soOoo i'm datin' a cancer.. (Page 3)

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lol Merc I was thinking the same thing. I was like "Lies is going to get on and beat us all for butchering her post" lol

Sweet,

and what sign might u be hun?

merc,

she didnt really have a major problem so i guess thats why this thread got sidetracked.

i tried to get her to tell me her secrets but it didn't work

Im a Taurus.

"Im a Taurus"

eh, atleast u didn't say gemini or leo or cap or sag or aqua or virgo...so I guess I can deal with u

well if you find that you cant deal with me I'll understand.

Aww Sweet..ur just so....sweet. LOL

no u won't Sweet, u'll be devasted

lol actually I expect for Scorpios to run screaming from my presence...after the good times and laughs have run out.

"Im a Taurus"

eh, atleast u didn't say gemini or leo or cap or sag or aqua or virgo...so I guess I can deal with u

hmph !!!

SooOoO i'm back
to give a little up date ;]
everything is going good between
me and him...
still not together
the other day he asked me out
but i said no...wanted to wait
a little more. i guess he got hurt
but he still hasn't gave up yet
thats a good thing.

maianm...what you just
said is how i am...he is
kinda taking things fast
i want to take this slow..
so i can be able to trust him
he tells me a lot about how he
feels about me. i don't say anything.
i don't really show anything either.
i wonder what he tells me is lies..
cause its easy for him to express
his feelings... unless he trust me

If he is really feeling you and you show him your feeling him just as much then Cancers can fall fast... I've seen it happen and I've done it myself.... If you say your not showing him anything then he must feel challenged and a cancer man loves a good challenge...

ladie to be honest thats
kinda like what i do..i wonder
if i'm a gemini/ cancer =X

They say Cancers and Geminis are like opposites of eachother... Cancer girsl are just like Gemini guys and Cancer guys are like Gemini girls..

SooOoO i'm back
to give a little up date ;]
everything is going good between
me and him...
still not together
the other day he asked me out
but i said no...wanted to wait
a little more. i guess he got hurt
but he still hasn't gave up yet
thats a good thing.

Very typical of you as a Gemini... My sister is a Gemini and she is just as evil... lol I thought cancers were scary until my sister let me in on her love life...

I know I keep commenting on this but, I keep reading more and more into this>>>>

These are my thoughts...

It sounds to me like you are really challenging this guy... Cancer men love challenges!! love love love love them!! They love to be winners... If you keep on stringing him along like this as soon as he knows he's got you he may decide he's tired of you... You should listen to Moon Eyes... He's not gonna tell you when he's hurt he's going to let it bottle up and eventually explode and that might happen after he knows he's got you and then your going to go in shock when he blows up at you... Your gonna be like this *&*% *###@@ is trippin... Cancers feelings are easily hurt... If you like him let him know you like and let him know you are afraid of the relationship and thats the reason for your attitude (I know you have one 😉) He will understand...

hey honey...
you're right about whatcha said
im kinda worried about him gettin'
tired...thats how i feel its gonna be.
once i give in its gonna change =X
now im second guessing on if i should
or not...

"They love to be winners..."

You're right about that
he loves to win..and if he
doesn't then he gets mad..

i've notice that cancers get
irritated fast huh?

"They love to be winners..."

You're right about that
he loves to win..and if he
doesn't then he gets mad..

i've notice that cancers get
irritated fast huh?

Easily irritated but, won't directly come out and say it... So you might continue to do something irritating and not even know untill they decide to finally hold it against you...

To win a cancer mans heart you have to be down for him. They want a girl who will do anything for them but, at the same time has respect for themselves. You have to show them just how much you love them. Matter of fact they are kind of testy and want to see just how far you will go for them but, don't let them push you too far. They love to play cat and moouse games...

your right once again lol
i've notice that he tests me alot..
but i always pass =] because i know
when he tests me..but i've learned to
not show a guy what i can give..
last relationship i gave him my all..
and got hurt...made me stronger...but
im waiting for him to do anything for me
because im not gonna show anything unless i know
hes foreal... you know what im sayin?

I say give the guy a chance... Cancers can be great lovers... They go all out once they know your the one... I think you really like this guy because of the attention he gives you... You Geminis lov that and you can actually live on the fact that he just gives you that much attention and thats good enough to keep you going right now... I think it's time to text the next step and give in... My sister does the same thing with the guys she starts talking too... She strings them along just for the attention even if she doesn't think she likes the guy so much... In this case I think you like him... Your just afraid to let your fears go... I've discovered that life is about taking chances... If you live in the past your gonna stay in the past and you'll never be happy in the future...

And you know what you are a very pretty girl... I can tell you get a lot of attention... as a pretty girl you probably doubt yourself because we get so much attention and we don't know how sincere a person really is... Do they want you just because of your looks or do they really like the person you really are? In this case your probably asking yourself does he want me for his prize (You, the one he's been trying to win? Or, is he really feelin me. All you can do is be yourself. At this point just let him in withoug letting him in... Act like you are just as interested without putting your whole heart in it and so where it goes... When your really ready to put your heart in do it.

i was thinkin that too just
let him in with out lettin him in
sounds good. you're right again about whatcha said
but it's gonna be kinda hard because i like
this guy but imma give it a try.

whats your sign?

whats your sign?

Very much a cancer of course... But, I seem to always attract other cancer men... I've had 3 of them in my life... And they all have special places in my heart till this day... I don't know why I'm always attracted to other cancers but, I am and so now I know them like the back of my hand... For the most part anyway...

Some things you can't always tell about them... It takes a long time to really really to get to know them... Years!!!