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Posted by Seraphlight
Oh my fucking god. Are you really this fucking stupid?You of all people have no right to talk to someone this way.
Lol are you new here? What 'right' ?
Modesty forum is a few doors down to the left!
No seriously!
Do I look new here?
Douchenozzle forum is to your right.
If you get confused, use google maps. Use location "home" for correct guidance
That wasn't funny nor witty!
And you do know better! Calling someone stupid here has always been aaaaa...form of expression of ones feeling toward the subject, sir!
Lol
Seriously? It was a little funny.
Well...i would nebhappyvtobsavebuourbeho but NO!
Bleep!
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Speaky Engly please
Posted by Seraphlight
Oh my fucking god. Are you really this fucking stupid?You of all people have no right to talk to someone this way.
Lol are you new here? What 'right' ?
Modesty forum is a few doors down to the left!
No seriously!
Do I look new here?
Douchenozzle forum is to your right.
If you get confused, use google maps. Use location "home" for correct guidance
That wasn't funny nor witty!
And you do know better! Calling someone stupid here has always been aaaaa...form of expression of ones feeling toward the subject, sir!
Lol
Seriously? It was a little funny.
Well...i would nebhappyvtobsavebuourbeho but NO!
Bleep!
Speaky Engly please
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That was Engly! MYbe you understand Maya but I don't speeky...
Posted by ladylibra21
So I had not seen my Cap crush for a week because he was working in another state . Today he comes in and immediately asked me to go to lunch we go to lunch I had a great time hanging out eating. Then we go to the Christmas party later but the people we thought were going decided not to go but he came anyways and it was just me and him and other people who are not in a group. So we have fun eating dinner talking to ppl. Then he says let's go to a bar. So we will go to a bar and drink and some how get on the subject of strip club and I say I have never been and he decides he wants to take me to the strip club so we're there he's buying drinks won't let me use my money to pay the strippers give me his ones . Then wants to go next-door to sex shop laughin at some of the things in there and him saying he could see me in certain outfits. Then we leave this is a highly simplified version of events but I'm so confused like was he just having fun? Testing me to see how quickly I'll gI've in? Or does he genuinely want to have sex with me ? We kept getting closer and closer the whole night and he never made a move but we talked about relationships again and he brought it up this time saying is just a lot of work and it's not as easy as it used to be. I wish he would just stop being cryptic and tell me what the fuck you wants! I have never had to work so hard to restrain myself
Wanted to see if you would jump his bones. You didn't.
Posted by ladylibra21
So I had not seen my Cap crush for a week because he was working in another state . Today he comes in and immediately asked me to go to lunch we go to lunch I had a great time hanging out eating. Then we go to the Christmas party later but the people we thought were going decided not to go but he came anyways and it was just me and him and other people who are not in a group. So we have fun eating dinner talking to ppl. Then he says let's go to a bar. So we will go to a bar and drink and some how get on the subject of strip club and I say I have never been and he decides he wants to take me to the strip club so we're there he's buying drinks won't let me use my money to pay the strippers give me his ones . Then wants to go next-door to sex shop laughin at some of the things in there and him saying he could see me in certain outfits. Then we leave this is a highly simplified version of events but I'm so confused like was he just having fun? Testing me to see how quickly I'll gI've in? Or does he genuinely want to have sex with me ? We kept getting closer and closer the whole night and he never made a move but we talked about relationships again and he brought it up this time saying is just a lot of work and it's not as easy as it used to be. I wish he would just stop being cryptic and tell me what the fuck you wants! I have never had to work so hard to restrain myselfWanted to see if you would jump his bones. You didn't.
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Oh but I did want to badly but I never make the first move physically never ever and how would I know if he would want more after that so I wouldn't have anyways
Posted by ladylibra21
So I had not seen my Cap crush for a week because he was working in another state . Today he comes in and immediately asked me to go to lunch we go to lunch I had a great time hanging out eating. Then we go to the Christmas party later but the people we thought were going decided not to go but he came anyways and it was just me and him and other people who are not in a group. So we have fun eating dinner talking to ppl. Then he says let's go to a bar. So we will go to a bar and drink and some how get on the subject of strip club and I say I have never been and he decides he wants to take me to the strip club so we're there he's buying drinks won't let me use my money to pay the strippers give me his ones . Then wants to go next-door to sex shop laughin at some of the things in there and him saying he could see me in certain outfits. Then we leave this is a highly simplified version of events but I'm so confused like was he just having fun? Testing me to see how quickly I'll gI've in? Or does he genuinely want to have sex with me ? We kept getting closer and closer the whole night and he never made a move but we talked about relationships again and he brought it up this time saying is just a lot of work and it's not as easy as it used to be. I wish he would just stop being cryptic and tell me what the fuck you wants! I have never had to work so hard to restrain myselfWanted to see if you would jump his bones. You didn't.
Oh but I did want to badly but I never make the first move physically never ever and how would I know if he would want more after that so I wouldn't have anyways
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Well, it is a selfish moment or at least it was supposed to be. I've had something similar happen to me a couple of times
Posted by ladylibra21
So I had not seen my Cap crush for a week because he was working in another state . Today he comes in and immediately asked me to go to lunch we go to lunch I had a great time hanging out eating. Then we go to the Christmas party later but the people we thought were going decided not to go but he came anyways and it was just me and him and other people who are not in a group. So we have fun eating dinner talking to ppl. Then he says let's go to a bar. So we will go to a bar and drink and some how get on the subject of strip club and I say I have never been and he decides he wants to take me to the strip club so we're there he's buying drinks won't let me use my money to pay the strippers give me his ones . Then wants to go next-door to sex shop laughin at some of the things in there and him saying he could see me in certain outfits. Then we leave this is a highly simplified version of events but I'm so confused like was he just having fun? Testing me to see how quickly I'll gI've in? Or does he genuinely want to have sex with me ? We kept getting closer and closer the whole night and he never made a move but we talked about relationships again and he brought it up this time saying is just a lot of work and it's not as easy as it used to be. I wish he would just stop being cryptic and tell me what the fuck you wants! I have never had to work so hard to restrain myselfWanted to see if you would jump his bones. You didn't.
Oh but I did want to badly but I never make the first move physically never ever and how would I know if he would want more after that so I wouldn't have anyways
Well, it is a selfish moment or at least it was supposed to be. I've had something similar happen to me a couple of times
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What do you mean by it's a selfish moment on both parts with the person doing the manipulating ?
For you. What you want is being put on the table. No need to worry about what he wants. It's kind of a tension game.
Posted by daron76
For you. What you want is being put on the table. No need to worry about what he wants. It's kind of a tension game.
What do you mean like he's waiting to see if I give in ?
Posted by ladylibra21
So I had not seen my Cap crush for a week because he was working in another state . Today he comes in and immediately asked me to go to lunch we go to lunch I had a great time hanging out eating. Then we go to the Christmas party later but the people we thought were going decided not to go but he came anyways and it was just me and him and other people who are not in a group. So we have fun eating dinner talking to ppl. Then he says let's go to a bar. So we will go to a bar and drink and some how get on the subject of strip club and I say I have never been and he decides he wants to take me to the strip club so we're there he's buying drinks won't let me use my money to pay the strippers give me his ones . Then wants to go next-door to sex shop laughin at some of the things in there and him saying he could see me in certain outfits. Then we leave this is a highly simplified version of events but I'm so confused like was he just having fun? Testing me to see how quickly I'll gI've in? Or does he genuinely want to have sex with me ? We kept getting closer and closer the whole night and he never made a move but we talked about relationships again and he brought it up this time saying is just a lot of work and it's not as easy as it used to be. I wish he would just stop being cryptic and tell me what the fuck you wants! I have never had to work so hard to restrain myselfWanted to see if you would jump his bones. You didn't.
Oh but I did want to badly but I never make the first move physically never ever and how would I know if he would want more after that so I wouldn't have anyways
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Classic example of overthinking!
He lead the way. You stumbled because you would never...so...now you here being confused by contradictory advises.
Men like spontaneous and sexy moves!
You chosen to be...well...whatever...nothing he had never seen!
Keep your feeling from being hurt until you are...too old to be approached. Though I shouldn't say that. There is love at all ages but you have to become a pro while young'
Otherwise...missed opportunities and nothing even to cry about! Noooooo way!
Something like that. More like building tension for this first round. The more you build up, the better it can be. However, sometimes you push it too far and then....
Posted by ladylibra21
So I had not seen my Cap crush for a week because he was working in another state . Today he comes in and immediately asked me to go to lunch we go to lunch I had a great time hanging out eating. Then we go to the Christmas party later but the people we thought were going decided not to go but he came anyways and it was just me and him and other people who are not in a group. So we have fun eating dinner talking to ppl. Then he says let's go to a bar. So we will go to a bar and drink and some how get on the subject of strip club and I say I have never been and he decides he wants to take me to the strip club so we're there he's buying drinks won't let me use my money to pay the strippers give me his ones . Then wants to go next-door to sex shop laughin at some of the things in there and him saying he could see me in certain outfits. Then we leave this is a highly simplified version of events but I'm so confused like was he just having fun? Testing me to see how quickly I'll gI've in? Or does he genuinely want to have sex with me ? We kept getting closer and closer the whole night and he never made a move but we talked about relationships again and he brought it up this time saying is just a lot of work and it's not as easy as it used to be. I wish he would just stop being cryptic and tell me what the fuck you wants! I have never had to work so hard to restrain myselfWanted to see if you would jump his bones. You didn't.
Oh but I did want to badly but I never make the first move physically never ever and how would I know if he would want more after that so I wouldn't have anyways
Classic example of overthinking!
He lead the way. You stumbled because you would never...so...now you here being confused by contradictory advises.
Men like spontaneous and sexy moves!
You chosen to be...well...whatever...nothing he had never seen!
Keep your feeling from being hurt until you are...too old to be approached. Though I shouldn't say that. There is love at all ages but you have to become a pro while young'
Otherwise...missed opportunities and nothing even to cry about! Noooooo way!
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So you're saying I should just go around fucking people who I want to be in a relationship even though I'm not sure if they want to be in a relationship with me out of some need to not miss opportunities? To be honest I'd rather not have sex with him if he doesn't see himself with me because me personally I just can't handle that especially after being emotionally close to someone for months closer than I have ever been to a man before. And maybe that was my mistake letting him know everything about me but I know most of his secrets to.
Posted by daron76
Something like that. More like building tension for this first round. The more you build up, the better it can be. However, sometimes you push it too far and then....
Oh I see. So now he's ignoring me and I'm ignoring him so that should be fun (sarcasm)
LOL!!! Classic. By the time ya'll finally link up you too are going to wear each other out. This slow game is fun. I'm just too old for this stuff now haha.
Posted by ladylibra21
So I had not seen my Cap crush for a week because he was working in another state . Today he comes in and immediately asked me to go to lunch we go to lunch I had a great time hanging out eating. Then we go to the Christmas party later but the people we thought were going decided not to go but he came anyways and it was just me and him and other people who are not in a group. So we have fun eating dinner talking to ppl. Then he says let's go to a bar. So we will go to a bar and drink and some how get on the subject of strip club and I say I have never been and he decides he wants to take me to the strip club so we're there he's buying drinks won't let me use my money to pay the strippers give me his ones . Then wants to go next-door to sex shop laughin at some of the things in there and him saying he could see me in certain outfits. Then we leave this is a highly simplified version of events but I'm so confused like was he just having fun? Testing me to see how quickly I'll gI've in? Or does he genuinely want to have sex with me ? We kept getting closer and closer the whole night and he never made a move but we talked about relationships again and he brought it up this time saying is just a lot of work and it's not as easy as it used to be. I wish he would just stop being cryptic and tell me what the fuck you wants! I have never had to work so hard to restrain myselfWanted to see if you would jump his bones. You didn't.
Oh but I did want to badly but I never make the first move physically never ever and how would I know if he would want more after that so I wouldn't have anyways
Classic example of overthinking!
He lead the way. You stumbled because you would never...so...now you here being confused by contradictory advises.
Men like spontaneous and sexy moves!
You chosen to be...well...whatever...nothing he had never seen!
Keep your feeling from being hurt until you are...too old to be approached. Though I shouldn't say that. There is love at all ages but you have to become a pro while young'
Otherwise...missed opportunities and nothing even to cry about! Noooooo way!
So you're saying I should just go around fucking people who I want to be in a relationship even though I'm not sure if they want to be in a relationship with me out of some need to not miss opportunities? To be honest I'd rather not have sex with him if he doesn't see himself with me because me personally I just can't handle that especially after being emotionally close to someone for months closer than I have ever been to a man before. And maybe that was my mistake letting him know everything about me but I know most of his secrets to.
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My point proved. Overthinking! Big time!
You don't want to do it wrong but you don't mind proclaim yourself horny on international though anonymous board!
Posted by ladylibra21
So I had not seen my Cap crush for a week because he was working in another state . Today he comes in and immediately asked me to go to lunch we go to lunch I had a great time hanging out eating. Then we go to the Christmas party later but the people we thought were going decided not to go but he came anyways and it was just me and him and other people who are not in a group. So we have fun eating dinner talking to ppl. Then he says let's go to a bar. So we will go to a bar and drink and some how get on the subject of strip club and I say I have never been and he decides he wants to take me to the strip club so we're there he's buying drinks won't let me use my money to pay the strippers give me his ones . Then wants to go next-door to sex shop laughin at some of the things in there and him saying he could see me in certain outfits. Then we leave this is a highly simplified version of events but I'm so confused like was he just having fun? Testing me to see how quickly I'll gI've in? Or does he genuinely want to have sex with me ? We kept getting closer and closer the whole night and he never made a move but we talked about relationships again and he brought it up this time saying is just a lot of work and it's not as easy as it used to be. I wish he would just stop being cryptic and tell me what the fuck you wants! I have never had to work so hard to restrain myselfWanted to see if you would jump his bones. You didn't.
Oh but I did want to badly but I never make the first move physically never ever and how would I know if he would want more after that so I wouldn't have anyways
Classic example of overthinking!
He lead the way. You stumbled because you would never...so...now you here being confused by contradictory advises.
Men like spontaneous and sexy moves!
You chosen to be...well...whatever...nothing he had never seen!
Keep your feeling from being hurt until you are...too old to be approached. Though I shouldn't say that. There is love at all ages but you have to become a pro while young'
Otherwise...missed opportunities and nothing even to cry about! Noooooo way!
So you're saying I should just go around fucking people who I want to be in a relationship even though I'm not sure if they want to be in a relationship with me out of some need to not miss opportunities? To be honest I'd rather not have sex with him if he doesn't see himself with me because me personally I just can't handle that especially after being emotionally close to someone for months closer than I have ever been to a man before. And maybe that was my mistake letting him know everything about me but I know most of his secrets to.
My point proved. Overthinking! Big time!
You don't want to do it wrong but you don't mind proclaim yourself horny on international though anonymous board!
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Just because I'm horny doesn't mean anything I'm not overthinking anything. Seriously though what would you do my situation because he is my coworker if we were just going out and he just wanted to have fun and he wasn't even thinking about having sex with me and I made a move on him and he rejected me how fucking awkward would that be.
Posted by ladylibra21
So I had not seen my Cap crush for a week because he was working in another state . Today he comes in and immediately asked me to go to lunch we go to lunch I had a great time hanging out eating. Then we go to the Christmas party later but the people we thought were going decided not to go but he came anyways and it was just me and him and other people who are not in a group. So we have fun eating dinner talking to ppl. Then he says let's go to a bar. So we will go to a bar and drink and some how get on the subject of strip club and I say I have never been and he decides he wants to take me to the strip club so we're there he's buying drinks won't let me use my money to pay the strippers give me his ones . Then wants to go next-door to sex shop laughin at some of the things in there and him saying he could see me in certain outfits. Then we leave this is a highly simplified version of events but I'm so confused like was he just having fun? Testing me to see how quickly I'll gI've in? Or does he genuinely want to have sex with me ? We kept getting closer and closer the whole night and he never made a move but we talked about relationships again and he brought it up this time saying is just a lot of work and it's not as easy as it used to be. I wish he would just stop being cryptic and tell me what the fuck you wants! I have never had to work so hard to restrain myselfWanted to see if you would jump his bones. You didn't.
Oh but I did want to badly but I never make the first move physically never ever and how would I know if he would want more after that so I wouldn't have anyways
Classic example of overthinking!
He lead the way. You stumbled because you would never...so...now you here being confused by contradictory advises.
Men like spontaneous and sexy moves!
You chosen to be...well...whatever...nothing he had never seen!
Keep your feeling from being hurt until you are...too old to be approached. Though I shouldn't say that. There is love at all ages but you have to become a pro while young'
Otherwise...missed opportunities and nothing even to cry about! Noooooo way!
So you're saying I should just go around fucking people who I want to be in a relationship even though I'm not sure if they want to be in a relationship with me out of some need to not miss opportunities? To be honest I'd rather not have sex with him if he doesn't see himself with me because me personally I just can't handle that especially after being emotionally close to someone for months closer than I have ever been to a man before. And maybe that was my mistake letting him know everything about me but I know most of his secrets to.
My point proved. Overthinking! Big time!
You don't want to do it wrong but you don't mind proclaim yourself horny on international though anonymous board!
Just because I'm horny doesn't mean anything I'm not overthinking anything. Seriously though what would you do my situation because he is my coworker if we were just going out and he just wanted to have fun and he wasn't even thinking about having sex with me and I made a move on him and he rejected me how fucking awkward would that be.
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Think about your logic in reverse. Maybe that will help you see why that night went the way it did on his end.
Posted by ladylibra21
So I had not seen my Cap crush for a week because he was working in another state . Today he comes in and immediately asked me to go to lunch we go to lunch I had a great time hanging out eating. Then we go to the Christmas party later but the people we thought were going decided not to go but he came anyways and it was just me and him and other people who are not in a group. So we have fun eating dinner talking to ppl. Then he says let's go to a bar. So we will go to a bar and drink and some how get on the subject of strip club and I say I have never been and he decides he wants to take me to the strip club so we're there he's buying drinks won't let me use my money to pay the strippers give me his ones . Then wants to go next-door to sex shop laughin at some of the things in there and him saying he could see me in certain outfits. Then we leave this is a highly simplified version of events but I'm so confused like was he just having fun? Testing me to see how quickly I'll gI've in? Or does he genuinely want to have sex with me ? We kept getting closer and closer the whole night and he never made a move but we talked about relationships again and he brought it up this time saying is just a lot of work and it's not as easy as it used to be. I wish he would just stop being cryptic and tell me what the fuck you wants! I have never had to work so hard to restrain myselfWanted to see if you would jump his bones. You didn't.
Oh but I did want to badly but I never make the first move physically never ever and how would I know if he would want more after that so I wouldn't have anyways
Classic example of overthinking!
He lead the way. You stumbled because you would never...so...now you here being confused by contradictory advises.
Men like spontaneous and sexy moves!
You chosen to be...well...whatever...nothing he had never seen!
Keep your feeling from being hurt until you are...too old to be approached. Though I shouldn't say that. There is love at all ages but you have to become a pro while young'
Otherwise...missed opportunities and nothing even to cry about! Noooooo way!
So you're saying I should just go around fucking people who I want to be in a relationship even though I'm not sure if they want to be in a relationship with me out of some need to not miss opportunities? To be honest I'd rather not have sex with him if he doesn't see himself with me because me personally I just can't handle that especially after being emotionally close to someone for months closer than I have ever been to a man before. And maybe that was my mistake letting him know everything about me but I know most of his secrets to.
My point proved. Overthinking! Big time!
You don't want to do it wrong but you don't mind proclaim yourself horny on international though anonymous board!
Just because I'm horny doesn't mean anything I'm not overthinking anything. Seriously though what would you do my situation because he is my coworker if we were just going out and he just wanted to have fun and he wasn't even thinking about having sex with me and I made a move on him and he rejected me how fucking awkward would that be.
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Keep up those thoughts and you will die a virgin!
So what? People go tru things!
Life is a bitch! Men are dogs' women are sluts! Where are you? We all here on Earth. Wow girl! You need someone to talk to...for money. Hourly. Shrink I mean. Hugs
Posted by ladylibra21
So I had not seen my Cap crush for a week because he was working in another state . Today he comes in and immediately asked me to go to lunch we go to lunch I had a great time hanging out eating. Then we go to the Christmas party later but the people we thought were going decided not to go but he came anyways and it was just me and him and other people who are not in a group. So we have fun eating dinner talking to ppl. Then he says let's go to a bar. So we will go to a bar and drink and some how get on the subject of strip club and I say I have never been and he decides he wants to take me to the strip club so we're there he's buying drinks won't let me use my money to pay the strippers give me his ones . Then wants to go next-door to sex shop laughin at some of the things in there and him saying he could see me in certain outfits. Then we leave this is a highly simplified version of events but I'm so confused like was he just having fun? Testing me to see how quickly I'll gI've in? Or does he genuinely want to have sex with me ? We kept getting closer and closer the whole night and he never made a move but we talked about relationships again and he brought it up this time saying is just a lot of work and it's not as easy as it used to be. I wish he would just stop being cryptic and tell me what the fuck you wants! I have never had to work so hard to restrain myselfWanted to see if you would jump his bones. You didn't.
Oh but I did want to badly but I never make the first move physically never ever and how would I know if he would want more after that so I wouldn't have anyways
Classic example of overthinking!
He lead the way. You stumbled because you would never...so...now you here being confused by contradictory advises.
Men like spontaneous and sexy moves!
You chosen to be...well...whatever...nothing he had never seen!
Keep your feeling from being hurt until you are...too old to be approached. Though I shouldn't say that. There is love at all ages but you have to become a pro while young'
Otherwise...missed opportunities and nothing even to cry about! Noooooo way!
So you're saying I should just go around fucking people who I want to be in a relationship even though I'm not sure if they want to be in a relationship with me out of some need to not miss opportunities? To be honest I'd rather not have sex with him if he doesn't see himself with me because me personally I just can't handle that especially after being emotionally close to someone for months closer than I have ever been to a man before. And maybe that was my mistake letting him know everything about me but I know most of his secrets to.
My point proved. Overthinking! Big time!
You don't want to do it wrong but you don't mind proclaim yourself horny on international though anonymous board!
Just because I'm horny doesn't mean anything I'm not overthinking anything. Seriously though what would you do my situation because he is my coworker if we were just going out and he just wanted to have fun and he wasn't even thinking about having sex with me and I made a move on him and he rejected me how fucking awkward would that be.
Think about your logic in reverse. Maybe that will help you see why that night went the way it did on his end.
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So you think he feels rejected ?
Yes. And the same hesitation about being co-workers and pushing up on a woman he works with who doesn't want to have sex with him. He pushed up as far as he could with out crossing a line. Now he either has to leave it alone or try to let the tension build further. No way in hell I am having a night like that with a woman I work with unless it was clear we were both interested. This will be a very slow game indeed.
Posted by daron76
Yes. And the same hesitation about being co-workers and pushing up on a woman he works with who doesn't want to have sex with him. He pushed up as far as he could with out crossing a line. Now he either has to leave it alone or try to let the tension build further. This will be a very slow game indeed.
Well if you would pick up the phone today I would have asked him why nothing happened last night and hopefully got a clear answer But now it just makes for an awkward Monday
Posted by daron76
Yes. And the same hesitation about being co-workers and pushing up on a woman he works with who doesn't want to have sex with him. He pushed up as far as he could with out crossing a line. Now he either has to leave it alone or try to let the tension build further. This will be a very slow game indeed.Well if you would pick up the phone today I would have asked him why nothing happened last night and hopefully got a clear answer But now it just makes for an awkward Monday
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You already blew him off. Gotta give him the incentive and opportunity to try again.
Posted by ladylibra21
So I had not seen my Cap crush for a week because he was working in another state . Today he comes in and immediately asked me to go to lunch we go to lunch I had a great time hanging out eating. Then we go to the Christmas party later but the people we thought were going decided not to go but he came anyways and it was just me and him and other people who are not in a group. So we have fun eating dinner talking to ppl. Then he says let's go to a bar. So we will go to a bar and drink and some how get on the subject of strip club and I say I have never been and he decides he wants to take me to the strip club so we're there he's buying drinks won't let me use my money to pay the strippers give me his ones . Then wants to go next-door to sex shop laughin at some of the things in there and him saying he could see me in certain outfits. Then we leave this is a highly simplified version of events but I'm so confused like was he just having fun? Testing me to see how quickly I'll gI've in? Or does he genuinely want to have sex with me ? We kept getting closer and closer the whole night and he never made a move but we talked about relationships again and he brought it up this time saying is just a lot of work and it's not as easy as it used to be. I wish he would just stop being cryptic and tell me what the fuck you wants! I have never had to work so hard to restrain myselfWanted to see if you would jump his bones. You didn't.
Oh but I did want to badly but I never make the first move physically never ever and how would I know if he would want more after that so I wouldn't have anyways
Classic example of overthinking!
He lead the way. You stumbled because you would never...so...now you here being confused by contradictory advises.
Men like spontaneous and sexy moves!
You chosen to be...well...whatever...nothing he had never seen!
Keep your feeling from being hurt until you are...too old to be approached. Though I shouldn't say that. There is love at all ages but you have to become a pro while young'
Otherwise...missed opportunities and nothing even to cry about! Noooooo way!
So you're saying I should just go around fucking people who I want to be in a relationship even though I'm not sure if they want to be in a relationship with me out of some need to not miss opportunities? To be honest I'd rather not have sex with him if he doesn't see himself with me because me personally I just can't handle that especially after being emotionally close to someone for months closer than I have ever been to a man before. And maybe that was my mistake letting him know everything about me but I know most of his secrets to.
My point proved. Overthinking! Big time!
You don't want to do it wrong but you don't mind proclaim yourself horny on international though anonymous board!
Just because I'm horny doesn't mean anything I'm not overthinking anything. Seriously though what would you do my situation because he is my coworker if we were just going out and he just wanted to have fun and he wasn't even thinking about having sex with me and I made a move on him and he rejected me how fucking awkward would that be.
Think about your logic in reverse. Maybe that will help you see why that night went the way it did on his end.
So you think he feels rejected ?
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Seraph said on the page 1 that you are stupid! I went to shield you and now I apologize to Seraph! She was right! You ARE stupid!
Posted by daron76
Yes. And the same hesitation about being co-workers and pushing up on a woman he works with who doesn't want to have sex with him. He pushed up as far as he could with out crossing a line. Now he either has to leave it alone or try to let the tension build further. This will be a very slow game indeed.Well if you would pick up the phone today I would have asked him why nothing happened last night and hopefully got a clear answer But now it just makes for an awkward Monday
You already blew him off. Gotta give him the incentive and opportunity to try again.
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She has not blew him off! He didn't even tried hard. Maybe at some point he was just thinking let me get her home and be done with this 'fun'!
Posted by daron76
Yes. And the same hesitation about being co-workers and pushing up on a woman he works with who doesn't want to have sex with him. He pushed up as far as he could with out crossing a line. Now he either has to leave it alone or try to let the tension build further. This will be a very slow game indeed.Well if you would pick up the phone today I would have asked him why nothing happened last night and hopefully got a clear answer But now it just makes for an awkward Monday
You already blew him off. Gotta give him the incentive and opportunity to try again.
She has not blew him off! He didn't even tried hard. Maybe at some point he was just thinking let me get her home and be done with this 'fun'!
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Yeah, just read through all the comments, some very important stuff was not mentioned in the OP. Yikes
Posted by daron76
Yes. And the same hesitation about being co-workers and pushing up on a woman he works with who doesn't want to have sex with him. He pushed up as far as he could with out crossing a line. Now he either has to leave it alone or try to let the tension build further. This will be a very slow game indeed.Well if you would pick up the phone today I would have asked him why nothing happened last night and hopefully got a clear answer But now it just makes for an awkward Monday
You already blew him off. Gotta give him the incentive and opportunity to try again.
She has not blew him off! He didn't even tried hard. Maybe at some point he was just thinking let me get her home and be done with this 'fun'!
Yeah, just read through all the comments, some very important stuff was not mentioned in the OP. Yikes
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Thanks but maybe when I am retired I will read it all but now I am pretty sure it was our time waste BIG time. 😉
Posted by daron76
Yes. And the same hesitation about being co-workers and pushing up on a woman he works with who doesn't want to have sex with him. He pushed up as far as he could with out crossing a line. Now he either has to leave it alone or try to let the tension build further. This will be a very slow game indeed.Well if you would pick up the phone today I would have asked him why nothing happened last night and hopefully got a clear answer But now it just makes for an awkward Monday
You already blew him off. Gotta give him the incentive and opportunity to try again.
She has not blew him off! He didn't even tried hard. Maybe at some point he was just thinking let me get her home and be done with this 'fun'!
Yeah, just read through all the comments, some very important stuff was not mentioned in the OP. Yikes
Thanks but maybe when I am retired I will read it all but now I am pretty sure it was our time waste BIG time. 😉
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It's not a waste, its a very complicated scenario they are trying to navigate. The confusion is understandable.
Posted by daron76
Yes. And the same hesitation about being co-workers and pushing up on a woman he works with who doesn't want to have sex with him. He pushed up as far as he could with out crossing a line. Now he either has to leave it alone or try to let the tension build further. This will be a very slow game indeed.Well if you would pick up the phone today I would have asked him why nothing happened last night and hopefully got a clear answer But now it just makes for an awkward Monday
You already blew him off. Gotta give him the incentive and opportunity to try again.
She has not blew him off! He didn't even tried hard. Maybe at some point he was just thinking let me get her home and be done with this 'fun'!
Yeah, just read through all the comments, some very important stuff was not mentioned in the OP. Yikes
Thanks but maybe when I am retired I will read it all but now I am pretty sure it was our time waste BIG time. 😉
It's not a waste, its a very complicated scenario they are trying to navigate. The confusion is understandable.
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If you sure...I might read later. Vey!
Oh ladylibra, I feel your struggle...
Posted by Explicit
Girl I knew you had some kind of Cancer in you while reading your post. Then I looked and it said "Cancer Moon." 😈Anyway, you never should have tried those outfits on for him. Gross. He should only see you in that once he's man enough to be upfront with you.
But yes, he is clearly interested in you.
Pull back a little though. Don't do everything he says and wants. Men like to chase.
Omg I didn't try anything on for him. I think you guys got my post all wrong. This guy and I have been building a friendship for over a year and gotten closer to each other this was the first time he ever mention anything sexual and we have been drinking and he was like let's go to the strip club and drink. Next-door is a sex store and we went for shits and giggles because it was still open and he looked at some clothing and said I could see you wearing this. Meaning it looked like it would be my style .
Do you think he thinks of you as a buddy? Could there be someone else in the picture he is interested in? But also maybe he is interested in you but does not want to jump into anything quickly, or is trying to be respectful to you by not hurrying with sex.
He made it a point in October to tell me he wasn't seeing anyone. Went out of his way to offer that information out of nowhere. He also said a couple months ago he wasn't sure if he knew how to start a relationship or if he would be any good at it considering everyone he knows around him fight like cats and dogs
The realest thing he'll probably ever tell you, girl. He's probably said some other things as well, it's easy to overlook at first when things are new and fun. I don't know what your desired outcome is (Relationship versus just sex) or what you're wanting from him but if it's a serious relationship then just be careful. It seems like you're already really invested in him (I could be wrong though).
When they say stuff like this, take them at their word. Tiki had excellent points. He doesn't know what he's doing and he's setting that bar and those expectations really low. What's his relationship history like? Has he ever been in one before, how long did it last? What happened?
You've already been to a sex shop together and a strip club.. soo if he's comfortable doing that then some of these questions should be no big deal. His reaction to that stuff is also telling.
I'd dig around some more on him. So far, he's not really stepping up to me.
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As far as past relationships go he lived with a girl about four years ago and she left him when he got in a really bad motorcycle accident and was bedridden for year
Posted by pinkbird03
Oh ladylibra, I feel your struggle...
Let's invent a stick call the Cap Slap lol
Posted by DeadStool
I think next time you should confuse him by taking him to brunch, and then a new years party, and then a sephora, and then a pet adoption agency, and then a sick kids hospital. He won't know if you're trying to marry him or tell him you have cancer.
LOL, I love it!
Posted by ladylibra21
So I had not seen my Cap crush for a week because he was working in another state . Today he comes in and immediately asked me to go to lunch we go to lunch I had a great time hanging out eating. Then we go to the Christmas party later but the people we thought were going decided not to go but he came anyways and it was just me and him and other people who are not in a group. So we have fun eating dinner talking to ppl. Then he says let's go to a bar. So we will go to a bar and drink and some how get on the subject of strip club and I say I have never been and he decides he wants to take me to the strip club so we're there he's buying drinks won't let me use my money to pay the strippers give me his ones . Then wants to go next-door to sex shop laughin at some of the things in there and him saying he could see me in certain outfits. Then we leave this is a highly simplified version of events but I'm so confused like was he just having fun? Testing me to see how quickly I'll gI've in? Or does he genuinely want to have sex with me ? We kept getting closer and closer the whole night and he never made a move but we talked about relationships again and he brought it up this time saying is just a lot of work and it's not as easy as it used to be. I wish he would just stop being cryptic and tell me what the fuck you wants! I have never had to work so hard to restrain myself
LMAO that title tho. Just pure emotions.
Posted by ladylibra21
So I had not seen my Cap crush for a week because he was working in another state . Today he comes in and immediately asked me to go to lunch we go to lunch I had a great time hanging out eating. Then we go to the Christmas party later but the people we thought were going decided not to go but he came anyways and it was just me and him and other people who are not in a group. So we have fun eating dinner talking to ppl. Then he says let's go to a bar. So we will go to a bar and drink and some how get on the subject of strip club and I say I have never been and he decides he wants to take me to the strip club so we're there he's buying drinks won't let me use my money to pay the strippers give me his ones . Then wants to go next-door to sex shop laughin at some of the things in there and him saying he could see me in certain outfits. Then we leave this is a highly simplified version of events but I'm so confused like was he just having fun? Testing me to see how quickly I'll gI've in? Or does he genuinely want to have sex with me ? We kept getting closer and closer the whole night and he never made a move but we talked about relationships again and he brought it up this time saying is just a lot of work and it's not as easy as it used to be. I wish he would just stop being cryptic and tell me what the fuck you wants! I have never had to work so hard to restrain myselfLMAO that title tho. Just pure emotions.
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That's how I was feeling no I'm just horny and pissed off
Posted by daron76
Yes. And the same hesitation about being co-workers and pushing up on a woman he works with who doesn't want to have sex with him. He pushed up as far as he could with out crossing a line. Now he either has to leave it alone or try to let the tension build further. This will be a very slow game indeed.Well if you would pick up the phone today I would have asked him why nothing happened last night and hopefully got a clear answer But now it just makes for an awkward Monday
You already blew him off. Gotta give him the incentive and opportunity to try again.
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I agree with Daron.
I've also been in similar situation.
Be careful about work relationships. Think it through... the possible failure or success. Relationships naturally have ups and downs. Can you deal with it at work?
Posted by daron76
Yes. And the same hesitation about being co-workers and pushing up on a woman he works with who doesn't want to have sex with him. He pushed up as far as he could with out crossing a line. Now he either has to leave it alone or try to let the tension build further. This will be a very slow game indeed.Well if you would pick up the phone today I would have asked him why nothing happened last night and hopefully got a clear answer But now it just makes for an awkward Monday
You already blew him off. Gotta give him the incentive and opportunity to try again.
I agree with Daron.
I've also been in similar situation.
Be careful about work relationships. Think it through... the possible failure or success. Relationships naturally have ups and downs. Can you deal with it at work?
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I think I could because he is out in the field most of the time but I'm trying to leave that place very soon
Posted by daron76
Yes. And the same hesitation about being co-workers and pushing up on a woman he works with who doesn't want to have sex with him. He pushed up as far as he could with out crossing a line. Now he either has to leave it alone or try to let the tension build further. This will be a very slow game indeed.Well if you would pick up the phone today I would have asked him why nothing happened last night and hopefully got a clear answer But now it just makes for an awkward Monday
You already blew him off. Gotta give him the incentive and opportunity to try again.
I agree with Daron.
I've also been in similar situation.
Be careful about work relationships. Think it through... the possible failure or success. Relationships naturally have ups and downs. Can you deal with it at work?
I think I could because he is out in the field most of the time but I'm trying to leave that place very soon
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That's fab.
So, am I understanding that you gave no green light?
Posted by daron76
Yes. And the same hesitation about being co-workers and pushing up on a woman he works with who doesn't want to have sex with him. He pushed up as far as he could with out crossing a line. Now he either has to leave it alone or try to let the tension build further. This will be a very slow game indeed.Well if you would pick up the phone today I would have asked him why nothing happened last night and hopefully got a clear answer But now it just makes for an awkward Monday
You already blew him off. Gotta give him the incentive and opportunity to try again.
I agree with Daron.
I've also been in similar situation.
Be careful about work relationships. Think it through... the possible failure or success. Relationships naturally have ups and downs. Can you deal with it at work?
I think I could because he is out in the field most of the time but I'm trying to leave that place very soon
That's fab.
So, am I understanding that you gave no green light?
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I didn't make a move but that's because I wasn't sure if I should and he didn't make a move at least physically neither one of us made a move
Posted by daron76
Yes. And the same hesitation about being co-workers and pushing up on a woman he works with who doesn't want to have sex with him. He pushed up as far as he could with out crossing a line. Now he either has to leave it alone or try to let the tension build further. This will be a very slow game indeed.Well if you would pick up the phone today I would have asked him why nothing happened last night and hopefully got a clear answer But now it just makes for an awkward Monday
You already blew him off. Gotta give him the incentive and opportunity to try again.
I agree with Daron.
I've also been in similar situation.
Be careful about work relationships. Think it through... the possible failure or success. Relationships naturally have ups and downs. Can you deal with it at work?
I think I could because he is out in the field most of the time but I'm trying to leave that place very soon
That's fab.
So, am I understanding that you gave no green light?
I didn't make a move but that's because I wasn't sure if I should and he didn't make a move at least physically neither one of us made a move
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Monday doesn't have to be awkward. I would be beaming and waiting to see him. He seems like alotta fun, even as a friend. Seems like he knows how to have a good time. Those people are keepers... sex or not. He's cool peeps and I would tell him that.
Posted by DeadStool
I think next time you should confuse him by taking him to brunch, and then a new years party, and then a sephora, and then a pet adoption agency, and then a sick kids hospital. He won't know if you're trying to marry him or tell him you have cancer.LOL, I love it!
Be on the look out for Is she dying or is she in love?: Libra Woman Cap Male
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LMAO
It's the most ridiculous stuffs going on here!
We didn't have aex!
Omg!
We didn't have sex!
How am I going to live now?
We did not have sex!!!
Posted by Gemitati
It's the most ridiculous stuffs going on here!We didn't have aex!
Omg!
We didn't have sex!
How am I going to live now?
We did not have sex!!!
I am glad I can add so much entertainment to your lonely life ?
Posted by Gemitati
It's the most ridiculous stuffs going on here!We didn't have aex!
Omg!
We didn't have sex!
How am I going to live now?
We did not have sex!!!
I am glad I can add so much entertainment to your lonely life ?
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I wish you did it to your fun filled life!
And wish you had sex and this thread would be non-existent.
Posted by Gemitati
It's the most ridiculous stuffs going on here!We didn't have aex!
Omg!
We didn't have sex!
How am I going to live now?
We did not have sex!!!
I am glad I can add so much entertainment to your lonely life ?
I wish you did it to your fun filled life!
And wish you had sex and this thread would be non-existent.
stop being mean and move
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Tell your parents what to do boy!
Have nowhere to go on Saturday night?
Figures...
Posted by Gemitati
It's the most ridiculous stuffs going on here!We didn't have aex!
Omg!
We didn't have sex!
How am I going to live now?
We did not have sex!!!
I am glad I can add so much entertainment to your lonely life ?
I wish you did it to your fun filled life!
And wish you had sex and this thread would be non-existent.
stop being mean and move
Tell your parents what to do boy!
Have nowhere to go on Saturday night?
Figures...
i'm working on scala, just preparing an avenir
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...while reading 11 pages of OMG we didn't have sex!
Posted by Gemitati
It's the most ridiculous stuffs going on here!We didn't have aex!
Omg!
We didn't have sex!
How am I going to live now?
We did not have sex!!!
I am glad I can add so much entertainment to your lonely life ?
I wish you did it to your fun filled life!
And wish you had sex and this thread would be non-existent.
stop being mean and move
Tell your parents what to do boy!
Have nowhere to go on Saturday night?
Figures...
i'm working on scala, just preparing an avenir
...while reading 11 pages of OMG we didn't have sex!
nah actually i didnt read, but you are not capricorn and you are judging someone without knowing the entire situation, i was just trying to be polite. who the fuck are you for judging me and her you stupid little trash ? you want attention because a guy one stand you ? do a thread and move, because we dont have attention for you here
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Do you address yourself 'we' moron?
Posted by Gemitati
It's the most ridiculous stuffs going on here!We didn't have aex!
Omg!
We didn't have sex!
How am I going to live now?
We did not have sex!!!
I am glad I can add so much entertainment to your lonely life ?
I wish you did it to your fun filled life!
And wish you had sex and this thread would be non-existent.
stop being mean and move
Tell your parents what to do boy!
Have nowhere to go on Saturday night?
Figures...
i'm working on scala, just preparing an avenir
...while reading 11 pages of OMG we didn't have sex!
You could actually take notes being you're married and all.
You don't want your cap husband yet continue to hang out on our board. Why?
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?
Posted by Gemitati
It's the most ridiculous stuffs going on here!We didn't have aex!
Omg!
We didn't have sex!
How am I going to live now?
We did not have sex!!!
I am glad I can add so much entertainment to your lonely life ?
I wish you did it to your fun filled life!
And wish you had sex and this thread would be non-existent.
stop being mean and move
Tell your parents what to do boy!
Have nowhere to go on Saturday night?
Figures...
i'm working on scala, just preparing an avenir
...while reading 11 pages of OMG we didn't have sex!
You could actually take notes being you're married and all.
You don't want your cap husband yet continue to hang out on our board. Why?
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Take notes in what? How to become a virgin?
And no I don't want him to hang out with you here. You might teach him thing or two and he is too old for this shit. He has a fragile heart. 🙂
U have to directly ask him what's up.. Nothing wrong with going to a strip club & a sex shop, it's not like he's a stranger .. He's your co worker for the past year .. Sounds like he just wanted to have some fun , no harm in that
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