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Pink Bird
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I think ladylibra and I just want a relationship where we can be ourselves naturally. No overthinking things. No holding back. We just want to be accepted. Instead, it feels like we are seeking approval and we're constantly reassessing every move we make because there's uncertainty lingering in the air. For some reason these men are not making a definite decision still and it's beginning to seem like they never will.
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what about the past relationzhip of this capricorn
He was with a girl for years ago and she left him when he got in a bad motorcycle accident he was bed ridden for year and had physical therapy for a year after that. But when we first had the why are you single conversation back in October I asked him if he was still holding on to someone and he said no it's been years but he also wouldn't look at me when he said that I don't know if that was out of embarrassment of the conversation or to avoid talking about her or if he still cares.
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what about the past relationzhip of this capricorn
He was with a girl for years ago and she left him when he got in a bad motorcycle accident he was bed ridden for year and had physical therapy for a year after that. But when we first had the why are you single conversation back in October I asked him if he was still holding on to someone and he said no it's been years but he also wouldn't look at me when he said that I don't know if that was out of embarrassment of the conversation or to avoid talking about her or if he still cares.
i dont think he's player i think he's just broken inside
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Great I always find the broken ones. Lol I think he is also obsessed with timing we talk about a lot how he doesn't feel like he has enough money to sustain a family And I tell him that those are excuses because people just make life work. I understand what he means but the same time when you have a partner you're there to help each other out.
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ladylibra21
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what about the past relationzhip of this capricorn
He was with a girl for years ago and she left him when he got in a bad motorcycle accident he was bed ridden for year and had physical therapy for a year after that. But when we first had the why are you single conversation back in October I asked him if he was still holding on to someone and he said no it's been years but he also wouldn't look at me when he said that I don't know if that was out of embarrassment of the conversation or to avoid talking about her or if he still cares.
i dont think he's player i think he's just broken inside
Great I always find the broken ones. Lol I think he is also obsessed with timing we talk about a lot how he doesn't feel like he has enough money to sustain a family And I tell him that those are excuses because people just make life work. I understand what he means but the same time when you have a partner you're there to help each other out.
whad do u want ?
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I want to be with him of course.
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ladylibra21
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Posted by ParisianCappy
what about the past relationzhip of this capricorn
He was with a girl for years ago and she left him when he got in a bad motorcycle accident he was bed ridden for year and had physical therapy for a year after that. But when we first had the why are you single conversation back in October I asked him if he was still holding on to someone and he said no it's been years but he also wouldn't look at me when he said that I don't know if that was out of embarrassment of the conversation or to avoid talking about her or if he still cares.
i dont think he's player i think he's just broken inside
Great I always find the broken ones. Lol I think he is also obsessed with timing we talk about a lot how he doesn't feel like he has enough money to sustain a family And I tell him that those are excuses because people just make life work. I understand what he means but the same time when you have a partner you're there to help each other out.

Until you're not *reference past girlfriend*

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Very true he did kind of have to start all over again with a different place to live.
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Posted by ParisianCappy
what about the past relationzhip of this capricorn
He was with a girl for years ago and she left him when he got in a bad motorcycle accident he was bed ridden for year and had physical therapy for a year after that. But when we first had the why are you single conversation back in October I asked him if he was still holding on to someone and he said no it's been years but he also wouldn't look at me when he said that I don't know if that was out of embarrassment of the conversation or to avoid talking about her or if he still cares.
i dont think he's player i think he's just broken inside
Great I always find the broken ones. Lol I think he is also obsessed with timing we talk about a lot how he doesn't feel like he has enough money to sustain a family And I tell him that those are excuses because people just make life work. I understand what he means but the same time when you have a partner you're there to help each other out.

Until you're not *reference past girlfriend*


Very true he did kind of have to start all over again with a different place to live.

Smh & she left when he was at his lowest. If you want to be with him it will take patience and you showing him through actions. That being said don't ignore him.

He also might think the online dating and interaction with other guys is a sign that you won't be there long term, faithful, etc. Even though you 2 aren't together. It's silly, some of us like undivided attention.

Side note would you be okay with just being friends with him?

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I think I would be OK with just being friends with him if he came out and told me that he couldn't see anything with us. I'm going to try to just be his friend but I feel like he's going to do something that will eventually piss me off because he will be acting possessive but won't it anywhere because even though we talked I backed off A lot after the letter and was content in my head to see him as a friend and nothing more and then he comes back from being gone for a week and pills this. It could have something to do with me trying to leave my job he is always talking about how busy he is which is another reason why it is hard to start anything with anyone and maybe in his head he realizes once I leave he won't have time to speak with me and I am who he tells his worries to because Friday he said don't leave me when we talked about me looking for another job.
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So we have fun eating dinner talking to ppl. Then he says let's go to a bar. So we will go to a bar and drink and some how get on the subject of strip club and I say I have never been and he decides he wants to take me to the strip club so we're there he's buying drinks won't let me use my money to pay the strippers give me his ones . Then wants to go next-door to sex shop laughin at some of the things in there and him saying he could see me in certain outfits.

seriously this guy only wants sex, nothing else...

but if that's also your main goal all you needed to do was ask him,

after bringing you to such a place you dont have a reason to wonder or be confused anymore.
I am so confused!

Why is everybody so up in arm about OPs business?

So he want sex! So what? He pays for her entertainment like a gentlemen and leaving without having sex!

How is it bad inder any microscope—

Why is it stirring such an anger?

Im not, just being straight with the OP that it's in her best interest to not avoid reality here.
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So you are minority🙂