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Sexyttarius
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Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
And when they do get hit on, most of the time it's by men we don't even like. LOL




That's a luxury problem. Most women get hit on a lot but they just don't care about those guys who they don't find attractive, that's why they complain about "never meeting anybody".

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This is not a fair comment. I'm going to use myself as an example to tackle this. I get hit on a lot but I'll tell you by whom:

a) married men

b) old (48+) successful men - since I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, that's a no go

c) guys in relationship

d) guys I'm not attracted to physically. Nothing wrong with that.

e) guys that come on way too strong and too soon. Don't wanna develop a friendship or get to know me but just wanna hit it and quit it.

Yeahhhh...id say I'm not greedy with a luxury problem. lol


So basicly you get hit on by the majority of men. ^^

I get it, you want to be hit on by a super confident, model Brad Pitt (in his 30s) look alike who is not needy and clingy, who only has eyes for you and doesn't care about other women. Well, I am sorry, but there is no man in this world who is like that. Once a good looking man gets all the attention, he is going to live his life to the fullest.



I took it as she isn't getting hit on by a single guy around her own age who she's attracted to. :/

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Still she gets hit on by majority of guys, even when they are her age.
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@aquarius09

Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
And when they do get hit on, most of the time it's by men we don't even like. LOL




That's a luxury problem. Most women get hit on a lot but they just don't care about those guys who they don't find attractive, that's why they complain about "never meeting anybody".

.
This is not a fair comment. I'm going to use myself as an example to tackle this. I get hit on a lot but I'll tell you by whom:

a) married men

b) old (48+) successful men - since I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, that's a no go

c) guys in relationship

d) guys I'm not attracted to physically. Nothing wrong with that.

e) guys that come on way too strong and too soon. Don't wanna develop a friendship or get to know me but just wanna hit it and quit it.

Yeahhhh...id say I'm not greedy with a luxury problem. lol


So basicly you get hit on by the majority of men. ^^

I get it, you want to be hit on by a super confident, model Brad Pitt (in his 30s) look alike who is not needy and clingy, who only has eyes for you and doesn't care about other women. Well, I am sorry, but there is no man in this world who is like that. Once a good looking man gets all the attention, he is going to live his life to the fullest.



I took it as she isn't getting hit on by a single guy around her own age who she's attracted to. :/


Still she gets hit on by majority of guys, even when they are her age.

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I don't think it's a good thing she's getting hit on by men in relationships. It's not something women really look for in a man.
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They say us cancers are shy and often to initiate conversation. I agree, but not because I'm "shy". I do it because... in a world where women are preaching "equality", why should I? Why should I have to make the first move?

Even if I do feel inclined to do this, I'm only inflating female ago and telling her bullshit that she hears everyday from dudes that are trying to put their penis in her. So, what's the point? Being just another guy that tried to help her with some dick? Seems pretty pointless to me.
you've never gotten laid, you're that fat guy with acne everyone rejects so you call all the women egotists, sluts and bitches, right? even if you're not that guy you just have that attitude!

WOMEN want MEN! not lazy, spineless worms like you who judge them because they couldn't get any and use any excuse to cover the inadequacy and incompetency to deal with their male competitors and land a worthy mate!

if you don't up yourself for competition you'll see how real men get all the primes while you wither away crying alone or end up with second grade grenades. I hope all cancerian men aren't like you secretly, ugh!

but you might also be gay bro, in that case, contemplate alternate options.

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Poor Teddy.

He's teetering in the homosexual (repressed latent) lane. You're almost there so go for it. Gay men will make the first move all day long. Which one you wanna be a top or bottom? The bottoms get approached more because they take more of the anus action.

For reals....Your standoff does not benefit you and as long as you okay living without what benefits you then cool, good luck with that.
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@aquarius09

Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
And when they do get hit on, most of the time it's by men we don't even like. LOL






That's a luxury problem. Most women get hit on a lot but they just don't care about those guys who they don't find attractive, that's why they complain about "never meeting anybody".

.
This is not a fair comment. I'm going to use myself as an example to tackle this. I get hit on a lot but I'll tell you by whom:

a) married men

b) old (48+) successful men - since I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, that's a no go

c) guys in relationship

d) guys I'm not attracted to physically. Nothing wrong with that.

e) guys that come on way too strong and too soon. Don't wanna develop a friendship or get to know me but just wanna hit it and quit it.

Yeahhhh...id say I'm not greedy with a luxury problem. lol


So basicly you get hit on by the majority of men. ^^

I get it, you want to be hit on by a super confident, model Brad Pitt (in his 30s) look alike who is not needy and clingy, who only has eyes for you and doesn't care about other women. Well, I am sorry, but there is no man in this world who is like that. Once a good looking man gets all the attention, he is going to live his life to the fullest.



I took it as she isn't getting hit on by a single guy around her own age who she's attracted to. :/


Still she gets hit on by majority of guys, even when they are her age.



I don't think it's a good thing she's getting hit on by men in relationships. It's not something women really look for in a man.

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You are ignoring the points d and e in her list. She definately doesn't get hit on only by guys in relationships
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Just what I thought the response would be. A bunch of w h o r e s in my thread calling me a gay and tons of other bullshit. Because I speak truth and not what you want to hear. Most of you sluts have probably have boyfriends on speed dial and back-ups for your back-up boyfriend. They all tell you what you want to hear, so when a guy like me says something real, call him a bunch of dumb ass names, question his manhood etc... It's okay. You've just been used to men lying to you your whole life. I have no desire to do so.



I have some news for you girls, most men DO think like me. The only difference here is, I don't care. Not much to lose to a bunch of random people on the internet. All you can do is pat each other on the ass with internet likes and pretend that you're not a fucking wreck in real life.
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@aquarius09

Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
And when they do get hit on, most of the time it's by men we don't even like. LOL




That's a luxury problem. Most women get hit on a lot but they just don't care about those guys who they don't find attractive, that's why they complain about "never meeting anybody".

.
This is not a fair comment. I'm going to use myself as an example to tackle this. I get hit on a lot but I'll tell you by whom:

a) married men

b) old (48+) successful men - since I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, that's a no go

c) guys in relationship

d) guys I'm not attracted to physically. Nothing wrong with that.

e) guys that come on way too strong and too soon. Don't wanna develop a friendship or get to know me but just wanna hit it and quit it.

Yeahhhh...id say I'm not greedy with a luxury problem. lol


So basicly you get hit on by the majority of men. ^^

I get it, you want to be hit on by a super confident, model Brad Pitt (in his 30s) look alike who is not needy and clingy, who only has eyes for you and doesn't care about other women. Well, I am sorry, but there is no man in this world who is like that. Once a good looking man gets all the attention, he is going to live his life to the fullest.



I took it as she isn't getting hit on by a single guy around her own age who she's attracted to. :/


Still she gets hit on by majority of guys, even when they are her age.

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Getting hit on is utterly useless and should therefore not count if it's from a dude that you aren't into. You think if a drunk or immature dude hits on me, I'll be flattered? That's like a drunk chick coming onto you. Would you be flattered by such attention?You have to look at other factors like mental capacity of men my age.

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@aquarius09

Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
And when they do get hit on, most of the time it's by men we don't even like. LOL




That's a luxury problem. Most women get hit on a lot but they just don't care about those guys who they don't find attractive, that's why they complain about "never meeting anybody".

.
This is not a fair comment. I'm going to use myself as an example to tackle this. I get hit on a lot but I'll tell you by whom:

a) married men

b) old (48+) successful men - since I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, that's a no go

c) guys in relationship

d) guys I'm not attracted to physically. Nothing wrong with that.

e) guys that come on way too strong and too soon. Don't wanna develop a friendship or get to know me but just wanna hit it and quit it.

Yeahhhh...id say I'm not greedy with a luxury problem. lol


So basicly you get hit on by the majority of men. ^^

I get it, you want to be hit on by a super confident, model Brad Pitt (in his 30s) look alike who is not needy and clingy, who only has eyes for you and doesn't care about other women. Well, I am sorry, but there is no man in this world who is like that. Once a good looking man gets all the attention, he is going to live his life to the fullest.



I took it as she isn't getting hit on by a single guy around her own age who she's attracted to. :/


Still she gets hit on by majority of guys, even when they are her age.



I don't think it's a good thing she's getting hit on by men in relationships. It's not something women really look for in a man.

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I think he wants me be one of those women who gets into a relationship with a married man her age with the hopes that he will leave his wife and kids for me, and when he doesn't, I'll come on dxp to write my grievances with the said (insert Astro sign) man. LOL

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Posted by TeddyBearMD
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Just what I thought the response would be. A bunch of w h o r e s in my thread calling me a gay and tons of other bullshit. Because I speak truth and not what you want to hear. Most of you sluts have probably have boyfriends on speed dial and back-ups for your back-up boyfriend. They all tell you what you want to hear, so when a guy like me says something real, call him a bunch of dumb ass names, question his manhood etc... It's okay. You've just been used to men lying to you your whole life. I have no desire to do so.



I have some news for you girls, most men DO think like me. The only difference here is, I don't care. Not much to lose to a bunch of random people on the internet. All you can do is pat each other on the ass with internet likes and pretend that you're not a fucking wreck in real life.
You might as well be Gay. You're sure heading that way.

Women pick up on your hostility towards them and they move right on past you and your immature hang ups. Your an adult and nobody is going to fix your mind nor save you from your ?ucked up point of views.

No one really is invested in your truth. Like do you really think anyone cares about your personal choice to not chase nor pursue women.

You have to live with your choices not us. If &ussy isn't attractive to you then you can always go over the rainbow to the other side, they'd be glad to have you.

Your attitude stinks. Either tighten up your pick up game or shut up with the whining on and on about the reasons why your dick is dry.

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Posted by aquarius09
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by bricklemark
@aquarius09

Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
And when they do get hit on, most of the time it's by men we don't even like. LOL




That's a luxury problem. Most women get hit on a lot but they just don't care about those guys who they don't find attractive, that's why they complain about "never meeting anybody".

.
This is not a fair comment. I'm going to use myself as an example to tackle this. I get hit on a lot but I'll tell you by whom:

a) married men

b) old (48+) successful men - since I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, that's a no go

c) guys in relationship

d) guys I'm not attracted to physically. Nothing wrong with that.

e) guys that come on way too strong and too soon. Don't wanna develop a friendship or get to know me but just wanna hit it and quit it.

Yeahhhh...id say I'm not greedy with a luxury problem. lol


So basicly you get hit on by the majority of men. ^^

I get it, you want to be hit on by a super confident, model Brad Pitt (in his 30s) look alike who is not needy and clingy, who only has eyes for you and doesn't care about other women. Well, I am sorry, but there is no man in this world who is like that. Once a good looking man gets all the attention, he is going to live his life to the fullest.



I took it as she isn't getting hit on by a single guy around her own age who she's attracted to. :/


Still she gets hit on by majority of guys, even when they are her age.


Getting hit on is utterly useless and should therefore not count if it's from a dude that you aren't into.

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OMG now you sound like one of those spoiled princesses who claim they have only been with 2 men in their lifes, while ignoring the 23 other men they slept with in the past, just because they were meant to be for fun only. lol

You have not been hit by older married men only, don't play that game, honey.
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Sexyttarius
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@aquarius09

Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
And when they do get hit on, most of the time it's by men we don't even like. LOL




That's a luxury problem. Most women get hit on a lot but they just don't care about those guys who they don't find attractive, that's why they complain about "never meeting anybody".

.
This is not a fair comment. I'm going to use myself as an example to tackle this. I get hit on a lot but I'll tell you by whom:

a) married men

b) old (48+) successful men - since I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, that's a no go

c) guys in relationship

d) guys I'm not attracted to physically. Nothing wrong with that.

e) guys that come on way too strong and too soon. Don't wanna develop a friendship or get to know me but just wanna hit it and quit it.

Yeahhhh...id say I'm not greedy with a luxury problem. lol


So basicly you get hit on by the majority of men. ^^

I get it, you want to be hit on by a super confident, model Brad Pitt (in his 30s) look alike who is not needy and clingy, who only has eyes for you and doesn't care about other women. Well, I am sorry, but there is no man in this world who is like that. Once a good looking man gets all the attention, he is going to live his life to the fullest.



I took it as she isn't getting hit on by a single guy around her own age who she's attracted to. :/


Still she gets hit on by majority of guys, even when they are her age.



I don't think it's a good thing she's getting hit on by men in relationships. It's not something women really look for in a man.



I think he wants me be one of those women who gets into a relationship with a married man her age with the hopes that he will leave his wife and kids for me, and when he doesn't, I'll come on dxp to write my grievances with the said (insert Astro sign) man. LOL

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You kidding? I would kill myself before getting married. lol

So why would I care about other married men and their affairs at all?
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TeddyBearMD
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Just what I thought the response would be. A bunch of w h o r e s in my thread calling me a gay and tons of other bullshit. Because I speak truth and not what you want to hear. Most of you sluts have probably have boyfriends on speed dial and back-ups for your back-up boyfriend. They all tell you what you want to hear, so when a guy like me says something real, call him a bunch of dumb ass names, question his manhood etc... It's okay. You've just been used to men lying to you your whole life. I have no desire to do so.



I have some news for you girls, most men DO think like me. The only difference here is, I don't care. Not much to lose to a bunch of random people on the internet. All you can do is pat each other on the ass with internet likes and pretend that you're not a fucking wreck in real life.
You might as well be Gay. You're sure heading that way.

Women pick up on your hostility towards them and they move right on past you and your immature hang ups. Your an adult and nobody is going to fix your mind nor save you from your ?ucked up point of views.

No one really is invested in your truth. Like do you really think anyone cares about your personal choice to not chase nor pursue women.

You have to live with your choices not us. If &ussy isn't attractive to you then you can always go over the rainbow to the other side, they'd be glad to have you.

Your attitude stinks. Either tighten up your pick up game or shut up with the whining on and on about the reasons why your dick is dry.

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LOL!

Girls jumping to conclusions left and right! And apparently people do care whether or not I chase women. If they didn't, this thread wouldn't be 7 pages long 😉
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Posted by bricklemark
@aquarius09

Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
And when they do get hit on, most of the time it's by men we don't even like. LOL




That's a luxury problem. Most women get hit on a lot but they just don't care about those guys who they don't find attractive, that's why they complain about "never meeting anybody".

.
This is not a fair comment. I'm going to use myself as an example to tackle this. I get hit on a lot but I'll tell you by whom:

a) married men

b) old (48+) successful men - since I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, that's a no go

c) guys in relationship

d) guys I'm not attracted to physically. Nothing wrong with that.

e) guys that come on way too strong and too soon. Don't wanna develop a friendship or get to know me but just wanna hit it and quit it.

Yeahhhh...id say I'm not greedy with a luxury problem. lol


So basicly you get hit on by the majority of men. ^^

I get it, you want to be hit on by a super confident, model Brad Pitt (in his 30s) look alike who is not needy and clingy, who only has eyes for you and doesn't care about other women. Well, I am sorry, but there is no man in this world who is like that. Once a good looking man gets all the attention, he is going to live his life to the fullest.



I took it as she isn't getting hit on by a single guy around her own age who she's attracted to. :/


Still she gets hit on by majority of guys, even when they are her age.


Getting hit on is utterly useless and should therefore not count if it's from a dude that you aren't into.


OMG now you sound like one of those spoiled princesses who claim they have only been with 2 men in their lifes, while ignoring the 23 other men they slept with in the past, just because they were meant to be for fun only. lol

You have not been hit by older married men only, don't play that game, honey.
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Don't assume and I'm not going to repeat myself. If you can't comprehend what I said to you, that's on you.
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Just what I thought the response would be. A bunch of w h o r e s in my thread calling me a gay and tons of other bullshit. Because I speak truth and not what you want to hear. Most of you sluts have probably have boyfriends on speed dial and back-ups for your back-up boyfriend. They all tell you what you want to hear, so when a guy like me says something real, call him a bunch of dumb ass names, question his manhood etc... It's okay. You've just been used to men lying to you your whole life. I have no desire to do so.



I have some news for you girls, most men DO think like me. The only difference here is, I don't care. Not much to lose to a bunch of random people on the internet. All you can do is pat each other on the ass with internet likes and pretend that you're not a fucking wreck in real life.
You might as well be Gay. You're sure heading that way.

Women pick up on your hostility towards them and they move right on past you and your immature hang ups. Your an adult and nobody is going to fix your mind nor save you from your ?ucked up point of views.

No one really is invested in your truth. Like do you really think anyone cares about your personal choice to not chase nor pursue women.

You have to live with your choices not us. If &ussy isn't attractive to you then you can always go over the rainbow to the other side, they'd be glad to have you.

Your attitude stinks. Either tighten up your pick up game or shut up with the whining on and on about the reasons why your dick is dry.


LOL!

Girls jumping to conclusions left and right! And apparently people do care whether or not I chase women. If they didn't, this thread wouldn't be 7 pages long 😉
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No one has concluded anything, just a mere observation.

You spew out your words without actually realizing you are basically saying I hate girls and I'm gay. Straight healthy minded men don't do what you're doing.

Men that get their sense of control by withholding are not dating material and a lot of those men tend to have personality disorders and suffer from depression or just plain ole miserable human beings that make themselves feel superior by causing conflict and frustration.

Your ucked up but don't blame women for your ucked up attitude.





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HighTide
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As a Cancer male I struggle with this alot. I am a flat out pussy when it comes to approaching women and its something i've dealt with my whole life and bothered me to the core at times. I have never been in a social situation where I felt like it was appropriate for me to ever make the first move on someone im genuinely interested in.I hate that I have such a feminine way of approaching courtship with someone when I feel I am very masculine in alot of other areas but just can't bring myself to face the unknown when it comes to this. I will go in house fire and save someone's life but if there is a pretty girl in the room I become deathly afraid and lock up inside. Really my Pisces moon i feel makes it worse in terms of being super passive. I expect women to approach me but its rarely happen. I guess I am afraid of the" umm I don't you".



At this point I just try to stay in good shape as I feel that is the only way I can get through the day. Its basically like "well she gave me a second look" and then I am reminded of how many opportunities in my life I truly wasted and will waste because I am so afraid of my image as a gentleman being tarnished in some way. I might be a covert narcissist lol, who knows. But being a Cancer and being that is horrible with the lack of assertiveness on something that should be a life skill you just have to begin with...
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Posted by tiki33
Posted by TeddyBearMD
Posted by tiki33
Posted by TeddyBearMD
😄

Just what I thought the response would be. A bunch of w h o r e s in my thread calling me a gay and tons of other bullshit. Because I speak truth and not what you want to hear. Most of you sluts have probably have boyfriends on speed dial and back-ups for your back-up boyfriend. They all tell you what you want to hear, so when a guy like me says something real, call him a bunch of dumb ass names, question his manhood etc... It's okay. You've just been used to men lying to you your whole life. I have no desire to do so.



I have some news for you girls, most men DO think like me. The only difference here is, I don't care. Not much to lose to a bunch of random people on the internet. All you can do is pat each other on the ass with internet likes and pretend that you're not a fucking wreck in real life.
You might as well be Gay. You're sure heading that way.

Women pick up on your hostility towards them and they move right on past you and your immature hang ups. Your an adult and nobody is going to fix your mind nor save you from your ?ucked up point of views.

No one really is invested in your truth. Like do you really think anyone cares about your personal choice to not chase nor pursue women.

You have to live with your choices not us. If &ussy isn't attractive to you then you can always go over the rainbow to the other side, they'd be glad to have you.

Your attitude stinks. Either tighten up your pick up game or shut up with the whining on and on about the reasons why your dick is dry.


LOL!

Girls jumping to conclusions left and right! And apparently people do care whether or not I chase women. If they didn't, this thread wouldn't be 7 pages long 😉
No one has concluded anything, just a mere observation.

You spew out your words without actually realizing you are basically saying I hate girls and I'm gay. Straight healthy minded men don't do what you're doing.

Men that get their sense of control by withholding are not dating material and a lot of those men tend to have personality disorders and suffer from depression or just plain ole miserable human beings that make themselves feel superior by causing conflict and frustration.

Your ucked up but don't blame women for your ucked up attitude.





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Women have directly molded me into the "monster" that I have become today. haha!!

The funny thing is, I still get women. That's the point of this thing. I don't have to make the first move really. And I don't let the "cancer" in me define shit. Most people in real life think that i'm a Leo or Gemini... and that's after knowing me for YEARS!!!

So when I see all these "that's why I don't date cancers" comments, I just laugh. I bet most of these bitches in this thread taking snipes at me are single and can't find men themselves. Because they are the real entitled cunts with ridiculous standards that they probably don't even meet themselves.

Being a REAL "man" and having REAL "confidence" is being able to stand by your own opinions no matter how unpopular it is. It's being able to say what you really think and not worry about her "feelings" and shit. Fact of the matter is, I refuse to make the first move. Only exception is she strongly hints that she wants me to approach her in some kind of way. Lol @ these girls on here. As i've said before in other post... being a "Real Man"... it's something you will never actually live up to. That's just some shit women say when they're trying to manipulate you into doing what it is they want you to do.

Anyways, on with my day.
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Just what I thought the response would be. A bunch of w h o r e s in my thread calling me a gay and tons of other bullshit. Because I speak truth and not what you want to hear. Most of you sluts have probably have boyfriends on speed dial and back-ups for your back-up boyfriend. They all tell you what you want to hear, so when a guy like me says something real, call him a bunch of dumb ass names, question his manhood etc... It's okay. You've just been used to men lying to you your whole life. I have no desire to do so.



I have some news for you girls, most men DO think like me. The only difference here is, I don't care. Not much to lose to a bunch of random people on the internet. All you can do is pat each other on the ass with internet likes and pretend that you're not a fucking wreck in real life.
You might as well be Gay. You're sure heading that way.

Women pick up on your hostility towards them and they move right on past you and your immature hang ups. Your an adult and nobody is going to fix your mind nor save you from your ?ucked up point of views.

No one really is invested in your truth. Like do you really think anyone cares about your personal choice to not chase nor pursue women.

You have to live with your choices not us. If &ussy isn't attractive to you then you can always go over the rainbow to the other side, they'd be glad to have you.

Your attitude stinks. Either tighten up your pick up game or shut up with the whining on and on about the reasons why your dick is dry.


LOL!

Girls jumping to conclusions left and right! And apparently people do care whether or not I chase women. If they didn't, this thread wouldn't be 7 pages long 😉
No one has concluded anything, just a mere observation.

You spew out your words without actually realizing you are basically saying I hate girls and I'm gay. Straight healthy minded men don't do what you're doing.

Men that get their sense of control by withholding are not dating material and a lot of those men tend to have personality disorders and suffer from depression or just plain ole miserable human beings that make themselves feel superior by causing conflict and frustration.

Your ucked up but don't blame women for your ucked up attitude.






Women have directly molded me into the "monster" that I have become today. haha!!

The funny thing is, I still get women. That's the point of this thing. I don't have to make the first move really. And I don't let the "cancer" in me define shit. Most people in real life think that i'm a Leo or Gemini... and that's after knowing me for YEARS!!!

So when I see all these "that's why I don't date cancers" comments, I just laugh. I bet most of these bitches in this thread taking snipes at me are single and can't find men themselves. Because they are the real entitled cunts with ridiculous standards that they probably don't even meet themselves.

Being a REAL "man" and having REAL "confidence" is being able to stand by your own opinions no matter how unpopular it is. It's being able to say what you really think and not worry about her "feelings" and shit. Fact of the matter is, I refuse to make the first move. Only exception is she strongly hints that she wants me to approach her in some kind of way. Lol @ these girls on here. As i've said before in other post... being a "Real Man"... it's something you will never actually live up to. That's just some shit women say when they're trying to manipulate you into doing what it is they want you to do.

Anyways, on with my day.
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Oh grow up.

You are in complete control of YOU. If you have been molded it's b/c YOU ALLOWED it. Some things we have zero control over as a child but as an adult we have the power to allow ourselves to be whomever we choose to be.

If you are choosing to be someone b/c someone molded you that way then have zero control over your life and the way you're attempting to take back that control is by punishing yourself under the disguise of rejecting women. You basically cut off your nose to spite your face just to prove women have zero power over you but the sad part all of this is women do control how you behave and feel.

Law of attraction works! Humans by nature want what they cannot have so of course you will get women but you can't keep em because the premise of you getting them requires you remain distant and unobtainable. You are not unique, there are a many pick up artist, players, narcissist and sociopaths that behave this way.

You have mama issues and no woman wants to sort that mess out. You will always be a loser at love but you seem content with that.

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Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
And when they do get hit on, most of the time it's by men we don't even like. LOL




That's a luxury problem. Most women get hit on a lot but they just don't care about those guys who they don't find attractive, that's why they complain about "never meeting anybody".

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This is not a fair comment. I'm going to use myself as an example to tackle this. I get hit on a lot but I'll tell you by whom:

a) married men

b) old (48+) successful men - since I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, that's a no go

c) guys in relationship

d) guys I'm not attracted to physically. Nothing wrong with that.

e) guys that come on way too strong and too soon. Don't wanna develop a friendship or get to know me but just wanna hit it and quit it.

Yeahhhh...id say I'm not greedy with a luxury problem. lol


So basicly you get hit on by the majority of men. ^^

I get it, you want to be hit on by a super confident, model Brad Pitt (in his 30s) look alike who is not needy and clingy, who only has eyes for you and doesn't care about other women. Well, I am sorry, but there is no man in this world who is like that. Once a good looking man gets all the attention, he is going to live his life to the fullest.



I took it as she isn't getting hit on by a single guy around her own age who she's attracted to. :/


Still she gets hit on by majority of guys, even when they are her age.


Getting hit on is utterly useless and should therefore not count if it's from a dude that you aren't into.


OMG now you sound like one of those spoiled princesses who claim they have only been with 2 men in their lifes, while ignoring the 23 other men they slept with in the past, just because they were meant to be for fun only. lol

You have not been hit by older married men only, don't play that game, honey.
Don't assume and I'm not going to repeat myself. If you can't comprehend what I said to you, that's on you.

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I think I am assuming right, lady. ^^
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Just what I thought the response would be. A bunch of w h o r e s in my thread calling me a gay and tons of other bullshit. Because I speak truth and not what you want to hear. Most of you sluts have probably have boyfriends on speed dial and back-ups for your back-up boyfriend. They all tell you what you want to hear, so when a guy like me says something real, call him a bunch of dumb ass names, question his manhood etc... It's okay. You've just been used to men lying to you your whole life. I have no desire to do so.



I have some news for you girls, most men DO think like me. The only difference here is, I don't care. Not much to lose to a bunch of random people on the internet. All you can do is pat each other on the ass with internet likes and pretend that you're not a fucking wreck in real life.
You might as well be Gay. You're sure heading that way.

Women pick up on your hostility towards them and they move right on past you and your immature hang ups. Your an adult and nobody is going to fix your mind nor save you from your ?ucked up point of views.

No one really is invested in your truth. Like do you really think anyone cares about your personal choice to not chase nor pursue women.

You have to live with your choices not us. If &ussy isn't attractive to you then you can always go over the rainbow to the other side, they'd be glad to have you.

Your attitude stinks. Either tighten up your pick up game or shut up with the whining on and on about the reasons why your dick is dry.


LOL!

Girls jumping to conclusions left and right! And apparently people do care whether or not I chase women. If they didn't, this thread wouldn't be 7 pages long 😉
No one has concluded anything, just a mere observation.

You spew out your words without actually realizing you are basically saying I hate girls and I'm gay. Straight healthy minded men don't do what you're doing.

Men that get their sense of control by withholding are not dating material and a lot of those men tend to have personality disorders and suffer from depression or just plain ole miserable human beings that make themselves feel superior by causing conflict and frustration.

Your ucked up but don't blame women for your ucked up attitude.






Women have directly molded me into the "monster" that I have become today. haha!!

The funny thing is, I still get women. That's the point of this thing. I don't have to make the first move really. And I don't let the "cancer" in me define shit. Most people in real life think that i'm a Leo or Gemini... and that's after knowing me for YEARS!!!

So when I see all these "that's why I don't date cancers" comments, I just laugh. I bet most of these bitches in this thread taking snipes at me are single and can't find men themselves. Because they are the real entitled cunts with ridiculous standards that they probably don't even meet themselves.

Being a REAL "man" and having REAL "confidence" is being able to stand by your own opinions no matter how unpopular it is. It's being able to say what you really think and not worry about her "feelings" and shit. Fact of the matter is, I refuse to make the first move. Only exception is she strongly hints that she wants me to approach her in some kind of way. Lol @ these girls on here. As i've said before in other post... being a "Real Man"... it's something you will never actually live up to. That's just some shit women say when they're trying to manipulate you into doing what it is they want you to do.

Anyways, on with my day.
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sad. we should let you live your pretend life at least here, so go ahead, I won't kill your Christmas.

here, just a lil something for ya after all that bashing and humiliation from everyone,

how many chicks did you bang last night from the club? three? wow good for you hottie! you're a leo right? wow leos are such rock stars! you're a man! a REAL MAN! c'mon ask your mama if you don't believe me!
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Yeah but nothing's gonna happen if you don't do anything about it.

It happens, I've had women approach me before. Or at least, hint very strongly that I should approach them. Funny thing about it is, if I have a girl friend, that's when all of the approaches from women come the most.

But chasing women, it's silly to me. And that's why I don't do it. Never understood why the man should always be the aggressor. It's just a social norm. But being a social norm doesn't make it right.
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Anything worth having takes work.

Which is why your bitching and moaning and standing there with empty hands.

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Yeah but nothing's gonna happen if you don't do anything about it.

It happens, I've had women approach me before. Or at least, hint very strongly that I should approach them. Funny thing about it is, if I have a girl friend, that's when all of the approaches from women come the most.

But chasing women, it's silly to me. And that's why I don't do it. Never understood why the man should always be the aggressor. It's just a social norm. But being a social norm doesn't make it right.
Anything worth having takes work.

Which is why your bitching and moaning and standing there with empty hands.




But he likes arguing with women online whilst bragging about all the women who approach him without him lifting a finger. Let's not derail the point of this thread.
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His approach to dating mirrors his approach to relationships. He thinks he wants everything presented on a platter for his enjoyment. However if that was the case why didn't he pick one of these women who approached him? (If that's even true...)

Because a truely fulfilling relationship is give AND take.
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Yeah but nothing's gonna happen if you don't do anything about it.

It happens, I've had women approach me before. Or at least, hint very strongly that I should approach them. Funny thing about it is, if I have a girl friend, that's when all of the approaches from women come the most.

But chasing women, it's silly to me. And that's why I don't do it. Never understood why the man should always be the aggressor. It's just a social norm. But being a social norm doesn't make it right.
Anything worth having takes work.

Which is why your bitching and moaning and standing there with empty hands.




But he likes arguing with women online whilst bragging about all the women who approach him without him lifting a finger. Let's not derail the point of this thread.
His approach to dating mirrors his approach to relationships. He thinks he wants everything presented on a platter for his enjoyment. However if that was the case why didn't he pick one of these women who approached him? (If that's even true...)

Because a truely fulfilling relationship is give AND take.

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yeah, men who are worth it will be approached by women we can never deny it, but who'll bend over for a sack of shit like him? he's just ranting away his jealousy.
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Yeah but nothing's gonna happen if you don't do anything about it.

It happens, I've had women approach me before. Or at least, hint very strongly that I should approach them. Funny thing about it is, if I have a girl friend, that's when all of the approaches from women come the most.

But chasing women, it's silly to me. And that's why I don't do it. Never understood why the man should always be the aggressor. It's just a social norm. But being a social norm doesn't make it right.
Anything worth having takes work.

Which is why your bitching and moaning and standing there with empty hands.




But he likes arguing with women online whilst bragging about all the women who approach him without him lifting a finger. Let's not derail the point of this thread.
His approach to dating mirrors his approach to relationships. He thinks he wants everything presented on a platter for his enjoyment. However if that was the case why didn't he pick one of these women who approached him? (If that's even true...)

Because a truely fulfilling relationship is give AND take.


yeah, men who are worth it will be approached by women we can never deny it, but who'll bend over for a sack of shit like him? he's just ranting away his jealousy.
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Lets say we take him at his word and believe the story he's told of 'lot's of women' approaching him, hitting on him, and courting him. Shouldn't that make him happy as his whole thing is he doesn't want to initiate? And if he is so happy with how he's bucked the social norm then why create this thread to rant and rave?

Doesn't add up.

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I understand where your coming from Teddy as a fellow Cancer but alot of these air signs are gonna make you feel like shit and try to pin you down when we get too honest and emotion like this. Its a superiority thing that some do intentionally because we pissed them off somehow and they play our emotions against us by painting us as "ALL WRONG", your not all wrong but they are gonna convince you something is wrong with you and be effective in getting under your skin than you are theirs.

Just remember they are broken people too, while probably not emotionally but usually in ways where they are able to mask their vulnerability better than ours in an online environment. Trust me they got bad shit in their life that would make you feel instantly better if you knew the truth but they are gonna hide that to make their argument more compelling towards you.
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I understand where your coming from Teddy as a fellow Cancer but alot of these air signs are gonna make you feel like shit and try to pin you down when we get too honest and emotion like this. Its a superiority thing that some do intentionally because we pissed them off somehow and they play our emotions against us by painting us as "ALL WRONG", your not all wrong but they are gonna convince you something is wrong with you and be effective in getting under your skin than you are theirs.

Just remember they are broken people too, while probably not emotionally but usually in ways where they are able to mask their vulnerability better than ours in an online environment. Trust me they got bad shit in their life that would make you feel instantly better if you knew the truth but they are gonna hide that to make their argument more compelling towards you.
Teddy is being spiteful with his truth. Have his truth all day but the idea that he's causing women frustration by not chasing them or pursuing them which deems him Superior is a false bottom only b/c he's attempting to protect himself from whatever demons plague him via female energy.

Air signs don't get shook too easily with emotions and we will call bull**it on people who make excuses for their wayward behavior towards others.

We can't convince stupid and we can't fix stupid.

He's harping on about female entitlement but then this same guy has the same entitled type of behavior and attitude.

We all have areas in our lives that need our healing and attention but we don't create threads that whine and moan about how better off we are without the opposite sex. Nor do we come across with this fake I'm better than you Superior inexcusable f**cked up attitude.
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I understand where your coming from Teddy as a fellow Cancer but alot of these air signs are gonna make you feel like shit and try to pin you down when we get too honest and emotion like this. Its a superiority thing that some do intentionally because we pissed them off somehow and they play our emotions against us by painting us as "ALL WRONG", your not all wrong but they are gonna convince you something is wrong with you and be effective in getting under your skin than you are theirs.

Just remember they are broken people too, while probably not emotionally but usually in ways where they are able to mask their vulnerability better than ours in an online environment. Trust me they got bad shit in their life that would make you feel instantly better if you knew the truth but they are gonna hide that to make their argument more compelling towards you.
Stop coddling bad behaviour. Nobody is "painting him wrong". It's all in the OP which everyone clearly read and got the same message from except for you and the other few entitled sissies on here.

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I understand where your coming from Teddy as a fellow Cancer but alot of these air signs are gonna make you feel like shit and try to pin you down when we get too honest and emotion like this. Its a superiority thing that some do intentionally because we pissed them off somehow and they play our emotions against us by painting us as "ALL WRONG", your not all wrong but they are gonna convince you something is wrong with you and be effective in getting under your skin than you are theirs.

Just remember they are broken people too, while probably not emotionally but usually in ways where they are able to mask their vulnerability better than ours in an online environment. Trust me they got bad shit in their life that would make you feel instantly better if you knew the truth but they are gonna hide that to make their argument more compelling towards you.
Teddy is being spiteful with his truth. Have his truth all day but the idea that he's causing women frustration by not chasing them or pursuing them which deems him Superior is a false bottom only b/c he's attempting to protect himself from whatever demons plague him via female energy.

Air signs don't get shook too easily with emotions and we will call bull**it on people who make excuses for their wayward behavior towards others.

We can't convince stupid and we can't fix stupid.

He's harping on about female entitlement but then this same guy has the same entitled type of behavior and attitude.

We all have areas in our lives that need our healing and attention but we don't create threads that whine and moan about how better off we are without the opposite sex. Nor do we come across with this fake I'm better than you Superior inexcusable f**cked up attitude.
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I am just not positive he feels this way deep down about himself or women. Alot of this could be frustration masked as something else. I have been this way myself in the past when I was going down a road of self realization and I got alot of responses similiar to what he is getting now.

Not trying to justify what some consider bad behavior. I just can tell there is an element of trying to address deep rooted anger for things that he may have felt helpless or unable to understand in his life. He probably is getting it out here since he has no place to truly vent and is willing to take the heat even though deep down I know he has been hurt by some of the comments here. I can just tell by the way he reacts in his proceeding posts. I am a Cancer/Pisces I can sense this stuff a while away. He came here to learn and along the way got deeply offended.

I am just reminding him as a fellow Cancer that he shouldn't take everything said here personally and that no one here is perfect even if they don't have problems here emotionally they probably do in other area. This as a learning experience for him and he shouldn't continue to beat himself up behind the scenes. He should however know by now this isn't the best way to present himself as he will never get the kind of feedback he wants to get by taking this route.
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Teddy has to grow up and learn how to not rub people the wrong way with his truth.

Creating this air of Superiority and everyone else is Inferior and trying to change my thoughts and ideas and I refuse to budge b/c I'm right and everyone is wrong is unbelievably selfish and childish.

Like who the hell do we look like trying to fix a GROWN man's thoughts. Especially an idea or thought that we didn't create in the first place. He's not that important to any of us.

wanna think and behave like a fool who can't win at love then have it. Don't blame millions of women for that crappy messy mindset.

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From a psychological standpoint I feel its super easy for a Cancer male to fall into NPD. It makes us come across the exact opposite of who we really are. A compensation for something else going on. Through dealings with an Aquarius/Scorpio sociopath I was able to realize I had NPD and through their darkness was I was able to fully see mine objectively. Sometimes it just takes a good sociopath to set a Cancer straight on our warped sense of reality lol.

I watched the first ten minutes of the following video and pretty much everything in this thread has been validated as that being the case as I myself have NPD and I have a feeling Teddy does to. Once he starts realizing he probably has a mild to moderate case of this maybe he can start working on the worst parts of his personality that are coming off as repulsive to people and see he acts this way because of something subconsious going on that could take 10 years to come out if he continues down this path of narcissism.



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From a psychological standpoint I feel its super easy for a Cancer male to fall into NPD. It makes us come across the exact opposite of who we really are. A compensation for something else going on. Through dealings with an Aquarius/Scorpio sociopath I was able to realize I had NPD and through their darkness was I was able to fully see mine objectively. Sometimes it just takes a good sociopath to set a Cancer straight on our warped sense of reality lol.

I watched the first ten minutes of the following video and pretty much everything in this thread has been validated as that being the case as I myself have NPD and I have a feeling Teddy does to. Once he starts realizing he probably has a mild to moderate case of this maybe he can start working on the worst parts of his personality that are coming off as repulsive to people and see he acts this way because of something subconsious going on that could take 10 years to come out if he continues down this path of narcissism.






The really fucked up female Cancers tend to have BPD, and they give the high quality Cancer girls a really bad name. The reason is because the shit Cancer girls tend to masquerade as quality Cancer girls, but one does not realize the difference between a shit Cancer and a quality Cancer until we are at the point where emotions can seriously be harmed by the fucked up things that the shit Cancer does to us.