turn-ons :)

I've noticed that cancers can be pretty shy about all topics sexual, even more shy about discussing or even joking about sex than shy about being physically flirtatious and affectionate, until they're actually in the bedroom. Which is plenty endearing, but I'm wondering what your turn-ons are, what lights your fire...and being so shy, probably none of you will answer my questions (lol), but I thought it was worth putting it out there just the same. And I'm definitely not looking to turn this into a sleazy thread, so responses like "a chick's crotch" or "jugs" or "ass" can be kept to yourselves (though I can't see a cancer being so vulgar anyway, so it's probably a moot point). I'm wanting to hear what it is within both the personality and the physicality of a woman (or man, if you're a woman) that draw you to her. Or him.

And don't be shy, or worried about your image in your response. Just be honest.

🙂

Hey Phoenix, floater here....
I am a quintessential cancer male. I think what initially lights my fire and gets my cancer blood boiling is eye contact. With me however, there must be an emotional connection of some sort. I must feel the person's soul, and then I "climb" right in and the person as if they become part of me, therefore letting loose on one of the most increduble, passionate, rides of our lives. I have been accused of taking my lovers to places not visited before.
I am an incredibly sexual being, but only those who earn my trust and such will reap all the benefits and a whole lot more. 😉

I don't know about anyone else, but this is all turning my cancer ass on!

Thanks for sharing.........Cancers do make great lovers!

Thanks you guys, I appreciate the fact that you answered my questions! 🙂 I'm pleasantly suprised (that you answered). I am not suprised about your responses, because it sounds actually pretty similar to the needs of a scorpio, and I was wondering how similar the two signs were to each other in this particular department, and I had a feeling they were similar, and now I know.

Trust is a huge factor, definitely. And loyalty. I hate kissers-and-tellers also. And I agree that it all starts with eye contact. And I also agree that cancers are great lovers. Actually, I've never had a cancer "lover" per se, but you know...ahem...other stuff...lol. And really I would say I have the most sexual chemistry with Virgos, Taureans and Cancers and of the three I've most enjoyed...ahem...stuff...lol, with cancers, because it really is as if there is an intrinsic understanding between the cancer male and myself, and it feels deeper. No pun intended. 🙂 It just feels more electrified, if that makes sense.

I think cancers and scorps are probably a very strong combo - maybe it's becuase we are both water signs, and although both intense in different ways, we understand each other. I am looking for a scorp mate - I hope I find him.
😉

Me too, you deserve it! 🙂

Someone call? 😄

Scorp guy? Are you Robert?

Robert? No...my name is Mario.

You know what's really odd? There's this good fiend of mine who just happens to be a cancer male with whom I've gotten along with extremely well since the first time I met him... We've always been able to talk pretty openly, I really trusted him (still do, he's one of the most trust worthy people I know) and I would just rag on to him about everything mostly about ideas and concepts and philosophies, all that metaphisical stuff that fills my head all the time... He said that at of everyone he's ever known, I have my head in the clouds the most, although he did mean it in a good way... The bad thing about having a friend who's a good listener is that I tend to >>>TALK

I'm a Capricorn, but I like these types of threads. I like saying what lights my fire. As a matter of fact, these types of things have changed, evolved, and possibly matured over the years. I was a Boy Scout for 8 years, so it used to take a lot. Lighting my fire usually involved lots of practice, natural firestarters, and plenty of gas. Now, all it takes is a chick's crotch. Or just jugs or ass.

(With jokes like these, you can just tell I'm growing up to be a stand-up comic. Conan O'Brien watch out- here's a lump even cheesier!)

Hey Morgan,

What sign are you? I am just wondering....Leo? Aqua? I wanted to ask you a question...thanks.

Morgan, one of several things might be happening. Either the two of you have simply grown apart (it happens all the time), or you may actually like each other in that "more than just friends" way. Is he someone you would consider having a relationship with? If not, and you still want to be friends, I would just try to bring up the issue with him. I really believe that 90% of conflicts or issues between people are made much worse by not just discussing it. It can't hurt, and if he's a good person who is good for you then he won't shut you out.

And Josh, Conan O'Brien is not cheesy!! He's one of my favorite comedians!! He also wins the Dork of The Year Award. lol.

Josh do not give up your day job as you yanks say.

I'm a leo.

Josh... Boyscouts, they're dangerous... I know to many of them, and I've seen it...

I don't know Pheonix about the direction of our relationship... I don't know at all... I'd say that we're prabably never going to see eachother again... So it might be better to just forget everything and let thing just wind to some conclusion... About the "more than just friends" thing, we've always be a little more than just friends... But the timing's never been right... Never... Ever... Ever... And we'd never get along together anyway if we tried to have a relationship, our values are just too different... He's a boyscout too, lol...

Still makes me sad to think about him.

poor pheonix poor morgan so sad