What Should I Do?

Posted by Caliope

suck his dick every day and feed him home-cooked meals. Stop being a biatch

Posted by dvaughn1979

Lol i suck his dick on a regular.. i feed him and im nicer. I stopped being a bitch too but is it enough

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Posted by Caliope

suck his dick every day and feed him home-cooked meals. Stop being a biatch

Always good advice.

Honestly this should just be the answer to all dxp questions.

Men are pretty simple when you break it down like this.

Food, sex, alone time, sleep

So sad people really think it's that simple. Even sadder that it really is that simple for some.

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Posted by Caliope

What's your sign and what exactly did you do to him?

Posted by Caliope

Posted by dvaughn1979

Posted by Caliope

What's your sign and what exactly did you do to him?

I was mean to him.. Toyed with him in the beginning and acted as he is doing now..Very indifferent. Thats what scares me. He may just being saying he loves me so i can feel how he felt and im a sag..

You better pray to God he doesn't have any Scorpio placements.

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Posted by dvaughn1979

Lol i suck his dick on a regular.. i feed him and im nicer. I stopped being a bitch too but is it enough

What sign is you?

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Posted by Caliope

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Posted by Caliope

What's your sign and what exactly did you do to him?

I was mean to him.. Toyed with him in the beginning and acted as he is doing now..Very indifferent. Thats what scares me. He may just being saying he loves me so i can feel how he felt and im a sag..

You better pray to God he doesn't have any Scorpio placements.

Oh i think he does

You need to stop messing with his feelings. He took you back because he cares but he's still hurt.

What's his chart like?

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Posted by Caliope

What's your sign and what exactly did you do to him?

I was mean to him.. Toyed with him in the beginning and acted as he is doing now..Very indifferent. Thats what scares me. He may just being saying he loves me so i can feel how he felt and im a sag..

You better pray to God he doesn't have any Scorpio placements.

Oh i think he does

You need to stop messing with his feelings. He took you back because he cares but he's still hurt.

What's his chart like?

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Posted by Caliope

What's your sign and what exactly did you do to him?

I was mean to him.. Toyed with him in the beginning and acted as he is doing now..Very indifferent. Thats what scares me. He may just being saying he loves me so i can feel how he felt and im a sag..

You better pray to God he doesn't have any Scorpio placements.

Oh i think he does

You need to stop messing with his feelings. He took you back because he cares but he's still hurt.

What's his chart like?

I dont mess with his feelings anymore. What do you mean by his chart?

You said he has Scorpio placements. Where? Moon, Mars, Venus?

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Posted by nikkistar

Wonder when some of you people will learn that men get to have feelings to, and are allowed to react if feelings are hurt as well. That the woman's feelings aren't the only ones that matter. JFC

@OP - Just give it some time, he just needs to analyze and work it out.

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Posted by Caliope

Posted by dvaughn1979

Posted by Caliope

What's your sign and what exactly did you do to him?

I was mean to him.. Toyed with him in the beginning and acted as he is doing now..Very indifferent. Thats what scares me. He may just being saying he loves me so i can feel how he felt and im a sag..

You better pray to God he doesn't have any Scorpio placements.

My thoughts exactly lol

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Posted by Caliope

Posted by dvaughn1979

Posted by Caliope

What's your sign and what exactly did you do to him?

I was mean to him.. Toyed with him in the beginning and acted as he is doing now..Very indifferent. Thats what scares me. He may just being saying he loves me so i can feel how he felt and im a sag..

You better pray to God he doesn't have any Scorpio placements.

My thoughts exactly lol

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Posted by HappyCapper

"I tend to have a rough and uncaring personality and hurt my cancer man"

"What Should I Do?"

You know exactly what to do. Stop hurting him. You said you stopped, and yet, the OP says that you "tend to..."

Hope you're patient, cause I think it's gonna take some serious time to get him back for real.

Good luck to you!

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Posted by Caliope

Posted by dvaughn1979

Posted by Caliope

What's your sign and what exactly did you do to him?

I was mean to him.. Toyed with him in the beginning and acted as he is doing now..Very indifferent. Thats what scares me. He may just being saying he loves me so i can feel how he felt and im a sag..

You better pray to God he doesn't have any Scorpio placements.

My thoughts exactly lol

I mean really what does that mean?

Scorpio just have a reputation of being vindictive and so based on what you said about toying with him etc, he could possibly subject you to same ! 🙂

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Posted by Caliope

Posted by dvaughn1979

Posted by Caliope

What's your sign and what exactly did you do to him?

I was mean to him.. Toyed with him in the beginning and acted as he is doing now..Very indifferent. Thats what scares me. He may just being saying he loves me so i can feel how he felt and im a sag..

You better pray to God he doesn't have any Scorpio placements.

My thoughts exactly lol

I mean really what does that mean?

Scorpio just have a reputation of being vindictive and so based on what you said about toying with him etc, he could possibly subject you to same ! 🙂

Thank you... That could be..

I'm just wondering you didn't liked him, played him and now you want him back, where's your head at ?

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Posted by dvaughn1979

Oh by the way im a Sagittarius

Posted by Caliope

Posted by dvaughn1979

I tend to have a rough and uncaring personality and hurt my cancer man enough to the point where he actually broke up with me.. I basically cried my ass off which i typically never do and asked him to be back with me. He did but he is much colder of course.. Delayed messages.. Hardly ever asking to see me.. I make sure we stay in daily contact and request his time and i get it. He still tells me he loves me. He hasnt asked for space verbally but i feel like he wants it. Catch is im scared if i give him space he will be gone because he is already a bit distant. Do I trust his word and continue what im doing?

So you said he's a Scorpio moon.You hurt him and I'm telling you his walls are up. Scorpio moon needs someone who can understand him and trust is super important to them. He'll retaliate as someone pointed out because he wants you to 'feel' in some way the hurt you caused him. That's your lesson. If this happens too many times, he'll eventually find someone else who's more understanding, nurturing and in sync with his feelings- like a Scorpio sun.

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Posted by Boots1313

Posted by Caliope

suck his dick every day and feed him home-cooked meals. Stop being a biatch

Always good advice.

Honestly this should just be the answer to all dxp questions.

Men are pretty simple when you break it down like this.

Food, sex, alone time, sleep

So sad people really think it's that simple. Even sadder that it really is that simple for some.

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Posted by Caliope

Posted by dvaughn1979

I tend to have a rough and uncaring personality and hurt my cancer man enough to the point where he actually broke up with me.. I basically cried my ass off which i typically never do and asked him to be back with me. He did but he is much colder of course.. Delayed messages.. Hardly ever asking to see me.. I make sure we stay in daily contact and request his time and i get it. He still tells me he loves me. He hasnt asked for space verbally but i feel like he wants it. Catch is im scared if i give him space he will be gone because he is already a bit distant. Do I trust his word and continue what im doing?

So you said he's a Scorpio moon.You hurt him and I'm telling you his walls are up. Scorpio moon needs someone who can understand him and trust is super important to them. He'll retaliate as someone pointed out because he wants you to 'feel' in some way the hurt you caused him. That's your lesson. If this happens too many times, he'll eventually find someone else who's more understanding, nurturing and in sync with his feelings- like a Scorpio sun.

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Posted by dvaughn1979

I tend to have a rough and uncaring personality and hurt my cancer man enough to the point where he actually broke up with me.. I basically cried my ass off which i typically never do and asked him to be back with me. He did but he is much colder of course.. Delayed messages.. Hardly ever asking to see me.. I make sure we stay in daily contact and request his time and i get it. He still tells me he loves me. He hasnt asked for space verbally but i feel like he wants it. Catch is im scared if i give him space he will be gone because he is already a bit distant. Do I trust his word and continue what im doing?

So you said he's a Scorpio moon.You hurt him and I'm telling you his walls are up. Scorpio moon needs someone who can understand him and trust is super important to them. He'll retaliate as someone pointed out because he wants you to 'feel' in some way the hurt you caused him. That's your lesson. If this happens too many times, he'll eventually find someone else who's more understanding, nurturing and in sync with his feelings- like a Scorpio sun.

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Posted by dvaughn1979

I tend to have a rough and uncaring personality and hurt my cancer man enough to the point where he actually broke up with me.. I basically cried my ass off which i typically never do and asked him to be back with me. He did but he is much colder of course.. Delayed messages.. Hardly ever asking to see me.. I make sure we stay in daily contact and request his time and i get it. He still tells me he loves me. He hasnt asked for space verbally but i feel like he wants it. Catch is im scared if i give him space he will be gone because he is already a bit distant. Do I trust his word and continue what im doing?

So you said he's a Scorpio moon.You hurt him and I'm telling you his walls are up. Scorpio moon needs someone who can understand him and trust is super important to them. He'll retaliate as someone pointed out because he wants you to 'feel' in some way the hurt you caused him. That's your lesson. If this happens too many times, he'll eventually find someone else who's more understanding, nurturing and in sync with his feelings- like a Scorpio sun.

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Posted by Caliope

Posted by dvaughn1979

I tend to have a rough and uncaring personality and hurt my cancer man enough to the point where he actually broke up with me.. I basically cried my ass off which i typically never do and asked him to be back with me. He did but he is much colder of course.. Delayed messages.. Hardly ever asking to see me.. I make sure we stay in daily contact and request his time and i get it. He still tells me he loves me. He hasnt asked for space verbally but i feel like he wants it. Catch is im scared if i give him space he will be gone because he is already a bit distant. Do I trust his word and continue what im doing?

So you said he's a Scorpio moon.You hurt him and I'm telling you his walls are up. Scorpio moon needs someone who can understand him and trust is super important to them. He'll retaliate as someone pointed out because he wants you to 'feel' in some way the hurt you caused him. That's your lesson. If this happens too many times, he'll eventually find someone else who's more understanding, nurturing and in sync with his feelings- like a Scorpio sun.

Hi... Im back.. So my cancer man talks to me at least twice a day.. but this morning he told me he needs time to miss me.. Do you know what this means should i just back off?

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Posted by dvaughn1979

I tend to have a rough and uncaring personality and hurt my cancer man enough to the point where he actually broke up with me.. I basically cried my ass off which i typically never do and asked him to be back with me. He did but he is much colder of course.. Delayed messages.. Hardly ever asking to see me.. I make sure we stay in daily contact and request his time and i get it. He still tells me he loves me. He hasnt asked for space verbally but i feel like he wants it. Catch is im scared if i give him space he will be gone because he is already a bit distant. Do I trust his word and continue what im doing?

So you said he's a Scorpio moon.You hurt him and I'm telling you his walls are up. Scorpio moon needs someone who can understand him and trust is super important to them. He'll retaliate as someone pointed out because he wants you to 'feel' in some way the hurt you caused him. That's your lesson. If this happens too many times, he'll eventually find someone else who's more understanding, nurturing and in sync with his feelings- like a Scorpio sun.

Hi... Im back.. So my cancer man talks to me at least twice a day.. but this morning he told me he needs time to miss me.. Do you know what this means should i just back off?

lol I just got dumped by a Cancer but my best advice (since my idiot self took too long to realize this): give him space. Don't smother him or beg/plead. Don't act insecure or latch on bc he's just gonna retreat further and further into himself. And if he gets to a point where it's enough, he'll probably criticize you (or say something hella hurtful), point the finger at you, and just hurt your feelings to make you go away.

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Posted by dvaughn1979

I tend to have a rough and uncaring personality and hurt my cancer man enough to the point where he actually broke up with me.. I basically cried my ass off which i typically never do and asked him to be back with me. He did but he is much colder of course.. Delayed messages.. Hardly ever asking to see me.. I make sure we stay in daily contact and request his time and i get it. He still tells me he loves me. He hasnt asked for space verbally but i feel like he wants it. Catch is im scared if i give him space he will be gone because he is already a bit distant. Do I trust his word and continue what im doing?

So you said he's a Scorpio moon.You hurt him and I'm telling you his walls are up. Scorpio moon needs someone who can understand him and trust is super important to them. He'll retaliate as someone pointed out because he wants you to 'feel' in some way the hurt you caused him. That's your lesson. If this happens too many times, he'll eventually find someone else who's more understanding, nurturing and in sync with his feelings- like a Scorpio sun.

Its weird also because he complained when i didnt initiate conversation with him yesteday.. im really confused?

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Posted by dvaughn1979

Posted by Caliope

Posted by dvaughn1979

I tend to have a rough and uncaring personality and hurt my cancer man enough to the point where he actually broke up with me.. I basically cried my ass off which i typically never do and asked him to be back with me. He did but he is much colder of course.. Delayed messages.. Hardly ever asking to see me.. I make sure we stay in daily contact and request his time and i get it. He still tells me he loves me. He hasnt asked for space verbally but i feel like he wants it. Catch is im scared if i give him space he will be gone because he is already a bit distant. Do I trust his word and continue what im doing?

So you said he's a Scorpio moon.You hurt him and I'm telling you his walls are up. Scorpio moon needs someone who can understand him and trust is super important to them. He'll retaliate as someone pointed out because he wants you to 'feel' in some way the hurt you caused him. That's your lesson. If this happens too many times, he'll eventually find someone else who's more understanding, nurturing and in sync with his feelings- like a Scorpio sun.

Its weird also because he complained when i didnt initiate conversation with him yesteday.. im really confused?

Nothing really confusing about it. Cancer suns and Scorp moon combos are "interesting". And I say that in the most loving sense of the word. My own bf, has the same stupid combo.

Some will complain directly to you about it, or they will call you past the time you normally call, and hide it behind a passive "Oh why didn't you call?". This will happen even if you call, and they don't pick up. They like consistency, and if it doesn't fall into what is "normal" for you, as their gf, they will say something.

Think of it as a cat, they like affection on their terms. It may not seem such a big deal, especially since they can often times be "nonchalant" when answering, but they notice it.

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Posted by dvaughn1979

I tend to have a rough and uncaring personality and hurt my cancer man enough to the point where he actually broke up with me.. I basically cried my ass off which i typically never do and asked him to be back with me. He did but he is much colder of course.. Delayed messages.. Hardly ever asking to see me.. I make sure we stay in daily contact and request his time and i get it. He still tells me he loves me. He hasnt asked for space verbally but i feel like he wants it. Catch is im scared if i give him space he will be gone because he is already a bit distant. Do I trust his word and continue what im doing?

So you said he's a Scorpio moon.You hurt him and I'm telling you his walls are up. Scorpio moon needs someone who can understand him and trust is super important to them. He'll retaliate as someone pointed out because he wants you to 'feel' in some way the hurt you caused him. That's your lesson. If this happens too many times, he'll eventually find someone else who's more understanding, nurturing and in sync with his feelings- like a Scorpio sun.

Its weird also because he complained when i didnt initiate conversation with him yesteday.. im really confused?

Nothing really confusing about it. Cancer suns and Scorp moon combos are "interesting". And I say that in the most loving sense of the word. My own bf, has the same stupid combo.

Some will complain directly to you about it, or they will call you past the time you normally call, and hide it behind a passive "Oh why didn't you call?". This will happen even if you call, and they don't pick up. They like consistency, and if it doesn't fall into what is "normal" for you, as their gf, they will say something.

Think of it as a cat, they like affection on their terms. It may not seem such a big deal, especially since they can often times be "nonchalant" when answering, but they notice it.

I think it would be lessing confusion if he didnt just say he needs to miss me... I mean really i tried to give him space just yesterday then today turn around and say you need to miss me.. I just need help with this im confused

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Posted by dvaughn1979

I tend to have a rough and uncaring personality and hurt my cancer man enough to the point where he actually broke up with me.. I basically cried my ass off which i typically never do and asked him to be back with me. He did but he is much colder of course.. Delayed messages.. Hardly ever asking to see me.. I make sure we stay in daily contact and request his time and i get it. He still tells me he loves me. He hasnt asked for space verbally but i feel like he wants it. Catch is im scared if i give him space he will be gone because he is already a bit distant. Do I trust his word and continue what im doing?

So you said he's a Scorpio moon.You hurt him and I'm telling you his walls are up. Scorpio moon needs someone who can understand him and trust is super important to them. He'll retaliate as someone pointed out because he wants you to 'feel' in some way the hurt you caused him. That's your lesson. If this happens too many times, he'll eventually find someone else who's more understanding, nurturing and in sync with his feelings- like a Scorpio sun.

Its weird also because he complained when i didnt initiate conversation with him yesteday.. im really confused?

Nothing really confusing about it. Cancer suns and Scorp moon combos are "interesting". And I say that in the most loving sense of the word. My own bf, has the same stupid combo.

Some will complain directly to you about it, or they will call you past the time you normally call, and hide it behind a passive "Oh why didn't you call?". This will happen even if you call, and they don't pick up. They like consistency, and if it doesn't fall into what is "normal" for you, as their gf, they will say something.

Think of it as a cat, they like affection on their terms. It may not seem such a big deal, especially since they can often times be "nonchalant" when answering, but they notice it.

I think it would be lessing confusion if he didnt just say he needs to miss me... I mean really i tried to give him space just yesterday then today turn around and say you need to miss me.. I just need help with this im confused

Babe, I will tell you a little secret about this combo, they really DON'T want space in a conventional sense. What I mean by that is, they want your attention, that doesn't mean all the time, but they need to feel like no matter what, you are there. Whatever habit you guys have in communication, he will essentially "watch". And this combo is not the best at verbalizing feelings in general. The cliche, actions speak louder than words, is very much who they are. Scorpio moons, though they hate to admit it, are very sensitive inside. I am talking, squish central. That is why they are so very guarded almost everywhere else. You will experience a lot of loyalty "testing", because to get past all that stuff, they need to see you will be there through the worst, to get to the best. If you can make it past all those obstacles, all those concerns or reservations you had with him, virtually vanish. They honestly, become an ideal partner for you.

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Posted by dvaughn1979

I tend to have a rough and uncaring personality and hurt my cancer man enough to the point where he actually broke up with me.. I basically cried my ass off which i typically never do and asked him to be back with me. He did but he is much colder of course.. Delayed messages.. Hardly ever asking to see me.. I make sure we stay in daily contact and request his time and i get it. He still tells me he loves me. He hasnt asked for space verbally but i feel like he wants it. Catch is im scared if i give him space he will be gone because he is already a bit distant. Do I trust his word and continue what im doing?

So you said he's a Scorpio moon.You hurt him and I'm telling you his walls are up. Scorpio moon needs someone who can understand him and trust is super important to them. He'll retaliate as someone pointed out because he wants you to 'feel' in some way the hurt you caused him. That's your lesson. If this happens too many times, he'll eventually find someone else who's more understanding, nurturing and in sync with his feelings- like a Scorpio sun.

Its weird also because he complained when i didnt initiate conversation with him yesteday.. im really confused?

Nothing really confusing about it. Cancer suns and Scorp moon combos are "interesting". And I say that in the most loving sense of the word. My own bf, has the same stupid combo.

Some will complain directly to you about it, or they will call you past the time you normally call, and hide it behind a passive "Oh why didn't you call?". This will happen even if you call, and they don't pick up. They like consistency, and if it doesn't fall into what is "normal" for you, as their gf, they will say something.

Think of it as a cat, they like affection on their terms. It may not seem such a big deal, especially since they can often times be "nonchalant" when answering, but they notice it.

I think it would be lessing confusion if he didnt just say he needs to miss me... I mean really i tried to give him space just yesterday then today turn around and say you need to miss me.. I just need help with this im confused

Babe, I will tell you a little secret about this combo, they really DON'T want space in a conventional sense. What I mean by that is, they want your attention, that doesn't mean all the time, but they need to feel like no matter what, you are there. Whatever habit you guys have in communication, he will essentially "watch". And this combo is not the best at verbalizing feelings in general. The cliche, actions speak louder than words, is very much who they are. Scorpio moons, though they hate to admit it, are very sensitive inside. I am talking, squish central. That is why they are so very guarded almost everywhere else. You will experience a lot of loyalty "testing", because to get past all that stuff, they need to see you will be there through the worst, to get to the best. If you can make it past all those obstacles, all those concerns or reservations you had with him, virtually vanish. They honestly, become an ideal partner for you.

Last Question I promise.. How do i handle it when i text him and he doesnt text me all day. I dont know how to pass these type of test lol.. im just really tempted not to pick up the phone when he does call.. Well until later

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I tend to have a rough and uncaring personality and hurt my cancer man enough to the point where he actually broke up with me.. I basically cried my ass off which i typically never do and asked him to be back with me. He did but he is much colder of course.. Delayed messages.. Hardly ever asking to see me.. I make sure we stay in daily contact and request his time and i get it. He still tells me he loves me. He hasnt asked for space verbally but i feel like he wants it. Catch is im scared if i give him space he will be gone because he is already a bit distant. Do I trust his word and continue what im doing?

So you said he's a Scorpio moon.You hurt him and I'm telling you his walls are up. Scorpio moon needs someone who can understand him and trust is super important to them. He'll retaliate as someone pointed out because he wants you to 'feel' in some way the hurt you caused him. That's your lesson. If this happens too many times, he'll eventually find someone else who's more understanding, nurturing and in sync with his feelings- like a Scorpio sun.

Its weird also because he complained when i didnt initiate conversation with him yesteday.. im really confused?

Nothing really confusing about it. Cancer suns and Scorp moon combos are "interesting". And I say that in the most loving sense of the word. My own bf, has the same stupid combo.

Some will complain directly to you about it, or they will call you past the time you normally call, and hide it behind a passive "Oh why didn't you call?". This will happen even if you call, and they don't pick up. They like consistency, and if it doesn't fall into what is "normal" for you, as their gf, they will say something.

Think of it as a cat, they like affection on their terms. It may not seem such a big deal, especially since they can often times be "nonchalant" when answering, but they notice it.

I think it would be lessing confusion if he didnt just say he needs to miss me... I mean really i tried to give him space just yesterday then today turn around and say you need to miss me.. I just need help with this im confused

Babe, I will tell you a little secret about this combo, they really DON'T want space in a conventional sense. What I mean by that is, they want your attention, that doesn't mean all the time, but they need to feel like no matter what, you are there. Whatever habit you guys have in communication, he will essentially "watch". And this combo is not the best at verbalizing feelings in general. The cliche, actions speak louder than words, is very much who they are. Scorpio moons, though they hate to admit it, are very sensitive inside. I am talking, squish central. That is why they are so very guarded almost everywhere else. You will experience a lot of loyalty "testing", because to get past all that stuff, they need to see you will be there through the worst, to get to the best. If you can make it past all those obstacles, all those concerns or reservations you had with him, virtually vanish. They honestly, become an ideal partner for you.

Last Question I promise.. How do i handle it when i text him and he doesnt text me all day. I dont know how to pass these type of test lol.. im just really tempted not to pick up the phone when he does call.. Well until later

LOL! You can ask all the questions you want.

Cancer men, and their spotty communication is the bane of many women. I will tell you, even now, my own bf exhibits this type of communication style . 80% of the time, he doesn't even text me back at all. And he is virtually the same with phone calls as well, with everyone except those closest to him. If he calls you, at all, he's basically saying you are someone he has on his priority list.

That doesn't mean he can get away with this behavior, but it will likely always not be so great. You can verbalize to him that you would really like him to make a better effort to communicate consistently, and it may get a little bit better for you. But don't expect him to someone that texts back immediately. And I bet, his communication is A LOT better in person, versus the phone, if I were to be a betting person.

I would say the best advice I can give you with this, is not to actively "keep score" when it comes to texting or calling. This does nothing for you, but create resentment that is detrimental to any relationship. So when he calls, just answer it and try not to think of how he didn't answer you before. Because, if you don't, and he ends up missing your call, it will be this merry go round of you trying to "punish" him for his lack of texting you, and that only hurts you and him.

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Posted by dvaughn1979

I tend to have a rough and uncaring personality and hurt my cancer man enough to the point where he actually broke up with me.. I basically cried my ass off which i typically never do and asked him to be back with me. He did but he is much colder of course.. Delayed messages.. Hardly ever asking to see me.. I make sure we stay in daily contact and request his time and i get it. He still tells me he loves me. He hasnt asked for space verbally but i feel like he wants it. Catch is im scared if i give him space he will be gone because he is already a bit distant. Do I trust his word and continue what im doing?

So you said he's a Scorpio moon.You hurt him and I'm telling you his walls are up. Scorpio moon needs someone who can understand him and trust is super important to them. He'll retaliate as someone pointed out because he wants you to 'feel' in some way the hurt you caused him. That's your lesson. If this happens too many times, he'll eventually find someone else who's more understanding, nurturing and in sync with his feelings- like a Scorpio sun.

Its weird also because he complained when i didnt initiate conversation with him yesteday.. im really confused?

Nothing really confusing about it. Cancer suns and Scorp moon combos are "interesting". And I say that in the most loving sense of the word. My own bf, has the same stupid combo.

Some will complain directly to you about it, or they will call you past the time you normally call, and hide it behind a passive "Oh why didn't you call?". This will happen even if you call, and they don't pick up. They like consistency, and if it doesn't fall into what is "normal" for you, as their gf, they will say something.

Think of it as a cat, they like affection on their terms. It may not seem such a big deal, especially since they can often times be "nonchalant" when answering, but they notice it.

why do they do this shit when you're not their girlfriend?

I swear crab men are emotionally selfish

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I tend to have a rough and uncaring personality and hurt my cancer man enough to the point where he actually broke up with me.. I basically cried my ass off which i typically never do and asked him to be back with me. He did but he is much colder of course.. Delayed messages.. Hardly ever asking to see me.. I make sure we stay in daily contact and request his time and i get it. He still tells me he loves me. He hasnt asked for space verbally but i feel like he wants it. Catch is im scared if i give him space he will be gone because he is already a bit distant. Do I trust his word and continue what im doing?

So you said he's a Scorpio moon.You hurt him and I'm telling you his walls are up. Scorpio moon needs someone who can understand him and trust is super important to them. He'll retaliate as someone pointed out because he wants you to 'feel' in some way the hurt you caused him. That's your lesson. If this happens too many times, he'll eventually find someone else who's more understanding, nurturing and in sync with his feelings- like a Scorpio sun.

Its weird also because he complained when i didnt initiate conversation with him yesteday.. im really confused?

Nothing really confusing about it. Cancer suns and Scorp moon combos are "interesting". And I say that in the most loving sense of the word. My own bf, has the same stupid combo.

Some will complain directly to you about it, or they will call you past the time you normally call, and hide it behind a passive "Oh why didn't you call?". This will happen even if you call, and they don't pick up. They like consistency, and if it doesn't fall into what is "normal" for you, as their gf, they will say something.

Think of it as a cat, they like affection on their terms. It may not seem such a big deal, especially since they can often times be "nonchalant" when answering, but they notice it.

why do they do this shit when you're not their girlfriend?

I swear crab men are emotionally selfish

Because, they don't settle often. The title of girlfriend means that they have now determined that you will likely become their wife. So they like to do these games to "prove" your loyalty over a long period of time.

It's not everyone's cup of tea, and yes, it is selfish. I don't refute that aspect of it.

I don't ever see us getting into a relationship, so it makes it even more weird.

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listen to nikkistar

Don 't listen to anyone concerning cancers. Listen to yourself. When you go left they want you to go right and the other way around. A cancer will never ever let you go when they want you. They will not confuse you. Be clear in what YOU want in as minimal words possible and then back off. If not this rollercoaster can take forever, especially if he's got the upperhand. Once this behaviour sets in, there's nothing that can change it, unless you nip this in the butt.

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What's your sign and what exactly did you do to him?

I was mean to him.. Toyed with him in the beginning and acted as he is doing now..Very indifferent. Thats what scares me. He may just being saying he loves me so i can feel how he felt and im a sag..

You better pray to God he doesn't have any Scorpio placements.

My thoughts exactly lol

why? doesnt' mean shit, he tells her he loves her, she sucks his dick

he's never going anywhere

ever

Except If your a sag lol

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Yeah the neediness is wearing his ass thin.. Needing constant reassurance that he wants to be with me and he has told. multiple times yes. Im not going to start ignoring the man but i am diffenetly repressing these feelings..Its quite ugly!

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Oh by the way im a Sagittarius

Just leave now.

You only like him because your bored and need something to do

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Nikki, you are exactly right. I have turned this into how he is hurting me. When I actually need to be reassuring him that Im not the same women I used to be. I have him conflicted and he has never been that way.

He is like babe you frustrate me because you are looking at the small things and not seeing the bigger picture. He sees our relationship as better than before. More time spent learning each other and my stupid ass is worrying about if he initiates text.. He just needs time to see that I am going to actually remain the way I am today (without all the weeny cry baby bs) He just needs to know that I am ready to take care of his feelings.

And I know he still cares about me because he looked over at me yesterday and asked, We going to make it aren't we? I simply replied yes. I know Im a Sag and our signs do not have the best compatibility but we can make it if I get my shit (feelings) together.

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Oh by the way im a Sagittarius

Just leave now.

You only like him because your bored and need something to do

As usually DMV dropping truthz

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Posted by MissGemmi

My aqua friend married a cancer. She never showed her weak side. When he disappeared while they were dating she cut him off immediately. No questions, no why's, no nothing. She said I know my worth and I Don 't need a little boy trippling me and confusing me. I need a man, not a boy. She made him crawl to get back to her. She supports him, loves him, takes care of him, has his best interest, but never acted needy nor ever said Im sorry in an argument. He's like jelly in her hands. Stand your ground.

Straigthen up his spine. Men have feelings, ofcourse, but you want a man not someone who cries harder than a woman during her period.