I got dumped for her best guy friend

.. it came out of no where.. and within 3-4 days of me and her breaking up, she starts going out with the guy.. I just have this feeling that when I'm completely done with her and all this.. I'll get a phone call with her apologizing and wanting to get back with me... do you guys think she'll be back sooner or later?

Yes, and I think you need to find a more stable girlfriend. You sound like way to sweet of a guy to continually put up with her shizz... I know that was really blunt, but man there are plenty of fish in the sea and this girl needs to sort herself out before she's capable of giving any lasting happiness to anybody.

I agree with pheonix... don't let her back in... tell her she needs some time to cool down and stop jumping around (wow that rhymes)

Yeah, I have a really hard time seeing really nice people getting dicked around, even if the other person doesn't *intend* to dick you around, it's chaos and chaos is toxic and so unnecessary (and dissipates with maturity).

She may think she needs more of YOU and may keep asking for you to be there...then put you off...then want you on...then off...then on...

It will always be cyclic until she can decide what she wants...

If she mostly wants 'bad boys' who break her heart...so be it...you cannot save her!

If she wants a guy who really cares...she had better know for damn sure, because good guys do not wait around forever!

Have her read this...

Good Luck!

Star

You are a good guy!! Get my drift?!

you know i am having the same problem with a cancer guy one min hes sweet and needs me then the next he asks total crazy as if he never all i know is as much as i like the guy sometimes you have to let go i am also a very nice person who has put up with a lot from this guy but i cant let one guy screw up my head and emotions its very hard for a scorpio to let go without wanting to get back at the person but im trying to change my ways lol so dude just tell her you wont put up with her crap any longer and try to open your heart to someone else but i am sure that as soon as you tell her you are not aking her crap shes going to try to cling on to you again so look out!

Yes, be prepared for the clingy thing to happen once you seem "unattainable". lol. Seriously.

Heh I've already met a girl i could be with sooner or later.. and she's friends with my ex's best friend.. uh oh.. i dont know.. if she came back.. I dont know exactly what I'd do.. its just fact we had an amazing friendship before all this happened.. and an amazing relationship if you asked me.. but i couldn't do the friends thing with her again.. if anything i'd give her a second chance, then if she screwed that up I'm done with her.. she was once my best friend.. so it make things hard to think about logically. I guess she's still with the guy.. i dont know for how long though. according to her best friends.. she's shutting them out of er life now just for the guy, basically she puts him infront of everything now and she's become an azzwhole and so on... the guy just has a hold on her.. but i dont what i'd do when she calls, or if she calls.. the voice of reason would say blow her off.. but I'm not like that so i dunno :/

if she stills remeber your friendship trust me shes going to call but i wouldnt give my heart back to her so easly let her earn it