so my gf says...

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by LovitzImpersonator on Sunday, November 24, 2002 and has 12 replies.

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@LovitzImpersonator
21 Years

her- "I bought a purity ring...."
me - "but your not totally pure.. you've kissed guys before.. and me"
her - "yeah..."
me - "so you dont even want to kiss until your married??"
her - "..yeah...."
*long silence*
me - "heh that'd be too damn hard for me"........... she confuses me again, why does she do this stuff? ladies? what am I supposed to do now? heh heh this is dumb but i love her.

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@ladyscorpio
21 Years

well i kinda know what you are going through i am a scorpio female who is crazy about a cancer male who acts the same way as your g/f they seem to like to keep us confused i think this is there way of testing us to see if we really care... my guy goes a couple of weeks without calling (this is a long distance thing) but then sometimes i get showered with attention from him then he backs off a while i find this very crazy because he also says crazy things to make me think he isnt as serious about me as i would like him to be this i come to understand is a cancers way of protecting themselves from hurt i know it is fustrating for you because i go days without knowing if my sweetheart is going to call again but i try to keep in mind that cancers are ruled by the moon and they have crazy mood swings but they alway comes back if they care about u so keep ur head up and in a day or two your g/f will change again this is very exciting isnt it? lol

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@LovitzImpersonator
21 Years

yeah she's a cancer, one day everything's perfect, than the next she says she's having doubts and just seems distant, then later she's practically ripping my clothes off, she confuses me a lot, but me and her have been through so much, I love her to death, but sometimes I forget that that's just the way she is, and i take some of her actions personally, which usuallyaren't because of me. I'm a taurus,and I relate with her like no ther, we just have this understanding of each other, and we do have our differences, and we never ever fight, we just can't do it. today she was saying that she just has this feeling that me and her won't last, just ebcause she's feeling pressured by her family and friends, because apparently both her friends and family love me and she feels like if anything happened between us, people would make a big deal out of it, but yet she says I';m the only guy she's ever been comfortable around, and there's just something about me she says that she sees in NO other guy. so i know she has a lot of mixed up feelings, but i think things will be just fine, I'd go through hell for her.

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@Cwab:(
21 YearsCancer

Maybe they are not protecting themselves but are just being funny or suddenly need some space when they say and do things like this. Everyone needs their space, but cancers rarely get it at the right time cos everyone takes them for granted.

I find it funny... the amount of times people say stuff like this about cancerians.

Cwab😢

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@Cwab:(
21 YearsCancer

p.s. why are you telling us stuff about your girfriend in such detail, like about her ripping her clothes off?

If she is a cancerian, trust me, she would not like it. In fact, you have already betrayed her trust! You don't deserve her! You ***hole!

VeryInsightfulCancerCwab😢

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@Cwab:(
21 YearsCancer

well, after she ripped your clothes off, she probably ripped off her own, or did you do that part, with your teeth?

Come on! Do tell!

CancerCwab😢

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@LovitzImpersonator
21 Years

whoahhhhhh dude, or "cwab",I could have said soooo much more, and i hardly went into detail, well i was just stating how damn confusing things can get... but ahh well

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@Suzy-Q!
21 Years500+ Posts

On a Golden Autumn
day returning
where the moon never
is the same;
and if your joy
sometimes becomes in patient,
when Im waiting
on the waiting game.
Must be a reason
for all this inaction;
doesnt mean that
everything must change;
sometimes Im lookin for
perfection,
when Im waiting on the
waiting game.
I am the observer
whos observing;
I am the sister
of the snake;
I am the serpent
filled with venem;
The god of love, and
the god of hate.
There is a presence
deep within you;
some people call it
higher power;
When all the leaves
have fallen,
remember Ill still be
waiting on the waiting
game.