OKAY WTF— (Page 3)

hey everyone, i came back from my long weekend vacation..... checked my phone and saw that he called. i havent called back, and i dont plan on it.
its true that i started to realize that letting go and standing up for myself is the ebst thing for me now, i will still do it with charm, i wont play no games, be mean, or creul like him, i will jus try to avoid his phonecalls.
right now im still too weak to answer the phone and talk.

wheelies, thankyou for your story, u really helped me, and im glad u understand where i am coming from, becuase yes we have had major history, and yes, letting go is the hardest thing ive ever had to do, so thankyou!

okay he hasnt called since monday, i am gettin upset lol, and gettin weaker by the day! HELP!

lol okay, thanks for the help 🙂

DID NOT KNOW us crabs have that kinda hold on tauruses. Same with my ex... first she said she do not want any part of me then she said sorry for what she did. IS THAT when you fall hard for the person u want them back.Huh huh tauruses u know u love the taurus / cnacer connection. it's very addictive. I Myself just keeping myself busy. she did say she misses me i she has her own place and does not mind me coming up but i can't rush it. BUT still not sure if to go back in the realtionship.

well put kate. i ahve decided to let go of the emotions, and i have not called, yesterady was relaly hard for me, but today after alot of prep tlaking from myself, i am feeling much better, and more in control.
thankyou everyone once again.

update!!!!!!!! OKAY, SO AFTER MAYBE 2 WEEKS OF HIM CalLIN, I FINALLY gaVE INTO HIM. WE CHILLED, i told him to promise not to lay a single finger on me.. did not work, for him that meant do w/e it takes to get me. w/e.... i played it off liek i wasn interested. finally by the end of the night, i gave in alittle, and surprise surprise... he has dissappeared on me, didnt answer my phonecall, and broke a promise to see a movie with me the other day.
w/e. lol

and BTW... that nasty txt message i said he sent, i brougth ti up, and he didnt kno what i was tlaking about, he said he never sent it. i not sure i believe him tho.

i dont have a plan lol

lol not too bad
aahh im jus alil' messed up thas all...... its not that i dont wnat to be intimate with him, i do, but its wrong... i jus want to know he cares about me and is not jus using me, i need to kno theres an attraction there, and strong connection, which is why he keeps coming back.... i guess knowing this wont make me feeel so shitty.

good point lol

well, i couldnt stop him ne more, i gave up fighting for a sec becuase it felt good... but then after a few seconds, i hit him, and then he put me down.

i laughed becuase i saw it coming, im laughing becuase i shouldve known better than that. im laughing becuase he thinks hes so smart, and because he thinks im so dumb.
basiclaly im laughing cuz i let him play me liek a fool.

"and BTW... that nasty txt message i said he sent, i brougth ti up, and he didnt kno what
i was tlaking about, he said he never sent it. i not sure i believe him tho."

lmao...LilLadie...are u slightly retarded? I'm really being serious, what exactly do u mean when u say that ur "not sure" u believe him? It came from his phone number right? what is there to not be sure about because it seems pretty black or white to me.

"well, i couldnt stop him ne more, i gave up fighting for a sec becuase it felt good... but then after a few seconds, i hit him, and then he put me down.

i laughed becuase i saw it coming, im laughing becuase i shouldve known better than that. im laughing becuase he thinks hes so smart, and because he thinks im so dumb.
basiclaly im laughing cuz i let him play me liek a fool."

huh...what happened here...i don't get it

((looking around confused)) please explain...did i miss something?

lady scorp, it didnt come form his phone, it was form the internet , it didnt have a number

lady scorp, it didnt come form his phone, it was form the internet , it didnt have a number

Now, I really believe the truth of how Tauruses and Cancers can B so much in harmony. He can tell a taurus ANYTHING and she will believe it. Dayum, girl wake up.

lmao...LilLadie...are u slightly retarded? I'm really being serious, what exactly do u mean when u say that ur "not sure" u believe him? It came from his phone number right? what is there to not be sure about because it seems pretty black or white to me.

LMFAO! I was going 2 ask the same thing. And where did U learn how 2 spell from? Some of us can't understand these out of context words.

what did the text lil.ladie? I forgot that you can text phones from websites so I take back my comment about being slightly retarded

Krobe, do u get what is going on? help me, i'm lost...she hit him? he put her down? what does that mean? does it mean he knocked her ass down?

lucky, fellow scorp, help me to understand, i dont get it

Lucky, i am so tired right now i am confusing stories. let me get myself together.

Dam I normally see the bright side in everything...but I dont get this one either, LS. Lilladie chances are that he sent the text...via email, phone, plane, train or automobile. LOL. He just prob feels like an a $ $ and is denying it now. Sounds like too much drama...I personally, would probably leave the situation (and him) alone. Too much going on. Its just too ridiculous...its almost like he is a loose cannon. Who's to say he wont pull the same crap again. But thats just me.

*lose cannon

Well let's not use the words "dumb" or "retarded". LOL. Hmmmmm.... I think that sometimes we dont like to look at certain situations for what they are, b/c they are not what we want them to be. Not to say, that this is the correct behavior or the correct way to deal with things.....but it happens. So with that being said...I think its important that we (women)need to look at stuff for what it is. Like I said, its obvious that this guy more than likely sent the message, in which case he needs to be eliminated. IF he did not send the message and some silly immature girl did....then that means he has some stupid girl in his life who he is allowing to cause drama in his life in which case he still needs to be eliminated. The whole situation just seems so juvenile and ridiculous... a pure waste of time.

True true...all very true. LOL!!!!

well, i couldnt stop him ne more, i gave up fighting for a sec becuase it felt good... but then after a few seconds, i hit him, and then he put me down.

i laughed becuase i saw it coming, im laughing becuase i shouldve known better than that. im laughing becuase he thinks hes so smart, and because he thinks im so dumb.
basiclaly im laughing cuz i let him play me liek a fool.

what is wrong with you— Please read what you wrote....he thinks i'm so dumb and i'm laughing at myself cuz i let him play me for a fool.

It sounds like you lack self esteem my dear, your needy and he's playing off of this NEED, wake up or your going to start a pattern that will be hard to break, no more going to his place, your not a mattress and he's putting you in that category.

sounds like your very immature or very naive or both....find someone else to date and have fun, stop fixating on this dude, your fixation will become an addiction and he will drag your ass all over the place.

Yea these men now a days will "drag your ass all over the place", if you let them...thats for sure. Gotta be smart!

lol i kno.... tahts the dumbest part of all, i know im being dumb by keeping this guy around... what does he do for me? Nothing except amazing passion when we're together, and once agian, most of it, is just holding on to the best frieend he was to me 7 years ago .
i gotta realize that people change, and he has changed.... for the worst.

he said he would take me to the movies, and pay... which, saldy, is the firts time he as ever offered to take me sumwhere let alone pay for me. BUT, agian, he said that while tryna get laid, so i dont see that ever happening.
i will jsu have to continue on, not caring, and not callin.... it seems to be working for me so far.
and yes..... I KNOW HE SENT ME THAT TXT.
theres no way he didnt, it sounded excatly liek him, its sumthign he would say.
now if i know he is lying bout this, and he did it so smooothly , it scares me to think of what else he is lying straight to my face about.

UPDATE!!!!!

bad bad update, so he said hed take me to themovies, n hes never called, and so ofcourse i have 2 very shitty days off, and i cal him up.... we talk for bit but he hads to go cuz he was wokring. thne i call him later thta night, like a dumbass, and no answer. i go wlaking round the block listening to music ot let off some steam, and i see him and his gf wlaking, i walk passed them, it felt liek i was stabbed iwth a knife. as if that wasnt bad enuff, i calle dhim this morning, ofcourse no answer. then i sent a text to make matters worse... it said:
i jus called 2 say i cant do this ne more. i care about u way too much. i dont want to get hurt again, n i dont want to hurt u either.


am i a complete psycho or what. was that the worst move ever or what.

lilladie - PUT THE PHONE DOWN!!!! Whatver you do...DO NOT CALL HIM AGAIN !!!!!! Do NOT!!!! LEAVE HIM ALONE. LOL.

I think you are missing the point. The issue here is not if you have made the wrong move or not. The point is that he has a girlfriend, and obviously cares about her to some degree. That tells you to back off. He is not an option anymore. If him and his girl break up then fine?but he is TAKEN. Leave it alone!

Do not embarrass yourself any further, please. You are not only making yourself look crazy, but desperate as well. Please don't get me wrong?I know what it is to care about a man very deeply?and to feel like you can't control your emotions, so I completely sympathize with what you are going through. But you have to get control of yourself and tell yourself that he is not an option anymore. More importantly, you have to believe that you are worth more than that. That you deserve a man that is going to make you HIS girlfriend and want to spend time with you. Not some guy who already has a g/f and who you have to chase down. I mean dam!

Lil?let him go and move on. Who cares at this point what the heck he thinks of you. Learn from this and move on. If I were you, thats how I would handle the situation.

Btw....lil how old are you?

Yea Lil...Lucky is right!!!! Never talk to him again!

lol i kno, i sound so stupid, what did i expect— really— he has a gf, and he didnt call me, and im upset——? that is so thickheaded of me.
i definately need to get contorl over msyelf again, i was doing fine, until i chilled iwth him last week..... now im back to the mental desperate maniac.
UUGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IM 20

Yea just relax. Hes a jerk and you need to value yourself more. You will find someone. But just forget about him. Keep yourself busy....and move on with your life. But please learn from this.

so i am to never answer his calls again either, right.
stupid quetsion, ofcourse thats right.

Lil....leave him alone. I guess you can asnwer his calls here and there. But I wouldnt. I defintely wouldnt. Out of sight out of mind. I wouldnt want to hear his voice. All that is going to do is suck you in. Just leave him alone and move on. Would you want the kind of guy who has a g/f and is telling another girl that he is going to take her out!?!?!? If he would do that to his current girl he wont hesitate to do it to you!!!

If I were you I would completely cut all ties of communication. Thats just me. You need to MOVE on. It will be extremely hard to move on if you are still communicating with him.

thats true, jsu liek last time, i thought wuts the harm in answering his calls, then he suckered me into chillin with him,and now im back in the psycho seat.

ohwell.
this will be good for me.
i didnt say en thign mean, so i couldnt have hurt his feelings.
i left it on good terms i think, so i dont have to regret it.
this is best for the both of us.
GOD I HOPE SO!!!!!!!!!!! lol
thanks you muchhhh for ur help n support

No prob!

LLT....I want you to copy and paste your posts and save them on your computer. 1 yr from now, go back and read them and you will learn a lot from yourself.

I will pray for you my dear.

oh there's the little kitten thats been stirring up trouble....

well hello there...:-)

lol@ls.

Leo...you just dont stop do you!?!?!?! LOL. You love to argue. Shoot, I have a hard enough time dealing with life. Between my man, work, family and money I dont have the energy to start trouble with anyone on here! LMAO!

i need to get myself a backbone

LLT,
No do as U please. It does not matter what we say 2 U, U have 2 live and learn. GO ahead, make a fool of yourself, if that is what U want 2 do. We give advice, but U don't seem 2 take it. Just if it feels good what your Cancer is doing, go with the flow. Whatever makes U happy.

lol krobe, lol
its weird how the person who tells me to do what i wnat, is the perosn who makes me think: NO!!!!
HEEEYYYYY, reverse psycology really works on me.
no wonder im easily manipulated

All I can say is WOW!

I second that Mai lol

LLT - it's not reverse psychology....it's making you feel ashamed of yourself. Don't feel ashamed, just learn and move on that's all.

Ha u will never leaavvveeeee lil taurus,lol. We will charm u and it's that lil something that has u wondering,hmmmm .What e up to and i wonder if he wants u in ur arms. We are verrrrry romantic.

BUt i will say this much u must have a reason why u answered secondly can u block the number,thirdly did u not call him as well. It must mean u have deep feelings for him more than a friend and i know u want him to settle for u.

black knox, he hardly ever calls me, i call him before he even gets a chance to miss me. and im pretty sure i scared him away this time, last night i dunno what ahppened, but i thought it would be best if i told him how i felt ( confused, missing his firnedship, wnating more, not strong enuff to leave, for him to decide whether its worth ti to keep me around etc all that crap, in a 5 message long text msg. so, now i look like an even bigger freak, he probably thinks im this relaly messed up chick, with real problems. and im sooo embaressed right now, i have made plans to go away on vacation to clear my head and try to forget bout him. i promised my firneds, if i ever mention his name, i have to buy them a coffee. lol

LLT...are yopu making this up? You have to be making this up!

maianm, i wish.