Guide to Dating a Crab: Secrets of the Shell (Page 3)

And this.

Posted by ScorpioFish
Do NOT chase after a Cancer.

EVER.

AAAAAAAMEN.... lesson learned!!!

Posted by CluelessCancer
Do allow us some form of control some of the time. We are control freaks. It's a cardinal thing.

Do allow us to be affectionate

Do instill Trust in the relationship by being/saying/who you are

Fight for us and the relationship and we'll fight for you.

We're lazy, tell us what you need/want from us if you feel we're not fulfulling you, if we care, we'll do our best. Be open to our needs as well.

Be interesting, intelligent, cute, fun, spontaneous, yet conservative.

Do not be irresponsible unless its sexual and it's with your loved CRAB.

Like making Money.

Like family. Children.

very tricky because if im corret, when y'all retreat back to your confortable and belloved shell... you don't want to be bother, or told or anything, y'all get more upset... simply disconnect... so how come one suppose to fight for a relationship or we show we care and want you if y'all cancers refused to come out and play—?

so confusing...

Posted by fullwaterpisces

Posted by CluelessCancer
Do allow us some form of control some of the time. We are control freaks. It's a cardinal thing.

Do allow us to be affectionate

Do instill Trust in the relationship by being/saying/who you are

Fight for us and the relationship and we'll fight for you.

We're lazy, tell us what you need/want from us if you feel we're not fulfulling you, if we care, we'll do our best. Be open to our needs as well.

Be interesting, intelligent, cute, fun, spontaneous, yet conservative.

Do not be irresponsible unless its sexual and it's with your loved CRAB.

Like making Money.

Like family. Children.

very tricky because if im corret, when y'all retreat back to your confortable and belloved shell... you don't want to be bother, or told or anything, y'all get more upset... simply disconnect... so how come one suppose to fight for a relationship or we show we care and want you if y'all cancers refused to come out and play—?

so confusing...

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This!

Posted by fullwaterpisces

Posted by CluelessCancer
Do allow us some form of control some of the time. We are control freaks. It's a cardinal thing.

Do allow us to be affectionate

Do instill Trust in the relationship by being/saying/who you are

Fight for us and the relationship and we'll fight for you.

We're lazy, tell us what you need/want from us if you feel we're not fulfulling you, if we care, we'll do our best. Be open to our needs as well.

Be interesting, intelligent, cute, fun, spontaneous, yet conservative.

Do not be irresponsible unless its sexual and it's with your loved CRAB.

Like making Money.

Like family. Children.

very tricky because if im corret, when y'all retreat back to your confortable and belloved shell... you don't want to be bother, or told or anything, y'all get more upset... simply disconnect... so how come one suppose to fight for a relationship or we show we care and want you if y'all cancers refused to come out and play—?

so confusing...

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Patience. Occasionally let them know you're still about and care but don't pry or push.
Cancers need time to sort things out themselves .
They'll usually let you know when they're peeking out with a "hello" or something along those lines.

Think of it like hermit crabs in a pet store. Pick one up out of the aquarium, and that sucker will be pulled up tight inside that shell.
If you don't poke or prod, but just keep still with it in an open palm, eventually one antenna comes out, then the other, and in a little bit the thing is walking around in your open hand.

Is this true? Really they want you to fight for them? My psychic told me my Cancer is really scared I will walk away again. I walked away because he simply wasn't giving me enough time with him.

Posted by CluelessCancer


Fight for us and the relationship and we'll fight for you.

We're lazy, tell us what you need/want from us if you feel we're not fulfulling you, if we care, we'll do our best. Be open to our needs as well.

Yes it is true.