@TeddyBearMD
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I REFUSE to initiate conversation.
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Posted by TeddyBearMD
They say us cancers are shy and often to initiate conversation. I agree, but not because I'm "shy". I do it because... in a world where women are preaching "equality", why should I? Why should I have to make the first move?Even if I do feel inclined to do this, I'm only inflating female ago and telling her bullshit that she hears everyday from dudes that are trying to put their penis in her. So, what's the point? Being just another guy that tried to help her with some dick? Seems pretty pointless to me.
Dont become disillusioned. Think positively.
Posted by TeddyBearMD
They say us cancers are shy and often to initiate conversation. I agree, but not because I'm "shy". I do it because... in a world where women are preaching "equality", why should I? Why should I have to make the first move?Even if I do feel inclined to do this, I'm only inflating female ago and telling her bullshit that she hears everyday from dudes that are trying to put their penis in her. So, what's the point? Being just another guy that tried to help her with some dick? Seems pretty pointless to me.
I'm a cancer guy and often think similar. I guess it's where we become disillusioned and pessimistic. I think if they want me they will come find me and I refuse to chase someone too much. It's not working though lol
Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
What are you talking about? You made a post once complaining about girls who supposedly rejected you in high school were now msging you on facebook. Isn't that initiating conversation. Or don't they count?Sounds to me like you're having a whinge that the hot girls aren't talking to you. If those other girls weren't worth your time then maybe those hot girls don't think you're worth their time. Sounds equal to me. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
you're over analyzing my post.
Could be a feminine sign thing
Posted by yupvirgoo
Yeah but nothing's gonna happen if you don't do anything about it.
It happens, I've had women approach me before. Or at least, hint very strongly that I should approach them. Funny thing about it is, if I have a girl friend, that's when all of the approaches from women come the most.
But chasing women, it's silly to me. And that's why I don't do it. Never understood why the man should always be the aggressor. It's just a social norm. But being a social norm doesn't make it right.
Posted by TeddyBearMD
They say us cancers are shy and often to initiate conversation. I agree, but not because I'm "shy". I do it because... in a world where women are preaching "equality", why should I? Why should I have to make the first move?Even if I do feel inclined to do this, I'm only inflating female ago and telling her bullshit that she hears everyday from dudes that are trying to put their penis in her. So, what's the point? Being just another guy that tried to help her with some dick? Seems pretty pointless to me.
As long as your okay with dying alone...have at it.
Both women and men should chase equality if the interest is mutual, otherwise it's an unbalanced scale. This is not a situation where we should give away our sit to a pregnant woman.
Posted by TeddyBearMD
They say us cancers are shy and often to initiate conversation. I agree, but not because I'm "shy". I do it because... in a world where women are preaching "equality", why should I? Why should I have to make the first move?Even if I do feel inclined to do this, I'm only inflating female ago and telling her bullshit that she hears everyday from dudes that are trying to put their penis in her. So, what's the point? Being just another guy that tried to help her with some dick? Seems pretty pointless to me.
Masturbating to the end is your future...not that there in anything wrong with that! LOL
Posted by TeddyBearMD
They say us cancers are shy and often to initiate conversation. I agree, but not because I'm "shy". I do it because... in a world where women are preaching "equality", why should I? Why should I have to make the first move?Even if I do feel inclined to do this, I'm only inflating female ago and telling her bullshit that she hears everyday from dudes that are trying to put their penis in her. So, what's the point? Being just another guy that tried to help her with some dick? Seems pretty pointless to me.
Yah l fully agree...you are spot on! Im a cancer too!! We know where it's at ? If a woman looks at me or tries to initiate l actually reject her as quickly as poss like "not in a million years"... ?
Posted by yupvirgoo
Yeah but nothing's gonna happen if you don't do anything about it.
Better that than living under tyranny...
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Posted by bricklemark
Posted by yupvirgoo
Yeah but nothing's gonna happen if you don't do anything about it.
Better that than living under tyranny...
lol... have you been through a breakup recently?
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Nope
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Yeah but nothing's gonna happen if you don't do anything about it.
Better that than living under tyranny...
lol... have you been through a breakup recently?
Nope
you seem to.... dislike women
but... why?
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Their entitled behavior...seriously open your damn eyes, imagine if a dude said the things a women said....do it.
Posted by cancerman_0707
Posted by TeddyBearMD
They say us cancers are shy and often to initiate conversation. I agree, but not because I'm "shy". I do it because... in a world where women are preaching "equality", why should I? Why should I have to make the first move?Even if I do feel inclined to do this, I'm only inflating female ago and telling her bullshit that she hears everyday from dudes that are trying to put their penis in her. So, what's the point? Being just another guy that tried to help her with some dick? Seems pretty pointless to me.
I'm a cancer guy and often think similar. I guess it's where we become disillusioned and pessimistic. I think if they want me they will come find me and I refuse to chase someone too much. It's not working though lol
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Call it whatever you want in the name of psychological issues, it's really just sense of entitlement that women should do all the work because you're too busy having a pity party. Men like that also cry about finishing last or their favourite girl walks into the sunset with the guy who let his interest be known.
~cough~misogynist~cough~
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Posted by TeddyBearMD
They say us cancers are shy and often to initiate conversation. I agree, but not because I'm "shy". I do it because... in a world where women are preaching "equality", why should I? Why should I have to make the first move?Even if I do feel inclined to do this, I'm only inflating female ago and telling her bullshit that she hears everyday from dudes that are trying to put their penis in her. So, what's the point? Being just another guy that tried to help her with some dick? Seems pretty pointless to me.
I'm a cancer guy and often think similar. I guess it's where we become disillusioned and pessimistic. I think if they want me they will come find me and I refuse to chase someone too much. It's not working though lol
Call it whatever you want in the name of psychological issues, it's really just sense of entitlement that women should do all the work because you're too busy having a pity party. Men like that also cry about finishing last or their favourite girl walks into the sunset with the guy who let his interest be known.
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Do we really want to talk about "entitlement" here? Because there is A LOT I can say about ways in which women feel entitled. Anyways, to directly respond to your stupid little comment. No, I don't expect women to "do all the work". I expect women to not feel like the man should always be obligated to... "do all the work".
Get what i'm saying now? No? of course not, fucking air headed bimbo.
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Posted by cancerman_0707
Posted by TeddyBearMD
They say us cancers are shy and often to initiate conversation. I agree, but not because I'm "shy". I do it because... in a world where women are preaching "equality", why should I? Why should I have to make the first move?Even if I do feel inclined to do this, I'm only inflating female ago and telling her bullshit that she hears everyday from dudes that are trying to put their penis in her. So, what's the point? Being just another guy that tried to help her with some dick? Seems pretty pointless to me.
I'm a cancer guy and often think similar. I guess it's where we become disillusioned and pessimistic. I think if they want me they will come find me and I refuse to chase someone too much. It's not working though lol
Call it whatever you want in the name of psychological issues, it's really just sense of entitlement that women should do all the work because you're too busy having a pity party. Men like that also cry about finishing last or their favourite girl walks into the sunset with the guy who let his interest be known.
Do we really want to talk about "entitlement" here? Because there is A LOT I can say about ways in which women feel entitled. Anyways, to directly respond to your stupid little comment. No, I don't expect women to "do all the work". I expect women to not feel like the man should always be obligated to... "do all the work".
Get what i'm saying now? No? of course not, fucking air headed bimbo.
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Go read your OP again, you self entitled POS. Learn to be a confident man. Thanks.
First step to manhood: changing your username from teddy bear. LOL
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by cancerman_0707
Posted by TeddyBearMD
They say us cancers are shy and often to initiate conversation. I agree, but not because I'm "shy". I do it because... in a world where women are preaching "equality", why should I? Why should I have to make the first move?Even if I do feel inclined to do this, I'm only inflating female ago and telling her bullshit that she hears everyday from dudes that are trying to put their penis in her. So, what's the point? Being just another guy that tried to help her with some dick? Seems pretty pointless to me.
I'm a cancer guy and often think similar. I guess it's where we become disillusioned and pessimistic. I think if they want me they will come find me and I refuse to chase someone too much. It's not working though lol
Call it whatever you want in the name of psychological issues, it's really just sense of entitlement that women should do all the work because you're too busy having a pity party. Men like that also cry about finishing last or their favourite girl walks into the sunset with the guy who let his interest be known.
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What the hel- are you talking about women have had men do all the work for millenia....??
Posted by TeddyBearMD
I do it because... in a world where women are preaching "equality"
Equality? Feminism isn't really about equality. There might be a few classic hardcore feminists who believe in equality in all areas, but the NEW modern feminist female just wants to earn the same money, have the same rights and does not want to be judged for her life style , yet when it comes to approaching, courtship and marrying a high profile/rich man they are as conservativ as the catholic church.
I usually make the first move and I am ok with it, but I never chase any woman if she plays hard to get or if she just has not made her mind up about me. It's a waste of time and energy. You have to think like a woman and have options. Hard chasing leads to rejection, except you just want to have sex with her, then you can chase her until she either says yes or gets you an restraining order. In both cases it won't hurt you too much. ^^
Women don't actually read things, they project their own wishes on it and act like thhey won the argument.
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Posted by cancerman_0707
Posted by TeddyBearMD
They say us cancers are shy and often to initiate conversation. I agree, but not because I'm "shy". I do it because... in a world where women are preaching "equality", why should I? Why should I have to make the first move?Even if I do feel inclined to do this, I'm only inflating female ago and telling her bullshit that she hears everyday from dudes that are trying to put their penis in her. So, what's the point? Being just another guy that tried to help her with some dick? Seems pretty pointless to me.
I'm a cancer guy and often think similar. I guess it's where we become disillusioned and pessimistic. I think if they want me they will come find me and I refuse to chase someone too much. It's not working though lol
Call it whatever you want in the name of psychological issues, it's really just sense of entitlement that women should do all the work because you're too busy having a pity party. Men like that also cry about finishing last or their favourite girl walks into the sunset with the guy who let his interest be known.
What the hel- are you talking about women have had men do all the work for millenia....??
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I'm not saying women shouldn't make the first move. I make first moves and I have no problem promoting that. I have a problem with the victim mentality that "I'm a loser and women get all this attention from bunch of guys, so I'm not even gonna bother. I rather they tell me." Women aren't mind readers. Let your interest be known is what I'm promoting.
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Posted by cancerman_0707
Posted by TeddyBearMD
They say us cancers are shy and often to initiate conversation. I agree, but not because I'm "shy". I do it because... in a world where women are preaching "equality", why should I? Why should I have to make the first move?Even if I do feel inclined to do this, I'm only inflating female ago and telling her bullshit that she hears everyday from dudes that are trying to put their penis in her. So, what's the point? Being just another guy that tried to help her with some dick? Seems pretty pointless to me.
I'm a cancer guy and often think similar. I guess it's where we become disillusioned and pessimistic. I think if they want me they will come find me and I refuse to chase someone too much. It's not working though lol
Call it whatever you want in the name of psychological issues, it's really just sense of entitlement that women should do all the work because you're too busy having a pity party. Men like that also cry about finishing last or their favourite girl walks into the sunset with the guy who let his interest be known.
What the hel- are you talking about women have had men do all the work for millenia....??
I'm not saying women shouldn't make the first move. I make first moves and I have no problem promoting that. I have a problem with the victim mentality that "I'm a loser and women get all this attention from bunch of guys, so I'm not even gonna bother. I rather they tell me." Women aren't mind readers. Let your interest be known is what I'm promoting.
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Ok. Comgrats on the staying calm, that's remarkable ? But don't you agree that women do get a shiet ton of attention all the time?
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Posted by TeddyBearMD
They say us cancers are shy and often to initiate conversation. I agree, but not because I'm "shy". I do it because... in a world where women are preaching "equality", why should I? Why should I have to make the first move?Even if I do feel inclined to do this, I'm only inflating female ago and telling her bullshit that she hears everyday from dudes that are trying to put their penis in her. So, what's the point? Being just another guy that tried to help her with some dick? Seems pretty pointless to me.
I'm a cancer guy and often think similar. I guess it's where we become disillusioned and pessimistic. I think if they want me they will come find me and I refuse to chase someone too much. It's not working though lol
Call it whatever you want in the name of psychological issues, it's really just sense of entitlement that women should do all the work because you're too busy having a pity party. Men like that also cry about finishing last or their favourite girl walks into the sunset with the guy who let his interest be known.
What the hel- are you talking about women have had men do all the work for millenia....??
I'm not saying women shouldn't make the first move. I make first moves and I have no problem promoting that. I have a problem with the victim mentality that "I'm a loser and women get all this attention from bunch of guys, so I'm not even gonna bother. I rather they tell me." Women aren't mind readers. Let your interest be known is what I'm promoting.
Ok. Comgrats on the staying calm, that's remarkable ? But don't you agree that women do get a shiet ton of attention all the time?
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You're talking to an aqua, not fellow cancer 😉 I disagree. I think good looking people of BOTH genders get "a shiet ton of attention all the time". I don't like this whole notion that it's just women.
Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
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@aquarius09Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
I hear this complaint all the time from men. The one thing these men have in common is that they are the shy timid guys who operate on overthinking about things like this: she's a reasonably attractive woman and therefore she gets attention all the time probably so she won't want it from me.
My guy friends who are per say confident never complain about such thing. I don't hear them complaining about such things possibly because they are too busy showing/posing interest in a woman.
Common complaint from hot women is men only want me for sex and then move on. Common complaint from hot women with brains is they seldom get hit on. Meanwhile we have men like yourself and OP blaming a common assumption that women get hit on all the time. Not true. And when they do get hit on, most of the time it's by men we don't even like. LOL
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Posted by bricklemark
@aquarius09Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
I hear this complaint all the time from men. The one thing these men have in common is that they are the shy timid guys who operate on overthinking about things like this: she's a reasonably attractive woman and therefore she gets attention all the time probably so she won't want it from me.
My guy friends who are per say confident never complain about such thing. I don't hear them complaining about such things possibly because they are too busy showing/posing interest in a woman.
Common complaint from hot women is men only want me for sex and then move on. Common complaint from hot women with brains is they seldom get hit on. Meanwhile we have men like yourself and OP blaming a common assumption that women get hit on all the time. Not true. And when they do get hit on, most of the time it's by men we don't even like. LOL
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That confuses me in all kinds of fashions...lol but l will say this, a bottom line, guys that don't work out, and don't try to make themselves attractive, can't complain. Women make efforts in many ways, taking care of hair, skin, and make up, and working out, clothes, perfumes etc....
Guys need to make a lot of efforts to keep up...
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@aquarius09Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
I hear this complaint all the time from men. The one thing these men have in common is that they are the shy timid guys who operate on overthinking about things like this: she's a reasonably attractive woman and therefore she gets attention all the time probably so she won't want it from me.
My guy friends who are per say confident never complain about such thing. I don't hear them complaining about such things possibly because they are too busy showing/posing interest in a woman.
Common complaint from hot women is men only want me for sex and then move on. Common complaint from hot women with brains is they seldom get hit on. Meanwhile we have men like yourself and OP blaming a common assumption that women get hit on all the time. Not true. And when they do get hit on, most of the time it's by men we don't even like. LOL
That confuses me in all kinds of fashions...lol but l will say this, a bottom line, guys that don't work out, and don't try to make themselves attractive, can't complain. Women make efforts in many ways, taking care of hair, skin, and make up, and working out, clothes, perfumes etc....
Guys need to make a lot of efforts to keep up...
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I can agree on that.
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Posted by bricklemark
@aquarius09Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
And when they do get hit on, most of the time it's by men we don't even like. LOL
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That's a luxury problem. Most women get hit on a lot but they just don't care about those guys who they don't find attractive, that's why they complain about "never meeting anybody".
As for your guy friends, well confidence comes with success. You don't have success with women just because you are good with your hobbies. Those guys might be good looking, tall, attractive whatever because those are door openers. The more the doors open the more you can work on your skills too.
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@aquarius09Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
And when they do get hit on, most of the time it's by men we don't even like. LOL
As for your guy friends, well confidence comes with success. You don't have success with women just because you are good with your hobbies. Those guys might be good looking, tall, attractive whatever because those are door openers. The more the doors open the more you can work on your skills too.
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These confident male friends actually vary from the attractive tall guys to the physically unattractive sweet talkers to the successful sweet talkers. Not all of them are attractive. Meanwhile, some of my timid guy friends are also quite attractive physically but the sissy attitude really kills it for women. If only they have faith in themselves. One is a cancer dude who is modelesque good looking yet the shittiest self esteem ever and that's his downfall.
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Posted by bricklemark
@aquarius09Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
And when they do get hit on, most of the time it's by men we don't even like. LOL
That's a luxury problem. Most women get hit on a lot but they just don't care about those guys who they don't find attractive, that's why they complain about "never meeting anybody".
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This is not a fair comment. I'm going to use myself as an example to tackle this. I get hit on a lot but I'll tell you by whom:
a) married men
b) old (48+) successful men - since I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, that's a no go
c) guys in relationship
d) guys I'm not attracted to physically. Nothing wrong with that.
e) guys that come on way too strong and too soon. Don't wanna develop a friendship or get to know me but just wanna hit it and quit it.
Yeahhhh...id say I'm not greedy with a luxury problem. lol
P.S. I know I'm gonna die alone because having morals and standards is too much for today's world. Woe is me. Just kidding. I'm content with my decision
More times than not I notice the female initiating with the guy though.
And it works both ways.. males have egos too. What has happened to you in your life to make you so bitter!
Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
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More times than not I notice the female initiating with the guy though.And it works both ways.. males have egos too. What has happened to you in your life to make you so bitter!
The girls in high school didnt throw themselves at him.
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Seriouslyyy.
Being a cancer male can really work in your favour at times with the ladies. But if you act like you hate women and if you genuinely DO hate them, you will probably never get anyone. Women will sense it.
You're not channeling your cancer traits correctly
My cancer brother and my cancer sister are the same. For example, they'll ask about someone and I suggest, "why not just call/text them?" They then refuse and say that why do they always have to initiate and that if the person wanted to speak to them, they would.
This mindset is completely different from mine in that, if I want to communicate with someone, I don't think of the logistics, I just do.
HOWEVER, I do appreciate wanting reciprocacy. When my cancer bro was seeing a Virgo, he often expressed to me hurt regarding the lack of initiation on her part. I hate games, and after a while of this, I expressed to him that I think relationships should be fun, and if they aren't bringing him any joy, it's not meant to be. By that point he had already made up his mind that she was just not that interested. As a female aries, being hands on is what I'm about, so I can empathize with a man's frustrations when the woman is merely one of those yo yos that doesn't do anything unless initiated. Too much underutilized potential energy
As for you, that chip on your shoulder will not do anyone any good, most of all yourself. If you find the right girl, none of that You Vs. The World and Society At Large BS will matter. You just haven't been inspired yet.
My suggestion? Go to the gym and lift heavy.
Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
What are you talking about? You made a post once complaining about girls who supposedly rejected you in high school were now msging you on facebook. Isn't that initiating conversation. Or don't they count?Sounds to me like you're having a whinge that the hot girls aren't talking to you. If those other girls weren't worth your time then maybe those hot girls don't think you're worth their time. Sounds equal to me. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
This is your classic wounded male ego raging here. Rejected in high school, suffers from permanent butthurt, and skews everything in their head due to this bs. The entitlement is reeking in this dude's post.
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@aquarius09Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
And when they do get hit on, most of the time it's by men we don't even like. LOL
That's a luxury problem. Most women get hit on a lot but they just don't care about those guys who they don't find attractive, that's why they complain about "never meeting anybody".
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This is not a fair comment. I'm going to use myself as an example to tackle this. I get hit on a lot but I'll tell you by whom:
a) married men
b) old (48+) successful men - since I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, that's a no go
c) guys in relationship
d) guys I'm not attracted to physically. Nothing wrong with that.
e) guys that come on way too strong and too soon. Don't wanna develop a friendship or get to know me but just wanna hit it and quit it.
Yeahhhh...id say I'm not greedy with a luxury problem. lol
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Just like the "thirsty hoes" they speak of, these guys see any attention as good attention, therefore women have it "better."
"WAH THEY GET MORE ATTENTION."
Yes, most of it unwanted. Come back when you're the more sexually objectified gender and have a better grasp of how things really work. The only issue I see in this scenario that the OP speaks of are thirsty dudes who want their dicks sucked, and since it's not happening at their convenience, the world is unfair.
Again, sheer entitlement. These dudes seem to reek of the "Disney" education of how life works.
Posted by cancerman_0707
Posted by TeddyBearMD
They say us cancers are shy and often to initiate conversation. I agree, but not because I'm "shy". I do it because... in a world where women are preaching "equality", why should I? Why should I have to make the first move?Even if I do feel inclined to do this, I'm only inflating female ago and telling her bullshit that she hears everyday from dudes that are trying to put their penis in her. So, what's the point? Being just another guy that tried to help her with some dick? Seems pretty pointless to me.
I'm a cancer guy and often think similar. I guess it's where we become disillusioned and pessimistic. I think if they want me they will come find me and I refuse to chase someone too much. It's not working though lol
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LMAO. That's exactly why I don't fuck with Cancers... too much work.
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Posted by TeddyBearMD
They say us cancers are shy and often to initiate conversation. I agree, but not because I'm "shy". I do it because... in a world where women are preaching "equality", why should I? Why should I have to make the first move?Even if I do feel inclined to do this, I'm only inflating female ago and telling her bullshit that she hears everyday from dudes that are trying to put their penis in her. So, what's the point? Being just another guy that tried to help her with some dick? Seems pretty pointless to me.
I'm a cancer guy and often think similar. I guess it's where we become disillusioned and pessimistic. I think if they want me they will come find me and I refuse to chase someone too much. It's not working though lol
LMAO. That's exactly why I don't fuck with Cancers... too much work.
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Same here. I've got a Cancer moon and have to do enough keeping that bullshit in check. Like hell I'd want to tolerate more of that in a relationship.
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Posted by TheSag
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by bricklemark
@aquarius09Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
And when they do get hit on, most of the time it's by men we don't even like. LOL
That's a luxury problem. Most women get hit on a lot but they just don't care about those guys who they don't find attractive, that's why they complain about "never meeting anybody".
.
This is not a fair comment. I'm going to use myself as an example to tackle this. I get hit on a lot but I'll tell you by whom:
a) married men
b) old (48+) successful men - since I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, that's a no go
c) guys in relationship
d) guys I'm not attracted to physically. Nothing wrong with that.
e) guys that come on way too strong and too soon. Don't wanna develop a friendship or get to know me but just wanna hit it and quit it.
Yeahhhh...id say I'm not greedy with a luxury problem. lol
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So basicly you get hit on by the majority of men. ^^
I get it, you want to be hit on by a super confident, model Brad Pitt (in his 30s) look alike who is not needy and clingy, who only has eyes for you and doesn't care about other women. Well, I am sorry, but there is no man in this world who is like that. Once a good looking man gets all the attention, he is going to live his life to the fullest.
Posted by TeddyBearMD
They say us cancers are shy and often to initiate conversation. I agree, but not because I'm "shy". I do it because... in a world where women are preaching "equality", why should I? Why should I have to make the first move?Even if I do feel inclined to do this, I'm only inflating female ago and telling her bullshit that she hears everyday from dudes that are trying to put their penis in her. So, what's the point? Being just another guy that tried to help her with some dick? Seems pretty pointless to me.
Lol if you don't make a move you'll be single for life.
Posted by TheSag
Posted by aquarius09
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by bricklemark
@aquarius09Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
And when they do get hit on, most of the time it's by men we don't even like. LOL
That's a luxury problem. Most women get hit on a lot but they just don't care about those guys who they don't find attractive, that's why they complain about "never meeting anybody".
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This is not a fair comment. I'm going to use myself as an example to tackle this. I get hit on a lot but I'll tell you by whom:
a) married men
b) old (48+) successful men - since I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, that's a no go
c) guys in relationship
d) guys I'm not attracted to physically. Nothing wrong with that.
e) guys that come on way too strong and too soon. Don't wanna develop a friendship or get to know me but just wanna hit it and quit it.
Yeahhhh...id say I'm not greedy with a luxury problem. lol
So basicly you get hit on by the majority of men. ^^
I get it, you want to be hit on by a super confident, model Brad Pitt (in his 30s) look alike who is not needy and clingy, who only has eyes for you and doesn't care about other women. Well, I am sorry, but there is no man in this world who is like that. Once a good looking man gets all the attention, he is going to live his life to the fullest.
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Wrong again. You just don't get it. I never said I want a model looking guy like Brad Pitt. Truth be told I was never attracted to Pitt. The only celeb I find hot is RDJ, FYI. I want a guy that I find attractive and beauty is subjective. The guys I find attractive are not found attractive by other females. Beauty being subjective allows opportunity for everyone to land another. No one really is going to die alone as long as your standards and beliefs are practical. Having said that, to want someone who fits your criteria because you, yourself, can offer the same is not being delusional and picky. If you must know what I'm looking for then it's someone I'm physically attracted to (keyword: I'm) and someone who is kind, compassionate, generous and is of good character. I'm a woman of good character and I want no less.
Posted by Arielle83
I get hit on by drunk slutty men every wkd.Totally over it!
But like what @rockyroadicecream rightfully said, they are only measuring the quantity of attention you get rather than who it's coming from. LOL.
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by TheSag
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by TheSag
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by bricklemark
@aquarius09Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
And when they do get hit on, most of the time it's by men we don't even like. LOL
That's a luxury problem. Most women get hit on a lot but they just don't care about those guys who they don't find attractive, that's why they complain about "never meeting anybody".
.
This is not a fair comment. I'm going to use myself as an example to tackle this. I get hit on a lot but I'll tell you by whom:
a) married men
b) old (48+) successful men - since I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, that's a no go
c) guys in relationship
d) guys I'm not attracted to physically. Nothing wrong with that.
e) guys that come on way too strong and too soon. Don't wanna develop a friendship or get to know me but just wanna hit it and quit it.
Yeahhhh...id say I'm not greedy with a luxury problem. lol
So basicly you get hit on by the majority of men. ^^
I get it, you want to be hit on by a super confident, model Brad Pitt (in his 30s) look alike who is not needy and clingy, who only has eyes for you and doesn't care about other women. Well, I am sorry, but there is no man in this world who is like that. Once a good looking man gets all the attention, he is going to live his life to the fullest.
Wrong again. You just don't get it. I never said I want a model looking guy like Brad Pitt. Truth be told I was never attracted to Pitt. The only celeb I find hot is RDJ, FYI. I want a guy that I find attractive and beauty is subjective. The guys I find attractive are not found attractive by other females. Beauty being subjective allows opportunity for everyone to land another. No one really is going to die alone as long as your standards and beliefs are practical. Having said that, to want someone who fits your criteria because you, yourself, can offer the same is not being delusional and picky. If you must know what I'm looking for then it's someone I'm physically attracted to (keyword: I'm) and someone who is kind, compassionate, generous and is of good character. I'm a woman of good character and I want no less.
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Oh, c'mon. That's what 99,99% of all women say. I have heard that "The guys I find attractive are not found attractive by other females" line like a million times. I am not impressed, lady. 😉
Brad Pitt was just a symbol that I used.
Posted by TheSag
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by TheSag
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by TheSag
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by bricklemark
@aquarius09Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
And when they do get hit on, most of the time it's by men we don't even like. LOL
That's a luxury problem. Most women get hit on a lot but they just don't care about those guys who they don't find attractive, that's why they complain about "never meeting anybody".
.
This is not a fair comment. I'm going to use myself as an example to tackle this. I get hit on a lot but I'll tell you by whom:
a) married men
b) old (48+) successful men - since I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, that's a no go
c) guys in relationship
d) guys I'm not attracted to physically. Nothing wrong with that.
e) guys that come on way too strong and too soon. Don't wanna develop a friendship or get to know me but just wanna hit it and quit it.
Yeahhhh...id say I'm not greedy with a luxury problem. lol
So basicly you get hit on by the majority of men. ^^
I get it, you want to be hit on by a super confident, model Brad Pitt (in his 30s) look alike who is not needy and clingy, who only has eyes for you and doesn't care about other women. Well, I am sorry, but there is no man in this world who is like that. Once a good looking man gets all the attention, he is going to live his life to the fullest.
Wrong again. You just don't get it. I never said I want a model looking guy like Brad Pitt. Truth be told I was never attracted to Pitt. The only celeb I find hot is RDJ, FYI. I want a guy that I find attractive and beauty is subjective. The guys I find attractive are not found attractive by other females. Beauty being subjective allows opportunity for everyone to land another. No one really is going to die alone as long as your standards and beliefs are practical. Having said that, to want someone who fits your criteria because you, yourself, can offer the same is not being delusional and picky. If you must know what I'm looking for then it's someone I'm physically attracted to (keyword: I'm) and someone who is kind, compassionate, generous and is of good character. I'm a woman of good character and I want no less.
Oh, c'mon. That's what 99,99% of all women say. I have heard that "The guys I find attractive are not found attractive by other females" line like a million times. I am not impressed, lady. 😉
Brad Pitt was just a symbol that I used.
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Physical attraction happens every 6 yrs for me. In the interim I stay single. I'm not hopping from guy to guy leading them on that I do like them when I really don't. I have my standards and stick to them. I never use a guy as a means to an end, especially not my selfish end of alleviating my loneliness.
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Posted by TeddyBearMD
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by cancerman_0707
Posted by TeddyBearMD
They say us cancers are shy and often to initiate conversation. I agree, but not because I'm "shy". I do it because... in a world where women are preaching "equality", why should I? Why should I have to make the first move?Even if I do feel inclined to do this, I'm only inflating female ago and telling her bullshit that she hears everyday from dudes that are trying to put their penis in her. So, what's the point? Being just another guy that tried to help her with some dick? Seems pretty pointless to me.
I'm a cancer guy and often think similar. I guess it's where we become disillusioned and pessimistic. I think if they want me they will come find me and I refuse to chase someone too much. It's not working though lol
Call it whatever you want in the name of psychological issues, it's really just sense of entitlement that women should do all the work because you're too busy having a pity party. Men like that also cry about finishing last or their favourite girl walks into the sunset with the guy who let his interest be known.
Do we really want to talk about "entitlement" here? Because there is A LOT I can say about ways in which women feel entitled. Anyways, to directly respond to your stupid little comment. No, I don't expect women to "do all the work". I expect women to not feel like the man should always be obligated to... "do all the work".
Get what i'm saying now? No? of course not, fucking air headed bimbo.
Go read your OP again, you self entitled POS. Learn to be a confident man. Thanks.
First step to manhood: changing your username from teddy bear. LOL
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That shit doesn't phase me. And it's typical of a dumb bitch to bring a guy's "manhood" into play when they're trying to manipulate him or persuade him to do something. And i'm a pretty confident teddy bear 😉
Posted by TeddyBearMD
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by TeddyBearMD
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by cancerman_0707
Posted by TeddyBearMD
They say us cancers are shy and often to initiate conversation. I agree, but not because I'm "shy". I do it because... in a world where women are preaching "equality", why should I? Why should I have to make the first move?Even if I do feel inclined to do this, I'm only inflating female ago and telling her bullshit that she hears everyday from dudes that are trying to put their penis in her. So, what's the point? Being just another guy that tried to help her with some dick? Seems pretty pointless to me.
I'm a cancer guy and often think similar. I guess it's where we become disillusioned and pessimistic. I think if they want me they will come find me and I refuse to chase someone too much. It's not working though lol
Call it whatever you want in the name of psychological issues, it's really just sense of entitlement that women should do all the work because you're too busy having a pity party. Men like that also cry about finishing last or their favourite girl walks into the sunset with the guy who let his interest be known.
Do we really want to talk about "entitlement" here? Because there is A LOT I can say about ways in which women feel entitled. Anyways, to directly respond to your stupid little comment. No, I don't expect women to "do all the work". I expect women to not feel like the man should always be obligated to... "do all the work".
Get what i'm saying now? No? of course not, fucking air headed bimbo.
Go read your OP again, you self entitled POS. Learn to be a confident man. Thanks.
First step to manhood: changing your username from teddy bear. LOL
That shit doesn't phase me. And it's typical of a dumb bitch to bring a guy's "manhood" into play when they're trying to manipulate him or persuade him to do something. And i'm a pretty confident teddy bear 😉
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Confident eh? That's not what your OP shows. You're definitely not a self aware teddy bear ?
LOL!
It has absolutely no affect on me. Everything I say is right, and the rest of you are completely wrong.
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by TeddyBearMD
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by TeddyBearMD
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by cancerman_0707
Posted by TeddyBearMD
They say us cancers are shy and often to initiate conversation. I agree, but not because I'm "shy". I do it because... in a world where women are preaching "equality", why should I? Why should I have to make the first move?Even if I do feel inclined to do this, I'm only inflating female ago and telling her bullshit that she hears everyday from dudes that are trying to put their penis in her. So, what's the point? Being just another guy that tried to help her with some dick? Seems pretty pointless to me.
I'm a cancer guy and often think similar. I guess it's where we become disillusioned and pessimistic. I think if they want me they will come find me and I refuse to chase someone too much. It's not working though lol
Call it whatever you want in the name of psychological issues, it's really just sense of entitlement that women should do all the work because you're too busy having a pity party. Men like that also cry about finishing last or their favourite girl walks into the sunset with the guy who let his interest be known.
Do we really want to talk about "entitlement" here? Because there is A LOT I can say about ways in which women feel entitled. Anyways, to directly respond to your stupid little comment. No, I don't expect women to "do all the work". I expect women to not feel like the man should always be obligated to... "do all the work".
Get what i'm saying now? No? of course not, fucking air headed bimbo.
Go read your OP again, you self entitled POS. Learn to be a confident man. Thanks.
First step to manhood: changing your username from teddy bear. LOL
That shit doesn't phase me. And it's typical of a dumb bitch to bring a guy's "manhood" into play when they're trying to manipulate him or persuade him to do something. And i'm a pretty confident teddy bear 😉
Confident eh? That's not what your OP shows. You're definitely not a self aware teddy bear ?
Don't tell the truth, he will hide in his shell and pretend like it has no affect on him lol.
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I like your kind of cancers that can acknowledge the cons of your sign 🙂
Posted by TeddyBearMD
LOL!It has absolutely no affect on me. Everything I say is right, and the rest of you are completely wrong.
This is why you have problems with attracting the right kind of women, dear.
Posted by TheSag
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by TheSag
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by bricklemark
@aquarius09Even tho there's truth to that, it's still a very large number of men coming onto all women, and women only MAYBE coming onto hot guys from time to time. Or some REALLY hot guys get hit on all the time. Otherwise it's all men doing the coming on and no women....
And when they do get hit on, most of the time it's by men we don't even like. LOL
That's a luxury problem. Most women get hit on a lot but they just don't care about those guys who they don't find attractive, that's why they complain about "never meeting anybody".
.
This is not a fair comment. I'm going to use myself as an example to tackle this. I get hit on a lot but I'll tell you by whom:
a) married men
b) old (48+) successful men - since I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, that's a no go
c) guys in relationship
d) guys I'm not attracted to physically. Nothing wrong with that.
e) guys that come on way too strong and too soon. Don't wanna develop a friendship or get to know me but just wanna hit it and quit it.
Yeahhhh...id say I'm not greedy with a luxury problem. lol
So basicly you get hit on by the majority of men. ^^
I get it, you want to be hit on by a super confident, model Brad Pitt (in his 30s) look alike who is not needy and clingy, who only has eyes for you and doesn't care about other women. Well, I am sorry, but there is no man in this world who is like that. Once a good looking man gets all the attention, he is going to live his life to the fullest.
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I took it as she isn't getting hit on by a single guy around her own age who she's attracted to. :/
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They say us cancers are shy and often to initiate conversation. I agree, but not because I'm "shy". I do it because... in a world where women are preaching "equality", why should I? Why should I have to make the first move?
Even if I do feel inclined to do this, I'm only inflating female ago and telling her bullshit that she hears everyday from dudes that are trying to put their penis in her. So, what's the point? Being just another guy that tried to help her with some dick? Seems pretty pointless to me.