The Mood Swing Thread (Page 13)

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by LunarMaiden on Wednesday, October 30, 2013 and has 670 replies.

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Those images looks very cozy...Taurus sun Virgo moon... Home is where the heart is for me ❤❤ Cancers I wish you would believe someone when they want to be in your world instead of the mood swings and slow pace. Tauruses want nothing but to love y'all. However I lost my first cancer and I've never felt passion like it. I now have two cancers wanting to be in my world and I'm scared as hell to give my heart so now instead of my all I'm cautious so I may just lose them and you know what? That's ok if my heart won't be toyed with again.

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Posted by Shaniajam
Those images looks very cozy...Taurus sun Virgo moon... Home is where the heart is for me ❤❤ Cancers I wish you would believe someone when they want to be in your world instead of the mood swings and slow pace. Tauruses want nothing but to love y'all. However I lost my first cancer and I've never felt passion like it. I now have two cancers wanting to be in my world and I'm scared as hell to give my heart so now instead of my all I'm cautious so I may just lose them and you know what? That's ok if my heart won't be toyed with again.

So you would rather not experience deep fulfilling love because you are afraid of getting hurt?
Has avoiding heartbreak ever stopped you from getting hurt?

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@Pearls
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I have a lot of relationship related questions to ask but I need for my Cancer buddy to come back on and give me his number since I have a new one now and didn't save it. *sad face*

I need for someone that understands me but with a clearer mind to go through all my rubble.
I'm always the strong one to everyone but I need some stability too.

I hope he comes on soon 😢

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Posted by Cheeseburger
This is all bullshit.

I've been thinking about astrology being full of bullshit for a while now, but today I know its definitely all bullshit.

I caught up with a great friend of mine today; for the first time in years. He asked me why haven't I settled down yet and I gave him my honest answer. I've got a fuckton going on career wise and I haven't found the right one yet.

He told me that my answer was bullshit. He told me that the most precious thing to him is going back to his home after a day's work and being greeted by his one year old daughter. He told me that no matter who it is you marry, you will need to learn new things and compromise and she will need to learn new things and compromise, and, most importantly, no one is a good match for anyone. You are not a good match for someone and no one is a good match for you.

Its brutally honest.

Its pretty much the same advice I get from my grandfather's generation. They don't tell me to go find myself a smart girl, or an obedient girl, or an attractive girl, or a rich girl, or an accomplished girl. Just a nice one, and marry her.

Why are we complicating something that isn't complicated ?

How have we become so self indulgent, selfish and scared; all at the same time ?

We forget everything we know about how painfully miserable most people are in this planet, and their misfortune has nothing to do with "not finding the right one".

I'm mistreating a person who almost worships me because her "birth chart" is all fire and air...

I just realized how fucking foul that is.

I think every single thing i've learned from this place and everything relating to this place is foul. If not morally and ethically wrong.

and you know what was the last straw .. this picture http://i.imgur.com/eXYbaQ2.gifv

It's an old man who saw a picture of his mother for the first time in decades.

It's hauntingly beautiful.

It's the thing that astrology can't ever be.

Most people are over thinkers and influenced by the media.
A rich dude will marry a waitress and a career woman will accuse the guy of not wanting an ambitious wife and intimated by accomplished women.

My brother married a cashier. She is not a cashier. She works as a cashier.
Her being a cashier does not define who she is.
My career minded sister who now runs her own business, was LIVID that he would not pick someone equally successful.
I asked my brother why he didn't choose the career girl he was dating and who traveled a lot.
He said my new sister in-law was available and reciprocated his affections.
And he likes that he is the bread winner and can take care of her.

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I'm having a panic attack over this Cap guy because I walked away and have to stick with it.
Everything feels so dismal and emotionally ouchy right now.
I want to be cold and uncaring
I want so badly to be cold and unaring

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@LunarMaiden
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Just got home from work.
It's been a long day.

Really considering doing something different with my life.
It's exciting and frightening at the same time.
I want to just drop everything I'm doing now.
Strip myself bare and become reborn again.

Quit my job, stop volunteering and live an extremely hedonistic lifestyle for two years.

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you should do it, if there isn't much holding you back!

whuch time zone are you in, Lunar? you must be to my east as it's noon here.

do you want to go and see the world?

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I wonder if they would pin a few threads to the top of the cancer board for us, like this one, a music one and a couple of others.

maybe so us residents could permanently take up some of the height of the screen. I'm sure people who come here with relationship troubles wouldn't mind scrolling down a bit.

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Posted by clare
you should do it, if there isn't much holding you back!

whuch time zone are you in, Lunar? you must be to my east as it's noon here.

do you want to go and see the world?

I've always wanted to join the Peace Corp and travel the world. Go places off the tourist map.
Help people in that way.
But then again I want the luxury tour as well. 😄

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maybe you could do both. I would love to do that, or something similar to that.

to get away like that and feel like I was really giving something to the global community would be so fulfilling. being surrounded by genuine, caring people. fresh air and exercise. experiencing other cultures and real problems. when my girl is old enough maybe I should talk her into doing something like that with me.

but i'm doing a bit of leisure travelling this year so that should be fun. it's nice to finally look forward to exploring somewhere after a good few years of not doing.

unrelated but my coffee tastes awful this morning. I don't like the way I made it at all. bleh. >😢

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@clare
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it's like I have this feeling pinning me down, which must be my cancer mars.
this must be one of the ways we are closely related to our opposites, capricorns.

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@clare
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Posted by sunkisses26

Posted by clare
hmm, I wonder if I should start dating again or not.

I am fine emotionally but I am being hard on myself for some reason. I'm not sure why.

you SHOULD start dating again!!! if you are looking for a sign this is it!!!

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Thank you sunkisses.

I'm not being hard on myself any more, but I don't really feel like it anyway either.

there's much more to life than romance. maybe some other time. 🙂

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@clare
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well, i must be giving off more relaxed, single vibes because men have started chatting me up again. it's nice to feel again; something that isn't tension or the blocking of my true self in some way.

i made a mistake in choosing my last boyfriend, i just wasn't catering to my needs as i should have been. but i didn't realise that at first. i guess i was a little blind because I expected that once the outside was taken care of, everything on the inside would fall into place. but then it didn't. he was amazing but not the right guy for me. i have learnt plenty about myself in these past few years and will not make that same mistake again!

motherhood really changes the way we look at the world. girls, don't ever let it have you forget how crucial it is to follow your heart. a cancerian following a set of logical criteria for 'love' will only be taken down a lonely path of loss of self. truth.

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is it strange that i know somebody who has been close friends with somebody for 10 years + and that I knew several things about their character that they hadn't yet seen, even before I met them?

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