Is he thinking about me?

I was in a relationship time time last year with a cancer man. I'm not over it, but he has already moved in with his partner. I was drunk a few nights and I stole my friends phone to send selfies. He didn't reply to them. I was scrolling through the contacts in my phone on snapchat and he usually has me blocked on there (for 8 months or so). I noticed he unblocked me so I added him as friend. He hasn't added me back or sent me anything but I was wonder why he would just randomly unblock me after so long? We can't see each others stories or anything so I don't understand why he would want to.



One friend says it doesn't mean anything. The other friend says it means he's ready for me to reach out.

Last time I realized he unblocked me on Facebook I reached out to him first. We started talking again after that. He seems happy with his girlfriend and I'm sure I'm reading too much into it. I ran into them at the store and his girlfriend liked a random comment I made on a mutual friends post 45 minutes afterwards.... idk. I don't know if I'm being dumb or just longing for him ):

I think him unblocking you is just him getting over whatever it was that broke you two apart. Now since he has a partner, his partner liked your comment, and he's talking to you, I think he moved on and is open to being friends again.

I will only unblock any ex when I completely moved on.

How did u guys breakup tho? did u break his heart? If so, the unblock is mostly just to let you know he found a better one.

Posted by Lilianni
I think him unblocking you is just him getting over whatever it was that broke you two apart. Now since he has a partner, his partner liked your comment, and he's talking to you, I think he moved on and is open to being friends again.

It's only on snapchat. And it's after I snapped him from my friends phone. He still has me blocked on whatever else and we haven't talked. So I kinda wanna send him a snapchat but idk if that's too much

Posted by samller
I will only unblock any ex when I completely moved on.

How did u guys breakup tho? did u break his heart? If so, the unblock is mostly just to let you know he found a better one.

Idk, I hurt him to start with and then it kinda went downhill. Right before he got a girlfriend he was weeping over that I didn't think it was a good idea to get back together. I still think about him and we haven't seen each other (aside from that run in) in 8 or so months. I think it triggered me. I want to say something but don't even know what to say.

I can't see his stuff because he didn't add me back. Snapchat says I'm his bestfriend on his so I don't know how. I don't know how it works tbh.

It's hard when there's no closure and feelings are still attached. But I would NOT reach out if at all possible, I know this is hard. I've caved after a few glasses of wine. Most importantly I would not do this knowing that he is with someone. It's not fair to her.

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Posted by Lilianni
I think him unblocking you is just him getting over whatever it was that broke you two apart. Now since he has a partner, his partner liked your comment, and he's talking to you, I think he moved on and is open to being friends again.

It's only on snapchat. And it's after I snapped him from my friends phone. He still has me blocked on whatever else and we haven't talked. So I kinda wanna send him a snapchat but idk if that's too much

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Ohhh. If that's the case then maybe he.. Doesn't want to see you again? Especially since you already sent a friend request. But maybe he just doesn't want you to see his day to day life on his Snapchat.

I mean, I guess you can send a snap if you really wanted to. Just to say hi and be friendly. But I'm afraid he might send a snap of him and his girlfriend enjoying how much better he is now. But I think that depends on the type of person he is.

Dude has you blocked on every form of communication except Snapchat FOR A REASON.

Did you act shitty during the breakup?

Why are you blocked in the first place? ?