@2BlackIndian3
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Guide to Dating a Crab: Secrets of the Shell (Page 2)
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My advice? Don't fucking date us because when you ultimately fail and screw us over we'll be your worst fucking enemy.
Posted by 2BlackIndian3
Well Kim pages 1-3 was the best we could get out of this thread. Not many Cancer guys on dxp. But we do got some information. They can always try Google Zodiac Cancer Facts. There's plenty of information on there. Sorry your thread got messed up
I know what you mean. A lot of that stuff either isn't written by us or is a bunch of fluff. A stop shop seemed like a good idea. I only said something because it seemed like it was headed in a negative direction. There's plenty of room on dxp for confrontational bullshit elsewhere.
@Kim30 you are right. At least we tried to help some people understand us. But soo many with problems from people of our sign, kinda ruin your purpose here. But it's all good 🙂. You did great to me. We may not control the bs drama here, but we can always try to make our shell safer for us ok
@SilentKiller its ok 🙂 lol don't worry about it. It didn't offend me. Remember this, its just the internet. Plus just because the astrologers say two signs are compatible, Don't mean the people of those are. So its ok, go enjoy your day & be Safe!
Posted by silentkiller
Kim30 and blackindian: It certanly wasn't my intention to bash cancer. I see many many many great qualities in cancer. Infact: my intention was the exact opposite - namely to point out, that no one are evil or bad, but we can ALL behave badly at some point of our lives. 🙂
I realize that. I also realized the conversation was about to take turn...I don't care anymore. Since so many have something to say about the good, the bad and the ugly, then lets go for it.
Some people believe the human race is divided between good and bad.
Personally, I believe there are those who want to be good but slip up and do wrong. Then there are those who flat out don't give a damn and rarely if ever do anything positive.
This is idea can be applied to astrology with c1 and c2. Some exhibit the majority of the negative traits of a sign while others exhibit a majority of the positive. The concept isn't that complicated for anyone who has a similar view of the human race as whole. If you have a different view, then you won't understand it. Any person of any sign can use the best of their world to do wrong.
As for my evil twin, she is not my biological sister. Google a description of a cancerian woman and we both will fit it. Interview us about being a woman, life, love, etc we will give the same answers. Spend time with us and feel certain emotions stir inside you. Everything is all homemade lasagnas and backrubs until it happens-you realize I'm just this way, I do these things because I care. I care about my friends, my man, my family, my community, animals, whatever. I don't use my better qualities to hurt people.
Danielle? She doesn't give a damn. Not a DAMN about anything but herself, some more of herself and then herself again. ALL of the positive attributes of the cancerian lady she twists and distorts SOLELY for selfish reasons.
As with any sign, be cautious of motives. That's all.
Lol I think every cancer has a dark side to him... No one is hundred percent good. I m not.
Posted by krebbsmann
Lol I think every cancer has a dark side to him... No one is hundred percent good. I m not.
yeah we know...
🙂
Yo, people need to realize that Camp 1 versus Camp 2 is a legitimate argument to make.
This website is loaded with commentary vindicating my beliefs about Cancers.
I said it a thousand times already.
Some Cancers provide more bad energy, corruption, deceit and trouble than they do positivity, and are therefore the dreaded Camp 2 Cancers we have all met at some point in life.
Some Cancers, thank God, provide more warm energy, thoughtfulness, support, tenderness and love than they do with regard to bad energy. And even when they are acting up, it's not for too long before they realize that the behavior is bad and they correct it. These are the beloved Camp 1 Cancers.
If you Camp 2's out there don't like your position in life, then that's just too fucking bad. Get with the program, and stop dispensing so much bad energy to everyone. Get over yourselves, and start bringing something to the table other than trouble and awful behavior.
The same can be said of my accursed bad Fish brothers and sisters.
You know, the ones that spend more time eating drugs and wasting their lives instead of being upbeat and helpful souls.
Those of us who "get it," are Camp 1 Pisceans.
So don't sit there crying about it. Do something positive, and make the lives of people around you better.
lol @ScorpioFish got a good points. Basically if you Cancer treating you like shyt, time to put them in their place & get rid of them. Never let anyone, Cancer or not, treat you less than you are worth. There are some sweet Crabs out there, so don't count em all out
Posted by 2BlackIndian3
lol @ScorpioFish got a good points. Basically if you Cancer treating you like shyt, time to put them in their place & get rid of them. Never let anyone, Cancer or not, treat you less than you are worth. There are some sweet Crabs out there, so don't count em all out
Exactly, Obi Wan. Exactly.
I have constantly maintained that you, Kim30, Este7, MoonArtist and several others are fantastic Cancers who continue to give the Zodiac sign an excellent name.
This website would be a lesser place without you Crabs, and we all know it.
*chuckle*
Well, aren't you two a pair of negative nancies then, 'ey! 😛
Life isn't all about rainbows and lollipops.click to expandconsidering you're the one saying life isn't all rainbows and lollipops, wouldn't that make YOU the negative nancy, Pansy? Makes no sense.
Posted by xMoonMan
When dating a Cancer:Don't leave your sense of humour at home. Bring it along, just in case we need it.
Observe our facial expressions and watch our eyes.
You never know what you might see in thereI'm not funny at all and I have to beat Cancer women away with a stick.
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probably because you lurk around them asking to see their breasts.
@aquavita not only are Cancers naturally funny, but we'll also kick someone azz if they come at us the wrong way 😉. Just ask my fellow Crab Mike Tyson! I'm glad he turned his life around too
Posted by xMoonMan
When dating a Cancer:Don't leave your sense of humour at home. Bring it along, just in case we need it.
Observe our facial expressions and watch our eyes.
You never know what you might see in thereI'm not funny at all and I have to beat Cancer women away with a stick.
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Fear not, fair man maiden! I shall defend thee and thy honor! ~fierce ninja pose~
Posted by xMoonMan
When dating a Cancer:Don't leave your sense of humour at home. Bring it along, just in case we need it.
Observe our facial expressions and watch our eyes.
You never know what you might see in thereI'm not funny at all and I have to beat Cancer women away with a stick.
probably because you lurk around them asking to see their breasts.
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~snort chortle~ More like looming so he can peek down the cleavage. 😉
You're such an emotional wet dishrag
and your ignorance & stupidity continues to astound me, ..at least you're consistant.
Says the little bitch who hasn't done shit with his his life, hahaha.
Some little shits just cannot handle the truth, now can you?
The more I read your posts, the more I believe that you suffer from some sort of mental illness.
You wouldn't be able to hack a fraction of the shit I have been through.
You're such an emotional wet dishrag
and your ignorance & stupidity continues to astound me, ..at least you're consistant.
Says the little bitch who hasn't done shit with his his life, hahaha.
Some little shits just cannot handle the truth, now can you?
The more I read your posts, the more I believe that you suffer from some sort of mental illness.
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And you point is? I'm positive the majority of you are fucked up in the head. Pretty hard to miss. How about you go dodge some bullets for your country then come back and see how much bullshit you have tolerance for.
Scratch that. Don't dodge the bullets. Stand there and take them.
Take your bullying elsewhere. You have alllll of dxp to stir up shit and pick at people. You can't let one thread stay clean? I can start a asshole thread just for you'd like. And you can pick, pick, pick all you want without complaint.
So here are some pointers to remember with Cancers:
1.) Approach very slowly. Do not try to rush them into something.
2.) Give them their space and shell time when they disappear. They do that sometimes, so don't chase them down when they do.
3.) When they blame you for something that is their fault, don't counter-attack them. They HATE that, and will never let it go. Just accept the fact that sometimes they are sensitive and defensive, and will come after you if you make them feel even moreso with the things you do or say to them.
4.) Talk to them, and communicate directly with them. Do not assume text and email is enough. Telephone talks and face-to-face interaction are ideal, and will sustain the relationship with them with these means.
5.) Do not ever criticize them over something you don't like. Just massage the language, and make your point indirectly. Do not make bold accusations or assertions, as it will only be counter-attacked by the Cancer.
6.) Make clear that you are tough, but that you also have a romantic side. They like that, and do not respect pushover or wimpy types. They want someone who is stable and firm in their emotions, as well as someone respectable.
7.) If you have a criminal background or some previous trouble with the police, make that clear up front. Do NOT hide things from them, as they will be hurt if they find out later through other sources. Make clear that your past is a little shaky for whatever reason it was, but also make clear that those days are far behind you and you learned a lot from it.
Posted by xMoonMan
When dating a Cancer:Don't leave your sense of humour at home. Bring it along, just in case we need it.
Observe our facial expressions and watch our eyes.
You never know what you might see in thereI'm not funny at all and I have to beat Cancer women away with a stick.
probably because you lurk around them asking to see their breasts.
~snort chortle~ More like looming so he can peek down the cleavage. 😉
Lol - no.
I am quite polite and look a woman in her eyes.
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~glove slap~ You HUSSY!! That's peeper peeping! You peeper peeping pervert. For SHAME!
Just kidding....I love oggling people's eyes.
Posted by xMoonMan
When dating a Cancer:Don't leave your sense of humour at home. Bring it along, just in case we need it.
Observe our facial expressions and watch our eyes.
You never know what you might see in thereI'm not funny at all and I have to beat Cancer women away with a stick.
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Depends on the Cancer woman.
Many of us are not looking for comedians.
We like a sense of humor but what draws us is aloofness and seriousness.
At some point we want you to show you can laugh and be warm and generous.
Posted by xMoonMan
When dating a Cancer:Don't leave your sense of humour at home. Bring it along, just in case we need it.
Observe our facial expressions and watch our eyes.
You never know what you might see in thereI'm not funny at all and I have to beat Cancer women away with a stick.
probably because you lurk around them asking to see their breasts.
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LOL
Posted by 2BlackIndian3
@LadyOfRebirth not all Cancers play games with people un porpoise like that. Especially if its someone we xare about. I think it depends on how the person is raisedWe do, even when raised right....we just hate to admit that ugly fact. 😛
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I disagree, I'm a cancer and i don't play bullshit -_-
Posted by 2BlackIndian3
@LadyOfRebirth not all Cancers play games with people un porpoise like that. Especially if its someone we xare about. I think it depends on how the person is raisedWe do, even when raised right....we just hate to admit that ugly fact. 😛
I disagree, I'm a cancer and i don't play bullshit -_-
I dont either, but i do unintentionally, never intentionally.
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That's what I mean. We do it unintentionally and if we're honest with ourselves we can see it. Just because it's unintentional doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
when all else fails WHIP IT OUT!
Posted by Andalusia
DO: learn how to read minds, as well as the interpretive dance steps to the "Sideways Scuttle"DON'T: tell them you know these ^^^ things.. or that they are scuttling back and forth instead of being direct.
+100
Posted by ScorpioFish
So here are some pointers to remember with Cancers:1.) Approach very slowly. Do not try to rush them into something.
2.) Give them their space and shell time when they disappear. They do that sometimes, so don't chase them down when they do.
3.) When they blame you for something that is their fault, don't counter-attack them. They HATE that, and will never let it go. Just accept the fact that sometimes they are sensitive and defensive, and will come after you if you make them feel even moreso with the things you do or say to them.
4.) Talk to them, and communicate directly with them. Do not assume text and email is enough. Telephone talks and face-to-face interaction are ideal, and will sustain the relationship with them with these means.
5.) Do not ever criticize them over something you don't like. Just massage the language, and make your point indirectly. Do not make bold accusations or assertions, as it will only be counter-attacked by the Cancer.
6.) Make clear that you are tough, but that you also have a romantic side. They like that, and do not respect pushover or wimpy types. They want someone who is stable and firm in their emotions, as well as someone respectable.
7.) If you have a criminal background or some previous trouble with the police, make that clear up front. Do NOT hide things from them, as they will be hurt if they find out later through other sources. Make clear that your past is a little shaky for whatever reason it was, but also make clear that those days are far behind you and you learned a lot from it.
this is very true!
1. No one will beat a Cancer at games so do not initiate.
2. don't chase a cancer. they WILL come back if they like you. however, that might take 1 day-1 year.
3. do not, for the love of all things you hold dear, lie.
4. don't be clingy because contrary to the myth, cancers are not and don't like it.
Experience: family.
my cancer man had just come back to me after 5motnhs broken up and you are spot on with all of you points WolfMoon!!!1
Cancer men, please fill this up for the Aqua women you sent our way...geez.
Posted by kim30
Cancer men, please fill this up for the Aqua women you sent our way...geez.
My sister is a Cancer Sun/Moon and my Dad a Sun/Mars so I know what I am talking about. I have spent 32 years with those fukcers.
Posted by kim30
Cancer men, please fill this up for the Aqua women you sent our way...geez.My sister is a Cancer Sun/Moon and my Dad a Sun/Mars so I know what I am talking about. I have spent 32 years with those fukcers.
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you don't have to defend yourself. you have something to add, go for it!
anything to help fight of this flood of relationship bitch posts.
trying to head 'em off!
Posted by kim30
Cancer men, please fill this up for the Aqua women you sent our way...geez.My sister is a Cancer Sun/Moon and my Dad a Sun/Mars so I know what I am talking about. I have spent 32 years with those fukcers.
you don't have to defend yourself. you have something to add, go for it!
anything to help fight of this flood of relationship bitch posts.
trying to head 'em off!click to expand
Cancers are very misunderstood! Also, they hardly ever settle for someone until later in life and that is usually that. My experience again 🙂
Posted by ScorpioFish
Do NOT chase after a Cancer.EVER.
Sorry, ScorpFish but I gotta respectfully disagree here. Cancer women tend to be traditional and chasing them works *if* they dig you enough. I'd go so far as to say most women who really dig a man love to be actively courted ie chased by them. Thing is some women treat you like an option on their speed dial. Dudes can treat us the same way too. It's all about picking the right one and yeah it's a crap shoot every time you enter the ring. No doubt about that.
For me, there's gotta be a strong emotional and intellectual connection to the man. I like traditional men who ask you out, pick you up at your place, open car doors and pick up the check. I like men who say what they mean and mean what they say. And sure I like small romantic gestures like a love note, a single rose, a heartfelt poem. All that gooey stuff is nice! But really for all of us it comes down to picking the right person. The right person is the one whose good to you and for you. And when you find that person, try to be that special person to them. Men shouldn't do all the work tho I need to see some effort in the beginning and again traditional works best for me. I met a handsome man recently. He asked me for my number and I'm single and we had a nice convo so why not. He then proceeds to text his way to my heart and I think was just looking for a booty call. He'd be like, hey I'm at that bar, wanna hang. No response. Not my jam. Barking up the wrong tree there.
Thank you, Este.
Its odd how we are described as having traditional values, all except for this.—
But do show you are interested too. I think with relationships, both people should be doing the work. Its called a team. I know for me, I won't make anymoves unless I know a woman is interested in me. She has to show some kind of obvious interest in me before I can come out of my Shell. After that, I can take it from there. Cancers hate rejection. I guess I fit the typical Cancer man lol.
Yes, BI.
ALL the couples successful marriages I'm aware of still court one another.
Posted by J9
In the words of a funny aqua:"Feed me,
Fuck me;
and shut the fuck up"- Chris Rock.
That's all you need to know.
that's what I said to the Libra.
Snap!
Snap snap snap!
which further supports my theory. dsg WILL marry a crab. hahahaha!
😭
Lol at that picture haha. How can you not laugh at that. NO! Lol
Beep.
Posted by kim30
which further supports my theory. dsg WILL marry a crab. hahahaha!click to expand
HAHAHA!!!
Grrrrr....
Posted by kim30
Beep.
Meep.
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Well Kim pages 1-3 was the best we could get out of this thread. Not many Cancer guys on dxp. But we do got some information. They can always try Google Zodiac Cancer Facts. There's plenty of information on there. Sorry your thread got messed up