon
Whats your moon? 2nd house?
Oprah Winfrey has Sagittarius Rising and moon and shes a billionaire.
her planets are in the 2nd house.
Same thing with Jennifer Aniston. (i dont know any other sagittarius moons with different suns, i'm gonna have to research)
she's never in debt. You dont hear them being in debt, like say, someone like Tori Spelling who is in serious debt or Johnny Depp or even a Taurus mooner, like Lindsay lohan.
i dont know why they are in deep debt, but maybe it has to do with spending habits and their upbringing. Tori Spelling is a Scorpio moon and she was raised very very wealthy, and she admitted online on youtube she dont want to live under her means cause she is so used to the wealthy life. Which is hard for her to live frugal that's why she's in debt.
You can't use celebrities as counter examples. They aren't real people. Oprah has more money than god and couldn't spend it all if she tried.
yes you can because it helps us see what happens to their lives and what they did with it having those placements.
they're not imaginary.
just because she's super rich, doesn't make her any less alive.
She couldn't be a more different person from the op despite them sharing this one placement.
So agree to disagree.
oh ok. sometimes you seem so fixed, like a double fixed sign. lol
I come off as very strong and opinionated here. I'm super chill in rl.click to expand
Posted by CrabNextDoorThe road to brokennessPosted by PossessionStI'm not broke, I just have a spending knack and like to spend my money on expensive things! I have a job with a great pay, I just like to have nice things for myself and my family so I spend like a great deal of money on things that don't actually have to be bought. I have a go get it type of attitude like if you say you want it I will go out of my way to buy it no matter the price! But not broke exactly I was referencing spending all of my money unwisely on unnecessary things!Posted by CrabNextDoorBeing broke surePosted by PossessionStYou think it'll change with time?
Well you are 18click to expand
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