trying to understand a Cancer guy

so I don't know too much about cancer males but here are some of the things he does:

I've known him for about 4 months now and we work together. I've always seen him around and was attracted to him but never really cared to do anything about it until I started working with him. I began talking to him first casually and our friendship developed naturally and comfortably. I noticed that he trusts me more than a lot of the people we work with, and has voluntarily told me about his childhood and family.

On my birthday, he remembered it and got me my favorite candy.
On a different occasion he shared his dinner with me, and offered to give me his jacket because I liked it so much.
I've also noticed that he's comfortable around me, and likes to watch me and stare when I talk to other guys.

There was this one time I had to go home at 1 am after hanging out and my phone was dead. He got so worried and asked me if I needed security and if I was going to be ok repeatedly. He asked me if I was warm enough and if I wanted his jacket and if I was sure that I was going to be ok. His friend said to him right when I was getting ready to go "lets go to the back" and he snapped at him saying "NO she's leaving" and his friend's jaw dropped after hearing what he had said. Eventually I left, but came back to use the bathroom, but once I finally left the building I heard someone running down the stairs and I see him standing outside in the cold walking back to the building and he comes up to me and asks me again "are you sure you're going to be ok" and I said yes, but he seemed reluctant to let me go and we kind of stood there for a minute or two in the cold in silence.
He made me promise to text him once I got home.

Whenever I look at him it's like I get sucked into his eyes and I can't look away... i know it sounds weird.

but from what I've told you, what do you think his intentions are? friends or actually more?
Is it normal for a cancer guy to be extremely trusting and caring of anyone?

yea.... I'm overanalyzing like a virgo should haha

i wouldn't bother yourself with overanalyzing cancer men.
i think theyre broken.
theyre always extremely comforting, and will always make you feel loved even if they dont. its in their nature.
seeing what my cancer friends have done to girls/guys, it is ridiculous. esp if his/her mars/venus is in leo.

i could be wrong, i mean there is bound to be a decent cancer guy out there...
but.. pauley d and situation are cancers 1 day apart ( unness but lol )
and in my mind they basically symbolize cancers for me.

not sure if overthinkers should be with cancers.. they tend to just go through the motions and see what happens. maybe thats what you should do

no im saying to be with venus/mars leo cancer you cant overthink things because what they think and what they do when it comes to people they are 'seeing' are two very different things

Posted by vir22
so I don't know too much about cancer males but here are some of the things he does:

I've known him for about 4 months now and we work together. I've always seen him around and was attracted to him but never really cared to do anything about it until I started working with him. I began talking to him first casually and our friendship developed naturally and comfortably. I noticed that he trusts me more than a lot of the people we work with, and has voluntarily told me about his childhood and family.

On my birthday, he remembered it and got me my favorite candy.
On a different occasion he shared his dinner with me, and offered to give me his jacket because I liked it so much.
I've also noticed that he's comfortable around me, and likes to watch me and stare when I talk to other guys.

There was this one time I had to go home at 1 am after hanging out and my phone was dead. He got so worried and asked me if I needed security and if I was going to be ok repeatedly. He asked me if I was warm enough and if I wanted his jacket and if I was sure that I was going to be ok. His friend said to him right when I was getting ready to go "lets go to the back" and he snapped at him saying "NO she's leaving" and his friend's jaw dropped after hearing what he had said. Eventually I left, but came back to use the bathroom, but once I finally left the building I heard someone running down the stairs and I see him standing outside in the cold walking back to the building and he comes up to me and asks me again "are you sure you're going to be ok" and I said yes, but he seemed reluctant to let me go and we kind of stood there for a minute or two in the cold in silence.
He made me promise to text him once I got home.

Whenever I look at him it's like I get sucked into his eyes and I can't look away... i know it sounds weird.

but from what I've told you, what do you think his intentions are? friends or actually more?
Is it normal for a cancer guy to be extremely trusting and caring of anyone?

yea.... I'm overanalyzing like a virgo should haha

He likes you, and is trying to show you but isn't quite ready to put himself totally out there.
The door is open if you want to step through it.

Posted by Geminems
no im saying to be with venus/mars leo cancer you cant overthink things because what they think and what they do when it comes to people they are 'seeing' are two very different things

Like I don't know whether to go with the vibe and gut feeling I'm getting, or not. also I don't think he is venus/mars leo.

Posted by CluelessCancer
Venus in Leo here, Cancer, and are you saying Cancers don't think? Oh yes we think, we think lots.

I'd say something positive to the op, but i can't stand Virgos, so nah i'll pass.

what can't you stand?