Angel is all 'me me me'. She deserves everything that comes her way. She started this thread for attention and sympathy. She got the sympathy from some of you - but not once was she grateful or thankful.
She is the most selfish person I have seen on here.
ScorpionSting, I told you the group of haters will follow soon. Nuff said keep up the good work with your Cancer man and for ALL the REAL women who aren't naive, yes, we can start our own thread, of course leave ALL the haters out!
Sweets, I NEVER once stated that I don't show feelings OR emotions, you are another and neither did ScorpSting, we stated we keep our emotions in CONTROL and don't display neediness with them. For you own personal record if I was screwing a Cancer man every night, you wouldn't know about it and let's not tell the world of DXP you have personally PM'd me for advice about a Cancer man. I have NEVER asked you for advice or care for any advice from you because we can plainly see that YOU don't have your Cancer man wrapped around your finger either. I don't care and will NEVER care about you or Angel's situation because both of you are attention seekers and want everyone to display attention towards you.
You did good to leave ScorpSting it is hopeless to sit up trying to defend yourself and please don't try you do good associating yourself with people who understand your situation and can relate to YOU! You will notice some of the Cancer men on this thread is within the same miserable click!
i have never been nor will be in any click. i am a simple fair person and treat ppl how they treat me. i guess what bothers me on this board is how women come on here and say they know cancer men better than we know ourselves. my first point is we all hide things from other ppl so i am pretty sure not everyone knows ppl like they want to believe. haven't we all heard someone say, geez i never knew he/she would ever do something like that to me. so having said that i think it is better that we try to understand ourselves first before we think we know someone else..hey krobe long time no talk. hope your well..
I was not talking about YOU Cansir! You are the only male I have ever known on the Cansir boards to give ppl fair advice and tell us ladies what we want to hear! Why ALL the attacking? Hi Cansir, how are you? long time no hear from! I am dayum well. I have NEVER stated that I know anybody and I don't know anyone but MYSELF and what I want out of life. I have stated that I don't just listen to words from ANY man and if that is what he is trying to feed me then, bye. Nothing to give.
i wasn't taking it personally krobe and was just stating that some ppl need to check themselves. i think i know where you stand when it comes to men...remember i was once married to a leo :-)
i wasn't taking it personally krobe and was just stating that some ppl need to check themselves. i think i know where you stand when it comes to men...remember i was once married to a leo :-)
Yeah, I think you pretty much know, if you are slacking in any areas, next. We don't believe in the time and patience theory. LOL!
"You carry on being foolish. Gosh Cancerians are so blind. No wonder youre so soft and easy to manipulate."
Hmm...i'm not so sure I agree with that. I think some Cancers may get blinded by their emotions but they are most definitely not blind. In fact, we are pretty psychic and can tune into to people's feelings better than most. The only problem is that even though we KNOW what we're doing is stupid or idiotic, we do it anyways because we generally follow our emotions rather than follow reason or common sense. Emotions are inherently illogical...they can't be explained by logic or reason...
angelfish i'm sorry to hear ur hurting. i hope ur cancer can see how much ur worth and come out of that shell soon. i'm sure you'll be fine, best of luck.
Scorpion Sting is nothing more than an opinionated fool. If anyone believes that she has "control" over this Cancer man of hers, then they are an even bigger fool. All she talks about is how she is a Scorpio and she will "sting" you so beware.
Most pathetic words I've ever heard. Yes, she's a scorpio...so she's as weak and insecure as any other scorpio. All her loud mouthing is just words. She's trying to make herself appear to be a bull when all she is is an insect.
Come on Scorpion sting...come sting sting me dahling. Come so that I may trample you. And the real reason why you "dont know whether you want a relationship with your cancer" is because you're nothing more than a slut. Yep. That venus in sagi says it all. You cant keep those legs closed....but seriously honey...you're not in control, so do us all a favor and shut that trap.
Oh and I read your comment about how you can never get involved with a taurus man because they are boring and there is no emotional connection. Keep telling yourself that. The real reason is because a Bull would put you in your place. You go for the cancer because you think you can manipulate him.
I am guessing that you are hurting/insulted from the comments you received on your threads about your cancer man friend. I am replying to this thread to suggest to you that you put your stinger down and be the change you want to see. In other words, set the tone by responding to others how you would like to be responded to.
scorpion sting's name should be mutt-mix sting because besides her sun sign i see nothing scorpio about her.....quit pretending like u understand water signs and cancer and what they want....
what was that scorpion sting.... ?? it must have felt good just to write it huh? was it a racial slur like krobe?? she hide that when she called angel poor white trash. i hope u guys enjoyed going after her.......
showing emotion wont push a cancer away......maybe one who has as little water in thier chart as u scorp sting.....
Just for the record, I have a venus in sagittarius....actually prolly on the cusp of Scorpio and Sagittarius since the timing is so close when the transit happens....BUT I'm NOT a slut. I like a commitment and long-term relationship. May be it's my capricorn sun or effects of Scorpio venus....idk...
well i try to hide mine ........im not usually very successful, its like trying to hold a volcano in till the pressure is just to much and it goes blaaaaaa all over the place.lol
""Just for the record, I have a venus in sagittarius....actually prolly on the cusp of Scorpio and Sagittarius since the timing is so close when the transit happens....BUT I'm NOT a slut. I like a commitment and long-term relationship. May be it's my capricorn sun or effects of Scorpio venus....idk...""
sarasa, please don't take heed to the words of astrolooney tunes. you're morals and values are not determined by planetary positions, period.
that is true to a degree, but yes....some placements are more likely to be a certain way. how your brought up....environment and life experience has a lot to do with it.
''what was that scorpion sting.... ?? it must have felt good just to write it huh? was it a racial slur like krobe?? she hide that when she called angel poor white trash. i hope u guys enjoyed going after her.......
showing emotion wont push a cancer away......maybe one who has as little water in thier chart as u scorp sting.....''
aww the crab is being crabby.... Ooh I do love those pincers! 🙂
Krobe....I could care less who you sleep with every night...sleeping with someone every night is little to show by the way of having something to show for any expertise besides expertise in and of the bedroom. And for what advice did I solicit you? If I asked you anything it was out of curiosity and not out of any kind of serious want of your advice. I have gone back to my Cancer and together we have shared laughs about your expert advice on Cancers....so please believe that as much as your "advice" I may read, I have no intention of using it for anything besides a good bellybusting laugh.
You can call me a hater or whatever, but the day I "hate" or get "jealous" of woman who's motivation for seeking advice is to justify being the other woman while trying to pass off that she's in the position of control in the situation then calls another woman selfish, is the day I will officially seek to commit suicide.
Very insightful post Elli, thanks for the look into cancer-evolved.
Krobe....I could care less who you sleep with every night...sleeping with someone every night is little to show by the way of having something to show for any expertise besides expertise in and of the bedroom.
Yeah, I see on these boards the WOMEN who can brag about being in a committed relationship were the MAN WANTS to be there regularly in your life and WANTS to wake up next to you everyday get hated on. Yes, Women in COMMITTED RELATIONSHIPS sleep next to there men every night. They don't ALLOW any man to sleep with them on their terms, you are either HERE daily or bye! Sex is great and passionate! Only haters call you a slut when THEY can't get a man to commit.
And for what advice did I solicit you? Nee you ask!
If I asked you anything it was out of curiosity and not out of any kind of serious want of your advice. I have gone back to my Cancer and together we have shared laughs about your expert advice on Cancers....so please believe that as much as your "advice" I may read, I have no intention of using it for anything besides a good bellybusting laugh.
Yeah, I know it is pretty evident that someone who doesn't take my advice so seriously or just uses my advice for a good belly laugh shows it so concerned about it show it to someone else. LOL! They sit up on these boards calling other women who post their advice "superficial" and "fake" but it is self evident if I my advice was so stupid, you would "NEVER" pull up any of it up too show to anybody.
I have a man who matter of fact told me he could NEVER see himself with another woman and NEVER feel love towards another woman the way he loves me. He PAYS for me to live at my place and his place, he GOT me a new car and helps me pay my bills. Yes, you can happily sleep next to a man every night who does not make up excuses to be there. I don't EVER have to worry about walking on eggshells just to try to "please" and watch out for his feelings because I won't ALLOW myself to be involved with an man who has "immature emotions" feelings because I am clearly aware that I cannot do to please "any" man who is not in touch with his feelings so why try too. Why don't you and your so called "Cancer man" get a belly laugh off of this advice.
Oh, and Happy Valentine's Day to you, I hope you get to get a ring just like I am sporting.
Well now I know who pays your bills and buys your cars so I guess I would know if you were sleeping with him every night....
I dont have any plans on getting a ring for Valentine's day so it would be a complete surprise if I do, but Im glad that you have found someone who is so happily sharing himself with you.
I'll run that advice past him and see if it makes him laugh...
krobe, what's that stuff about being an independent woman about if he pays your bills and buys you cars? that's buying you off, or paying for sex that's not love...or maybe u're like Julia roberts in "pretty woman"
A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP means that a woman is INDEPENDENT and she does things for HERSELF and her man realizes that she loves "HERSELF" and he loves her because she loves herself and he is willing and WANTS to do things to please HER and ADD to HER life. Not buy her OFF just share "LOVE" with her and not take away from her.
Love does not cost money! A man who truly LOVES you loves to give to you because he is a MAN, therefore he wants to do whatever you "NEED" him to do to make YOU happy. A man is the giver and provider and he does it because he "wants" to not because you need him too.
I don't have to sell sex or myself to any man. A man doing things for "his" woman that pleases her and makes "her" happy and he doesn't use just words to make her happy, he shows her his love through actions.
I use my money to do things I want to do for me. If my man wants to contribute with continuous "action" that he loves me, he is not paying for nothing, he enjoys making me happy.
I guess some women don't realize a man "wants" to do for you and make you happy on his own. A REAL woman who is not a bitter cactus and not "recieve" love is fake and superficial. ALL women need watering, if you don't "recieve" water than NO man can truly love you because you are making it way too hard for him to love you. You have to be open for love and vulnerable. You can only recieve love if you are open for love. Independent doesn't have anything to do with your man wanting YOU to want him.
ALL I have to say about it is that I am a woman who is vulnerable and open to love. The ONLY way any man or woman or whomever is going to constantly show you love is when he is fully aware that you can take care of yourself with or without him. I guess you call it pure "luck" some women can fully recieve love and find happiness from a man who loves and cares from them. It is just foreign languange to naive women who give out so much to get nothing or little in return.
I am pretty sure ANY man who comes on these boards will say they will stay with a woman who makes him feel like a "man". For ALL you naive women, yes, men are the givers and providers in the relationship and no matter how "independent" you are he still wants to be a your man and he wants you to "need" him.
I'm confused...wasn't it just a couple weeks ago that krobe was saying that the cancer guy was running away from her? Something about her walking past his car and when she stopped and looked in his direction he sped off? NOW suddenly whe sleeps with him every night and he pays her bills and wants to marry her? Or did she go back to the cap? Or this someone entirely NEW now?...... it's so hard hard to keep track of the "men" she gets into "committed" relationships with........
Can anyone provide a diagram to help us poor confused souls who are under the impression she must be completely full of shit to change her story so frequently and quickly?......
and let me stop you right there - NO I am NOT all that concerned about YOUR life krobe - it's just that as much as you want to talk shit about me and my situation YOU are the one spilling you ENTIRE life story on EVERY thread on DXP....... you just have to be up in EVERYONE'S face don't you?.....
I'm confused...wasn't it just a couple weeks ago that krobe was saying that the cancer guy was running away from her? Something about her walking past his car and when she stopped and looked in his direction he sped off? NOW suddenly whe sleeps with him every night and he pays her bills and wants to marry her? Or did she go back to the cap? Or this someone entirely NEW now?...... it's so hard hard to keep track of the "men" she gets into "committed" relationships with........
It's called NO OF YOUR DAYUM BUSINESS! LOL! Quit reading my posts why don't you? I wasn't even talking about you or your situation, I don't know anything about it and can care less. I don't know ANY of your story and I don't want to know.
ME and ScorpSting were talking to each other about something totally different then you and YOUR situation. YOU were the one who came out biting cookiemonster and you got bit.
I can post what I want on these boards! Some people can accept women in loving committed relationships and the ones who can't find LOVE seems like they can't do nothing but complain about someone else happiness.
first off - you're in MY thread - you wanna post your story here? I have EVERY right to respond.
Second - the reason you won't argue is because you're FULL OF SHIT...but that's okay, you don't need to respond, everyone can read the things you write and see for themselves what a bold faced liar you are.
Second - the reason you won't argue is because you're FULL OF butter...but that's okay, you don't need to respond, everyone can read the things you write and see for themselves what a bold faced liar you are.
Go outside, in the air raise your hands up in the air, take a deep, deep breath. Breath in deep and while your are breathing IN, let all that ANGER, BITTERNESS, HATERED fall down to the pit of your stomach. Let the sunshine ray in on your face, OH it feels so good. Close your eyes and SMILE, it feels so GOOD to be happy, a very happy successful person in life. WHEN you open your eyes, IMAGINE 100 fine men looking at you. They want YOU, they want to give to YOU, love you cherish you adore you. OPEN your heart, let them in, don't try to control by chasing HIM,,,,let him come close to LOVE you. Let all those EVIL, BITTER, RAGEFUL feelings go deep down into the pit....Release. OOOOH it feels so GOOD to be LOVED by a man who "feels" like a MAN.
Men LOVE women who reak self confidence and are HAPPY in there own skin. I don't chase after the soul of demons so I am going to take your man's advice who thought so much of you to pull up I called you poor white trash and let you take the lead.
Demons don't scare me and YOU will NOT scare me off the posts or boards with your anger and bitterness. I can write under any post I want. You don't own DXP!
Liars always seem to have a man who is good to them. HAPPY, HAPPY, HAPPY! Oh the joy being HAPPY in your own skin.
oh and scorp sting you make a lot of sense and thats why some are trying to push you off the thread but baby keep it coming lol...don't hide because a few can't take hearing your truth.
''oh and scorp sting you make a lot of sense and thats why some are trying to push you off the thread but baby keep it coming lol...don't hide because a few can't take hearing your truth.''
Oh dont worry I wont be leaving anytime soon so the jealous women will have to put up with me! I know my presence sets off jealousy amongst some of the catty women (they know who they are) but I actually like this board therefore I shall stay.
No one should be threatened to leave these boards. Unfortunately, everywhere has its fair share of bitter haters. But Im used to it :-)
no krobe...i repeated what u said to make sure everyone saw what kind of person u are. seems people get fired these days for saying less racial things to black people but it seems to be okay to insult white people...... well its not okay.
there is no justification for that....as most people white or black would agree.
is that what it takes to make u feel good about yourself krobe....100 fine men staring at u? u sound like a hooker. demons?.....are u talkin in tongues again....?
She is the most selfish person I have seen on here.