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Posted by KittenLaRouge
So he didn't have you to his house for three years. Girls know they are being hidden because they guy does weird shit like dis appears at night or you cant call him at a certain time. Either your young or just ignored the signs.

No I been there not on the regular tho

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You ain't on the regular after 1 month then youre an option what u think he's doing on the nights he's not with you?

Posted by LeDominoes
Only on DXP do you find these things.

No this is common. Men and womwn have lost their sense of honor and respect

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Posted by Darling

Posted by KittenLaRouge
So he didn't have you to his house for three years. Girls know they are being hidden because they guy does weird shit like dis appears at night or you cant call him at a certain time. Either your young or just ignored the signs.

No I been there not on the regular tho

You ain't on the regular after 1 month then youre an option what u think he's doing on the nights he's not with you?

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Idk what do you think?...mabey with his wife n FIVE kids..

Posted by AriesLady8
Wow you must feel crushed! Take your time so you can reflect and wrap your mind around this. Heal. But don't stay stuck in this. You wasted 3 years on him don't waste another minute more.

Most likely he will reappear in a couple weeks or months. It will feel normal to want to speak to him and get answers or the infamous closure. But what really can he say to you that will be constructive to hear? He has a wife and 5 kids. There's nothing else to know. He character has spoken for himself.

I do feel terrible but there's nothing else I can do besides move on...thank you though I really appreciate you kind words

Posted by Darling

Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by Darling

Posted by KittenLaRouge
So he didn't have you to his house for three years. Girls know they are being hidden because they guy does weird shit like dis appears at night or you cant call him at a certain time. Either your young or just ignored the signs.

No I been there not on the regular tho

You ain't on the regular after 1 month then youre an option what u think he's doing on the nights he's not with you?

Idk what do you think?...mabey with his wife n FIVE kids..

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Maybe? You didn't woder that in three years and follow him or something? Side eye

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Posted by Darling

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Posted by KittenLaRouge
So he didn't have you to his house for three years. Girls know they are being hidden because they guy does weird shit like dis appears at night or you cant call him at a certain time. Either your young or just ignored the signs.

No I been there not on the regular tho

You ain't on the regular after 1 month then youre an option what u think he's doing on the nights he's not with you?

Idk what do you think?...mabey with his wife n FIVE kids..

Maybe? You didn't woder that in three years and follow him or something? Side eye

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Follow him?

Posted by Darling

Posted by KittenLaRouge

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Posted by KittenLaRouge
So he didn't have you to his house for three years. Girls know they are being hidden because they guy does weird shit like dis appears at night or you cant call him at a certain time. Either your young or just ignored the signs.

No I been there not on the regular tho

You ain't on the regular after 1 month then youre an option what u think he's doing on the nights he's not with you?

Idk what do you think?...mabey with his wife n FIVE kids..

Maybe? You didn't woder that in three years and follow him or something? Side eye

Follow him?

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No dear I did not "follow him around"

Most time we'd be at my house ...

We go to his house occasionally...

Obviously I was an option soooo...what are you asking me?

Why didn't I suspect him of having a wife n 5 children??

Or after 3 yrs would I suspect him being with somebody else—

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Posted by Darling

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Posted by KittenLaRouge
So he didn't have you to his house for three years. Girls know they are being hidden because they guy does weird shit like dis appears at night or you cant call him at a certain time. Either your young or just ignored the signs.

No I been there not on the regular tho

You ain't on the regular after 1 month then youre an option what u think he's doing on the nights he's not with you?

Idk what do you think?...mabey with his wife n FIVE kids..

Maybe? You didn't woder that in three years and follow him or something? Side eye

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Believe it or not its not everyday you suspect someone of denying an entire family after claiming the mother was deceased....

Posted by GC01
I almost just can't believe this its just too much.

Girrrrl this shit got me wondering if I'm in a movie—

But I put that on everything it is very true

Posted by Harukka

I never trust my cancer husband. Like I always hate him inside, but pretend like every thing is ok. But I always want to run away from him.

I hack his phone to find out he cheat on me with (women, men, kids between 13_16)

He talk with one girl like he is a girl (still feel sorry for him about that).

Whatever I ask for divorce now, and for sure I cried a lot even tho I never loved him.

Still in a war with him to got my freedom, he refuse to let go of me.

Deep inside ... I want him to be died.

I just want him to leave me alone.

Now I don't feel sorry for you, I feel sorry for his wife 😢

Cancer gay pedophile eh? Nice

Posted by Harukka

I never trust my cancer husband. Like I always hate him inside, but pretend like every thing is ok. But I always want to run away from him.

I hack his phone to find out he cheat on me with (women, men, kids between 13_16)

He talk with one girl like he is a girl (still feel sorry for him about that).

Whatever I ask for divorce now, and for sure I cried a lot even tho I never loved him.

Still in a war with him to got my freedom, he refuse to let go of me.

Deep inside ... I want him to be died.

I just want him to leave me alone.

Now I don't feel sorry for you, I feel sorry for his wife 😢

Wow that's terrible

Posted by 9waterlion9
I'm a bit confused as to how you could go to his house and not notice an excess amount of bedrooms, children's or women's items lying around, etc...

Must've been his mancave cause him n his roommate shared the apartment.. That's why I didn't like to be there all the time he has weird friends

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Posted by Darling

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I'm a bit confused as to how you could go to his house and not notice an excess amount of bedrooms, children's or women's items lying around, etc...

Must've been his mancave cause him n his roommate shared the apartment.. That's why I didn't like to be there all the time he has weird friends

So he's married, but doesn't live with his wife and 5 kids? This doesn't make sense

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Idk I'm going off of what the bitch told me

They could be divorced though and able to have relationships with other people no?

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Posted by Darling

Posted by 9waterlion9
I'm a bit confused as to how you could go to his house and not notice an excess amount of bedrooms, children's or women's items lying around, etc...

Must've been his mancave cause him n his roommate shared the apartment.. That's why I didn't like to be there all the time he has weird friends

So he's married, but doesn't live with his wife and 5 kids? This doesn't make sense

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He probably didn't live there to begin with...

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
They could be divorced though and able to have relationships with other people no?

I didn't think that much into it...after she txd me off his phone that sealed the deal

I'm sorry 😢

Posted by Darling

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
They could be divorced though and able to have relationships with other people no?

I didn't think that much into it...after she txd me off his phone that sealed the deal

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Well are they together? having sex?, is he paying child support properly?

Posted by 9waterlion9

Posted by Darling

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Posted by Darling

Posted by 9waterlion9
I'm a bit confused as to how you could go to his house and not notice an excess amount of bedrooms, children's or women's items lying around, etc...

Must've been his mancave cause him n his roommate shared the apartment.. That's why I didn't like to be there all the time he has weird friends

So he's married, but doesn't live with his wife and 5 kids? This doesn't make sense

Idk I'm going off of what the bitch told me

This story isn't really adding up, think about it...it's possible you recieved some false information.

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It doesn't make a lot of sense...

But if its not true why would he let someone to me something like that??

N worst case scenario if its all just him being psychotic I would still want nothing more to do with s person capable of this its cruel

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

Posted by Darling

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
They could be divorced though and able to have relationships with other people no?

I didn't think that much into it...after she txd me off his phone that sealed the deal

Well are they together? having sex?, is he paying child support properly?

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I didn't ask

Posted by Darling

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Posted by 9waterlion9
I'm a bit confused as to how you could go to his house and not notice an excess amount of bedrooms, children's or women's items lying around, etc...

Must've been his mancave cause him n his roommate shared the apartment.. That's why I didn't like to be there all the time he has weird friends

So he's married, but doesn't live with his wife and 5 kids? This doesn't make sense

Idk I'm going off of what the bitch told me

This story isn't really adding up, think about it...it's possible you recieved some false information.

It doesn't make a lot of sense...

But if its not true why would he let someone to me something like that??

N worst case scenario if its all just him being psychotic I would still want nothing more to do with s person capable of this its cruel

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Well bottom line is he was with a girl and she had his phone so...

Posted by 9waterlion9

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Posted by Darling

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
They could be divorced though and able to have relationships with other people no?

I didn't think that much into it...after she txd me off his phone that sealed the deal

Well are they together? having sex?, is he paying child support properly?

From what it sounds like she has no way of knowing or verifying any of that information, something is definitely up but I don't believe it's what she thinks

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What do u think cause right now I'm thinking of how crazy he must be to have lied about everything

Posted by Impulsv
Ding ding ding at this point she won she can keep him married or not. If she's lying u got a jumper crazy with five of his kids tied to u for life to make ur life miserable

No thanks

U can say that shit again

Posted by Darling

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
They could be divorced though and able to have relationships with other people no?

I didn't think that much into it...after she txd me off his phone that sealed the deal

Well are they together? having sex?, is he paying child support properly?

From what it sounds like she has no way of knowing or verifying any of that information, something is definitely up but I don't believe it's what she thinks

What do u think cause right now I'm thinking of how crazy he must be to have lied about everything

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You so different from me cause I would be asking damn questions and going with the signs of a guy not meeting your expectations.

Lying the whole friendship would not make me change into having long term anything with that person. Remember when people start tripping and evaluating stuff like this make sure it's the truth.

When's the last time you talked to him?

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
They could be divorced though and able to have relationships with other people no?

I didn't think that much into it...after she txd me off his phone that sealed the deal

Well are they together? having sex?, is he paying child support properly?

From what it sounds like she has no way of knowing or verifying any of that information, something is definitely up but I don't believe it's what she thinks

What do u think cause right now I'm thinking of how crazy he must be to have lied about everything

You so different from me cause I would be asking damn questions and going with the signs of a guy not meeting your expectations.

Lying the whole friendship would not make me change into having long term anything with that person. Remember when people start tripping and evaluating stuff like this make sure it's the truth.

When's the last time you talked to him?

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Seems like he dipped...he will be back for pussy

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
They could be divorced though and able to have relationships with other people no?

I didn't think that much into it...after she txd me off his phone that sealed the deal

Well are they together? having sex?, is he paying child support properly?

From what it sounds like she has no way of knowing or verifying any of that information, something is definitely up but I don't believe it's what she thinks

What do u think cause right now I'm thinking of how crazy he must be to have lied about everything

You so different from me cause I would be asking damn questions and going with the signs of a guy not meeting your expectations.

Lying the whole friendship would not make me change into having long term anything with that person. Remember when people start tripping and evaluating stuff like this make sure it's the truth.

When's the last time you talked to him?

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We had an argument last night

What was it about?

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
What was it about?

Him giving me the silent treatment cause his friends was staring at me when we all were hanging out n we ended up leaving early...somehow them being savages was my fault

?

So nothing about him and living situation currently but something about his friends being savages blah blah. That's not what you should have been discussing. Okay by doing that maybe you want him anyways. So confrontation is out of the door.

Or just leave him alone since dxp thinks this is some bullshit.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
So nothing about him and living situation currently but something about his friends being savages blah blah. That's not what you should have been discussing. Okay by doing that maybe you want him anyways. So confrontation is out of the door.

All that Facebook shit happened this evening after I put his pic up...

Damn sorry to hear, get rid of him.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Or just leave him alone since dxp thinks this is some bullshit.

Idgaf!!! I think its crazy too wtf am I gonna lie about— Who the hell wants to have wasted 3yrs ??

.....

It doesn't matter tho its just what it is...like I said the ending to the cancer/cancer posts

Yeah it stings alittle not going to lie about that.

*smh* ?

where is your neptune and what are in your 12 house? these can teach you where and how blind you are

Posted by AriesLady8
Why is everyone acting like living a double life is so hard? He's a Cancer right? So to me it sounds like he has some personal planets in Gemini. Gemini energy is very capable of living dual lives and in fact is most happiest when doing so.

And every relationship is different. You guys don't know what his "wife" accepts in their relationship. Obviously not cheating but she's gotta accept some behaviors about him for it to have even gotten to this point.

You are hurt as you should be. But don't let these people who do not know you make you feel bad about a life you didn't know he had. I'm sure you missed warning signs but don't beat yourself up.

He will miss you. As he should.

Thank you lol I was feeling dumb as it is...

Posted by iCloud9
where is your neptune and what are in your 12 house? these can teach you where and how blind you are

Idk my bday is 7/15

Posted by Darling

Posted by AriesLady8
Why is everyone acting like living a double life is so hard? He's a Cancer right? So to me it sounds like he has some personal planets in Gemini. Gemini energy is very capable of living dual lives and in fact is most happiest when doing so.

And every relationship is different. You guys don't know what his "wife" accepts in their relationship. Obviously not cheating but she's gotta accept some behaviors about him for it to have even gotten to this point.

You are hurt as you should be. But don't let these people who do not know you make you feel bad about a life you didn't know he had. I'm sure you missed warning signs but don't beat yourself up.

He will miss you. As he should.

Thank you lol I was feeling dumb as it is...

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Yea he is right on 6/22 borderline Gemini... Mabey that would explain his bipolar psychoticness I've put up with all these years

Posted by Darling

Posted by iCloud9
where is your neptune and what are in your 12 house? these can teach you where and how blind you are

Idk my bday is 7/15

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go to astro.com. sign up, enter your birth info and get your chart. google is your best friend to begin learning about your chart lol. i have seen a lot of accuracy in people when it comes to neptune's whereabout and planets in 12 house.

This isn't even Maury! Wow! All you're missing is a compound in Utah. Sorry girl! Run and change your number, hair, car etc.

Posted by kissmygrits
This isn't even Maury! Wow! All you're missing is a compound in Utah. Sorry girl! Run and change your number, hair, car etc.

—??

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Posted by Darling

Posted by iCloud9
where is your neptune and what are in your 12 house? these can teach you where and how blind you are

Idk my bday is 7/15

go to astro.com. sign up, enter your birth info and get your chart. google is your best friend to begin learning about your chart lol. i have seen a lot of accuracy in people when it comes to neptune's whereabout and planets in 12 house.

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I just checked it out but I have no clue how to decipher the chart

Posted by Darling

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Posted by iCloud9
where is your neptune and what are in your 12 house? these can teach you where and how blind you are

Idk my bday is 7/15

go to astro.com. sign up, enter your birth info and get your chart. google is your best friend to begin learning about your chart lol. i have seen a lot of accuracy in people when it comes to neptune's whereabout and planets in 12 house.

I just checked it out but I have no clue how to decipher the chart

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those AstroClick reports under Free Horoscopes are good places to start

Posted by Koniuchaa

Posted by iCloud9
where is your neptune and what are in your 12 house? these can teach you where and how blind you are

Ugh this makes sense. I have Mars in my 12th and am blind to the men I am attracted too 😢

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my bff has mars in 12th and neptune in 1st. i'm actually afraid when she asks for my opinions these days because i do not know how not to hurt her feelings if i'm to be honest. i have said everything possible that i could in the past decade

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Posted by iCloud9
where is your neptune and what are in your 12 house? these can teach you where and how blind you are

Ugh this makes sense. I have Mars in my 12th and am blind to the men I am attracted too 😢

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http://www.leahwhitehorse.com/2015/02/19/natal-mars-in-the-12th-house/

"Because Mars is connected to your desires and sexual attraction, you may find it difficult to openly pursue those you are attracted to. Secret desires may be unrequited or perhaps you are drawn to those who are unobtainable. Perhaps you just find it hard to ask for what you want from a partner. Sometimes relationships can trigger psychological complexes. This can be damaging or healing depending on how it is handled. Some people with Mars here may be celibate. On the plus side, Mars in the 12th house can indicate that sex is a spiritual experience, perfect for investigating tantric practices.

Look to the aspects that Mars makes in your chart. If they are positive, it may show that one of your karmic lessons in this life is to use your Mars for others. In a past life you may have honed your Martian energy – maybe you were strong and powerful yet kind and compassionate. Maybe you had mastered your body through martial arts or athleticism. Perhaps you were a natural leader and you bring that quality into your current life. Mars in the 12th can be on a mission. You are called to take action on those things that promote peace and connection between all things. Mars here could be said to be a fight for peace.

With challenging aspects, maybe in a past life, there were unwise actions or problems with anger and competitiveness, so in this life, it’s about learning to use the energy of Mars more effectively both for yourself an others. It may be about learning how to handle anger on a personal level, dealing with unresolved anger and ultimately forgiving yourself."

I don't think it's blindness, it's more lack of drive to pursue, because you need spiritual experiences?