Why do people seem to dislike cancers so much? (Page 2)

Where did I DENY cancers being emotional? I said there are degrees. What is it like knowing ALL the cancers in the world? Again with the stereotyping. I only know a handful of leos. One of whom made my life hell. Another being my mom who I love dearly. What exactly is YOUR beef? Judging from the comments elicited many other signs appear to have emotions too. I'm just saying..

Judging from this msg board, Cancers elicit a lot of emotions for better or worse. Its funny to me to be honest. I didn't realize what a menace we are to society with all of our emotions and moodiness. It must be REALLY serious 😛. I think I'm now getting bored of all this. I think I will troll the scorpio msg board and complain about them there.

Posted by ninjamu
^^ Bullshit. All Cancers are emotional unless they are wrought with a ton of earthy placements.

Anyway, not liking the bashing? OK. I'm a Leo and let's see how fucked they are:
-self-important
-attention whores
-vain
-arrogant

There's more I'm sure. I hope this makes you feel better!

That was valiant dude, but true! There are 'constants' in all signs/elements. Water evokes emotion. However, there's no way a Cancer can evoke an emotional response in me. If this person was paying attention, He/She would have read my previous posts that 'they' were 'figured out' early on and that there was nothing that in which they purported to be.
Alas, the 'guest' is showing the opposite in which he/she projects, and he/she doesn't even realize it. Damn, pathetic. But, hey, at least some people are consistent. 🙂

See, I was speaking on the positive earlier. But, a Cancer can always bring darkness where there should be light. I swear, I've never met one that didn't make it about.....THEM. Still, I love you, even more than a lot of them love themselves.

~GM

Bears sucked today, by the way.

~GM

Posted by GeminiMind
Defensive? Obsessing? Riddles? Wow, you really do have listening problems. HaHaHaHa! I say again: Listening is an acquired skill. No, really. Are you a Cancer? Full disclosure?

~GM

Oh wait, i was supposed to be listening? I Thought i was supposed to be reading. My bad...... LOL

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Posted by GeminiMind
Defensive? Obsessing? Riddles? Wow, you really do have listening problems. HaHaHaHa! I say again: Listening is an acquired skill. No, really. Are you a Cancer? Full disclosure?

~GM

Oh wait, i was supposed to be listening? I Thought i was supposed to be reading. My bad...... LOL

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This is why you are deserving of the term: "Goddess". Rare indeed.

~GM

Posted by ninjamu
^^ Bullshit. All Cancers are emotional unless they are wrought with a ton of earthy placements.

Anyway, not liking the bashing? OK. I'm a Leo and let's see how fucked they are:
-self-important
-attention whores
-vain
-arrogant

There's more I'm sure. I hope this makes you feel better!

Hi ninja!! Wanna hug sweetie babycakes lovey doll? *bats eyelashes* You know i luv ya!!!!!!! hehe

^^^

Has nothing to do with a Gemini. It's just fear, period. Don't try to spin it. 😛

~GM

WOW GM you are still here? You really need to get over yourself😛 You truly are a pretentious man in my opinion. You seem to have issues with emotional people. You OBVIOUSLY can't relate. Since your posting on the Cancer msg board, sorry but it IS all about us. I don't have the time to read all of the countless posts and threads you have on the cancer msg board. Where will we turn to with all of our darkness and fear? The Aries msg board? I guess mockery, sarcasm doesn't translate well here. You seem to think evoking emotions consists of tears, anger or hissy fits. Cancers seem to strike an emotional chord with you because you are ALWAYS here. To me, quite frankly I find that curious. And for you to say any Cancer has no love for themselves is beyond foolish. If you have issues with the basic personality traits of a Cancer you really need to work that out. I guess you being "Typical" gem, you like to hear yourself talk. CONSTANTLY. And you may have a lot of fixed signs in your chart since you don't like to be challenged in any way. You have unfinished business with a cancer in your life and you need to work that out.

Posted by guest1
WOW GM you are still here? You really need to get over yourself😛 You truly are a pretentious man in my opinion. You seem to have issues with emotional people. You OBVIOUSLY can't relate. Since your posting on the Cancer msg board, sorry but it IS all about us. I don't have the time to read all of the countless posts and threads you have on the cancer msg board. Where will we turn to with all of our darkness and fear? The Aries msg board? I guess mockery, sarcasm doesn't translate well here. You seem to think evoking emotions consists of tears, anger or hissy fits. Cancers seem to strike an emotional chord with you because you are ALWAYS here. To me, quite frankly I find that curious. And for you to say any Cancer has no love for themselves is beyond foolish. If you have issues with the basic personality traits of a Cancer you really need to work that out. I guess you being "Typical" gem, you like to hear yourself talk. CONSTANTLY. And you may have a lot of fixed signs in your chart since you don't like to be challenged in any way. You have unfinished business with a cancer in your life and you need to work that out.

Blah Blah Blah! Stop whining.

~GM

I rest my case and stand by my assessments m'kay? 😛 (being sarcastic, just an FYI)

I'm a Cancer and proud of it. All we DO is whine. If you don't want whining go to the Libra msg boards. Get over it!😄 You really have no sense of humor do you?

Don't you know that I'm laughing my ass off!! Cancer peeps crack me up, cuz after a while they always resort to whining! Just give em a minute! Leave my Libra peeps alone! 😛

~GM

Ok,I'll stop whining if you stop picking on us and making us Cancers CRY! WAAAH!!...peace. I got stuff to do.

We are moody remember? Don't take moodiness so seriously just like I won't take your CONSTANT musings so seriously. Cancers are known to have stellar senses of humor and intuition and perception. Embrace differences ok? I have no issues with Libras or any sign. I like all the quirks and contradictions of everybody and believe that kind of diversity is important. I've learned the most from those I have nothing in common with. And all of our whining IS entertaining isn't it? I'm only human just like you. We whine because we care. We are also cardinal signs so if you don't like it, ah well... I am what I am. I can modify my behavior or grow as a person but changing for others is not in the plan. I am not an apologist for who I am. People are layered not one dimensional. Peace be unto you.

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Posted by TTaurusS
Good for you! Virgos are awesome! 🙂

They really are. 🙂

And so are cancers.

Gems too. Got to hand it to their tricky ways. =)

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Yes, Cancers too.

I don't really know any Geminis, so I can't say. 🙂

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Good for you! Virgos are awesome! 🙂

They really are. 🙂

And so are cancers.

Gems too. Got to hand it to their tricky ways. =)

Yes, Cancers too.

I don't really know any Geminis, so I can't say. 🙂

LOL
don't get me started on taurus. The guys are my achille's heel. The first taur guy with leo moon was my champion. If we lived close I think I would have married him.

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Hey! I have Leo moon too! lol

I Have a Leo moon too *wink* lol

My previous boyfriend, whom I dated two years, was a Gemini..he was really nice but could NEVER completely grasp my emotionality..I guess this is it. He was too over analyzing but not really FEELING situations as I did. It got complicated cos I longed for understanding and he was rationaliziing all...this is the problem with Gems, unless they have water in their charts, they don't get feelings as we do.
I had another attempt with a Gemini who was so cold..but not as a reaction to his sensitivity , but really unfeeling. Very nice but he could never connect with me..

GM maybe that is your issue with Crabs, you don't grasp them and you feel the need to intelectuallize or rationalize them or analyze them because that is what Gems do...there is nothing wrong with that, but some things can only be FELT. and it is just like trying to explain to a blind person how seein is..you will never get it completely....

GM maybe that is your issue with Crabs, you don't grasp them and you feel the need to intelectuallize or rationalize them or analyze them because that is what Gems do...there is nothing wrong with that, but some things can only be FELT. and it is just like trying to explain to a blind person how seein is..you will never get it completely....



I do grasp them. But, it's not a problem to me. Some people are making it out that way. For me it's all just unnecessary, that's all. I've been with a Pisces going on 4 years now, and she gets it. :::shrugs::: If people would read my posts, they would have read that I said that I still have love for you. Too much negativity is stupid. It's not hard to figure out people who base most decisions on emotion. Maybe people should listen to the messengers, and stop questioning the message. I stand by my assessments of the people who live in the water.

I hear that still waters run deep. True, but still waters can't sustain life without air, just emptiness.

~GM

Posted by GeminiMind
GM maybe that is your issue with Crabs, you don't grasp them and you feel the need to intelectuallize or rationalize them or analyze them because that is what Gems do...there is nothing wrong with that, but some things can only be FELT. and it is just like trying to explain to a blind person how seein is..you will never get it completely....

I do grasp them. But, it's not a problem to me. Some people are making it out that way. For me it's all just unnecessary, that's all. I've been with a Pisces going on 4 years now, and she gets it. :::shrugs::: If people would read my posts, they would have read that I said that I still have love for you. Too much negativity is stupid. It's not hard to figure out people who base most decisions on emotion. Maybe people should listen to the messengers, and stop questioning the message. I stand by my assessments of the people who live in the water.

I hear that still waters run deep. True, but still waters can't sustain life without air, just emptiness.

~GM



Sure that we can't live without air..but maybe it is just difficult for somebody who doesn't live in the water to understand how it feels...I never said you didn't love crabs..or anything about negativity. Anyway Im glad you and your fish are Ok and you understand her, being a Fish myself, I couldn't connect with any Gem man deeply really, though I tried...I do have Gem friends whom I adore, but boyfriends wise, no, hasn't worked for me. As I said, no emotions can be rationalized but just felt..and there is when the Gems get stuck..or at least I'm talking about my experience with them.


Anyway I don't think you should be attacked just because you are giving your opinion, we are all entitled to one.

By the way, you seem to like Che Guevara , have you read enough about him?

cancers are moody perhaps that causes some confusion?

Posted by Geminithefox
cancers are moody perhaps that causes some confusion?

ur pretty 😆 sry lmao i knw that was random

Posted by CancerianGoddess
I Have a Leo moon too *wink* lol

Cool! 🙂

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I Have a Leo moon too *wink* lol

😉 sexy!

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Good for you! Virgos are awesome! 🙂

They really are. 🙂
And so are cancers.
Gems too. Got to hand it to their tricky ways. =)

Yes, Cancers too.
I don't really know any Geminis, so I can't say. 🙂

LOL
don't get me started on taurus. The guys are my achille's heel. The first taur guy with leo moon was my champion. If we lived close I think I would have married him.

Hey! I have Leo moon too! lol

Gah....NOooooooo *runs far away! LOL

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Posted by Cancerflower5808
i always hear people saying that caners are liars and selfish and other things. It seems like some people ahte them but i don't know why.

ok heres a response for you i love cancers but there dark and light cancers dark cancers are crazy
light cancers is what i like to call the hunny pot im Aires i only date cancers some have been real nasty some have been sweet as fresh cotton candy and just melt with you so my fair gues is there are mor dark cancers than light cancers

MrCeribdis :Aries

Cancers rock, period. lol

Posted by CancerianGoddess
Cancers rock, period. lol

i agree lol

You BETTER cancerianflower! lol

Probably because they're ruled by the moon.


I don't personally have any strong feelings about them either way. Some are great, some are so so, and the odd one is f*cking nightmare.

Like every other sign.

Posted by ninjamu
^^ Bullshit. All Cancers are emotional unless they are wrought with a ton of earthy placements.

Anyway, not liking the bashing? OK. I'm a Leo and let's see how fucked they are:
-self-important
-attention whores
-vain
-arrogant

There's more I'm sure. I hope this makes you feel better!

I don't think I'm anything like this. Although I will say I am emotional but I don't let it show.

I'm crazy about you kids.who cares what anyone else thinks? 😉

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I'm crazy about you kids.who cares what anyone else thinks? 😉

We

I am a magnet for Cancer men and I think they are all moody, egotistical, selfish, over emotional, and think they are smarter then they actually are and totally dont get me but yeah I still love them! haha
By the way im a Libra and I am cold, indecisive, argumentative (which is really just me loving debate 😛) and always think I am right 🙂

Cancers seem to always get REALLY defensive when people bring up their faults especially when called selfish, I think they are more emotionally selish then anything else. I find all my Cancer relationships so emotionally draining! But I still kepp coming back for, more damn you guys!

Posted by libra sun
I am a magnet for Cancer men and I think they are all moody, egotistical, selfish, over emotional, and think they are smarter then they actually are and totally dont get me but yeah I still love them! haha
By the way im a Libra and I am cold, indecisive, argumentative (which is really just me loving debate 😛) and always think I am right 🙂

Cancers seem to always get REALLY defensive when people bring up their faults especially when called selfish, I think they are more emotionally selish then anything else. I find all my Cancer relationships so emotionally draining! But I still kepp coming back for, more damn you guys!

haha =] i dated a libra guy he was really nice but it got boring and we are better off as friends. But then he started stalking me with fake fb accounts O_o

Posted by PurrHiss
No. Effing. Way. I'm sitting here with my jaw dropped. I gotta agree with your Cancer friend on this one, lol.

If someone spat in my coffee and I found out about it, I'd throw the coffee in their face and then bash their face in with the mug!

LOL Pubutter!

I bet you can really throw down when it comes to fisty cuffs. I am so scared of you 😉

Posted by Cancerflower5808

Posted by libra sun
I am a magnet for Cancer men and I think they are all moody, egotistical, selfish, over emotional, and think they are smarter then they actually are and totally dont get me but yeah I still love them! haha
By the way im a Libra and I am cold, indecisive, argumentative (which is really just me loving debate 😛) and always think I am right 🙂

Cancers seem to always get REALLY defensive when people bring up their faults especially when called selfish, I think they are more emotionally selish then anything else. I find all my Cancer relationships so emotionally draining! But I still kepp coming back for, more damn you guys!

haha =] i dated a libra guy he was really nice but it got boring and we are better off as friends. But then he started stalking me with fake fb accounts O_o

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did that excite your or something lol

Woop, woop!

Claire is speaking gospel...

Doesn't matter if people like me or not, only matters if I like THEM.

"Selfish crab, selfish crab, selfish all the way..." (sung to jingle bells) 🙂

A double, middle finger salute to all (the haters that is)... and to all a good night!

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I am a magnet for Cancer men and I think they are all moody, egotistical, selfish, over emotional, and think they are smarter then they actually are and totally dont get me but yeah I still love them! haha
By the way im a Libra and I am cold, indecisive, argumentative (which is really just me loving debate 😛) and always think I am right 🙂

Cancers seem to always get REALLY defensive when people bring up their faults especially when called selfish, I think they are more emotionally selish then anything else. I find all my Cancer relationships so emotionally draining! But I still kepp coming back for, more damn you guys!

haha =] i dated a libra guy he was really nice but it got boring and we are better off as friends. But then he started stalking me with fake fb accounts O_o

did that excite your or something lol

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oh no it didnt excite me. It was quite creepy actually

Posted by PiscesArgie
My previous boyfriend, whom I dated two years, was a Gemini..he was really nice but could NEVER completely grasp my emotionality..I guess this is it. He was too over analyzing but not really FEELING situations as I did. It got complicated cos I longed for understanding and he was rationaliziing all...this is the problem with Gems, unless they have water in their charts, they don't get feelings as we do.
I had another attempt with a Gemini who was so cold..but not as a reaction to his sensitivity , but really unfeeling. Very nice but he could never connect with me..

GM maybe that is your issue with Crabs, you don't grasp them and you feel the need to intelectuallize or rationalize them or analyze them because that is what Gems do...there is nothing wrong with that, but some things can only be FELT. and it is just like trying to explain to a blind person how seein is..you will never get it completely....

See, it's you that didn't grasp the fact that he indeed DID grasp your 'emotionality. That is exactly what I mean when I used to tell my ex about emotional and energetic selfishness. It's not just about your emotions. We just know that with Pisces and Cancers it gets in the way of progress. Progress is something that I see that a lot of Pisces' and Cancers fear. Maybe it's the unknown, I don't know and I don't care. I've gone through this same waste of time with 2 Pisces women that I've dated, including my family matriarch and the woman that I broke it off with recently. You should really read my posts to get a complete understanding of what I'm saying about water signs. Also, it's not and 'opinion', it's my observation. I don't know what kind of Gem guy you were with, I can only speak for myself. But, if you were with a Gemini, I hope you were able to get a message from him. If not, then you've proved my point. But, I hate repeating myself. I tend to have to do that around Pisces. Not because you guys are unintelligent, but because you are just slow to grasp (Neptune). What I've learned is that Pisces are very intelligent. They just need time to get 'it'. For me, I will not wait, because I don't have to. My ex-Pisces has a lot of 'Air' placements, so she gets it. It's good for her that I sent her to Broadway to fight that fear of progress or she'd still be here hiding and looking for a false sense of security like every Pisces that I know.

But, maybe you should check out my chart before you say it's my 'opinion'.

As far as brother "Che"? Yeah, I've read a lot about him. Some mainstream, some conspiratorial. A great example of a third Decan Gemini that was about "Progress". What would you like to know?

~GM

I was married to one for over 10 years. There is a reason for that WAS. I don't dislike him,lol, but his moodiness and lack of fun, and hibernation tendencies bugged me, so we grew apart. Oh and the sex sucked too and having scorpio in my chart well...

Posted by GeminiMind
But, maybe you should check out my chart before you say it's my 'opinion'.

As far as brother "Che"? Yeah, I've read a lot about him. Some mainstream, some conspiratorial. A great example of a third Decan Gemini that was about "Progress". What would you like to know?

~GM

I remember earlier in this topic everyone got mad at you simply for sharing about your experiences and how you feel about Cancers you have met lol idk why they got mad o.o you were jsut telling about your opinions and experiences

Posted by Cancerflower5808

Posted by GeminiMind
But, maybe you should check out my chart before you say it's my 'opinion'.

As far as brother "Che"? Yeah, I've read a lot about him. Some mainstream, some conspiratorial. A great example of a third Decan Gemini that was about "Progress". What would you like to know?

~GM

I remember earlier in this topic everyone got mad at you simply for sharing about your experiences and how you feel about Cancers you have met lol idk why they got mad o.o you were jsut telling about your opinions and experiences

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Well Milady, this is what happens sometimes when air gives water it's true power.....It scares it's inhabitants.

*Embraces*

~GM

Wow Cancerflower girl truly needs validation. That is what is driving this thread and that is why GM compliments her on buying into his BS. GM needs to understand that what he thinks is breaking down certain Cancerian traits is really him projecting his own opinions and attitudes about a Cancer in his life. He is overanalyzing and trying to rationalize behaviors he simply doesn't like. Instead of just owning that and moving on,he argues incessantly with Cancers who disagree with him. Forcing him to replay the emotional dynamic with that Cancer he obviously didn't relate to and had no closure with. He is using this message board as cheap talking therapy. Please let him move on and find some closure. See I can do lazy pop psychology too.. No one is fearful of any of your musings. Stop projecting.EMBRACES.

And its not that I disagree with all of GM's thoughts. You can see he couldn't relate to this person and it appears to still be bothering him. I just do not feel he is coming from a place of genuine self awareness. You notice he praises all of his sign mates regardless. And if you have anything negative to say about Gem he automatically says they don't represent him. Yet all he does is label Cancers and generalize. Very one dimensional in my opinion. And very superficial. Yes, a Gemini trait. That is what I find troubling. A lot of self aggrandizing here. Instead of forcing his opinions on all Cancers on the Cancer Msg board he should be consulting with his Gemini sign mates and analyze why his relationships with Cancers fail. There is a reason for it and it can't be all the Cancers in his life's fault. You want Cancers to own their end, so you should own yours. Ill make it easy and sum it up. Its called incompatibility. See that can be summed up without making sweeping generalizations about others and blaming. Sometimes it just is what it is. Pretty simple huh? GM just accept it. When you point a finger at others, the rest are pointing back out at you. Corny but true.

You are so off of the mark it's kinda spooky. You obviously are a Cancer that embraces that dark place in your heart, because all you're doing is saying I'm wrong here, and I'm wrong there. I don't understand this because of that. Blah Blah Blah. But, what you can't do is have a intelligent debate about specifics. You are a sad, lonely, confused little person that that just spews insults in order to evade the truth. Typical Crab crap. You come off to me as whiny, projecting, and quite frankly...stupid. Sorry, but I tried to appeal to your intellect. You live in fear based on your inability to listen. Your intelligence comes out of a box instead of you having the ability to have abstract independent thought. I said previously, very specifically why my relationship with the Cancer (Psychiatrist) failed. Yet, you don't listen, which makes you stupid. I have no time for stupid people that play the same broken record. If I didn't know any better, I'd think that you were her! You sound as dumb and cowardice as she did. Wouldn't that make you leave too? It was too much for me to bear. She was an intelligent fool. You remind me of her. What a waste of life and opportunity.

People could learn from what I said. But, like a lot of water signs, progress scares you. I could help you with your problem, but I'm glad you don't listen. You don't deserve growth and progress, you'd just squander it anyway. Just like a child you try to sabotage other peoples opportunity to learn from what I've said because you don't have the guts to at least weigh my points. You are a dark, cowardly, pathetic little person regardless of your sun sign, guest1. Your anonymity shows your cowardice to get involved and be seen. You are lost, and live in darkness, stay there. All you have done is tell me that I'm wrong without addressing specific points, which, no doubt proves mine. Thank you! Keep whining and typing, you will just continue to give what I said validation. Wow! You are weak. Ultimately the Cancer that I dated was just as weak which is why she continues to call me whining till this day. YUCK! You say your little reactionary crap then run and hide like most cowards, without realizing that you are showing me of the fraud that you really are. Fraud in your life. Fraud in your relationships. Fraud in your business. Fraud in your self. I can tell that you hate yourself, and now I understand why. Thank you and happy holidays! 🙂

~GM

"Incompatibility" is a word created by cowards like yourself that needed a word to put people in a box because they were too afraid to 'work' at something and learn. You give validation to a word that's designed to keep people separated. I see "Incompatible" success stories all of the time, and so do you! But, based on your words, you would sabotage them if given the chance. You are pathetic and alone for a very specific reason. Get off of my planet, there are people trying to grow here. You are in the way! You give all Cancers a bad name. If you want to know about something that you can't see, ask a person that can see from above, idiot. It has become obvious that your own element is killing you, keep drinking. The more you talk the more you expose yourself as a person that works for the 'dark side'. I'm here to help your expose' apparently.

~GM

Posted by jules69
I was married to one for over 10 years. There is a reason for that WAS. I don't dislike him,lol, but his moodiness and lack of fun, and hibernation tendencies bugged me, so we grew apart. Oh and the sex sucked too and having scorpio in my chart well...

I feel your pain.... i think in general its easy to like some one even for the little tiny things they do, but that seems like to much to deal with

Posted by aquagirl24
nothing wrong about being emotional. cancer is v romantic and strong. they r good women, if i were a man id go for a cancer woman. and my best mates bf is aqua 😄 cancer also make v good male friends. xxx

Well emotional and moody is two different things lol

So now GM you have reduced yourself to insulting me. To say I hate myself by challenging you is so profound. You are a mean spirited, judgemental dogmatic person and your posts are evidence of that. I disagree with your professed intent on this thread. Can't a person disagree with your premise without being personally insulted. You are a grinch.