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This thread is officially spam. Something Purr's "Mood Swing Thread"'s never was. Granted that those threads never had a chance to be anything, but, it never would've been anything like this, cause it had a purpose, unlike this, which is why, this thread, is officially spam.


If you don't know what i'm talking about, that was a very quick and dirty history lesson about the history of this thread, a place for cancers to come here and vent or express their emotions and thoughts, a "crab sanctuary".

All what is now is a place for horny cancer women to tell Scorpio men how much of horny cancer women they are.

I for one, don't give a single flying fuck about how much any of you like Scorpio men, or Virgo men, which is pretty much the summary of the past 500 posts of this bitch.

Want to know why no one likes cancers ? its not because you are clingy, its because you have no character, no direction and no pride. You come across and unique and charming, as you could be; and then saturate your personalities to your own oblivion.


Fuck this place is sad, and this is your home. How sad is that ?



Boohoo, you so saaaaaad! What's wrong? Some hotty cancer gal didn't give you the time of day? Did you get your wittle heartz bwoken? Go tell your mama, cause she's the only one who cares. Oh, have a cookie for your pain. It has secret ingredients to make it extra special, just for you.



You, specifically you, is whats wrong with this place.
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Awww, I wuv you, too, you chunky bit of meat and cheese. 😛
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Cheese your comments actually remind me of a blog by psychic Michelle Whitedove and she said the show Walking Dead is a big hit because many of us are sleep-walking through life in a daze of drugs and delusions.

I actually feel this is true. Especially for me. Like there is something missing.




Sounds about right.

It's like there is less of what's "real".





There is a lack of real emotion, I also notice people seem to bottle things up.
Or just avoid dealing with them at all.
Honestly, I partly think it's the form of communication we are using now.
Text, email, IM. All distant forms of communication.
Perhaps its the connection to humanity that we are missing.

I have always hated people see. Never wanted to really deal with them because on some level I was either disappointed, hurt or angry. But now I am yearning for a real connection. It's almost like I am wasting my passion. I want to express passion and emotion. But society really frowns on outward expression.

Having gone back over some of the last pages in this thread I can see your point now.
It's not deep thought or expression of emotion. More surface flirtation.
I understand the need for fun though. But to deny ourselves the passion and depth of emotion that our sign is capable of is a disservice.
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If you cant be real on a website in a discussion forum with people that dont know your true identity, then I think its sad. I think just from the last few pages those surface flirtations were just to lighten the mood from my emotional out pour. Sometimes we gotta laugh to keep from crying, so lets keep a happy medium so we dont drown in here. Surface emotions should be welcomed, emotions are emotions. I really do appreciate you creating this thread.
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I'm almost, madly in love with a Gemini.

So that's new.




Ewww, oh I mean congrats.
I think.
Are you dating her?



Just stalking at this stage..



Just kidding. Yup, dating. No funny business, yet. Letting her salivate for a minute. Or two.
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Good, would you consider yourself courting her?
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This thread is officially spam. Something Purr's "Mood Swing Thread"'s never was. Granted that those threads never had a chance to be anything, but, it never would've been anything like this, cause it had a purpose, unlike this, which is why, this thread, is officially spam.
If you don't know what i'm talking about, that was a very quick and dirty history lesson about the history of this thread, a place for cancers to come here and vent or express their emotions and thoughts, a "crab sanctuary".
All what is now is a place for horny cancer women to tell Scorpio men how much of horny cancer women they are.



This thread has been all of that and more. Something Purrs thread never was.
Cancer women expressing their desires is a form of expression.
The purpose of this thread was there to be a PERMANENT place for Crabs to express their emotions, moods, vents. And you can still do that.

Are you saying we lost our Sanctuary? If so how?

I hadn't really thought about it until Cheesburger raised the subject the other day, so now I'm gonna run with it.
Why can't we have a thread for us Crabs with a better TITLE, something more general and inviting to all, women AND men?
I have no problem with this thread being here but it's not MY sanctuary.
To me, the title "mood swing" suggests it's more of a place for women on their periods to hang out and rant 😄
We Cancer men already cop enough flack for being overly sensitive or emotional so announcing to the world that a mood swing thread is our default home on this board doesn't gel well with me.

What was wrong with my Crab lounge chat thread as a place to hangout? Hmmm.

Like I already said, LunarMaiden wanted a permanent place for us Crabs to hang out, a little home away from home, so to speak....so the title doesn't make sense to me in that respect and probably why it evolved into just general banter.
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^This.
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the mood swing thread became what it is through progression and now people are accustomed to the purpose of it. Originally made by purrhiss ofc.

try a different board MM. this has me thinking about social psychology and dynamics though. *complex stuff*

Yes, it evolved that way but not because of the threads "title".
My opinions have nothing to do with the thread contents, my personal feelings about LunarMaiden or, PurrHiss, for that matter, nor do I have a problem with the existence of this thread.

It's the title of the thread, it sends the message out there and to anyone new to astrology that Crabs are defined by "mood swings"
Every human has changes in mood, happy, sad, lazy or whatever, but not everyone, including Cancer people have "swings in mood".
I think the title generates a negative connotation if it is to become "generally accepted" as our little home.
That's my whole point for wanting a home thread for all Crabs, with a title that represents more generally and appropriately who we are....does that make any sense to anyone?

It doesn't have to be my crab lounge chat thread...I can't force people to think of my thread or post in it.
I'm ok with LunarM or any of the other stayers creating a thread for the Crab board.

It's just that I think the "title" of this thread is disharmonious with the vibe of the thread and is not a true representation of me, as a Crab, or Cancer peeps in general.
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Moonman, I don't care what people think.
Cancers are known for their mood swings.
And being moody is not negative.
It's just a thread for people to come in and post some thoughts.
I think you are bored and want a new thread.
This one stays up.

PM me so we can discuss another crab thread, maybe we can come up with something.
I have some ideas.
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Posted by xMoonMan
Can I assume that I won't be getting any support from my Crab brothers regarding the Mood Swing thread?

Are you brothers telling me you are happy with putting it out there that you are 'mood swingers' and that this is the attribute you would like to be known for, when in fact it is the females who are more prone to mood swings and that they embrace their mood swings?
Are you happy to let this notion embed itself into the modern psyche of the general public?

Maybe you'll take the easy route and say you don't have an opinion or don't care....



I think that perception is already out there, thanks to the cat ladies, and those few Crab males who do fit the stereotype.

Which subsequently results in all the " my Cancer man " threads.
Don't think the mood swing thread affects things either way.
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Moonman- I see your point. Did before you clarified it, actually.
I might recommend maybe two threads-one for thoughts, etc that are kind of like one sees on this thread, but not necessarily a bitch session, and the other to share Crab perspectives.

For the first one, maybe the rule is that posts should stay to the random thoughts/feelings Crabs are having at the time, which is sort of what I see as what the Mood Swing thread has morphed into. Along with that, pissing and moaning posts should create their own thread.

For the second, the rule should be that it is for Crabs only. We get enough threads from non-crabs here on how crabs think, feel, eat , and take a dump when the majority of the time it's projection of the OP/individual poster. For such a thread, I would propose that non-crab content goes unacknowledged by crabs posting there. Don't get me wrong, there are IMHO some non-crabs that do have a good understanding of crab personality and it is refreshing, but even in those cases I would hold to the unacknowledgement rule (bend or break the rule for them, and you end up breaking it for all). Now, there are some Crabs here that have demonstrated an inability to respect boundaries/rules (I don't have to mention names, they're pretty obvious). I would suggest that the acknowledgement rule applies to them when they start to misbehave.
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So, in the spirit of Crab PR, we should do a boob swing thread?



Only if I can control the thermostat



Can cashmere sweaters be used?



Wouldn't that defeat the purpose of the thread?



Good point. We can inspect fabric thickness upon entry.

Not if it's a very thin, deep V necked sweater.
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Trans fixed I am, lingering in amiss
Remained faithful, yet emotively numb
Newness now a ghost

Looking beyond the shadows, I recognize light
Pursuing the like I
Ignore anti, seeking pro
Answer, invisibility
Slumbering in eternal outlog

A new venture brings spark
It's warmth draws me near

Reminiscing on joys past as I
Ascend far beyond the astro planes
Internally aching, core fluttering
I remain Steadfast, Sharp, Swift, and Soaring
Cutting through the stinging sensation of
Confusion and disillusion
Seeing the stage, I take my place among the desired
Reaching the precipice I blow a kiss of

Gratitude.
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Posted by Cheeseburger
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There has been quite a lot of negative energy on the Cancer board lately.

Meh.

& I would kinda like it if Lunarmaiden came back too.




What negativity ?

I haven't been following the threads lately. All I can tell that there are some upset traumatized women venting about some stuff. Very usual for this board.

But I do miss the people here. sometimes a lot.
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I was going to ask the same question they are ruining my latest guilty pleasure that is this forum... everybody is fighting... so annoying!!
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most cancer people dating gems that I know said that the main reason they are attracted to them is because they are self confident and cocky... (which is perceived as good)

But those guys are prone to cheat... not all but they gems I know mostly girls get bored pretty fast... they dont like mushy stuff... IDK

I have lots of gems in my life... they are cool, but they are weird sometimes... detach, cold, bit dramatic...