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Posted by Tom_SawyerI would invest in safe stocks and bonds. Then I would start up a small business venture in something like a pressure washing business. A service or a product that everyone needs.
If you had a larger amount of money coming to you in a few weeks, what would you invest it in?
Posted by GetMistedI second this question.
How big that D tho?
Althogh someone asked earlier, how you define "mature"?it s about age or experience?
From your experience,how long did it takes for you to fall in love with woman?
From your experience,how long did it takes for you to fall in love with woman?
Posted by CandicornGood question lol. I am 37 done had plenty of mistakes in life. Grew up poor and made a point to make something of myself. Played basketball professionally for 10 years aboard. So I have a worldwide perspective, with a street mentality, and I have a Masters degree so I can relate just to anyone and anybody.
What makes you mature?
Posted by GetMistedI'm 6'8 with a size 15 shoes
How big that D tho?
Posted by justlikeheavenIt takes less and less the older I get I'll admit. Still takes a while because they have to be a friend, ride or die type, basically all I would every need in a person. Of course no one is perfect so it is a building process and I like to build no matter how long it takes. I hope this answers your question.
Althogh someone asked earlier, how you define "mature"?it s about age or experience?
From your experience,how long did it takes for you to fall in love with woman?
Posted by CandicornThanks dollPosted by GeecheedPosted by CandicornGood question lol. I am 37 done had plenty of mistakes in life. Grew up poor and made a point to make something of myself. Played basketball professionally for 10 years aboard. So I have a worldwide perspective, with a street mentality, and I have a Masters degree so I can relate just to anyone and anybody.
What makes you mature?
Impressive and congrats
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Posted by julietteeI grew up super shy and awkward with women needless to say I admired my crushes from afar. I hated rejection that is why I didn't put myself out there. Didn't really start to get into women until after high school. I would flirt and conversate but that was it. Traditional dating is more my thing per say but I don't put labels on anything because that restrains the unexpected. I love a good adventure!
Cap sun leo moon, great. Chaser or not? Or something in between. I mean chasing women.
What progressive timeline do you usually follow in relationships, if any?
What makes you think this particular person is wifey material? Would you still put work/biz before this person?
What makes you think this particular person is wifey material? Would you still put work/biz before this person?
Are you famous?
Can I Google you?
Are you easy or hard to please/satisfy?
Are you easy or hard to please/satisfy?
Posted by pinkbird03Depends on who you ask. Locally yes and aboard yes because that was our NBA. I mean the foreign league I was playing in. I always considered myself a normal person just so happen I was good at basketball.
Are you famous?
Posted by lnana04Yes you can google me. I am not hard to please because I'm a people pleaser. I guess you can say I am on the super chill side. Of course I have my ways but am willing to adapt if I have to.
Can I Google you?
Are you easy or hard to please/satisfy?
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So would a Cap man go outta his way to fix something important to you- literally taking hours to do it? And actually fixed the problem?
just had an opportunity randomly asked for and opinion and he came through literally on the spot with directing me to people he knows and then just leading the convo to him checking it out himself first. Wasn't expecting it to get that far and also not expecting him to get deep with the issue and fix it in the spot. We are in the same social circle and I thought he knew some tech stuff so just asked for an opinion. Lol. It was a tech issue that literally took some time for him to research and then solve.
Personally I would do it if I considered her a good friend (coworker, classmate), like a family member, if she really needed some help or if I was interested in her. Your are somewhere in there. Sounds like he cares enough to research. I can have no interest in a woman and help her out because it is the right thing to do. But in your case he cares for you more than you know. Is there more to the story?
Posted by Mandy27Been in a long relationship but am now separated from her. I want to date but for me it is a slow process for me.
What type of job do you have
Are you dating and how long have you dated
What do you look for in a relationship and a partner
What are the turn ons and turn offs in a person
Are you an open book or more conservative and private
Do you have a large circle of friends if not then why
Describe your dream woman
Lol just a few questions
I look for convo first but a physical attraction must be there. I need to talk to my woman about any and everything. She has to have at least some of my likeable physical attributes. Smile, legs, butt, stomach, arms, sex.....of course having a real bad one is a turn off not to sound picky.
Turn ons confidence, quirkiness, weirdness, style , ambition
Turn offs loud, flaky, untrustworthy, negative, unintelligent
I am an open book when in love and I trust you. I like to be mysterious probably cause of my Scorpio rising. She will have my undivided attention. My Venus in Aquarius makes me the unconventional date meaning I will do small things through actions to show my love. Not the most vocal but I can show better than I can tell.
I have many associates but one best friend. From my experience people are not committed to me as I with them. I'm dependable and considerate to a fault.
She would be 5'7 or taller, a nice smile, intelligent, ambitious, generous, spontaneous, not clingy, loving, and open minded. Hope this answered your questions
Posted by DistilledPosted by GeecheedNo there was no more to the story until that happened. Same social circle but closer with some people more than others but still on a distant level. Has gone out of his way personally to make sure I get to places we're all meeting at or so I'm in the know- but not unrealistically or exaggerated, just really good timing in circumstance- but also for select few others in circle, although they're males lol. Not many though come to think of it.Posted by Distilled
So would a Cap man go outta his way to fix something important to you- literally taking hours to do it? And actually fixed the problem?
just had an opportunity randomly asked for and opinion and he came through literally on the spot with directing me to people he knows and then just leading the convo to him checking it out himself first. Wasn't expecting it to get that far and also not expecting him to get deep with the issue and fix it in the spot. We are in the same social circle and I thought he knew some tech stuff so just asked for an opinion. Lol. It was a tech issue that literally took some time for him to research and then solve.
Personally I would do it if I considered her a good friend (coworker, classmate), like a family member, if she really needed some help or if I was interested in her. Your are somewhere in there. Sounds like he cares enough to research. I can have no interest in a woman and help her out because it is the right thing to do. But in your case he cares for you more than you know. Is there more to the story?
Whats your take?
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Posted by DistilledPosted by GeecheedNo there was no more to the story until that happened. Same social circle but closer with some people more than others but still on a distant level. Has gone out of his way personally to make sure I get to places we're all meeting at or so I'm in the know- but not unrealistically or exaggerated, just really good timing in circumstance- but also for select few others in circle, although they're males lol. Not many though come to think of it.Posted by Distilled
So would a Cap man go outta his way to fix something important to you- literally taking hours to do it? And actually fixed the problem?
just had an opportunity randomly asked for and opinion and he came through literally on the spot with directing me to people he knows and then just leading the convo to him checking it out himself first. Wasn't expecting it to get that far and also not expecting him to get deep with the issue and fix it in the spot. We are in the same social circle and I thought he knew some tech stuff so just asked for an opinion. Lol. It was a tech issue that literally took some time for him to research and then solve.
Personally I would do it if I considered her a good friend (coworker, classmate), like a family member, if she really needed some help or if I was interested in her. Your are somewhere in there. Sounds like he cares enough to research. I can have no interest in a woman and help her out because it is the right thing to do. But in your case he cares for you more than you know. Is there more to the story?
Whats your take?
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If it is not work related then it might be something there. I would add we don't break character even if we really like you. Don't look for over the top gestures because that's not our style but his actions are speaking volumes. I saw the word personally. So I'm going to say he finds you worthy of his time and energy which means a whole lot.
What can you say about a cappy guy who's acting like a boyfriend but he doesn't want to make it official? Is two years considered to be still early for a capy guy? Or he is making his options open?
Posted by Miamia13Hmm good question. Have more than one layer for him to peel back then he will find you. Plus we need a challenge verbally or physically. Keep us guessing but don't push us away too far we lose interest fast cause we overthink things or are just too busy to get back to you.
Where can I find a Cap man?
Posted by TierRomLaughing out loud, I do praise him on the dailyPosted by GeecheedPosted by GetMistedI'm 6'8 with a size 15 shoes
How big that D tho?
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Posted by Miamia13Posted by GeecheedI actually met a Cap. woman in my office! She's an amazing dominant woman. I just don't happen to come across Cap. people very often. Or at least, I never know when I do.Posted by Miamia13Hmm good question. Have more than one layer for him to peel back then he will find you. Plus we need a challenge verbally or physically. Keep us guessing but don't push us away too far we lose interest fast cause we overthink things or are just too busy to get back to you.
Where can I find a Cap man?
What would the Cap be doing at a party?
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For me I am quiet unless I am comfortable with my surroundings. I guess I'm the guy who looks shy then begins to talk after a few drinks (only way to loosen up sometimes). Reserved demeanor, (dorky or cool), but confident non the less.
Posted by DistilledIf he doesn't like you he respects you a ton. Can't decipher him really except from the kind gestures. Also we don't step on toes in the workplace because we know that can make for a stressful work environment.Posted by GeecheedNot work but it is community, socially and publicly related. So even worse.Posted by DistilledPosted by GeecheedNo there was no more to the story until that happened. Same social circle but closer with some people more than others but still on a distant level. Has gone out of his way personally to make sure I get to places we're all meeting at or so I'm in the know- but not unrealistically or exaggerated, just really good timing in circumstance- but also for select few others in circle, although they're males lol. Not many though come to think of it.Posted by Distilled
So would a Cap man go outta his way to fix something important to you- literally taking hours to do it? And actually fixed the problem?
just had an opportunity randomly asked for and opinion and he came through literally on the spot with directing me to people he knows and then just leading the convo to him checking it out himself first. Wasn't expecting it to get that far and also not expecting him to get deep with the issue and fix it in the spot. We are in the same social circle and I thought he knew some tech stuff so just asked for an opinion. Lol. It was a tech issue that literally took some time for him to research and then solve.
Personally I would do it if I considered her a good friend (coworker, classmate), like a family member, if she really needed some help or if I was interested in her. Your are somewhere in there. Sounds like he cares enough to research. I can have no interest in a woman and help her out because it is the right thing to do. But in your case he cares for you more than you know. Is there more to the story?
Whats your take?
If it is not work related then it might be something there. I would add we don't break character even if we really like you. Don't look for over the top gestures because that's not our style but his actions are speaking volumes. I saw the word personally. So I'm going to say he finds you worthy of his time and energy which means a whole lot.
All going away soon for a vacation related.
... I'll find out the details then anyway.
Until then well I've saved some money with his help.
Did feel he was being himself but so was I in the moment. Nothing more or less.
Y'all seem to be creatures of habit but go outta the box at the same time when fitting.
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Posted by DistilledPosted by GeecheedThanks... For real.Posted by DistilledIf he doesn't like you he respects you a ton. Can't decipher him really except from the kind gestures. Also we don't step on toes in the workplace because we know that can make for a stressful work environment.Posted by GeecheedNot work but it is community, socially and publicly related. So even worse.Posted by DistilledPosted by GeecheedNo there was no more to the story until that happened. Same social circle but closer with some people more than others but still on a distant level. Has gone out of his way personally to make sure I get to places we're all meeting at or so I'm in the know- but not unrealistically or exaggerated, just really good timing in circumstance- but also for select few others in circle, although they're males lol. Not many though come to think of it.Posted by Distilled
So would a Cap man go outta his way to fix something important to you- literally taking hours to do it? And actually fixed the problem?
just had an opportunity randomly asked for and opinion and he came through literally on the spot with directing me to people he knows and then just leading the convo to him checking it out himself first. Wasn't expecting it to get that far and also not expecting him to get deep with the issue and fix it in the spot. We are in the same social circle and I thought he knew some tech stuff so just asked for an opinion. Lol. It was a tech issue that literally took some time for him to research and then solve.
Personally I would do it if I considered her a good friend (coworker, classmate), like a family member, if she really needed some help or if I was interested in her. Your are somewhere in there. Sounds like he cares enough to research. I can have no interest in a woman and help her out because it is the right thing to do. But in your case he cares for you more than you know. Is there more to the story?
Whats your take?
If it is not work related then it might be something there. I would add we don't break character even if we really like you. Don't look for over the top gestures because that's not our style but his actions are speaking volumes. I saw the word personally. So I'm going to say he finds you worthy of his time and energy which means a whole lot.
All going away soon for a vacation related.
... I'll find out the details then anyway.
Until then well I've saved some money with his help.
Did feel he was being himself but so was I in the moment. Nothing more or less.
Y'all seem to be creatures of habit but go outta the box at the same time when fitting.
Good luck in your ventures too and ain't nobody in the south put it down like triple 6 mafia. Miss that shit!
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Thanks doll and you right I lived in Tennessee during that era they were very good! You don't live in the south?
Posted by Mandy27You are welcome lovePosted by GeecheedThanks for the answersPosted by Mandy27Been in a long relationship but am now separated from her. I want to date but for me it is a slow process for me.
What type of job do you have
Are you dating and how long have you dated
What do you look for in a relationship and a partner
What are the turn ons and turn offs in a person
Are you an open book or more conservative and private
Do you have a large circle of friends if not then why
Describe your dream woman
Lol just a few questions
I look for convo first but a physical attraction must be there. I need to talk to my woman about any and everything. She has to have at least some of my likeable physical attributes. Smile, legs, butt, stomach, arms, sex.....of course having a real bad one is a turn off not to sound picky.
Turn ons confidence, quirkiness, weirdness, style , ambition
Turn offs loud, flaky, untrustworthy, negative, unintelligent
I am an open book when in love and I trust you. I like to be mysterious probably cause of my Scorpio rising. She will have my undivided attention. My Venus in Aquarius makes me the unconventional date meaning I will do small things through actions to show my love. Not the most vocal but I can show better than I can tell.
I have many associates but one best friend. From my experience people are not committed to me as I with them. I'm dependable and considerate to a fault.
She would be 5'7 or taller, a nice smile, intelligent, ambitious, generous, spontaneous, not clingy, loving, and open minded. Hope this answered your questionsclick to expand
Posted by GeecheedYay, now I have two famous friends lol ?Posted by pinkbird03Depends on who you ask. Locally yes and aboard yes because that was our NBA. I mean the foreign league I was playing in. I always considered myself a normal person just so happen I was good at basketball.
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what can you say about a cappy guy who acts and do things for you as if he is your boyfriend but doesn't want to make it official? Do you consider 2 years of dating is still too early?
Posted by GeecheedSun Cap, Venus in Aqua.. Do you move through partners a lot? are you sensitive if you have spent a lot of time (7 months) with someone?
Ask a mature Cap anything nothing is off topic or to small to ask
Are you vengeful if a woman hurts you, you take revenge to make her mad?
How do you know if she is "the one" ? How patient are you?
Posted by GeecheedMy dad is a cap, grew up poor.. & is now VERY successful in CA with his own pressure washing company.. I guess great minds think alike...?Posted by Tom_SawyerI would invest in safe stocks and bonds. Then I would start up a small business venture in something like a pressure washing business. A service or a product that everyone needs.
If you had a larger amount of money coming to you in a few weeks, what would you invest it in?click to expand
So, my question:
I am a Scorpio Sun/Sagittarius Venus/Capricorn Rising.
I am dating a Capricorn Sun/Aquarius Venus. (like yourself)
We've been together for 9 months now. We've had our ups and downs but mostly positives.
He is very skilled in basketball.. & plays the sport as his career also. (what are thee odds.. 😉 )
I saw that you wrote on one of your responses that you had a very long relationship, that just ended..
Why did it end? (if you don't mind me asking)
How did you balance a gf, long term, and your career? I'm finding that to be a big challenge in our relationship at the moment because we are also in a LDR and we don't have much time together.
I am successful on my own, have many friends and go to a lot of events, my own business etc. So I am not the clingy type, But I do desire time with my man.
How do I go about getting a little more time or do I wait for him to initiate and remain patient and understanding, as I've been?
This is all for now.. I'll be picking your brain often! 😉 SO BEEEEE Prepared. LOL!
I am a Scorpio Sun/Sagittarius Venus/Capricorn Rising.
I am dating a Capricorn Sun/Aquarius Venus. (like yourself)
We've been together for 9 months now. We've had our ups and downs but mostly positives.
He is very skilled in basketball.. & plays the sport as his career also. (what are thee odds.. 😉 )
I saw that you wrote on one of your responses that you had a very long relationship, that just ended..
Why did it end? (if you don't mind me asking)
How did you balance a gf, long term, and your career? I'm finding that to be a big challenge in our relationship at the moment because we are also in a LDR and we don't have much time together.
I am successful on my own, have many friends and go to a lot of events, my own business etc. So I am not the clingy type, But I do desire time with my man.
How do I go about getting a little more time or do I wait for him to initiate and remain patient and understanding, as I've been?
This is all for now.. I'll be picking your brain often! 😉 SO BEEEEE Prepared. LOL!
Posted by ScorpioTruthYes I did on my wife. It was an attraction thing and a drawn out process. I explained to her (almost to complaining) I needed more affection, including sex. To a point where I was telling her I was going to leave to find it somewhere else. I contemplated ending the marriage several times just because we couldn't build. She brought up her gripes with me at the most inappropriate times in the bedroom (withholding the cookie). I hold marriage sacred and would rather leave the marriage to be with someone who doesn't want me sexually or if I have to be unfaithful. I like to build and rather do it with one person.
Have you ever cheated on someone that you loved?
And if you did cheat on someone that you were with long term, and she left you after finding out but you were eventually able to win her back after fighting for her... would you slip up and cheat again or would you keep your promise that you would never do it again?
Fast forward I caught being unfaithful. She got caught up in some lies from when I first met her (found a msg from a so called college admirer saying that he loved, tell her husband he was just her friend, asked if one of her ex-boyfriends was mad at him, it ended with her asking him out to dinner in Atl). My point is there has been red flags about her roaming eye the last 4yrs I felt but could never see. Basically after my unfaithfulness I caught her with suspicious msgs to 7 different males over 4 yrs but she assured me they were innocent. I only asked she be upfront but for her she wanted her cake and wanted to eat it as well. The last message was the last straw.
I am a one woman man always will be. Don't have the memory to juggle women or the time. I fought for her when I thought I was wrong for 4 yrs. She kept me in limbo waiting hands and feet that 4 yrs too lol but I loved my family and would have done anything to keep us together.
Posted by julietteeSounds like someone has to get the ball rolling lol! From my experience I tend to be laid back I guess mysterious in a way but most of my admires are good friends or they with someone else lok. I'm not good at making the initial move cause I hate coming off creepy or stalkish but after that I can talk I'm good. You built a good rapport with him that means a lot. Message him something random to get the ball rolling...Posted by GeecheedPosted by julietteeI grew up super shy and awkward with women needless to say I admired my crushes from afar. I hated rejection that is why I didn't put myself out there. Didn't really start to get into women until after high school. I would flirt and conversate but that was it. Traditional dating is more my thing per say but I don't put labels on anything because that restrains the unexpected. I love a good adventure!
Cap sun leo moon, great. Chaser or not? Or something in between. I mean chasing women.
thanks, sounds normal or at least to me.
i know this guy for 2 years, from work, superficially but i have a good feeling about him. to be honest i'm not interested in anything except friendship cause i don't know him really and i don't want to shit where i eat, though our work is completely separated. i thought he was married so i was always cordial and acting nonchalant, while he has this piercing stare when he sees me and talk to me a bit, and that always made me so nervous. he would also blush then i would blush too, like i'm 12 again lol. it seems he is not married anymore for a while, but like i said i would be satisfied with friendship, cause he seems interesting, and i'm a single mom so i'm not in the mode of chasing anything, only if something develops naturally. he is like you, street knowledge and phd in physics, and handsome! and i'm kinda like that too.
there's also one more situation that made me keep my distance, that his best man on his wedding is a good friend of my ex. and my ex and me went to a lot of drama that involved court, and i know how you caps don't like dramas. but the drama was not on my end cause i hate it too.
anyway i bored myself with this story lol, i added him on fb. he recently opened his account, and he was suggested, through friends from work so i added him. he accepted and that's it. so it has been a week and i have a feeling he is acting cordial like i did lol. idk. stupid story but rarely someone grabs my attention like this being woman or a man.click to expand
Posted by poison_ivyIt ended because of lack of communication. I'm an open book too blunt and love to have everything on the table no matter how small. She needed me home at some point but wavered between the checks and me being home which she say all in one sentence (confusing I know). Once you are tucked away in my heart you are there for life no distance is far enough to change that. She got used to the guys hitting on her and I'm over there so that is what I honestly think it made it easy for her to look somewhere else. I said that cause she would snip suggesting that someone is willing to if I wasn't. In my head I'm like no one will ever love you like me.
So, my question:
I am a Scorpio Sun/Sagittarius Venus/Capricorn Rising.
I am dating a Capricorn Sun/Aquarius Venus. (like yourself)
We've been together for 9 months now. We've had our ups and downs but mostly positives.
He is very skilled in basketball.. & plays the sport as his career also. (what are thee odds.. 😉 )
I saw that you wrote on one of your responses that you had a very long relationship, that just ended..
Why did it end? (if you don't mind me asking)
How did you balance a gf, long term, and your career? I'm finding that to be a big challenge in our relationship at the moment because we are also in a LDR and we don't have much time together.
I am successful on my own, have many friends and go to a lot of events, my own business etc. So I am not the clingy type, But I do desire time with my man.
How do I go about getting a little more time or do I wait for him to initiate and remain patient and understanding, as I've been?
This is all for now.. I'll be picking your brain often! 😉 SO BEEEEE Prepared. LOL!
I literally begged her for phone sex, Skype, nasty videos but got she was busy instead and couldn't understand it because it would be beneficial to us both. If you want it to work do the things I mentioned above.
For me just being around a social environment is good I just look and admire. Let him feel that you want him physically that will make him even more secure. He needs reassurance evry blue moon. You stay busy which is good and not having him there is difficult. I would let him know your needs also. I am thinking he did ask you right?
Posted by poison_ivyYes indeed. It is a duty to do something in life hopefully it is something we love. Go getter is our motto.Posted by GeecheedMy dad is a cap, grew up poor.. & is now VERY successful in CA with his own pressure washing company.. I guess great minds think alike...?Posted by Tom_SawyerI would invest in safe stocks and bonds. Then I would start up a small business venture in something like a pressure washing business. A service or a product that everyone needs.
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Posted by GetMistedlol - you guys and your fishing stories ...Posted by GeecheedI'm 5'11 with size 12 shoes..Posted by GetMistedI'm 6'8 with a size 15 shoes
How big that D tho?
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Posted by VirgieneI'm super patient because it takes time to grow or build anything. Having a great foundation can guarantee the relationship can build accordingly.
How do you know if she is "the one" ? How patient are you?
She has to be different than the rest. The more unique the better. Beauty is superficial it is what is in the inside that counts. Intellectual and physical attraction of course.
Posted by ScorpioTruthSorry to hear that. Did he cheat or have an affair? Sounds like you two grew apart at some point right. I would tell him if he loves you give up all passwords. I am more of a release person meaning a physical activity reliefs stress. Maybe that was the case, I don't know. If he is all in I believe him but I suggest you guys get go on some dates. Date night is good to rekindle romance.
@geecheed I appreciate your honesty. my sons dad is a cap with a few of your same placements (sun, Venus and Mars) except he has a cancer moon instead. This year would make it 9 years we've been together, I moved out in November after I found out he cheated.
He is apologetic and working to get me back home and I know he plans on proposing this year. He has told me flat out that this is his plan. He swears we are going to come out stronger and better. He admitted in counseling that he felt that he was just an option to me and I do wonder if that plays into why he cheated on me. After finding out and seeing how it devastated me, he's now saying that he didn't realize how much I love him and he swears he will never do it again. I just don't know if I believe him.
He has always been "private" like a typical cap. I made excuses for him and said that was just a part of his personality. Like keeping locks on his phone, etc. but now I can't tell the truth from a lie so any "private" behavior from him is an automatic red flag. I want to believe he would never do it again and I want to keep my family together but I am really struggling to trust him again.
Posted by GeecheedThanks so much for responding! 🙂Posted by poison_ivyIt ended because of lack of communication. I'm an open book too blunt and love to have everything on the table no matter how small. She needed me home at some point but wavered between the checks and me being home which she say all in one sentence (confusing I know). Once you are tucked away in my heart you are there for life no distance is far enough to change that. She got used to the guys hitting on her and I'm over there so that is what I honestly think it made it easy for her to look somewhere else. I said that cause she would snip suggesting that someone is willing to if I wasn't. In my head I'm like no one will ever love you like me.
So, my question:
I am a Scorpio Sun/Sagittarius Venus/Capricorn Rising.
I am dating a Capricorn Sun/Aquarius Venus. (like yourself)
We've been together for 9 months now. We've had our ups and downs but mostly positives.
He is very skilled in basketball.. & plays the sport as his career also. (what are thee odds.. 😉 )
I saw that you wrote on one of your responses that you had a very long relationship, that just ended..
Why did it end? (if you don't mind me asking)
How did you balance a gf, long term, and your career? I'm finding that to be a big challenge in our relationship at the moment because we are also in a LDR and we don't have much time together.
I am successful on my own, have many friends and go to a lot of events, my own business etc. So I am not the clingy type, But I do desire time with my man.
How do I go about getting a little more time or do I wait for him to initiate and remain patient and understanding, as I've been?
This is all for now.. I'll be picking your brain often! 😉 SO BEEEEE Prepared. LOL!
I literally begged her for phone sex, Skype, nasty videos but got she was busy instead and couldn't understand it because it would be beneficial to us both. If you want it to work do the things I mentioned above.
For me just being around a social environment is good I just look and admire. Let him feel that you want him physically that will make him even more secure. He needs reassurance evry blue moon. You stay busy which is good and not having him there is difficult. I would let him know your needs also. I am thinking he did ask you right?click to expand
I see.. Same with us.. Our communication is our biggest issue.. I've read our natal placement compatibility chart and our ONLY negative is the communication part BUT if we overcome that, we'd have "unconditional love".. something that is very rare. My cap is VERY blunt, he tells me the truth about everything, whether I like his response or not and I value that in a man. Honesty is a major plus for me. But he's not an open book yet. I say yet, because I know it takes time to pull away his "layers" before he is fully an open book.. So I'm not that concerned..
Maybe the feeling of you being gone, she felt neglect.. Which, tbh, I do feel the same sometimes.. But I'm getting used to his distance because I don't think it's intentional at all. He's told me he wishes for more time but at the present it isn't possible. I know this. But I am a woman.. A Scorpio at that and very emotional, intense, sexual, loyal etc.. I desire intimacy with my mate.. Closeness.. that's how I show my love & affection. Through passionate love making. Or holding him, kissing him, wining and dining him, rubbing him down after he's had a long strenuous day. etc. I compromise by sending pics, vids etc, but "physical touch" is just the way of a scorp. But obviously, not always possible in our case.. I've been extremely patient.. I see other attractive men and I do get approached often by dudes who ask for my number etc. BUT my connection with him (from this distance) is just TOO strong so, I don't ever wanna go astray or give men the idea that they even have a chance.. So yea.. They mostly get ignored.
Like you, the distance doesn't seem to bother him either.. When I aske him if he wants to be friends for now til we move closer etc, he says "No, I wanna be with you.." SO I guess when you say "Once you are tucked away in my heart you are there for life no distance is far enough to change that." could be true for him as well..
My dude is like you.. Other dudes aren't his concern.. He says he knows I'm grown and sexy, & men will do what they do BUT he knows what he can offer me and no one will love me like he does.. (shidd I agree)
😉
How long were you 2 together and what's her sign?
Yes, he initiated our relationship on the FIRST date.. We met on a dating app. We talked EVERY single day on the phone, video chatting, texting.. We instantly connected and it was as if we knew each other already for years and catching up on lost times... It was magical. Even he would say that it was weird at how fast everything was happening.. So on our first date, a month after meeting online.. he looked me in the eyes and asked me to be his "lady".. said that he really liked me, & our connection & he misses a woman's touch.." He was single 3 years before meeting me and only dated but never committed til he met me.. makes me blush every time I think about that..
🙂
I always give advice to other woman that caps need reassurance.. So I do that as much as possible..
How long is the longest you've gone without talking to your ex?
How often should I send nudes, sexual innuendos etc.?
Posted by GeecheedYou described my BF to a "T".. It's just like him.. He's shy, and cool or dorky.. Likes watching National Geographic etc.. He's mostly quiet, reserved.. Once he gets a few drinks in him, he loosens up a lot. & is somewhat of the life of the party.. SO funny, outgoing and a freak.. O_OPosted by Miamia13Posted by GeecheedI actually met a Cap. woman in my office! She's an amazing dominant woman. I just don't happen to come across Cap. people very often. Or at least, I never know when I do.Posted by Miamia13Hmm good question. Have more than one layer for him to peel back then he will find you. Plus we need a challenge verbally or physically. Keep us guessing but don't push us away too far we lose interest fast cause we overthink things or are just too busy to get back to you.
Where can I find a Cap man?
What would the Cap be doing at a party?
For me I am quiet unless I am comfortable with my surroundings. I guess I'm the guy who looks shy then begins to talk after a few drinks (only way to loosen up sometimes). Reserved demeanor, (dorky or cool), but confident non the less.click to expand
Are you good in bed? Do you take care of the women's needs, or fall asleep right away after you're done?
What's your average stamina?
What were the excuses/reasons that they gave for declining sex?
Correct me if I'm wrong, but it reads like you've had relationships where the sex wasn't enough for you.
Let me tell you, when it's good, he can't keep me off him! It's when it's not fulfilling...or something about him turns me off...that I'm not into it.
Hope this isn't too blunt of a question.
What's your average stamina?
What were the excuses/reasons that they gave for declining sex?
Correct me if I'm wrong, but it reads like you've had relationships where the sex wasn't enough for you.
Let me tell you, when it's good, he can't keep me off him! It's when it's not fulfilling...or something about him turns me off...that I'm not into it.
Hope this isn't too blunt of a question.
Posted by Forreal68He doesn't want to commit then ask more detailed answers. We are big on details. He will open real quick about everything. I can plan ahead for lots of things but not of issues with the heart. If we are not in 100% we won't commit.
what can you say about a cappy guy who acts and do things for you as if he is your boyfriend but doesn't want to make it official? Do you consider 2 years of dating is still too early?
Do you know you're a pain in the ass?
Posted by ScorpioTruthHe admitted it and was honest about everything. One of my best qualities is self critiquing myself. In most cases I hold myself to standards and will not waver, ever. So if sign can do it your Cap can! I'm pretty sure he is making up to you in the grandest fashion.
@geecheed I appreciate your honesty. my sons dad is a cap with a few of your same placements (sun, Venus and Mars) except he has a cancer moon instead. This year would make it 9 years we've been together, I moved out in November after I found out he cheated.
He is apologetic and working to get me back home and I know he plans on proposing this year. He has told me flat out that this is his plan. He swears we are going to come out stronger and better. He admitted in counseling that he felt that he was just an option to me and I do wonder if that plays into why he cheated on me. After finding out and seeing how it devastated me, he's now saying that he didn't realize how much I love him and he swears he will never do it again. I just don't know if I believe him.
He has always been "private" like a typical cap. I made excuses for him and said that was just a part of his personality. Like keeping locks on his phone, etc. but now I can't tell the truth from a lie so any "private" behavior from him is an automatic red flag. I want to believe he would never do it again and I want to keep my family together but I am really struggling to trust him again.
Posted by julietteeAgreed. It is my nature to mind my damn business. In the work environment it is different I can never see myself getting involved with a coworker too much drama. I am drama free but who knows I might play the odds to test the waters one day lolPosted by GeecheedPosted by julietteeSounds like someone has to get the ball rolling lol! From my experience I tend to be laid back I guess mysterious in a way but most of my admires are good friends or they with someone else lok. I'm not good at making the initial move cause I hate coming off creepy or stalkish but after that I can talk I'm good. You built a good rapport with him that means a lot. Message him something random to get the ball rolling...Posted by GeecheedPosted by julietteeI grew up super shy and awkward with women needless to say I admired my crushes from afar. I hated rejection that is why I didn't put myself out there. Didn't really start to get into women until after high school. I would flirt and conversate but that was it. Traditional dating is more my thing per say but I don't put labels on anything because that restrains the unexpected. I love a good adventure!
Cap sun leo moon, great. Chaser or not? Or something in between. I mean chasing women.
thanks, sounds normal or at least to me.
i know this guy for 2 years, from work, superficially but i have a good feeling about him. to be honest i'm not interested in anything except friendship cause i don't know him really and i don't want to shit where i eat, though our work is completely separated. i thought he was married so i was always cordial and acting nonchalant, while he has this piercing stare when he sees me and talk to me a bit, and that always made me so nervous. he would also blush then i would blush too, like i'm 12 again lol. it seems he is not married anymore for a while, but like i said i would be satisfied with friendship, cause he seems interesting, and i'm a single mom so i'm not in the mode of chasing anything, only if something develops naturally. he is like you, street knowledge and phd in physics, and handsome! and i'm kinda like that too.
there's also one more situation that made me keep my distance, that his best man on his wedding is a good friend of my ex. and my ex and me went to a lot of drama that involved court, and i know how you caps don't like dramas. but the drama was not on my end cause i hate it too.
anyway i bored myself with this story lol, i added him on fb. he recently opened his account, and he was suggested, through friends from work so i added him. he accepted and that's it. so it has been a week and i have a feeling he is acting cordial like i did lol. idk. stupid story but rarely someone grabs my attention like this being woman or a man.
you think? 😄 i have the same issue, i don't want to appear creepy and stalkish. lol cancer cap axis, more similar than we think. especially that i respect my job very much. and i think it means to him a lot too. i mean you don't get phd because you didn't know what to do with your life. but i'm drama free woman, whatever happens.
i think he is not really into computers, i know he uses some outdated program for plotting graphs so i wanted to make fun of him, but i stopped myself! so i doubt chatting is his thing, he seems old school, which i also like. ok, so you would be ok if i ask you something random? got to find a good reason haha. simply we can't be that relaxed at work where everyone is gossiping.
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Posted by poison_ivyI can see the communication problem on his end we have similar placements. Subtle jestires and acts (which seems always goes unnoticed) are my strengths in communication. We are not the reassuring everyday type if I say something I MEAN IT.Posted by GeecheedThanks so much for responding! 🙂Posted by poison_ivyIt ended because of lack of communication. I'm an open book too blunt and love to have everything on the table no matter how small. She needed me home at some point but wavered between the checks and me being home which she say all in one sentence (confusing I know). Once you are tucked away in my heart you are there for life no distance is far enough to change that. She got used to the guys hitting on her and I'm over there so that is what I honestly think it made it easy for her to look somewhere else. I said that cause she would snip suggesting that someone is willing to if I wasn't. In my head I'm like no one will ever love you like me.
So, my question:
I am a Scorpio Sun/Sagittarius Venus/Capricorn Rising.
I am dating a Capricorn Sun/Aquarius Venus. (like yourself)
We've been together for 9 months now. We've had our ups and downs but mostly positives.
He is very skilled in basketball.. & plays the sport as his career also. (what are thee odds.. 😉 )
I saw that you wrote on one of your responses that you had a very long relationship, that just ended..
Why did it end? (if you don't mind me asking)
How did you balance a gf, long term, and your career? I'm finding that to be a big challenge in our relationship at the moment because we are also in a LDR and we don't have much time together.
I am successful on my own, have many friends and go to a lot of events, my own business etc. So I am not the clingy type, But I do desire time with my man.
How do I go about getting a little more time or do I wait for him to initiate and remain patient and understanding, as I've been?
This is all for now.. I'll be picking your brain often! 😉 SO BEEEEE Prepared. LOL!
I literally begged her for phone sex, Skype, nasty videos but got she was busy instead and couldn't understand it because it would be beneficial to us both. If you want it to work do the things I mentioned above.
For me just being around a social environment is good I just look and admire. Let him feel that you want him physically that will make him even more secure. He needs reassurance evry blue moon. You stay busy which is good and not having him there is difficult. I would let him know your needs also. I am thinking he did ask you right?
I see.. Same with us.. Our communication is our biggest issue.. I've read our natal placement compatibility chart and our ONLY negative is the communication part BUT if we overcome that, we'd have "unconditional love".. something that is very rare. My cap is VERY blunt, he tells me the truth about everything, whether I like his response or not and I value that in a man. Honesty is a major plus for me. But he's not an open book yet. I say yet, because I know it takes time to pull away his "layers" before he is fully an open book.. So I'm not that concerned..
Maybe the feeling of you being gone, she felt neglect.. Which, tbh, I do feel the same sometimes.. But I'm getting used to his distance because I don't think it's intentional at all. He's told me he wishes for more time but at the present it isn't possible. I know this. But I am a woman.. A Scorpio at that and very emotional, intense, sexual, loyal etc.. I desire intimacy with my mate.. Closeness.. that's how I show my love & affection. Through passionate love making. Or holding him, kissing him, wining and dining him, rubbing him down after he's had a long strenuous day. etc. I compromise by sending pics, vids etc, but "physical touch" is just the way of a scorp. But obviously, not always possible in our case.. I've been extremely patient.. I see other attractive men and I do get approached often by dudes who ask for my number etc. BUT my connection with him (from this distance) is just TOO strong so, I don't ever wanna go astray or give men the idea that they even have a chance.. So yea.. They mostly get ignored.
Like you, the distance doesn't seem to bother him either.. When I aske him if he wants to be friends for now til we move closer etc, he says "No, I wanna be with you.." SO I guess when you say "Once you are tucked away in my heart you are there for life no distance is far enough to change that." could be true for him as well..
My dude is like you.. Other dudes aren't his concern.. He says he knows I'm grown and sexy, & men will do what they do BUT he knows what he can offer me and no one will love me like he does.. (shidd I agree)
😉
How long were you 2 together and what's her sign?
Yes, he initiated our relationship on the FIRST date.. We met on a dating app. We talked EVERY single day on the phone, video chatting, texting.. We instantly connected and it was as if we knew each other already for years and catching up on lost times... It was magical. Even he would say that it was weird at how fast everything was happening.. So on our first date, a month after meeting online.. he looked me in the eyes and asked me to be his "lady".. said that he really liked me, & our connection & he misses a woman's touch.." He was single 3 years before meeting me and only dated but never committed til he met me.. makes me blush every time I think about that..
🙂
I always give advice to other woman that caps need reassurance.. So I do that as much as possible..
How long is the longest you've gone without talking to your ex?
How often should I send nudes, sexual innuendos etc.?
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Yes we are not intimidated by anyone so his trust is all with you. Give us a flame we will make an inferno. I would subtly surprise him out the blue saying you are in the mood and you want him now, phone or video call
A man primal needs is to see or touch but with me if I go out just to be around women that does it for me (venus/aqua). Not bragging but I am tall dark and handsome and had one or two one night stands in 37 years, not our thing.
Women needs reassuring constantly about (insert whatever). The enigma of a woman lol. I had several cases where my ex would be like "she was flirting" in a casual manner and I would be dumbfounded. I would say use your imagination with pillows, blankets, whatever works.
Send something once a week. We love the seductive poses, like come get this it is all yours.
Posted by poison_ivyTo answer the other question since I was 20 and she is a Gemini. Yes reassurance is big early in the relationship. We love slowly but very hard once there.Posted by GeecheedThanks so much for responding! 🙂Posted by poison_ivyIt ended because of lack of communication. I'm an open book too blunt and love to have everything on the table no matter how small. She needed me home at some point but wavered between the checks and me being home which she say all in one sentence (confusing I know). Once you are tucked away in my heart you are there for life no distance is far enough to change that. She got used to the guys hitting on her and I'm over there so that is what I honestly think it made it easy for her to look somewhere else. I said that cause she would snip suggesting that someone is willing to if I wasn't. In my head I'm like no one will ever love you like me.
So, my question:
I am a Scorpio Sun/Sagittarius Venus/Capricorn Rising.
I am dating a Capricorn Sun/Aquarius Venus. (like yourself)
We've been together for 9 months now. We've had our ups and downs but mostly positives.
He is very skilled in basketball.. & plays the sport as his career also. (what are thee odds.. 😉 )
I saw that you wrote on one of your responses that you had a very long relationship, that just ended..
Why did it end? (if you don't mind me asking)
How did you balance a gf, long term, and your career? I'm finding that to be a big challenge in our relationship at the moment because we are also in a LDR and we don't have much time together.
I am successful on my own, have many friends and go to a lot of events, my own business etc. So I am not the clingy type, But I do desire time with my man.
How do I go about getting a little more time or do I wait for him to initiate and remain patient and understanding, as I've been?
This is all for now.. I'll be picking your brain often! 😉 SO BEEEEE Prepared. LOL!
I literally begged her for phone sex, Skype, nasty videos but got she was busy instead and couldn't understand it because it would be beneficial to us both. If you want it to work do the things I mentioned above.
For me just being around a social environment is good I just look and admire. Let him feel that you want him physically that will make him even more secure. He needs reassurance evry blue moon. You stay busy which is good and not having him there is difficult. I would let him know your needs also. I am thinking he did ask you right?
I see.. Same with us.. Our communication is our biggest issue.. I've read our natal placement compatibility chart and our ONLY negative is the communication part BUT if we overcome that, we'd have "unconditional love".. something that is very rare. My cap is VERY blunt, he tells me the truth about everything, whether I like his response or not and I value that in a man. Honesty is a major plus for me. But he's not an open book yet. I say yet, because I know it takes time to pull away his "layers" before he is fully an open book.. So I'm not that concerned..
Maybe the feeling of you being gone, she felt neglect.. Which, tbh, I do feel the same sometimes.. But I'm getting used to his distance because I don't think it's intentional at all. He's told me he wishes for more time but at the present it isn't possible. I know this. But I am a woman.. A Scorpio at that and very emotional, intense, sexual, loyal etc.. I desire intimacy with my mate.. Closeness.. that's how I show my love & affection. Through passionate love making. Or holding him, kissing him, wining and dining him, rubbing him down after he's had a long strenuous day. etc. I compromise by sending pics, vids etc, but "physical touch" is just the way of a scorp. But obviously, not always possible in our case.. I've been extremely patient.. I see other attractive men and I do get approached often by dudes who ask for my number etc. BUT my connection with him (from this distance) is just TOO strong so, I don't ever wanna go astray or give men the idea that they even have a chance.. So yea.. They mostly get ignored.
Like you, the distance doesn't seem to bother him either.. When I aske him if he wants to be friends for now til we move closer etc, he says "No, I wanna be with you.." SO I guess when you say "Once you are tucked away in my heart you are there for life no distance is far enough to change that." could be true for him as well..
My dude is like you.. Other dudes aren't his concern.. He says he knows I'm grown and sexy, & men will do what they do BUT he knows what he can offer me and no one will love me like he does.. (shidd I agree)
😉
How long were you 2 together and what's her sign?
Yes, he initiated our relationship on the FIRST date.. We met on a dating app. We talked EVERY single day on the phone, video chatting, texting.. We instantly connected and it was as if we knew each other already for years and catching up on lost times... It was magical. Even he would say that it was weird at how fast everything was happening.. So on our first date, a month after meeting online.. he looked me in the eyes and asked me to be his "lady".. said that he really liked me, & our connection & he misses a woman's touch.." He was single 3 years before meeting me and only dated but never committed til he met me.. makes me blush every time I think about that..
🙂
I always give advice to other woman that caps need reassurance.. So I do that as much as possible..
How long is the longest you've gone without talking to your ex?
How often should I send nudes, sexual innuendos etc.?
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Posted by poison_ivySounds about right. We freak in the sheets better believe.Posted by GeecheedYou described my BF to a "T".. It's just like him.. He's shy, and cool or dorky.. Likes watching National Geographic etc.. He's mostly quiet, reserved.. Once he gets a few drinks in him, he loosens up a lot. & is somewhat of the life of the party.. SO funny, outgoing and a freak.. O_OPosted by Miamia13Posted by GeecheedI actually met a Cap. woman in my office! She's an amazing dominant woman. I just don't happen to come across Cap. people very often. Or at least, I never know when I do.Posted by Miamia13Hmm good question. Have more than one layer for him to peel back then he will find you. Plus we need a challenge verbally or physically. Keep us guessing but don't push us away too far we lose interest fast cause we overthink things or are just too busy to get back to you.
Where can I find a Cap man?
What would the Cap be doing at a party?
For me I am quiet unless I am comfortable with my surroundings. I guess I'm the guy who looks shy then begins to talk after a few drinks (only way to loosen up sometimes). Reserved demeanor, (dorky or cool), but confident non the less.click to expand
Posted by SunMoonStarsI am a natural pleaser so she gets off first. Touch, passion, and spontaneity are my strengths. Good with my hands and mouth.
Are you good in bed? Do you take care of the women's needs, or fall asleep right away after you're done?
What's your average stamina?
What were the excuses/reasons that they gave for declining sex?
Correct me if I'm wrong, but it reads like you've had relationships where the sex wasn't enough for you.
Let me tell you, when it's good, he can't keep me off him! It's when it's not fulfilling...or something about him turns me off...that I'm not into it.
Hope this isn't too blunt of a question.
It is insatiable at times but not everyone gets that. It has to be a connection for me to go all in with sex. I get stronger every time lasting longer each time. For me it is communication, adoration, lust, and quality time to have with my significant other. My bounce back game after I bust is a couple of hours
Posted by GeecheedGood advice!! This is appreciated, trust me!Posted by poison_ivyI can see the communication problem on his end we have similar placements. Subtle jestires and acts (which seems always goes unnoticed) are my strengths in communication. We are not the reassuring everyday type if I say something I MEAN IT.Posted by GeecheedThanks so much for responding! 🙂Posted by poison_ivyIt ended because of lack of communication. I'm an open book too blunt and love to have everything on the table no matter how small. She needed me home at some point but wavered between the checks and me being home which she say all in one sentence (confusing I know). Once you are tucked away in my heart you are there for life no distance is far enough to change that. She got used to the guys hitting on her and I'm over there so that is what I honestly think it made it easy for her to look somewhere else. I said that cause she would snip suggesting that someone is willing to if I wasn't. In my head I'm like no one will ever love you like me.
So, my question:
I am a Scorpio Sun/Sagittarius Venus/Capricorn Rising.
I am dating a Capricorn Sun/Aquarius Venus. (like yourself)
We've been together for 9 months now. We've had our ups and downs but mostly positives.
He is very skilled in basketball.. & plays the sport as his career also. (what are thee odds.. 😉 )
I saw that you wrote on one of your responses that you had a very long relationship, that just ended..
Why did it end? (if you don't mind me asking)
How did you balance a gf, long term, and your career? I'm finding that to be a big challenge in our relationship at the moment because we are also in a LDR and we don't have much time together.
I am successful on my own, have many friends and go to a lot of events, my own business etc. So I am not the clingy type, But I do desire time with my man.
How do I go about getting a little more time or do I wait for him to initiate and remain patient and understanding, as I've been?
This is all for now.. I'll be picking your brain often! 😉 SO BEEEEE Prepared. LOL!
I literally begged her for phone sex, Skype, nasty videos but got she was busy instead and couldn't understand it because it would be beneficial to us both. If you want it to work do the things I mentioned above.
For me just being around a social environment is good I just look and admire. Let him feel that you want him physically that will make him even more secure. He needs reassurance evry blue moon. You stay busy which is good and not having him there is difficult. I would let him know your needs also. I am thinking he did ask you right?
I see.. Same with us.. Our communication is our biggest issue.. I've read our natal placement compatibility chart and our ONLY negative is the communication part BUT if we overcome that, we'd have "unconditional love".. something that is very rare. My cap is VERY blunt, he tells me the truth about everything, whether I like his response or not and I value that in a man. Honesty is a major plus for me. But he's not an open book yet. I say yet, because I know it takes time to pull away his "layers" before he is fully an open book.. So I'm not that concerned..
Maybe the feeling of you being gone, she felt neglect.. Which, tbh, I do feel the same sometimes.. But I'm getting used to his distance because I don't think it's intentional at all. He's told me he wishes for more time but at the present it isn't possible. I know this. But I am a woman.. A Scorpio at that and very emotional, intense, sexual, loyal etc.. I desire intimacy with my mate.. Closeness.. that's how I show my love & affection. Through passionate love making. Or holding him, kissing him, wining and dining him, rubbing him down after he's had a long strenuous day. etc. I compromise by sending pics, vids etc, but "physical touch" is just the way of a scorp. But obviously, not always possible in our case.. I've been extremely patient.. I see other attractive men and I do get approached often by dudes who ask for my number etc. BUT my connection with him (from this distance) is just TOO strong so, I don't ever wanna go astray or give men the idea that they even have a chance.. So yea.. They mostly get ignored.
Like you, the distance doesn't seem to bother him either.. When I aske him if he wants to be friends for now til we move closer etc, he says "No, I wanna be with you.." SO I guess when you say "Once you are tucked away in my heart you are there for life no distance is far enough to change that." could be true for him as well..
My dude is like you.. Other dudes aren't his concern.. He says he knows I'm grown and sexy, & men will do what they do BUT he knows what he can offer me and no one will love me like he does.. (shidd I agree)
😉
How long were you 2 together and what's her sign?
Yes, he initiated our relationship on the FIRST date.. We met on a dating app. We talked EVERY single day on the phone, video chatting, texting.. We instantly connected and it was as if we knew each other already for years and catching up on lost times... It was magical. Even he would say that it was weird at how fast everything was happening.. So on our first date, a month after meeting online.. he looked me in the eyes and asked me to be his "lady".. said that he really liked me, & our connection & he misses a woman's touch.." He was single 3 years before meeting me and only dated but never committed til he met me.. makes me blush every time I think about that..
🙂
I always give advice to other woman that caps need reassurance.. So I do that as much as possible..
How long is the longest you've gone without talking to your ex?
How often should I send nudes, sexual innuendos etc.?
Yes we are not intimidated by anyone so his trust is all with you. Give us a flame we will make an inferno. I would subtly surprise him out the blue saying you are in the mood and you want him now, phone or video call
A man primal needs is to see or touch but with me if I go out just to be around women that does it for me (venus/aqua). Not bragging but I am tall dark and handsome and had one or two one night stands in 37 years, not our thing.
Women needs reassuring constantly about (insert whatever). The enigma of a woman lol. I had several cases where my ex would be like "she was flirting" in a casual manner and I would be dumbfounded. I would say use your imagination with pillows, blankets, whatever works.
Send something once a week. We love the seductive poses, like come get this it is all yours.
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Yea, his communication is more'so our issue. I'm the open book and very honest. He's blunt also but not lovey dovey, if you will.. I'm the "romantic at heart" Not you guys thang, huh? .. the most "love" I get is that he misses me, or he sends me heart eye and kiss emojis! lol or that he "wants" me bad.. I'm okay with this. Alpha men are low on the "emotional" scale. So honestly rare for me to get him all mushy unless we are in each other's presence. ?
It's true that you aren't "phone" ppl. Like you'll keep in touch, or respond to text/calls but don't really care for it?
I love surprising him and he always appreciates it. I planned a very romantic night once when we spent time together and the next day he wrote me "BTW, you are amazing for last night, it was so dope of you to do that for me.."
Okay tall dark and handsome ? Do you ever see yourself giving your ex Gemini another shot if she wants that also? Or are you done.. most woman on this site like to know if once their cap is "done", if he's done for good?
My imagination goes wild when he's not around. ?
Will do.. once a week is easy and I def got the poses down! Haha!
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